Amanqaku amaninzi anikezelwe ekujonganeni nokuzithanda. Bathetha ngendlela yokufika kwindawo apho unokuzithanda khona, njenge unguye, kwaye i-WHO Unjalo, kodwa ambalwa amanqaku athetha ngezenzo ezonakalisayo okanye izimvo ezihlala ziphazanyiswa kukuzithanda.
Esi siqwenga siya kukunceda uhambe kwaye uphephe loo migibe. Siza kujongana neyona mpazamo ixhaphakileyo siyenzayo xa sizama ukuzithanda ngakumbi.
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Uthando olunemiqathango
Uthando olunemiqathango oko kusekelwe kwindlela ojongeka ngayo, okanye into onayo (okanye ongenayo) ayizithandi. Ezi zinto, inkangeleko, kunye nezinto esinazo, ziyabonakala, kodwa zezomzuzwana. Uthando lokuzithanda lokwenyani alunyanzelisi miqathango eyinxalenye yokuzithanda njengoko ulungile ngalo mzuzu, hayi ukuba, nokuba, okanye ii-buts.
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Awungekhe wonwabe yindlela izinto ezidlala ngayo ebomini bakho, okanye ujongeka njani namhlanje, kodwa ezo zinto ziyatshintsha kwaye akufuneki zichaze indlela oziva ngayo. Esithi, “Ndizakuzithanda… emva Ndilahlekelwe ngumzimba, ”ayikokuzithanda kuba ibeka imeko ekwamkelweni kwakho.
Abantu abazenzela uthando lokwenene bayakubona ukungafezeki kwabo, kodwa baqonde ukuba bayinxalenye yento ebenza babaluleke kwaye yahlukile . Basebenza nale miqobo ibonwa ibenza ngcono, okanye bayifaka kwinxalenye yabo bangabo.
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Ukuzithanda yinto ehlala ihleli kwaye uhlala uhamba nayo, nokuba unosuku olubi lweenwele, uzuze i-10lbs, okanye emva kokuba ugxothiwe ngenxa yokujija emsebenzini. Ngapha koko, ngala maxesha achanekileyo apho ukuthanda uthando kubaluleke kakhulu. Kuya kufuneka uthozame ngokwakho kwaye ube yeyona ntshatsheli yakho inkulu ngamaxesha anzima, okanye kwiintsuku ezinzima.
Uthando oluqinileyo
Ukubetha ngokwakho ayikokuzithanda. Ngelixa kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba asifezekanga, kwaye ngelixa kulungile ukuba nencoko kunye nawe malunga nokwenza utshintsho olululo ebomini bakho, ukuzikhohlisa kuwe akuyiyo indlela eya kutshintsho oluzinzileyo. Ngapha koko, inefuthe elichaseneyo ngqo. Ukohlwaya kusilela ngokulusizi xa kufikwa inkuthazo . Ukuba ufuna ukutshintsha isimilo, okanye imbonakalo yakho, ukungaziphathi kakuhle akuyi kudala isithuba sokuya phambili.
Ukuba uzikhohlakele kuwe ekuqaleni kunokukutshisa kwaye uhambe, kodwa ekuhambeni kwexesha, ezo iingcinga ezingakhiyo kunye nezimvo zikugcina ungafikeleli kwinjongo yakho. Ukuzixelela, “Ndibaleke i-5km, kodwa bendifanele ukuba baleka i-7km- Ndiyonqena , ”Uyasilela ukuqonda ukuba uthathe amanyathelo okutshintsha: uphakamile, wahlanganisa abaqeqeshi bakho, wawukhupha emnyango, wabaleka.
Ngamanye amaxesha, izinto zingaphaya kwamandla ethu - siyagula, kukho ikhephu, imeko yongxamiseko yosapho, kufuneka sihlale emva kwexesha emsebenzini, okanye umhlobo ufuna uncedo lwethu. Ayizizo zonke izinto eziza kuthi zicwangciswe, kwaye asinakho ukuzibetha ngenxa yazo. Ukuba injongo ikhona, kwaye uyaphazamiseka, kulungile. Akukho sidingo sokufumba ngokungakhathali okanye uzigwebele ngokwakho. Qaphela la manyathelo alungileyo omntwana kwaye ube mnene nesiqu sakho.
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Uthando lokuzingca
Oku kunokubonakala kucacile, kodwa ukuzingca akuthandeki kakhulu. Nangona kunjalo, bekukho ukubhideka malunga nomxholo wokuzinyamekela ngokuchasene nokuzingca mva nje kuba umbono wokuba 'uzikhathalele' sele uthandekile kwezempilo yengqondo nakwisangqa sentlalontle.
Ukuzikhathalela kuthabatha eyona nto iyiyo imfuneko abantu ukuba beka imida , baqonde iimfuno zabo kunye neminqweno yabo, kwaye benze iindawo ezikhuselekileyo zokuba ngamaxesha athile baphume emhlabeni. Nangona kunjalo, njengazo zonke izinto, abanye abantu baye babhidanisa ukuzikhathalela nokuzingca-nokuba bayayikhaba le nto, okanye kukuya kude kwelinye icala nokwala ukunceda, okanye ukuyekelela kwabo babangqongileyo.
Ngamanye amaxesha, oku kunokuba yimpendulo emva kweminyaka emininzi yokwala ukukhathalelwa kunye nendawo, ke uyaphuma, uthi hayi kuyo yonke into, kwaye ungabahoyi bonke abantu. Ngelixa le mpendulo yokuqala iqondakala, ayikokuzikhathalela okanye ukuzithanda. Ukulimaza abanye akukaze kube njalo. Kuphela nje ukuba yintsini. Ukuzingca kukujonga wena ngokwakho ukwenzakalisa abanye ukuzikhathalela kukuhlonipha iimfuno zakho ngelixa uhlonipha iimfuno zabanye. Kukho iindlela zokufumana le nto uyifunayo ngaphandle kokubhenela ekuphatheni gadalala abantu.
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Uthando lobuxoki
Ukuzithanda kuhlala kuhlala kungaqondakali njengale nto intle kakhulu, ngaphezulu-phezulu, isiqinisekiso kwigumbi lokulala-lesipili uhlobo lomsebenzi. Inkolelo yeyokuba kufuneka wenze uhlobo oluthile lwesiko yonke imihla, uncume esipilini njenge-maniac kwaye uzixelele ukuba “Kulungile, kwaye dosh darn, uyazithanda.” Oko ayikokuzithanda - zizinto nje ezingenamsebenzi, ezingenantsingiselo.
Akunyanzelekanga ukuba uncume ngalo lonke ixesha, ukhuphe izinto zokuzinceda zamva nje, kwaye uzame ukweyisela wonke umntu okujikelezile ukuba wonwabile kangakanani, okanye uzama ukuziqinisekisa ngayo nantoni na ngelixa uncwina njengesipili esipilini. Ukuzithanda akusiyonto yokwenza ayikokwenza abanye ukuba bakholelwe kuwe, okanye ukuzenza ngathi uziva into xa ungenayo. Ukuzithanda yinkqubo ende, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha, uhambo olude lobomi. Ayisiyiyo into enokusongelwa ngamaqhinga akhawulezayo ambalwa okanye iziqinisekiso zeshizi.
Awunyanzelekanga ukuba ungqine nantoni na nakubani na. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba unxibe imaski ngalo lonke ixesha. Ngaba uziva ulusizi? Ngaba uyonwabile? Ngaba unomsindo? Zonke ezo ziimvakalelo ezamkelekileyo zokuba uzithande uyayamkela njengenxalenye yakho kwaye uhlangabezana ngokusemandleni akho. Ndiziva ndonwabile? Ndisemathandweni? Ukonwaba? Emva koko yabelana ngecala lakho xa uziva ngokwenyani ezo zinto.
Ukuzenza ngathi (okanye uziva) into ongeyiyo, ayizithandi, kunjalo Ubuxoki . Awunakho ukuqhubeka uzenzisa ixesha elide ukuba imvakalelo ayilandeli. Uthando lokuzithanda lokwenyani luya kuba ngumsebenzi onzima, kwaye uya kuba namahla ndenyuka, kodwa kungcono ukuba uyinyani kwaye usebenze ngezo mvakalelo ngothando nobubele ngokwakho, kunokugcina ukubonakala.
Isiphelo
Ukulwela ukugqibelela, ukuzikhohlakalela (kunye nabanye), okanye ukuzenza umntu ongekhoyo ngokuqinisekileyo akwenzi uthando lwakho. Ukuba uziva ucimile, kwaye ayingqinelani nawe, mhlawumbi ayizithandi. Xa usenza imisebenzi yokwenene yokuthanda wena, baya kuziva befanelekile, kwaye baya kukuzisa uxolo lwangaphakathi kunye nokuzola, ngakumbi ngamaxesha anzima.
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Akunyanzelekanga ukuba babe ziziyolo ezinkulu, okanye izibuko zasesidlangalaleni zingangamaxesha azolileyo xa uzikhetha, uzisuse uthuli kwaye uzonwabise. Khumbula, ukuthanda wena yinto yemihla ngemihla, eqhubekayo, kwaye iya kuba neentsuku zayo ezinzima. Musa ukunikezela, qaphela aba bahlobo bobuxoki bokuzithanda, kwaye yiba nobubele kuwe nabanye.
