Isilumkiso: le ndlela ayizukusebenzela yonke into kwaye kufuneka izanywe kancinci, kwaye isazi ukuba ikhaka lakho linokuphakanyiswa kwakhona nangaliphi na ixesha.
Xa umntu eqala ukufumanisa ukuba zi-empath , badla ngokukhangela iindlela zokuphungula umthwalo oza ngenxa yokutsala kunye nokufunxa amandla abantu ababangqongileyo.
Ukukhuseleka kunokuba yindlela yokuqala abayisebenzisayo, kwaye isiqabu esiza xa ufunda indlela yokukhusela sinokuba sikhulu.
Ngequbuliso unokuzikhusela kumandla adinisayo ahamba ngendlela yakho.
Unokulufumana uxolo ngaphakathi kwakho, okokuqala ngqa ebomini bakho.
Yonke i-hunky dory, akunjalo?
Ewe, ngelishwa ayisosiphelo sebali.
Ukukhusela kuyasebenza kwabaninzi… okwexeshana.
ubenze njani ubomi bakho bube ngcono
Kuza inqaku, nangona kunjalo, apho ukuphatha ikhaka, kukodwa, kungumsebenzi onzima.
Khawucinge nje ngamandla asemzimbeni afunekayo ukubamba ikhaka elikhulu, elomeleleyo ngalo lonke ixesha.
Ekugqibeleni udiniwe kwaye umgudu namandla owenzileyo aqala ukugqwesa kwisibonelelo sokuyibamba.
Kukwanjalo nakwikhuselo lengqondo ukukhusela kumandla aphambukayo kwindawo ekungqongileyo.
Ekuqaleni uziva ulula kwaye uqinisekisa kakhulu, kodwa ekugqibeleni kukho indleko zokuyigcina.
Umhla unokufika xa le ndleko inkulu kunenzuzo.
Ke loluphi olunye ukhetho, unokucinga.
Ewe, kukho izinto ezi-3 onokuthi uzame endaweni yazo, kwaye unokufumana ukusebenza kwazo kuyahluka.
Akukho sisombululo silingana nesayizi-enye ke kuya kufuneka ubanike ithuba lokuya kubona ukuba bakusebenzela njani.
Guqula isihlangu sakho sibe sisihluzi
Kwezona ziseko zazo, amakhaka ayilelwe ukuba abe zizithintelo ezingenakudlula ezikwaziyo ukumisa nantoni na eza nayo.
Konke kulungile kwaye kulungile xa uzikhusela kwizinto ezinokwenzakalisa impilo yakho yasemzimbeni okanye yengqondo, kodwa inokuthintela amandla asempilweni, angenabungozi ekufikeleleni kuwe.
Kungenxa yoko le nto, endaweni yokuphakamisa ikhaka, kuya kufuneka uzame ukwenza isithintelo esinokungena njengesihluzo sokumisa amandla amabi ngelixa uvumela abanye ukuba badlule.
Okanye cinga ngenye indlela vumela ukuba icebo lokucoca ulwelo libe ngumtshini olawula ukuba ungalubeki na ukhuselo lwakho xa amandla athile esondela.
Ukuba kukho into engenabungozi ifunyenwe, unokuma phantsi kwekhaka lakho.
Ukuba kukho into enganqwenelekiyo eza kuwe, ukulungele kwaye unokuphakamisa ikhaka lakho.
Oku kuyafana nenkqubo yomzimba yokuzikhusela yomzimba eqala ngokusebenza nokuba ingaba iyisoyikiso kusini na ngaphambi kokukhetha ukulwa nayo.
Ukuba ugcina ikhaka lakho lingama-24/7, linokuhlasela izinto ezingoyikisi- kufana nokuphendula okuzenzekelayo kuhlasela ngesiqhelo, iiseli ezisempilweni emzimbeni.
Akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokwemvelo ngokufumana iimvakalelo zabanye.
Ukuziva ulusizi xa abanye bebuhlungu, okanye bonwabile xa bonwabile, kuyinto eqhelekileyo kwaye iqhelekile.
Kuxa uqala ukuthatha iimvakalelo ezingafunekiyo ezinje ngomsindo, intiyo, okanye ukuphelelwa lithemba ngokupheleleyo apho konke kunokubaninzi kakhulu.
Icebo lakho lokucoca ulwelo linokuthatha neemvakalelo zakho xa usenza isigqibo sokuba yeyiphi na intshukumo enokuthi idlule kuyo.
Ukuba ufumene ixesha elinzima kubomi bakho, unokuhlengahlengisa isihluzo sakho ukubhloka nantoni na enokwandisa imeko yakho ephantsi.
Kwelinye icala, ukuba ukwindawo entle ngokwasengqondweni, unokuvumela abanye abantu ukuba babonakalise ukubandezeleka ukuya kwinqanaba elikhulu, bekhuselekile kulwazi lokuba okwangoku ukwazi ukumelana nabo.
Okanye unokuhlengahlengisa isihluzo sakho ngokuxhomekeke kwinto ekufuneka uyenzile nangaliphi na ixesha.
Ukuba ufuna i-100% yokugxila kwakho kunye nokuqwalaselwa kwinto ethile, ngandlela zonke usete ikhaka lakho kwimowudi yamandla apheleleyo ukuvimba amandla angaphandle ngokupheleleyo.
Kodwa ukuba uhlala ujikeleza, kunokuba ngcono ucofe kwaye uthintele amandla awonakalisayo ngelixa uvumela abanye ukuba baphume.
Yiloo nto malunga nesihluzi - siyalungelelaniswa ngokweemfuno zakho nangaliphi na ixesha.
Ukulahla iShield, kodwa Jongisisa amandla angenayo
Thina bantu sihlala sikhula ukunamathela okuqinileyo kubantu ababalulekileyo nakwizinto ebomini bethu.
indlela yokwazi ubudlelwane iphela
Ayipheleli apho, nangona kunjalo side sincamathele kwizinto ezingasabalulekanga ngokwenyani, okanye ezingazange zenzeke kwasekuqaleni.
Ibali elifanayo kunye neenkalo zamandla esihlangana nazo kubomi bethu bemihla ngemihla.
Sikhawuleza sidibane nabo kwaye sibamkele njengabamnkeleyo nalapho uncamathiselo lungeyomfuneko.
Khawufane ucinge ngexesha apho wawela iindlela kunye nomntu ococekileyo (umphathi wecashier, umqhubi webhasi, okanye umntu osebenza naye) kunye nendlela le mvakalelo ebambe ngayo kuwe usuku lonke.
Isisombululo soku kukufunda inqanaba lokufumana isempilweni kumandla akho macala onke.
Ukuba ufumana uhlobo oluthile lwamandla, luchonge ukuba luyintoni, kwaye ujonge ngalo ngokungathi yinto eyahlukileyo kuwe.
Kungoko kuphela apho iya kuphulukana nayo nayiphi na impembelelo enayo kuwe.
Ewe kunjalo, kakhulu njengesihluzi sethu esivela ngasentla, sinokukhetha inqanaba lomkhosi ukufaka izinto kwizinto ezahlukeneyo.
Ukuba amandla angathandekiyo angena ebomini bethu, sinokugcina umgama ukusuka kuwo, ngokwengqondo, ukuwuthintela ukuba ungasibambi.
Ukuba, kwelinye icala, kukho into ebemnandi ngakumbi eza kuthi, singayamkela kwaye sidibane nayo (ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba) ukuze sikonwabele ukukhanya okufudumeleyo okwethutyana.
Ukuchongwa kwakhona kufuna inqanaba elithile lobungqiqo ukuze ukwazi ukwahlula ngokuchanekileyo phakathi kwento engabalulekanga okanye engabalulekanga okanye into onokuyilawula.
Eyona nto yokuba amandla kunye neemvakalelo ojongana nazo kuthetha ukuba kufuneka uvumele icala lakho elingenazimvakalelo ukuba liphathe kuqala kwaye phambili.
Ukuqina kukuvumela ukuba ujongane nabanye abantu kunye neengxaki zabo ngaphandle kokuzibambela ngokwakho kwidrama.
Unokuma umva kwaye uhlalutye imeko ngaphandle kokuchonga kuyo ngokwembono yakho.
Inkqubo yokuqina ikuvumela ukuba ulawule xa uvumela uvelwano lweemvakalelo luze ngaphambili kwaye xa unika uvelwano lokuqonda ivili lokuqhuba.
Ezi ntlobo zahlukeneyo zovelwano zinokusetyenziswa kwazo, kodwa ukukwazi ukutshintsha phakathi kwazo yeyona nto iluncedo ngakumbi kunye namandla anamandla.
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo yokufunda ngokufunda (inqaku liyaqhubeka apha ngezantsi):
- Iingcebiso ezili-17 zokuSinda kwiiMpilo kunye naBantu abaPhezulu kakhulu
- Icala elimnyama leempaths
- Iimpawu ze-4 Uyi-Impathical Impath (Ayisiyiyo nje i-Empath)
- Iimpawu ze-7 Uyi-Empath yoKhuseleko
- Imizabalazo yeemfazwe ezili-11 zijongana nesiseko semihla ngemihla
- Ukutyibilika ngokutyibilika Kokungakhathali: Isilumkiso kubo bonke abantu
Ulahle ikhuselo kwaye makaye ukungena kwamandla nokuphuma
Okokugqibela, unokukhetha ukuyeka ikhaka lakho kuzo zonke kodwa iimeko ezigabadeleyo kunye nokufumana nje amandla akungqongileyo kwifom eluhlaza.
Endaweni yokuba ungahlukani nabo njengoko ubuya kwenza ngentla, ubangenise kuwe kwaye uzive njengoko benjalo.
Kuvakala ngathi ngumbono ombi, mhlawumbi ucinga.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba unako ukugcina ukuhamba kwamandla ngaphakathi kwakho, le ndlela inokusebenza kakuhle.
Uninzi lwee-empaths zilwa neempembelelo zangaphandle kuba amandla adibana nawo, kodwa akenzi nto ukuyigcina ihamba.
Endaweni yoko, bayakhanyisa kwiimvakalelo abazifumeneyo, bevumela amandla amile kwaye angene kuwo wonke umzimba nengqondo.
Ama-Empaths ahlala ehlupheka ngamanqanaba asezantsi amandla, kwaye oku kubenza ukuba bathambekele ngakumbi ekubambeni kuwo nawaphi na amandla abanawo.
Bayoyika into eza kwenzeka ukuba bayeke loo mandla ahambe, endaweni yoko, bawagcine ngethemba lokuba iya kubaxhasa.
Ngelishwa, awungekhe ugxothe amandla afunxwe kwihlabathi langaphandle ukuba awukulungelanga ukukhupha amanye amandla akho nawo.
xa uthanda umntu kodwa ungenakuba naye
Kuyinyani ukuzama nokuzama ukugcina amandla akho njenge-empath kuba ukwenza oko kuthetha ukuba uchitha ixesha elide ujongana nazo zonke izinto ozifumileyo kwabanye.
Ukuvumela ukuba baqhubeke nendlela yabo yokuphuma kuwe kuya kuthetha ukonga ngakumbi ibhetri yakho kunokuba ulahlekelwe.
Ngaphezulu, ukuba ugcina ukuhamba kwamandla kuyo yonke loo nto, loo bhetri iyakwazi ukuzihlaziya ngokwayo njengebhetri ebonakalayo xa ikhoyo ngoku.
Enye yeendlela eziphambili zokwenza ukuhamba okugudileyo kukuba ziqhelanise nomhlaba .
Kulapho wenza unxibelelwano olunamandla kunye noMhlaba ngokwawo kwaye uvumele amandla ukuba aphume kuwe angene kuwo.
Ungasebenzisa ingqondo yakho ukucinga onke amandla angafunekiyo aphuma kuwe aye emhlabeni phantsi kweenyawo zakho.
Kwaye uqhagamshelo oluvulekileyo xa uziqhelanisa nomhlaba ngokwenyani limbini-ndlela.
Oku kuthetha ukuba ungawathatha amandla omhlaba ngokungathi isityalo sisebenza ngeengcambu zawo.
Oku kunceda ukuzalisa iivenkile zakho.
Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu xa ukhetha le ndlela kukugcina ukuhamba kwamandla ngaphakathi nangaphandle komzimba wakho kunye nengqondo.
Ukuba uyakwenza oku, liyakubakho ixesha elincinci lokuba impembelelo yabanye ikuchaphazele nangaliphi na inqanaba elikhulu ngaphambi kokuba igxothwe.
Amakhaka okobuqu angadlala indima ebalulekileyo ekuncedeni i-empath ikhokele ubomi obuqhelekileyo, kodwa ukuthembela ngaphezulu kule ndlela inye ineengxaki ezithile nayo.
Ngelixa singaze sikhuthaze nabani na ukuba aphelise ikhaka lakhe ngokupheleleyo, ezinye iimvakalelo zinokufumana ezi ndlela zingasentla ukuba ziluncedo olongezelelekileyo kwizixhobo zazo, eziza kusetyenziswa xa ubunzima obukhulu bekhaka bungazinzanga.
Ikhaka, nangona kunjalo, yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokujongana namandla angenakwenza nto ngaphandle kokukwenzakalisa kukho imikhosi eyingozi apho kwaye nokulinda ikhaka lakho yindlela ebalulekileyo yokuzikhusela.
