Ngaba ulivile igama elithi 'manolescent' okwangoku? Libinzana elisandula ukwenzeka, kodwa kufanelekile ekuchazeni uhlobo oluthile lomfana… umntu ofana noPeter Pan, akafuni ukukhula . Uninzi lwethu kusenokwenzeka ukuba sazi ubuncinci umntu onje-onomtsalane okomfana kwaye kumnandi ukuhlala naye, kodwa engenamsebenzi ngokupheleleyo njengomntu omdala.
Kwimeko yobudlelwane, kunokuba nzima ukuba ufikelele ekuqondeni ukuba indoda nguwe ndicinge ubuthandana nyani uyakuthintela, ukwenza lula ukuba ngumntwana womntwana ongavumiyo ukuba kunye.
Apha ngezantsi kukho imiqondiso embalwa eqinileyo yokuba iqabane lakho ayisiyiyo le ndoda ubucinga ukuba inguye, kodwa ingaphezulu komntwana omde, onoboya kwisuti yendoda endaweni yoko.
'Ukuba mdala' kuyamkhathaza
Ukulutha kwalo mfo kuyo yonke into eyonwabisayo kunye neentliziyo ezikhanyayo kunokuba yinto ethandekayo ekuqaleni kobudlelwane, njengoko kunokwenza ukuba ahleke ngokwenyani ukuba naye. Usenokumangaliswa Ngeempelaveki ekude, tsala ukuba uye epikinikini ezinzulwini zobusuku kumyezo wezilwanyana, okanye unyanzelise itshokholethi yetshokholethi njengenxalenye yomdyarho wekhathuni wosuku lonke. Ngokusisiseko, ukuba kunye naye kulungile kuba uyakunceda ukuba urhoxe kuzo zonke iingxaki zoxinzelelo kunye nabantu abadala ohlangabezana nazo mihla le.
Ingxabano ivela xa loo micimbi ifuna ukusonjululwa, ngeloxesha uyacaphuka kwaye abe nomsindo. Usenokuyicekisa le micimbi ngokuthe ngqo kwaye anyanzelise ukuba ayisiyiyo yonke loo nto ibalulekileyo, okanye ashiye nje imeko ngokuzifaka kwinto emnandi ngakumbi, njengemidlalo ye-Intanethi.
yintoni ongayibiza ngesoka lakho xa likubiza umhle
Uqoqosho luyinto enqabileyo, uxinzelelo lomsebenzi lufikelela kuye wonke umntu, ukuqokelelwa kwetyala, kwaye imiba yezempilo ayinakuphepheka. Zonke ezi zinto zibangela ukuba uMnumzana Manboy abuyele kwimeko yokufikisa ngokweemvakalelo, ke ngokusisiseko ushiywe ngumfana onentshebe oza kuchitha umvuzo wakhe kwiziyobisi okanye kumanani ezenzo endaweni yamatyala okanye okutya.
Akakwazi Ukusingatha Ingxabano. Kukonke.
Indoda egula yiPeter Pan Syndrome ngokubanzi isabela kwimpixano ngenye yeendlela ezimbini:
1. Ukubaleka: uyakuhamba okanye ashiye ingxoxo, ashiye indlu, okanye azitshixele egumbini apho anokuziphazamisa khona ngemidlalo okanye azisongele phantsi kwemfumba yeengubo zokulila njengomntwana omncinane kwisibini yeeyure.
ungamnceda njani umhlobo ukuba ajongane nokwahlukana
OKANYE
2.Ukuziphindezela: Uya kuyifaka kwaye azise izinto acinga ukuba (okanye uyazi) ziya kukucaphukisa ukuba 'ubuyisele kuwe' ngokumenza azive ekhathazekile. Umsindo uqhelekile, njengokubiza amagama kunye / okanye ukuphosa izinto.
Kuba ubomi buza kuba namahla ndinyuka, kwaye ungquzulwano alunakuphepheka, ezi zizinto ezimbini onokujongana nazo ne-puerile manchild yeqabane lakho. Ndonwabile okwangoku?
Usanxiba Njengomntwana
Kuninzi ekumele kuthethwe ngokunxiba ngendlela ekwenza uzive wonwabile ngawe, kodwa ukuba iqabane lakho lineminyaka engama-40 kwaye lisanxibe uhlobo olufanayo lweempahla awayezinxiba xa wayekwishumi elivisayo, loo nto ...
Ukuziqhelanisa nesitayile sakhe asithandayo ukuya kwiminyaka yobudala kulungile: ukuhlala kwinyani yakhe kubalulekile, kwaye ukuba isithandwa siyaziva sonwabile kwijini, sincokola, kunye nehempe kaMorcheeba ehlanjwe kakuhle ebenayo iminyaka engama-25, ipholile. Kulungile, uyazithemba kwaye inokuba yinto entle leyo. Ukuba uyala ukusebenza naphi na ongayi kumvumela ukuba anxibe ngoluhlobo, okanye ukuba olu hlobo lwesinxibo luthathwa njengolwamkelekileyo kwimitshato, imingcwabo, njalo njalo, kuyaphazamisa oko.
Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
izinto ezimnandi zokwenza ekhaya xa udikiwe
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- Ngaba unokuLungisa ubudlelwane obuNye okanye Ngaba kufuneka ubuphelise?
- Iimpawu ezi-6 eziNkulu zeQabane lakho likubona njengokhetho, hayi eyona nto iphambili
- Codependency Vs Ukukhathalela: Ukwahlula phakathi kweNgozi kunye neLuncedo
- Iindlela ezi-7 zokunceda umntu omthandayo angabinampilo
- Iindlela ezi-4 zokungabikho kovelwano ziya kutshabalalisa ubudlelwane bakho
Uphakeme okanye Unxilile Ixesha elininzi
Uyonwaba nje, akunjalo? Kulungile ke ukuba uchithe imali yegrosari kokhula kunye newayini enexabiso eliphantsi emva koko kwafuneka azinkcinkce ngokubukela iNetflix ukuze afumane uluhlu lweendaba zemiboniso. Kunene.
I-Escapism luphawu oluqhelekileyo phakathi kwabantwana abangamakhwenkwe, ke ukuba uloluhlobo 'lokuvuka abhake' okanye aqale ukusela kwangoko xa ebuya emsebenzini (ukuba unawo nomsebenzi…), ngokuqinisekileyo sikhona isizathu sokukhathazeka. Ukusela nabahlobo ngempelaveki yinto enye, kodwa ukuba unyanisekile awunalo nofifi lokuba iqabane lakho linjani xa ephilile, kulungile, oko kuyothusa kwaye kuyakhathaza kumanqanaba amaninzi.
Izinto eziphambili ngokubaluleka
Kusenokufuneka akhunjuzwe ukuba ahlawule irente rhoqo ngenyanga kwaye akazukuhlamba iimpahla de abe sele enxibe iimpahla ezicocekileyo, kodwa ungabheja ukuba uchithe iiveki ephanda ngezakhiwo ezikhethekileyo kunye nezinxibo zomlinganiswa weWorld Warcraft… uye wanyuka waya kwinqanaba le-epic ngelixa ubusenza izinto ezinjengokuhlela amatyala okanye ukucoca ifriji.
Unokukhala kwaye akhalaze malunga nokuhamba yonke indlela ukuya evenkileni ukuya kuthatha i-diapers okanye isepha yokuhlamba iimpahla kuba oko kuya kufaka isifotho esikhulu ngomhla wakhe, kodwa ungabheja ukuba akazukuba nangxaki ekunikezeleni usuku (okanye ezintathu) ukubukela kwakhona zonke iifilimu zeAvengers ukuqinisekisa ukuba akazange aphoswe nantoni na okokuqala ngqa.
Akenzi Isabelo Sakhe Sokucoca Indlu
Xa abantu ababini abadala be-esile babelana ngendawo yokuhlala, kulindeleke ukuba babelane ngemisebenzi yokugcina indlu. Akunjalo ngomntu oyindoda. Mhlawumbi loluhlobo lomntu onabazali abenza konke ukucoca ukuze angabinakho (enkosi ngaloo nto, mama notata!), Ke ngoku akaboni xa indawo iyihagu etshisayo, kwaye akanayo cinga ngendlela yokuhlamba iimpahla okanye inkunkuma.
yenza indoda ikukhumbule njengegeza
* Isibhengezo senkonzo yoluntu kubazali: ngelixa ucinga ukuba unokwenza umntwana wakho ubabalo olukhulu ngokungamenzi ukuba enze nayiphi na imisebenzi yasekhaya, uyamonakalisa ngalo naliphi na ibhinqa anokuzibandakanya nalo kwixa elizayo. Gcina oko engqondweni.
Awunakuthembela kuye
… Ngaphandle kokuba uyokulanda ibhiya xa egoduka evela emsebenzini, okanye enye into ayibona iyonwabisa okanye ibalulekile. Ukuba uyenza icace into yokuba isiganeko esithile sibalulekile kuwe, kuya kufuneka uzenzele ngokwakho onke amalungiselelo ngaphandle kokuba simnike umdla kwinqanaba le-epic, ngekhe akwenze oko. Ngokufanayo, ukuba kukho into ebalulekileyo efuna ukwenziwa, kodwa akafuni ukujongana nayo, uya kuzilazila, enze izizathu zokuba kutheni ingenakwenziwa, kwaye / okanye alushiye uxanduva ngokupheleleyo. Uya kudinga ukuthembela kuwe, ewe, ngakumbi kwezemali, kodwa ukuba iindima ziya kuhlala zifuna ukubuyiselwa umva, uya kuphulukana nekamva lakhe kwaye angabinalo uluvo wtf ukwenza.
Njani mrbeast utyebe kangaka
Okukwintsusa: ukuba akubalulekanga kwaphela kuye, akubalulekanga konke konke.
Kuyadinisa ngokumangalisayo kwaye kuyakhathaza ukufika ekuqondeni ukuba nangona unokuba sisibini, oyena mntu unokuthembela kuye ngokwakho. Ndiyathemba ukuba ukuqonda kuya kuthi qheke ukusa kungekudala, ukuze ube nakho ukukhululeka kubudlelwane ngaphambi kokuba unamathele ekujonganeni nezinto ezinje ngokukhulisa umntwana kunye neentlawulo zempahla obambise ngayo ngokwakho.
Zininzi izinto ezinokuthi zibe negalelo kwiPeter Pan syndrome, ukusuka ekungabikho koluleko ngexesha lobuntwana ukuya kukungalingani kwemichiza, kodwa zimbalwa iindlela zokukuguqula. Ukuba umntu wakho ubonakalisa zonke (okanye uninzi) lweempawu ezilapha ngasentla, kuya kufuneka uzilungiselele ikamva apho uya kuba ngumzali ngakumbi kuneqabane. Ukuba oko kubhenela kuwe, ngoko uphumelele i-lottery yobudlelwane. Ukuba ayenzi njalo… kakuhle, kusenokufuneka uthembeke kwisiqu sakho malunga neemfuno zobudlelwane bakho, emva koko ugqibe ukuba ingaba le yintsebenziswano enokukwenza wonwabe na.
Ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba wenzeni malunga nesoka lakho elingafakwanga? Thetha kwi-Intanethi kwingcali yobudlelwane kwi-Relationship Hero enokukunceda ufumane izinto. Ngokulula.
