Ngaba unokuLungisa ubudlelwane obuNye okanye Ngaba kufuneka ubuphelise?

Yeyiphi Imovie Ukubona?
 

Ngaba uziva ngathi nguwe owenza wonke umsebenzi kubudlelwane bakho? Ngaba uthatha inxaxheba kuphela kwizinto ezenziwa liqabane lakho? Ngaba iqabane lakho likuthatha kancinci okanye ukukufihla ebantwini ababalulekileyo?



Inye indlela ubudlelwane obunabantu ababini, ngaphandle kokuba kule ntsebenziswano ngumntu omnye kuphela owenza lo msebenzi. Ngelixa usenokuba uzibophelele ngokupheleleyo kwiqabane lakho , isenokungonelanga ukugcina ubudlelwane bakho buphila kwaye bukhula. Ukuba uthando alubuyiselwa, kunzima ukwakha ubudlelwane obuhlala ixesha elide. Ukuba uthandana nomntu omnye, ungazibuza ukuba ungazama ukulungisa okanye uye komnye umntu onokuthi akuphathe ngcono.

Iimpawu ezi-5 ukuBudlelwane obuDibeneyo

Ngamanye amaxesha ungazi nzulu ezantsi ukuba uku ubudlelwane obunamacala amabini, kodwa ukuyivuma ngokwakho kwaye uthathe isigqibo sokuba wenzeni lelona candelo linzima kuko konke. Ukuba akucaci kangako engqondweni yakho ukuba le yimeko ojamelana nayo, nantsi imiqondiso yokuba ngokuqinisekileyo ubandakanyeka kubudlelwane obungalinganiyo.



1. Uqala uninzi loNxibelelwano

Nguwe owenza umnxeba, uthumele imiyalezo, kwaye wenze umzamo wokudibana. Ukuba awwenzi unxibelelwano, uya kuhamba iintsuku ungakhange uve nantoni na. Ungawajonga kwelinye icala amaxesha apho iqabane lakho liqalise incoko nawe.

2. Umlingane wakho ukhetha abahlobo bakhe kunaye

Ukuba iqabane lakho lifuna ukuphuma nabahlobo, alikumeme ukuba uze nalo. Ukuba ucela iqabane lakho ukuba lihlale nawe kunye nabahlobo bakho, uyala isicelo. Kubonakala ngathi iqabane lakho likhetha abahlobo bakho kuwe.

3. Iqabane lakho alihoyi iingxaki zobudlelwane

Nguwe wedwa ozama ukuthetha ngemicimbi enijongene nayo kubudlelwane bakho. Umlingane wakho uqengqa amehlo kwaye uyacaphuka nawe ngokuzisa kwakhona. Ukhetha ukungazihoyi iingxaki ojamelene nazo.

4. Iqabane lakho alikukhathalelanga

Ukuba ufumana uvakalelo lokuba iqabane lakho alikukhathalelanga, usenokuba ulungile. Ukuba ulwalamano olunecala elinye, olunye olubalulekileyo alukhathalelanga kukonwabisa. Akabuzi ngemini yakho okanye umamele amabali akho. Endaweni yoko, ekuphela kwento othetha ngayo (xa uthetha ngokwenene) bubomi beqabane lakho.

5. Wena Rhoqo Ukhathazeka Ulwalamano Ukuwa

Unoxinzelelo lonke ixesha kuba ukhathazekile ukuba ubudlelwane bakho sele buza kuphela. Elona candelo libi kukuba ngandlela thile ucinga ukuba yimpazamo yakho. Uzamile ukulungisa le micimbi, kodwa iqabane lakho alinamdla.

Ngaba unokuLungisa ubudlelwane obuNye?

Ukuba uzimisele ukunika konke okusemandleni akho, unokuzama ukulungisa ubudlelwane obukwicala elinye. Akukho fomyula yomlingo, kwaye isenokungasebenzi kwaphela. Ngamanye amaxesha ubudlelwane abunakulungiswa, kwaye nje ukuba uyiqonde le nto, uya kuba nakho ukuhamba usazi ukuba bekungekho nto unokuyenza. Ukulingana kunye nentlonipho zibalulekile kubo bonke ubudlelwane, ke ngaphandle kokuba ungafumana ibhalansi oyifunayo kwaye uyifanele, ubudlelwane bakho bunokutshatyalaliswa.

Ukuba uziva ukuba ukwi-cala elinye kwaye ufuna ukukulungisa, zama ezi ndlela zokuqinisekisa ukuba ubudlelwane bakho bunekamva elifanelekileyo.

1. Fumanisa ukuba iqabane lakho likulungele ukutshintsha

Awuyi kuba nakho ukulungisa ubudlelwane obunamacala amabini ngokwakho. Iqabane lakho kuya kufuneka ukuba lithathe inxaxheba. Into yokuqala ekufuneka uzibuze yona yile: 'Ngaba iqabane lam likulungele ukutshintsha?' Ukuba akazimiselanga, akukho nto ingako unokuyenza. Ngaphambi kokuba uchithe onke amandla akho uleqa obu budlelwane, khangela ukuba unalo na ithuba.

Hlela iimvakalelo zakho

Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukunxibelelana ngokufanelekileyo neqabane lakho, kuya kufuneka ufumane isiphatho sendlela oziva ngayo. Kukuziva njani ukuba kubudlelwane obukwicala elinye? Ngaba ukhathazekile, woyika, ukhathazekile, okanye unxunguphele? Mhlawumbi ubhidekile ukuba uphelele phi kule meko. Okukhona unxibelelana neemvakalelo zakho, kokukhona uya kuba nakho ukunxibelelana ngokufanelekileyo. Thatha ixesha lakho ukwenza ukuba zonke iimvakalelo zakho zilungiswe kuqala.

Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):

3. Nxibelelana neqabane lakho

Unxibelelwano kuphela kwendlela yokulungisa ubudlelwane obunamacala amabini, ke kuya kufuneka uthethe kakhulu neqabane lakho. Ngaphandle kokucaphuka, chazela ngononophelo kwiqabane lakho malunga nokuba kuqhubeka ntoni kwaye uziva njani. Ukuba omnye wakho obalulekileyo uzibophelele kuwe, uya kumamela. Ukuba abanomdla ekwenzeni umzamo, baya kubonisa ukungakhathaleli iimvakalelo zakho.

4. Gxila kwingxaki enye ngexesha

Hlala ugxile kwinto enye ngexesha ukuze uphephe ukuloba iqabane lakho. Awufuni ukuba azive ehlaselwa. Hlala ucacile kwaye unqande ukuzisa imiba edlulileyo. Hlala okwangoku. Nokuba iqabane lakho liyazikhusela kwaye lizisa imicimbi engafanelekanga, hlala kwikhosi kwaye uphephe ukuba neemvakalelo. Akukho mntu wathi oku kuya kuba lula.

5. Zijolise Kuwe

Zama ukuchitha ixesha ugxile kuwe. Ukukhulisa ubomi bakho yeyona ndlela ilula yokulungisa ubudlelwane obunamacala amabini. Kude kube nini ubomi bakho bulawulwa yiminqweno yeqabane lakho? Wophule umjikelo. Ufuna ntoni ebomini? Yintoni oyithandayo ukwenza? Chitha ixesha ubonakalisa kwaye wakhe ubomi bakho- ngaphandle kobudlelwane bakho.

Ngamanye amaxesha xa uphakathi kubudlelwane, kunokuba nzima ukubona ngokucacileyo. Ubudlelwane obuyimpumelelo budinga abantu ababini abathandanayo nabakhathalelanayo- hayi umntu omnye kuphela. Ukuba iqabane lakho liyakuthanda ngenene, liza kuthatha inyathelo ukulungisa isimilo esikwenza ungonwabi. Ukuba awuluboni utshintsho oluqinisekileyo, lixesha lokuba uzixabise ngaphezu kokuxabisa ubudlelwane bakho. Ubomi bufutshane kakhulu ukuba ube kubudlelwane obunobungozi obukutsalayo. Uxabiseke ngaphezulu kunoko.

Ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba ungaya njani kubudlelwane bakho bodwa? Thetha kwi-Intanethi kwingcali yobudlelwane kwi-Relationship Hero enokukunceda ufumane izinto. Ngokulula.

Eli phepha linamalungu onxibelelwano. Ndifumana ikhomishini encinci ukuba ukhetha ukuthenga nantoni na emva kokucofa kuyo.