Unokukrokrela ukuba umfana othandana naye uphulukene nomdla kuwe.
Unexhala lokuba akasenamdla wokugcina ubudlelwane bakho buhamba okanye buhamba phambili nawe.
Kwaye ukuba wena zisazinikele kubudlelwane, eso sisikrokro esoyikekayo sokuba naso.
Kodwa iseyimihla yokuqala kwaye awuqinisekanga nokuba izikrokro zakho ziyinyani na, okanye ngaba ufunda nje iimpawu.
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Ayikho indlela eqinisekileyo yomlilo yokwazi ukuba ingaba umdla weqabane lakho kuwe uyancipha, kodwa kukho imiqondiso enokukunceda uyiqonde.
Ukuseka ukuba ingaba kunjalo kwimeko yokuqala kunokukunceda ukuba usombulule iingxaki phakathi kwakho, okanye ukubiza usuku kwangoko kunangoku, ngenxa yoko iintlungu zentliziyo azide zinde kwaye zitsaliwe.
Iimvakalelo njengoko esi sihloko sinjalo, kubalulekile ukuba uzame ukusondela kuyo ngokwembono leyo ngenjongo ezinokwenzeka. Ukuba unganceda, sukuvumela iimvakalelo zakho okanye izakhiwo zithintele isigwebo sakho apha.
Ukuba imbalwa yale miqondiso ikhalisa iintsimbi entlokweni yakho, isenokuba lixesha lokuba uqwalasele indlela oziva ngayo ngobudlelwane, emva koko uthethe naye ngokungathandabuzekiyo malunga nokuba ikamva linokuphathela ntoni nina nobabini.
1. Akazibandakanyi nento oyithethayo.
Xa uthetha, kuyacaca ngokucacileyo ukuba akanamdla kwinto oza kuyithetha kwakhona.
Akasajinga kwilizwi lakho lonke kwaye akakubuzi imibuzo malunga nento eqhubekayo ebomini bakho.
ukuqala njani kubudlelwane
Uhlala efowunini yakhe, okanye unokumxelela nje ukuba ingqondo yakhe ikho naphi na kodwa kwigumbi nawe.
2. Akachithi xesha lingako nawe.
Uyekile ukwenza umgudu ukuchitha ixesha nawe.
Nangona ngaphambili, wayehlala efumana ixesha lokuchitha nawe, nokuba zingaphi iibhola awayezigweba, ngoku uhlala enesizathu sokungakuboni.
Ixesha olichitha kunye linokuba linciphile kancinci kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo uqaphele utshintsho.
3. Awuyonto iphambili.
Umsebenzi uza phambi kwakho. Abahlobo bakhe beza phambi kwakho. Usapho lwakhe luza phambi kwakho.
Ayisiyonto imbi leyo ekuqaleni kobudlelwane kunye nokulingana kuhlala kubalulekile.
Kodwa, ukuba izinto ziya kuba nzulu, ngamanye amaxesha kuya kufuneka ubaluleke kakhulu komnye nomnye.
Ukuba kuyacaca ukuba ayizukwenzeka, mhlawumbi yonke into oyibonisayo ukuba ayilulo ulwalamano lwakho.
4. Akaphenduli.
Uthatha ixesha elide ukuphendula kwizicatshulwa zakho, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo akalunganga ukudlala nzima ukufumana .
Akakuphenduli njengokuba ebekade esenza kwaye akanamdla ngokukodwa xa esenza njalo.
5. Akabonakali enomdla ukukubona.
Xa nibonana, aniboni amehlo akhe ekhanya, kwaye akakuniki olo ncumo ubudla ngokulufumana kuye.
uyeke njani ukuxhomekeka kubudlelwane bam
Ubonakala nje onwabile ukukubona njengoko enokwenza nakuwuphi na umhlobo wakhe, okanye nangaphantsi.
6. okanye uve ilizwi lakho.
Awufumani umbuliso onomdla xa uthetha emnxebeni. Ngalo nto, ukuba anibonani, kusenokwenzeka ukuba akanamdla wokuthetha emnxebeni konke konke.
Akanomdla wokuva malunga nento obukade ukuyo, ukuba luhambe njani usuku lwakho, okanye uziva njani.
7. Wenza ubuncinci obunqabileyo.
Wenza ubuncinci obuncinci ekufuneka ebenzile ukugcina izinto zihamba phakathi kwakho. Akazimiselanga kuhamba enye imayile ukukubona okanye ukuchitha ixesha nawe.
8. Akukho kuthandana.
Ukuthandana akuyiyo inkalo yobudlelwane phakathi kwakho.
Usenokungabi luhlobo lothando ngokubanzi, kodwa ukuba uqale ngokuzisa iintyatyambo, ukubamba isandla sakho, nokukhanyisa amakhandlela xa ujikeleza endaweni yakhe, kwaye ngoku yinto eyadlulayo, ayisiyonto intle leyo .
9. Icala linye linye.
Uya uzive ngathi nguwe wedwa obeka inzame kolu lwalamano, kwaye oko ukuba ubunokuyeka ukuzikhathaza ngokunxibelelana naye okanye wenze izicwangciso, konke kuya kuphuma nje.
10. Uyakhawuleza ukucaphuka.
Kuqala ukuziva ngathi yonke into oyenzayo okanye oyithethayo iyamcaphukisa. Ubonakala ecatshukiswa zizinto ezingenangqondo.
Okanye mhlawumbi uyacaphuka xa ucebisa ukwenza izicwangciso nabahlobo bakhe okanye nosapho, okanye uthethe ngekamva, okanye uziva ngathi uphantsi kwalo naluphi na uhlobo loxinzelelo.
Ngelixa konke kumnandi kunye nemidlalo ubumnandi kunye nokukhanya, kodwa ukuba kukho nantoni na ekude kakhulu, uya kuqala ukucaphuka nawe.
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11. Uhlala efumana izizathu zokukhetha ukulwa.
Uhlala enento yokukhalaza. Uhlala ubonakala ngathi wenze into engalunganga.
Ufumana izizathu zokuphikisana nawe ngezinto ezingenamsebenzi, kwaye uyifumana ngaphezulu kokudideka.
12. Akafuni ukuya phambili.
Kukho zonke iintlobo zezizathu zokungangxami izinto kwaye uvumele ubudlelwane buthathe ikhosi yendalo. Akufanele utsibe ulwalamano olunzulu ngaphambi kokuba nobabini nilungele enye.
Kodwa ukuba bekukudala kwaye Uziva ngathi izinto kufanele ukuba ziqale ukuqhubela phambili ngoku , oko kunokuba ngumqondiso wokuphela komdla.
Ukuba u madolw 'anzima ukubeka ilebheli kwizinto, akwazise kubahlobo bakhe okanye kusapho, enze izicwangciso zexesha elizayo kunye, okanye enze nantoni na enokucebisa ukuba nobabini niqhubela phambili kubudlelwane benu, inokuba luphawu lwezinto ezininzi , kodwa inokuba umdla wakhe uyaphela.
13. Akakuxhasi.
Awuziva ngathi unomdla kuyo nantoni na oyenzayo, okanye uphupha ngayo, okanye uyiphumeze.
Awuziva ngathi unenkxaso yakhe kubomi bakho bobungcali okanye bobuqu.
Awuziva ngathi ungabuyela kuye ukuba ububophele kwaye ufuna uncedo.
14. Akukho sini sininzi, okanye isini konke oko kunako.
Oku kunokuhamba enye yeendlela ezimbini. Nokuba ubunobomi obuhle ngesondo kunye naye ngaphambili kwaye ngoku ubonakala ngathi uphulukene nomdla…
… Okanye ngequbuliso kubonakala ngathi unomdla wokwabelana ngesondo. Unxibelelana nawe kuphela xa efuna ukuba semzimbeni kwaye awusoze ubonakale ukuchitha ixesha kunye elingabandakanyi isondo.
Indlela elungileyo yokufumanisa ukuba ingaba le yimeko yokucebisa izicwangciso ngexesha lasemini elingenakho ukubandakanya into yesondo kwaye ubone ukuba yintoni impendulo yakhe kubo.
15. Akenzi izicwangciso ngekamva.
Awunakulinga ukukhankanya ukwenza izicwangciso zexesha elizayo naye, kwaye akazange athethe nto ngekamva kuwe.
Unokuthetha ngento onokuyenza kwiveki ezayo okanye kwinyanga ezayo, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo akathethi ngento eza kwenzeka kwiinyanga ezintandathu, okanye kunyaka olandelayo.
Uyazi nje ezantsi.
Masijongane nayo, xa kukho into engahambi kakuhle kubudlelwane uyazi nje.
Emhadini wesisu sakho, uyazi ukuba uphulukana nomdla. Kwaye endaweni yokuzifihla kuloo nyaniso ingathandekiyo, lixesha lokuba uyamkele.
Ukuba uzifumene kule meko, lixesha lokuba incoko. Kungaba nzima, kodwa kubalulekile ukuthembeka kuwe kunye naye, kwaye uqiniseke ukuba nobabini nibeka amakhadi enu etafileni.
Ufanelwe lihlabathi, ke ungaze ulungiselele nantoni na engaphantsi komntu othanda ukuba nawe, ukhanyise xa ekubona, kwaye ukulungele ukukwenza ube yinto ephambili.
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