Kweli nqaku lifutshane, libukhali, elinoburharha, siza kuvavanya elinye lamacala athethwayo ngobomi njengomntu ophilayo, ophefumlayo. ‘Yinyaniso embi’ inkoliso yabantu ekhetha ukungayikhathaleli, kungasathethwa ke xa ujongene nayo kwaye uyayamkela.
Le nyaniso inayo yonke into enokuyenza ngokulinganisela kunye nobume bamacala amabini obomi. Uyabona, siye saba luluntu oluzinzileyo kwimfuno yazo zonke izinto ezilungileyo- ulonwabo , impilo, ukoneliseka, uthando (kunye nezinto abantu abaninzi abacinga ukuba zilungile- ubutyebi, amandla, ubuhle). Oku, nangona kunjalo, kusenza singakulungelanga ukwamkela nantoni na embi okanye engathandekiyo.
Ngokwenyani, izinto ezininzi esizidibanisa njengezilungileyo kukuswela nje into embi ulonwabo kukuswela usizi, uxolo kukusilela kwembambano, ukwaneliseka kukuswela uxinzelelo, inkolelo kukuswela ukuthandabuza, njalo njalo .
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Ngaphezu koko, kuhlala kukho umjikelo wendalo phakathi kwezinto ezinjalo ezibangelwa yenye into ngaphandle kokuhamba kunye nokuhamba kobomi. Ulonwabo alunakuhlala ngonaphakade kuba ukudana kukusabela kwendalo kwiziganeko ezithile. Uxolo luya kuthi ekugqibeleni luye endaweni yongquzulwano, kanye njengoko inkolelo iphazanyiswa kukubuya kwamathandabuzo.
Ngaphandle kokuqonda okupheleleyo kokomoya kunye nokunyukela ngaphaya kwayo yonke into enxulunyaniswe nomzimba wengqondo yomntu ngamnye, ukuguquguquka phakathi kokulungileyo nokungalunganga kuya kwenzeka kude kube ziintsuku zethu zokufa.
Kuthetha ntoni konke oku?
Kuthetha ukuba akufuneki sizame ukubaleka kuzo zonke iimvakalelo zethu ezingalunganga kunye neemeko ezingamkelekanga kuba ziyinxalenye nje yomjikelo omkhulu obulandelwa bubomi bethu. Ukuhamba akusoloko kukukhululwa nokuba ngamaza amade kwaye amafutshane alungileyo / amabi ayenzeka.
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Unokuhamba iiveki, iinyanga, okanye iminyaka ungakhange ube nokuninzi ngendlela embi ungene kubomi emva koko ujongane nexesha elide-kwaye ngokuchaseneyo. Ukuzama ukulwa nomsinga kuhlala kuyinto engenamsebenzi.
Ke kufanelekile ukuba ndithathe yonke into endiyiphoselwa bubomi?
Uhlobo lwe, kodwa hayi ngqo.
Izinto ezimbi ziya kwehlela wena , kodwa unegunya lokukhetha indlela oza kusabela ngayo nakweyiphi na imeko. La mandla akuvumela ukuba unciphise amandla oziva ngawo kwaye bonisa iimvakalelo zakho . Ungajongana nexesha elinzima ngakumbi kwaye uliqaphele konke okukuko - isahluko ebomini bakho esiya kuphela.
Ukwazi ukuba izinto ziya kuba ngcono ngenye imini, kukodwa, lutshintsho olunamandla kwingqondo yakho, kwaye olunokukunceda ukumelana ngokusemandleni akho. Nangona kunzima njengangoku, unokuba ne-100% ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ikamva liphethe into ebhetele ngakumbi kuwe.
Oku kuyinyani kwixesha elifutshane kunye nelide. Iimvakalelo zinokuza zihambe kwisithuba esifutshane sexesha elithetha ukuba nokuba usuku lwakho luqala ngendlela eyoyikisayo, kukho ithuba lokuza kwinto engcono.
Rhoqo, ulwazi lokwazi ukuba olulandelayo lulandela okubi lukwenza ukuba uvule ngakumbi ekuboneni okuhle kwaye ulwamkele ebomini bakho.
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Kodwa ngaba oku kuthetha ukuba amaxesha amnandi kufuneka aphele?
Ewe kunjalo.
Xa unandipha ixesha elizolileyo nelimnandi ebomini bakho, yazi ukuba liyakufika esiphelweni. Unokucinga ukuba olu lwazi luya kwenza la maxesha angonwabi kangako, kodwa luqwalasele njengefowuni yokuvuka ukuze wamkele lonke ixesha elingenasiphelo ngoku.
Ukuqonda ukuba okubi kuya kulandela okulungileyo kuyintsikelelo, hayi isiqalekiso. Ukuba uhlala ekukhanyeleni kwaye ungakhathaleli uthathela ingqalelo ukuhamba kwendalo kobomi, uya kukuthatha okuhle ngokungakhathali.
Ukuba uyakwamkela ukugqithisela kokuhle uye kokubi, okwahlukileyo kuyinyani. Xa ukwinqaku eliphezulu, uya kuyixabisa yonke imizuzwana yayo usazi ukuba kufuneka iphele. Iya kukunyanzela ukuba ungene kumzuzu wangoku wokuzibandakanya nehlabathi indlela ethembekileyo nevulekileyo .
Ngaba utshintsho lube ngcono liphupha nje emva koko?
Hayi rhoqo.
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Ngamanye amaxesha silungile ukugxotha abantu abathile okanye Ukuziphatha kubomi bethu apho sinamandla anje. Ukuziphucula yinto enokwenzeka kuye wonke umntu kunye nenyani kuninzi. Sinokwenza utshintsho ngenjongo yokufumana okungcono kakhulu kuko konke okuhle, ngelixa sifunda ukumelana nokulawula ngala maxesha mabi.
Oku akuyi kuba nefuthe xa kunye nendlela amaza atshintsha ngayo (nangona inokuba njalo), kodwa iya kusenza siwaxabise amaza ngakumbi.
Ubomi, emva kwayo yonke loo nto, lutshintsho alunakuphepheka. Njengabantu, sikude ngokugqibeleleyo, kodwa sinakho ngaphakathi kwethu ukuphucula iimeko zethu ngamandla engqondo kuphela.
Sonke siyakwenza iimpazamo, sonke siyasilela ngokulusizi kwinto ethile, sonke siza kujongana namaxesha oxinzelelo olukhulu. Kodwa sonke singavuka sibuyele umva, sonke singafunda kwiziganeko, kwaye sinako sonke zikhule kwaye ziziqhelanise nabantu abangcono .
Khumbula oku: ngamanye amaxesha ebomini unokuba ngumqhubi, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka ube ngumkhweli. Nokuba uphi na ngalo naliphi na ixesha, yazi ukuba isimo sakho sengqondo senza umahluko omkhulu kwindlela oluva ngayo lonke uhambo.
