Ngumyalezo ofunyanwa kwiintetho ezininzi ezikhuthazayo kunye namanani angenakubalwa eengcaphuno ezikhuthazayo…
'Vele uyenze.'
'Thatha ubomi ngeempondo kwaye ungaze uyeke.'
Unobomi obunye kuphela, ke sebenzise ngokupheleleyo.
Iindlela eziliwaka zokuthetha into ibe nye…
Phila ubomi ngokuzeleyo.
Kwaye kuvakala ngathi licebo elifanelekileyo de uyeke ukucinga ngenene ngalo.
Emva koko uqala ukuqonda ukuba la magama mahlanu alula ayingcambu yeengxaki zethu ezininzi.
Lixesha lokuba ubeke obu bulumko obungenabulumko kwikrele.
Imibongo yomntu omthandayo olahlekileyo
Ixesha lokuyidibanisa kube kanye.
Unokucinga ukuba le yinto nje yokuhlekisa. Indlela yokuphikisana ngenxa yayo. Ukuphazamisa ezinye iintsiba.
Kodwa namathela kum kwaye ndicinga ukuba ndiza kuba nakho ukukuqinisekisa ngenye indlela.
Uyabona, into endizokwabelana ngayo nawe ayifanele ibe yingxabano.
Ukuba iimpikiswano zam zivakala- kwaye ndiyakholelwa ukuba zinjalo- kuya kufuneka ukuba unqwale kunye kwisivumelwano ukuphela.
Ewe, abanye abantu bangakhubekiswa yile nto ndiyithethayo, kodwa kungenxa yokuba izimvo zabo zizokucelwa umngeni, mhlawumbi zide zichithakale.
Ukuphila ubomi ngokuzeleyo ngokwenene yingcebiso embi landela nakwi nika .
Nasi isizathu…
Ikushiya ungonelisekanga bubomi
Uninzi lwabantu lucinga ukuba obona bomi 'buzele' yenye apho uthatha yonke imihla yobomi bakho - umzuzu ngamnye kwiyure nganye- kwaye wenza into entsha ngayo.
Kuya kufuneka uzame into entsha, ufumane into eyahlukileyo, uye kwenye indawo ongazange ube kuyo ngaphambili, utye into emangalisayo.
Kuya kufuneka uhleke kakhulu, uncume ngokubanzi, uzive wonwabile kwaye ugcobile.
Kuya kufuneka wenze umzuzu ngamnye a umzuzu wokukhumbula.
Kodwa… kuninzi kakhulu ukuba ungalindela.
Ubomi abenzeki ngoluhlobo.
Asinguye wonke umzuzu onokuba yincopho yolonwabo. Awunakho ukuchitha ubomi bakho bonke kwiindawo eziphakamileyo zokuzonwabisa kunye nokuzonwabisa.
Kodwa uxelelwe ukuba yile nto kufuneka ujonge kuyo. Ukholelwa ukuba yile nto ubuyenzelwe ebomini.
Kwaye xa usilela ekufikeleleni kulindelo oluphakamileyo nolungelulo, uziva utyhafile. Uziva ngathi usilele ngandlel 'ithile ebomini.
Kodwa umiselwe ukuba usilele kuba uzama ukufezekisa okungenakufezekiswa.
Ngokwenene, ubomi bemihla ngemihla - masithembeke - kancinci kwaye sihlala siphindaphinda. Izele yesiqhelo nolwakhiwo kwaye ukuthatha uxanduva yemisebenzi yamanqanaba ngamanqanaba okubaluleka.
Ukuba uzama ukuphila ubomi kubuninzi, ezi zinto ziphakathi kokuphazamiseka azamkelekanga kwaphela.
Uziva ngathi umsebenzi wakho ngumthwalo onyanzelekileyo ukuba uwuthwale. Ayizukunanditshwa okanye ijongelwe phambili usuku ngalunye. Kukho nje ukubonelela ngeendlela zokuya kwenye i-epic adventure.
Uchitha usuku nosuku uzirhuqa uye naphina apho kungumsebenzi wakho ofuna ukuba ubekho. Ngokuzithemba uyayibona imisebenzi yakho ukuze umphathi wakho angakugxothi.
Uchitha umzuzu ngamnye apho unqwenela ukuba usuku luphele ukuze ukwazi ukuqhubeka nezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu ngokuhlwa, ngeempelaveki, kwaye kwezi veki zimbalwa uye uye kwikhefu lonyaka.
Ewe umsebenzi wakho ukhona ukufunxa ubomi kuwe.
Kwaye siqala phi ngobudlelwane bakho?
Iqabane lakho, izihlobo zakho, usapho lwakho - zingena phi kobu bomi 'buzeleyo' onqwenela ukuhlala kubo?
Uxinzelelo kubo kukuba baqhubeke nawe kwaye bangakusindisi nakanye.
Kodwa, ewe, ezinye zazo ziya kukuvumela. Kwaye uya kubacaphukela ngenxa yoko.
Ufuna ihlabathi nayo yonke into ekulo, kwaye ukuba abanako ukukunika oko, unokufumanisa ukuba kuya kufuneka usike amaqhina kwaye ubashiye ngasemva.
Ubambe ubudlelwane bakho bothando kumgangatho ophakamileyo kangangokuba nje ukuba uziva ukuba bayakuthintela, amathandabuzo aqala ukungena.
Ngaba liqabane lakho eligqibeleleyo emva kwayo yonke into? Ngaba ziya kukuthintela ekwenzeni izinto ofuna ukuzenza ukwenza ubomi bakho ‘buzele’?
Ngaba ukhona umntu onamaphupha obomi ahambelana ngokusondeleyo nawe?
Ke uyasokola ukubamba ubudlelwane bexesha elide kuba iimfuno zakho zinzima kakhulu. Awufuni kuchitha ixesha kunye nomntu ongekho kwi-stratospheric trajectory efanayo nawe.
Usapho lwakho, nangona lusondele entliziyweni yakho, musa 'ukukufumana' kunye nendlela yakho yokuphila ephezulu ye-octane. Kwaye awunakuqonda ukuba kutheni banelisekile ukuhlala ubomi obunokuxelwa kwangaphambili.
Iqela lakho lobuhlobo linokuba likhulu ngenxa yabo bonke abantu odibana nabo besenza imisebenzi engayekiyo, kodwa uninzi 'ngabahlobo' kwingqondo ethi 'singabahlobo kuFacebook' kunokuba sibe ngabahlobo abasenyongweni.
Ungabona umntu owahlukileyo busuku ngabunye beveki kuba kungekho namnye umhlobo onokuhlala nawe.
Kodwa kuya kufuneka ugcwalise idayari yakho ngokuhlwa ngaphandle nangeempelaveki kude okanye wena uziva ngathi umosha ubomi bakho .
Kwaye xa ungazifumani izinto zokwenza okanye ukubonwa ngabantu, uyasokola chitha ixesha wedwa . Ubusuku bokuphumla kwizandi nantoni na ngaphandle kokuphumla kuwe.
Oko akutsho ukuba uhlala uziva uzalisekisiwe yimisebenzi emininzi ebomini bakho. Kwaye mhlawumbi kungenxa yokuba ubenza ngezizathu ezingalunganga…
… Ugcwalisa ixesha lakho kuba uxelelwe ukuba uphile ubomi bakho ngokupheleleyo kwaye hayi kuba uyonwabele ngokwenyani loo nto.
Wenza izinto ngenxa yokuzenza.
Uyazenzela ukuze ukwazi ukuthatha iifoto kunye nokuthumela kwimithombo yeendaba zentlalo ukubonisa abanye ukuba 'buzele' kwaye bunjani ubomi bakho.
Kwaye kukho uluhlu lwakho lwamabhakethi. Kude kangangokuba awukwazi ukugcina umkhondo wento ekuyo.
Uphendle ngokoqobo i-intanethi kwaye wadibanisa zonke 'ezona zintle' izintlu kwi-ajenda enye yobomi bakho.
Uza kundwendwela amazwe amaninzi kangangoko unakho, ukujongana nayo yonke imisebenzi ekufuneka uyenzile kulowo nalowo, kwaye usampule inkcubeko kangangoko.
Unezicwangciso zokulinganisa iintaba, utsibe iinqwelomoya, uye kwiminyhadala emininzi kangangoko kunokwenzeka, hlikihla amagxa nabantu abadumileyo kumboniso bhanyabhanya nakwimisitho yokuwonga.
Ufuna ukuqala into engenzi nzuzo, qulunqa imveliso kwaye uyifake ezivenkileni, ube ligunya kwishishini lakho, kunye nesigidi sezinye izinto ngaphezulu.
Kodwa kangangoko unokuzama, ngekhe uphawule izinto ngokukhawuleza. Kwaye ulungisa kuzo zonke izinto ongekazenzi.
Ububona ubomi bakho buphuma ngaphandle ngendlela ethile kwaye emva koko uziva ulusizi kwaye uxhalabile xa ungakwazi ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza ngokwaneleyo kwiinjongo zakho kunye noluhlu lwakho lweminqweno.
Uba njalo kugxilwe kwiinjongo zakho zokuphela awunako ukonwabela uhambo lokufikelela kubo.
Uyazityhala ukuba wenze okungakumbi, kwenze ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ngekhe konwabe de kube kugqityiwe…
… Kwaye emva koko yinto elandelayo.
Uyakuthanda ukucwangcisa iihambo ezizayo. Awunakunceda kodwa ucinge zonke izinto oza kuzenza.
Okanye ulangazelela ukuphinda utyelele onke amava amangalisayo avela kwixesha lakho elidlulileyo. 'Amaxesha amnandi' njengoko uthanda ukubabiza.
Ukuba kuphela ubuya umva kwaye uhlale kwezi nkumbulo kunokuba ujongane ne-monotony yeebits eziphakathi.
Olo 'mzuzu wangoku' athi wonke umntu kufuneka uphile kuwo - kuyadika nje amaxesha amaninzi.
Amaxesha onokuthi uzive ukuba ukho ngokwenene yile apho wenza khona izinto ezintsha nezinomdla ezikhathaza iibhokisi zobomi ngokupheleleyo.
Indlela yakho yokucinga kukuba ukuba ubomi bakho abuzalisekanga, ngokuyinxenye ayinanto kwaye oku kulambatha kuyothusa isihogo kuwe.
Ngaphezu koko, ubona abanye abantu behlaziya ngononophelo uhlaziyo lweendaba zentlalo kwaye bakholelwa ukuba le yindlela ababuphila ngayo ubomi babo.
Okanye ubona umhlobo owenza ngcono kunawe kwaye uphila ubomi obuvulekileyo nobunomdla kwaye uziva ngathi uyawa ngasemva.
Izinto obeka eyona xabiso kuzo zezi zibonisa ubomi obuphila ngokugqibeleleyo. Ubomi obubonakala buphumelele.
Ke unqwenela indlu enkulu, imoto entle, iimpahla ezibizayo, iihambo ezingaqhelekanga, indlela yokuphila ethi, 'Ndiyazenzela kwaye ndifuna uyazi.'
Kungenxa yokuba ubomi 'obupheleleyo' kunye nobomi obunempumelelo bufana kuwe.
Oku kuthetha ukuba usebenza ngasemva kwakho-nangona ungakonwabeli- kuba kuya kukunika into oyifunayo. Iya kukuvumela ukuba wenze zonke izinto ofuna ukuzenza.
Kwaye ukuba omnye umntu akabelani nembono efanayo ngobomi, wena bagwebe ngayo kwaye ujonge ngokungathandekiyo kukhetho lwabo.
Ubabona njengokuba uswele amabhongo kunye nokuqhuba , nokuba bonwabile ngoku ngobomi ababuphilayo.
Awufuni ukufana nabo. Awufuni ukuba nokuzisola ocinga ukuba baya kuba nako xa bebadala.
Ngapha koko, awufuni kuzisola ngobomi, kuba ukuzisola kuthetha ukuba ubunokwenza okungaphezulu kwaye awuzange wenze njalo.
Ufuna ukufa ucinga ukuba ubomi bakho bube sisihogo sokukhwela.
… Okanye, ubuncinci, yile nto uxelelwe yona. Yiloo nto abantu ekucebisa ukuba uphile ubomi ngokuzeleyo.
Kukho iinkampani, ookopolotyeni kunye neemagazini 'ezikuthengisela' indlela efanelekileyo yokuphila.
Bafuna ukuba unqwenele ukuthenga iimveliso zabo kunye neenkonzo kwaye uchithe imali yakho oyisebenzele nzima kunye nabo.
Uyabona intengiso yabo ebengezelayo kwaye wamkela izimvo kuyo. Uyabona ukuba zeziphi izinto ezinokubekwa ngaphambili kwaye ufuna zonke.
Kwaye le yingxaki kuba imali yakho inqongophele. Unokwenza izinto ezininzi kuphela ngayo.
Ukukhetha indawo onokuchitha kuyo kunzima. Awunakho nje ukuba ungalinganisa njani ukubuyela umva kwelizwe ezimbini ngokuchasene ne-gizmo entsha enokubonisa kuyo nakubani na nakubani na.
Kwaye konga… “Ha!” uthi, 'ngumdlalo wobudenge lowo.' Ukholelwa ekubeni kufuneka ujonge kule mini kwaye uchithe umvuzo wakho ngenxa yokuba unokuhlaselwa yibhasi ngomso.
indlela yokufumana ngaphezulu kokukopela ex
Kutheni ugcina imali yakho kude kube yimini yemvula?
Yintoni abanye abantu abanokuyibona njengengakhathali, ubona njengeyona ndlela yokuphila ilungileyo.
Usenokude ubethe amakhadi etyala okanye iimali mboleko nzima ukufumana loo mava uwafunayo kuba uyakugwetywa ukuba iimali zakho ziya kuma endleleni yakho.
Kwaye malunga nefuthe lokuphila kwakho elinalo kwabanye abantu, alide liwele nakwingqondo yakho.
Konke ukuhamba, zonke izinto ozithengayo, onke la mava uwafunayo. Ziza nendleko ebanzi kunale uyihlawulayo.
Indawo esingqongileyo ihlupheka kubaqalayo. Ubushushu bekhabhoni yakho buphezulu esibhakabhakeni kwaye isidingo sakho sezinto ezintsha sithetha ukuba utshise ngezixhobo ezinesiphelo njengoko kungekho ngomso.
Kodwa uya kuthi hayi kwiiplastiki kwaye uhlala uthwala ibhegi yokujikeleza ... ke konke kulungile, akunjalo?
Kwaye abantu abakwimixokelelwane yonikezelo ebonelela ngazo zonke izinto ezimangalisayo ozithengayo kunye nabantu ababonelela ngeenkonzo ozonwabelayo… ngekhe ubavumele bakunqande ekuonwabeleni zonke iziqhamo obuzokunika ngazo ubomi.
Nokuba kuthetha ukuba bayasokola okanye bayaxhatshazwa ukuze ufumane obu bomi ubunqwenelayo.
Yonke ayinamsebenzi. Ucinga ukuba wonke umntu kufuneka abe nakho ukukhokelela nakuphi na ukuphila abakukhethileyo kwaye ukhethe okukodwa okugcwele yonke into kunye nayo nayiphi na into onokuyifaka kuyo.
Ikhokelela phi yonke le nto?
Ndiza kukuxelela apho ingakhokeleli khona… ulonwabo lwakho.
Njengoko ndicinga ukuba ndicacisile nje ngokweenkcukacha kangangoko ndinako, isidingo sakho sokuphila ubomi ngokuzeleyo asikushiye uncumo rhoqo ebusweni bakho okanye ukukhawuleza kweadrenaline kwimithambo yakho.
Umsebenzi uyabila.
Ubudlelwane bakho bunamatye.
Kunqabile ukuba wonwabele umzuzu wangoku .
Wena ngonaphakade uleqa ubomi bakho obulungileyo .
Uyadana xa amava onke ephela.
Uphendla into elandelayo ukukugcwalisela ixesha.
Wenza izinto kuba usiva ukuba kufanelekile ukuba uzenza.
Uhlala uzithelekisa nabanye.
Uqhuba uye kumbono oqhelekileyo wempumelelo.
Awunakho ukubekezelela ukubukela abanye behleli bengenzi nto ngokuchitha ubomi babo (ngokoluvo lwakho).
Awunankathalo ngokwezemali.
Awunankathalo kwindalo esingqongileyo.
Ufuna nje yonke into… kwaye uyayifuna ngoku.
Ngaba unawo amava oku?
Ngaba uyazibona kwezi nkcazo zingasentla?
Kwaye uyaqonda ukuba kutheni le ndlela ingazukunika le nto uyifunayo?
Kukho isizathu esikhulu sokuba kutheni le ndlela yokuphila ingakushiyi uziva wonwabile…
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Ulonwabo lwakho luxhomekeke ngokupheleleyo kwizinto zangaphandle
Ulonwabo ligama elingalunganga… ngapha koko, ulonwabo yimvakalelo edlulayo eza kwaye idlule.
Yibize… ukuzaliseka.
Gcwalisa ngokupheleleyo. Uyabona ukuba kutheni kufanelekile?
Okanye ungayibiza ngokwoneliseka.
Nantoni na onqwenela ukuyibiza, xa uzama konke okusemandleni akho ukuba uphile ubomi bakho ngokupheleleyo, ngokungathandabuzekiyo ubeke ukubaluleka okukhulu kwinto oyenzayo nakwinto onayo.
Ezi zinto zingaphandle kwakho. Abayonxalenye yakho.
Ngezinto eziphathekayo, oku kucacile, akunjalo? Uyakonwabela ukuchitha imali kwiimpahla ezintsha okanye izixhobo ezintle kwaye uyolo olufumana kuzo luxhomekeke ekubeni unazo.
Ngokukhawuleza ukuba awunanto intsha okanye unomdla wokudlala okanye ubonise ngayo, uyadana. Kwaye ulangazelela ukuthenga kwakho okulandelayo.
Ngamava anje ngokuhamba kunye nokutya kunye nokuntywila emanzini, unokucinga ukuba ulonwabo luvela kuwe.
Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, uyonwabela nantoni na oyenzayo.
Kodwa ayenzi njalo.
Ewe unokuzonwabisa, kodwa olo lonwabo luhlala kuphela ixesha lamava (kwaye mhlawumbi okwexeshana emva).
Emva koko uzibona ulangazelela ukuyiphinda okanye ucwangcisela umcimbi olandelayo okanye into yokugcwalisa ixesha lakho.
La maxesha aphakathi kwamaxesha awangoninzanga olukhulu, ulwaneliseko, okanye ulonwabo.
Zizinto ezingenanto ukuba ubandezeleke xa ungenanto yakuhlala kuyo.
Azinanto. Kwaye kumntu onqwenela ukuhlala ubomi obugcweleyo, oku kubuhlungu kuwe.
Funda kwakhona: amaxesha apho ungafumani nto intsha, inoveli, okanye ukonwaba ngamaxesha apho uziva ubuhlungu.
Intlungu ekhoyo.
thabatha usuku ngalunye njengoko luza
Kwaye ngoku, le yinxalenye enkulu yobomi bakho. Inxalenye enkulu yobomi bakho oyichitha ilusizi kwaye ungoneliseki.
Ngaba oko kuvakala ngathi luhlobo lobomi olufunayo?
Ndiyathemba ukuba akunjalo.
Ngethamsanqa, ikhona enye indlela…
Ubomi obuphila BAKHO ngokupheleleyo
Ubomi 'obugcweleyo' akufuneki bube yinjongo embi, ukuba nje umfanekiso 'wokugcwala' onawo engqondweni yakho yenye yokwenza kwakho.
Kwaye okoko lo mfanekiso ubandakanya imisebenzi ebalulekileyo yemihla ngemihla efana nomsebenzi, imisebenzi yasekhaya, kunye neminye imisebenzi onayo.
Ubomi ‘obupheleleyo’ bungabandakanya isiqhelo. Ubomi obuzeleyo ‘bunokuquka obuqhelekileyo.
Ezi ayizizo izinto ekufanele zichaswe. Ngokukhawuleza xa uxhathisa into, ususa naluphi na ulwaneliseko onokulufumana kuyo.
Xa ufumana ulwaneliseko- kunye nenqanaba lokonwaba- kwimihla ngemihla, awunayo imfuneko yokuyizalisa nezinye izinto.
Xa uqonda ukuba obona BOMI yeyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kuyo yonke into, awuyi kuthi phithi yile nto ungachitha ixesha lakho uyenza.
Xa ubeka ixabiso kwixesha olichitha usebenza okanye ucoceka okanye ufunda nje incwadi, unika ixabiso kubomi bakho bonke… hayi nje izinto ezintle.
Yintoni ebalulekileyo kukuba ungavumeli abanye abantu Ukuchaza ukuba kuthetha ntoni ukuphila ubomi bakho ngokuzeleyo.
Oko kufana nokuya kwindawo yokutyela kwaye uvumele omnye umntu akhethe kwimenyu yakho.
Usenokuphela uziva ugcwele ngokuphela, kodwa awuzukuphantse waneliseke sisidlo ngokungathi uzikhethele.
luhlobo luni lwenja olukuliwa
Usenokuziva ungonwabanga ngokupheleleyo ngenxa yokuba ubunokukhetha into elula kancinci kwaye engabalulekanga kangako.
'Ugcwele' wakho akufuneki ajongeke ngokufanayo nomnye umntu 'opheleleyo' kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo akufuneki ukuba alingane imodeli yoluntu.
Ngapha koko, ukuba uguqula ubomi bakho kule mibono yangaphandle 'epheleleyo' kwaye wamkele imigaqo-nkqubo yabo, uphila ubomi obunyanzelekileyo.
Uxelelwa into elungileyo kwaye kufanelekile ukuba uyenze kwaye awunanto ingako uyithethayo kwimicimbi.
Ke, mhlawumbi 'ukuphelela' kwakho kubandakanya iihambo kumazwe angaphandle kunye nezidlo sangokuhlwa nabahlobo kubusuku beveki…
… Kodwa mhlawumbi ayenzi.
Kwaye ukuba iyenzeka, awujongi nje la maxesha njengezinto. Ubandakanya okuqhelekileyo kwinkcazo yakho.
Oku kunokukuvumela ukuba ukonwabele ukutya okumnandi okuphekwe ekhaya kunye nokuhlwa ubukele iinkqubo zakho ozithandayo, endaweni yokucinga ukuba yinkcitha xesha lakho elixabisekileyo.
Ingcaciso yakho 'epheleleyo' iyamanzisa kwaye ngenxa yokuba ucinga ukuba kufanelekile ukuba wenza u-X ngexesha elinye ebomini bakho, oko akuthethi ukuba oku kuya kuba njalo kwiinyanga ezimbalwa okanye kwiminyaka kuhambo lwakho.
Ingcaciso yakho ingabandakanya ukujikela ngaphakathi ngamanye amaxesha kuye kanye zazi - eyona nto uyiyo-kunye nokukhula nokukhula ngokomoya.
Oko kukodwa kunokukunceda ubone ukuba ubomi bakho sele buzele kangakanani. Ungafumanisa ukuba eyona nto ibalulekileyo kuwe kukunandipha ubomi onabo kunokuba uhlale unqwenela ubomi ongenabo.
Kwaye inkcazo yakho 'epheleleyo' inokubandakanya igumbi lokuphefumla. Igumbi lokuziva ukhululekile kwaye umxholo .
Ukuba umbono wakho wobomi 'obugcweleyo' uxinekile zizinto- kwanezinto zemihla ngemihla- emva koko inokuziva iclaustrophobic.
Khawufane ucinge ngobomi bakho njengebhamuvu kunye nawe kwiziko. Ukuba loo bubble igcwele izinto ofuna ukuzenza kunye nezinto ucinga kufanelekile , ngekhe ubenalo igumbi lokuhamba.
Yonke indlela ojika ngayo, uya kujongana nezinto zokwenza nokubona kunye namava. Awuyi kukwazi ukonwabela indawo yakho kwiqamza kwaye ube noxolo.
Kwaye ngokugcina indawo engenanto, uzinika ithuba lokuba usabele kwizinto eziza nobomi kwindlela yakho.
Awuxhonywanga kumbono ongqongqo wendlela yokuzalisa ixesha kunye nobomi bakho. Unokuthatha izinto njengoko zisiza kwaye yenza izigqibo ngokwexeshana kunokuba nayo yonke into ecwangcisiweyo.
Indlela ebhetyebhetye ibhetele kakhulu kubudlelwane bakho. Ayizukuba yimeko yokucinga ukuba iqabane lakho likubambile - uya kuba nakho ukubona ukuba ubomi bakho kunye nobabo bunokuncoma njani.
Uya kuba nendawo yokwabelana ngezinto abanomdla kuzo kunye nezinto abazithandayo… ukuba unqwenela njalo.
Kwaye awuyi kuba nzima kangako kwabo bangazami ukupakisha ubomi babo nge-adventure kunye nemincili. Ngenxa yokuba uya kuba ngomnye wabo!
Awuyi kubagweba - uya Yamkela ukuba baphila uhlobo lwabo lobomi 'obugcweleyo' ngelixa wena uphila obakho.
Uyakufumanisa ukuba umzuzu wangoku ufikeleleka ngakumbi kuwe kuba ngekhe uhlale unqwenela kude iiyure kunye neentsuku de kufike into enomdla okanye eyonwabisayo.
Ngoku, Ungakhetha Ntoni?
Ndiyathemba ukuba usenam kwaye uwalandele onke amanqaku endiwenzileyo ukuza kuthi ga ngoku.
Umbuzo ke, yeyiphi ingxelo yobomi 'obugcweleyo' onokuyikhetha?
Inkqubo ye- ubomi obupheleleyo apho uhlala ujonge khona amava amnandi alandelayo okukuzisela ukoneliseka.
Okanye…
Eyakho Ubomi obupheleleyo apho unokufumana ukoneliseka nakwinkqubo yakho yemihla ngemihla kunye nemisebenzi ngelixa usonwabela ubumnandi amaxesha ngamaxesha.
Ukuba ndiliphikisile ityala lam ngokuqinisekileyo, uya kukhetha ukhetho lwesibini.
Kwaye ndiyathemba ukuba uyayenza.
Kuyinkolelo yam eqinileyo yokuba obona bomi buphile ngokwenene buya kuphelela apho suku ngalunye Ndiva ngathi ngumhla ophilileyo.
Akukho nokuba libe linye kuphela iqhezu leentsuku elibalwe njengelifanelekileyo nelinentsingiselo.
Ukuba ukulungele ukuphila ubomi BAKHO ngokupheleleyo, kodwa uziva ufuna ingcebiso engaphaya malunga nendlela yokwenza oko, thetha nomqeqeshi wobomi namhlanje onokuhamba kwinkqubo. Cofa nje apha ukunxibelelana nenye.
