Intlantsi phakathi kwakho nesoka lakho, okanye umyeni wakho, iqale ukuphola.
Nibe kunye ixesha elide ngoku, kwaye niqala ukuthatha omnye nomnye ngokungakhathali. Okanye usamxabisa, kodwa uzive ngathi ukuthathela ingqalelo .
Mhlawumbi le yinto ubukhathazekile ngayo okwethutyana ngoku, okanye mhlawumbi usaqala ukubona imiqondiso.
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Nokuba yeyiphi na indlela, ufuna ukwenza into ngayo. Ufuna ukuvuselela izinto kwaye umkhumbuze ngesizathu sokuba athandane nawe kwasekuqaleni.
Umthanda ngokwenene lo mfo, kwaye uyazi ukuba izinto phakathi kwakho zinokuphinda zimangalise. Ufuna ukubeka umsebenzi ukwenza ukuba kwenzeke.
Kuqhelekile ukuba izibini zexesha elide zihambe ngee-patches xa ziyeke ukuxabisana kakhulu njengoko kufanelekile.
Ubudlelwane bexesha elide bunokuba bubuhle, kodwa akukho mfihlo oko bangumsebenzi onzima kwaye kusoloko kukho amaqhuma endleleni.
Iindaba ezimnandi zezokuba ukuphucula izinto phakathi kwakho kunokuba lula njengokumenza akukhumbule. Kwaye uzinike ithuba lokuba umkhumbule naye.
Ukuba ucinga ukuba uqala ukukruquka omnye nomnye, ezi ngcebiso zingezantsi zinokukunceda ukuba ungenise imfihlakalo encinci kubudlelwane bakho kwaye uyinike ingqesho entsha yobomi.
Ungamenza njani ukuba akukhumbule
Akukho ndlela yobubhanxa yobungqina bokwenza umyeni okanye isoka lakho likukhumbule.
Kodwa kukho iindlela ezimbalwa zokuzama nokuvavanya ezinokumenza ahlale phantsi, aqaphele, kwaye ayeke ukukuthatha kancinci.
Ufuna ukuba aqale azive engonwabanga ngendlela ulwalamano lwakho olwalukade lukhona ngayo, kwaye umnike inkuthazo yokuqalisa ukubeka umzamo ngakumbi.
Ukuba ezi ngcebiso azisebenzi, kunokuba kunjalo ukuba iingxaki phakathi kwakho zibaleka kancinci kunokuba zithathe ngokungakhathali, kwaye kuya kufuneka uthathe ixesha lokujonga ukuba ziphi iimpazamo kulwalamano lwakho, kwaye zithini Kuya kufuneka uyenze ukuzilungisa.
1. Nciphisa unxibelelwano lwakho naye.
Kungenzeka ukuba, njengommiselo, nobabini anithandi ukunxibelelana kakhulu emini, njengoko nobabini ninobomi obuxakekileyo.
Kodwa ukuba wena are ukunxibelelana kakhulu emini, ukuvuselelana ngezinto, emva koko unokuzama ukunciphisa oko kwizinto eziyimfuneko.
Nokuba ziiyure ezimbalwa ngaphandle kokuva kuwe kunokuthetha ukuba uqala ukukukhumbula.
Ngale ndlela, xa ufika ekhaya ekupheleni kosuku (okanye xa udibana naye ukuba anihlali kunye), uya kuba nezinto oza kuzithetha.
Uya kuba nakho ukumxelela konke malunga nemini yakho kwaye uve malunga neyakhe, kwaye ugcine incoko ihamba.
2.Ungamphenduli ngokukhawuleza.
Ngaba uhlala uphendula imiyalezo yakhe nje ukuba uyifumane? Kulungile ukumenza alinde ngokufuthi.
Ngelixa ukudlala imidlalo enje kungabonakala kulutsha, ukuba ufuna ukuba akuphuthe, kuya kufuneka unciphise isantya sokuphendula kwakho. Ngaphandle kokuba, ewe, ingxamisekile.
Akukho nombolo yomlingo - awunyanzelekanga ukuba ulinde inani le-X lemizuzu okanye iiyure ngaphambi kokuba umbhalele. Ukubeka imithetho enjalo endaweni akunampilo.
Phendula xa ikulungele ngokwenene, ukuba ayisiyiyo imizuzwana engama-20 emva kokuba ufumene umyalezo.
3. Mshiye efuna okungakumbi.
Uyakuthanda ukuthetha naye emnxebeni, okanye ungavuya ukuba imihla yakho iqhubeke kangangeeyure. Kodwa ukuba ufuna ukuba akukhumbule, kuya kufuneka ube nguwe oxhoma okanye uthi ndlela-ntle.
Ngalo lonke ixesha qiniseka ukuba kukho izinto ezithile ezishiyiweyo zingachazwanga kunye nokunye ukuzibamba, ukuze angafumani thuba lokuba adikwe.
Umoya omncinci wemfihlakalo kunye nokungafumaneki kuhlala kongeza iziqholo kubudlelwane, nokuba nibe kunye ixesha elingakanani.
4. Musa ukulahla ezinye izinto kuye.
Ukuba ulwalamano olunzulu nalo mfo, ke, ngokwendalo, uya kuba yenye yezona zinto ziphambili ebomini. Kodwa ukuba ufuna ukuba akukhumbule, akanakusoloko ehamba phambili.
Mhloneleni kwaye nenze izicwangciso kunye, kodwa musa ukoyika ukwenza izicwangciso ezizezakho. Musa ukuziwisa izinto ozicwangcisileyo ukuba azimfaneli.
Usapho kunye nabahlobo, ikhondo lomsebenzi, kunye nokuba sempilweni kwakho konke kufuneka kube zezona ziphambili.
Ukuthumela umyalezo wokuba ngelixesha uyamthanda, akangombindi wendalo yonke yakho, kuya kudala impilo esempilweni, nenembeko phakathi kwakho.
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5. Qala ngokukuphila.
Ukuze ulwalamano lusebenze, kufuneka yenza ukulalanisa . Kodwa kubalulekile ukuba ungathathi kude kakhulu.
Ukuba u zilahlekele kubudlelwane , awusoze wonwabe ngokwenene, kwaye iintanda ziya kuqala ukubonisa.
Zeziphi izinto ozithandayo kwaye zikonwabise uyekile ukuzenza oko ekho ebomini bakho?
Uphoswa yintoni? Yintoni ekwenza uzive ungowokwenene? Ngaba kukho into oyithandayo oyithandayo, okanye isizathu onomdla ngaso?
Ukwamkela kwakhona ezinye zezinto ezenze ukuba intliziyo yakho icule kuya kukwenza wonwabe ngaphakathi kuwe, kodwa kuyakumkhumbuza nento eqale yamtsala.
6. Lisebenzise kakuhle eli xesha nabahlobo bakho kunye nosapho.
Inyani yile, xa sikubudlelwane, sihlala sibatyeshela abahlobo kunye nosapho, singachithi ixesha elaneleyo nabo.
Ke, yenze umsebenzi wakho ukwenza iinkumbulo kunye nabo. Gcwalisa idayari yakho ngezinto ezonwabisayo nabantu obathandayo.
Ukubona ukuphuma nokuhamba nabanye abantu ababalulekileyo ebomini bakho kuya kuthetha ukuba umntu othandana naye okanye umyeni wakho unethuba lokuphoswa kukuhlala nawe, kwaye unokufuna ukuqala ukwenza ezinye iinkumbulo nawe.
7. Yothusa yena.
Ukumenza akukhumbule ayisiyiyo yonke into yokuchitha ixesha ngaphandle. Ukumothusa nokumxuba izinto kunokunceda nako.
Endaweni yokuhamba nje ngemihla yakudala efanayo kwiindawo ezifanayo, zama izinto ezintsha.
Ukumgcina ezinzwaneni zakhe kuya kuthetha ukuba uhlala ekulangazelela ukukubona, efuna ukubona ukuba uyakumothusa ngantoni ngokulandelayo.
8. Mshiyele izikhumbuzo ngawe.
Ukuba anihlali kunye, ukushiya into encinci endaweni yakhe kuthetha ukuba uya kukucinga nanini na xa eyibona.
Ukuba nihlala kunye, ungashenxisa inowuthi okanye isipho esincinci ebhegini yakhe xa emkayo, ukubeka uncumo ebusweni bakhe nokumgcina ephupha ngawe.
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9. Yiba nguwe.
Ukuba ngoyena mfo ulungileyo kuwe, ke yena uya kukuthanda ngeyona ndawo yakho ibalaseleyo kunye neyona ome njengeyakho. Akayi kuba nako ukukuchasa xa uvumela ubuntu bakho bukhanye.
Ubomi bemihla ngemihla bunokuthomalalisa obunye ubukhazikhazi, kodwa ukulwa ngokuchasene noko kwaye ngokwenyani uya kuthetha ukuba uyakhunjuzwa kanye ukuba kutheni ethandana nawe kwaye eqala ukuchitha ixesha kunye nawe.
10. Zonwabise ngendlela ethile yokuzikhathalela.
Eyona nto iphambili ekuzinyangeni kufuneka ibe yile, kuba uyifanele.
Kodwa, ukufumana iinwele, ukuvuselela iziqulatho zebhegi yakho, ukwenza umyalezo okanye ukuzinyanga ngokwakho kunokunika amandla okuzithemba anokukufumana engenakuphikiswa.
Ingamenza ukuba ajonge okwesibini kwaye aqonde ukuba unethamsanqa kangakanani, kwaye aqale ukubeka phambili ukuchitha ixesha nawe.
Yitya kakuhle, usele amanzi amaninzi, kwaye uqiniseke ukuba uyakhanya.
Nokuba kungamenza avuke kwaye aqale ukukuxabisa ngakumbi, kuya kukwenza uzive umnandi, ngokungathi ukulungele ukuthatha ubomi ngeempondo.
11. Cwangcisa izicwangciso zeempelaveki ezahlukileyo.
Ngamanye amaxesha, abantu kubudlelwane bexesha elide banokuziva ngathi kufuneka badityaniswe esinqeni ngalo lonke ixesha.
Kwaye ngelixa kulungile kwaye kubalulekile ukwenza izinto njengesibini, ukwenza izinto ngokwahlukeneyo kunokuba luncedo.
Xa kuza iimpelaveki, sukucinga ukuba kufuneka uzichithe kunye.
Ukucebisa ukuba nenze izinto ngokwahlukeneyo kunokuthetha ukuba nobabini niyalifumana ikhefu elifunekayo ukuba niqale ukuphosana.
Ngale ndlela, xa nikunye ngeempelaveki, niyakubakhona kwaye nilixabise ixesha enisabelana ngalo.
Chitha ixesha elithile kude.
Ukuba anihlali kunye, emva koko impela-veki apho nobabini nenza into yenu inokwanela ukumenza azive onwabile ngokukubona.
Kodwa ukuba nihlala kunye, ixesha elithile lokwenene ukwahlukana kubalulekile ngoku.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, unokuyonwabela indawo ebhedini ngobusuku bokuqala, kodwa emva kwethutyana uya kuqala ukuphoswa kukulala ecaleni kwakho.
Ukushiya kwizixhobo zakhe, uya kuqala ukuqonda ngokuthe ngqo ukuba wenza malini endlwini, okanye ebantwaneni, ukuba unayo.
Kungaba bubusuku kude, okanye isenokuba ziiveki ezimbalwa kude ngeholide. Ukungabikho ngokwenene kwenza ukuba intliziyo ikhule ithanda, kwiimeko ezininzi.
Ukuba benihleli phantsi kweenyawo zomnye ixesha elide, ikhefu elivela komnye nomnye linokusebenza ngokumangalisayo kubudlelwane bakho.
13. Lungelelanisa ubusuku bemini yothando.
Kanye emva kokuba unethuba kude omnye komnye lixesha elifanelekileyo lokucofa amanqanaba ezothando.
Nje ukuba afumane ixesha lokunikhumbula, kutheni ungacebisi ukuba nobabini ninxibe, kwaye nenze into ekhethekileyo nothando?
Ukuba benikade nilahlekana, niya kuva nobabini zonke iimvakalelo, kwaye lelona xesha lilungileyo lokuba nobabini niphinde nidibane nize niphinde nikhonze umlilo phakathi kwenu.
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