Ngokwenene abantu bathanda ukubenza nzima ubomi bethu.
Asizange sizenzele lula izinto.
Kwaye nangona sonke sifuna ukonwaba, senza izinto mihla le ezisithintelayo ekubeni sifikelele kuloo meko inqabileyo.
Sifaka izinto ezingaphezulu nangaphezulu kwiipleyiti zethu, sicinga ukuba ukuba sisebenza nzima ngoku kwaye siphumelele u-X, Y, no-Z, ubomi bethu buya kuba ngcono kwikamva.
Kodwa inyani ebuhlungu yeyokuba izinto esizama ukufikelela kuzo ngokuqinisekileyo ngekhe zisenze sonwabe njengoko sicinga.
Ngelixa ngokucacileyo kubalulekile ukuba ubukrelekrele kwaye ube nezicwangciso zexesha elizayo endaweni, akukho sizathu sokuba lusizi apha nangoku.
Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, lo mzuzu kuphela kwento esinayo.
Asinakuze sikwazi ukuba silindelwe ngekona okanye ukuba sishiye ixesha elingakanani kule planethi intle, ke kufuneka sikwenze ubomi bemihla ngemihla bube mnandi kangangoko.
Iindaba ezimnandi zezokuba zininzi izinto ezincinci, ezilula onokuzenza ukwenza ubomi bakho bube ngcono.
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Iindlela zokuzibonakalisa isidima sakho, ukomeleza impilo yakho, uncede abo bakungqongileyo, kwaye uzinike ithuba lokuphila obona bomi bakho bumnandi.
Nguwe kuphela owaziyo ngokwenyani ukuba loluphi utshintsho ekufuneka ulwenzile ebomini bakho, kodwa ezi ngcebiso zinokuba yindawo elungileyo ukuqala.
1. Ungalandeli abantu abakuthobelayo.
Uyazi ukuba umntu omnye kuFacebook ongaze ayeke ukukhalaza, loo mntu ku-Twitter uhlala ephikisana nawe, okanye loo mphembeleli ungenakugqibela u-Instagram owenza ukuba uzive woyike ngawe?
Vula ifowuni yakho ngoku - ngoku - kwaye ungazilandeli. Awudingi loo nto ebomini bakho.
2. Yenza amajelo eendaba ezentlalo onwabe, kodwa iindawo ezikhuthazayo.
Nje ukuba ugqibile ukungalandeli ezo mpembelelo zimbi, lixesha lokuba uye kukhangela ezinye ezilungileyo.
Khangela ujikeleze kwaye ubone ukuba ungafumanisa na abanye abachaphazeliyo abenza izinto onokungena kuzo ebhodini.
Landela izibonelelo, abakhankasayo, kunye nabantu abalwela ukulingana, ukuzinza, ubume bomzimba, okanye nokuba yeyiphi na.
Qiniseka ukuba ufumana umxube olungileyo wezithuba eziza kukhulisa imood yakho okanye ukuzithemba kwakho, kunye nezithuba eziza kukukhuthaza ukuba wenze ngcono, okanye yenza okuhle emhlabeni .
3. Nciphisa ixesha lakho kwimidiya yoluntu.
Kungenxa yokuba amajelo osasazo eendaba ezentlalo ngoku ziindawo ezilungileyo, oko akuthethi ukuba kufuneka uchithe iiyure uskrolela kuzo.
Lixesha lokuba uqale ukucinga ngemidiya yoluntu njengokulingana nokutya ukutya okucutshungulwayo, okanye imikhwa engeyiyo impilo ngokubanzi.
Ngelixa kulungile ukonwabela ukutya okunamafutha okanye okuneswekile ngoku kwaye, ngokumodareyitha, ukuba uzitya kathathu ngemini, yonke imihla, iya kuba nefuthe elibi kwimpilo yakho.
Kwangokunjalo, cinga ngemidiya yoluntu njengento ekufuneka uyonwabele ngokumodareyitha ukuyithintela ukuba ithathe impilo yakho yengqondo.
4. Yeka ukuchitha ixesha nabantu abakuhlisayo, okanye abakubambayo.
Imidiya yokuncokola yinxalenye enkulu yobomi bethu kwezi ntsuku, kodwa abantu ochitha ixesha lakho ngokwasemzimbeni babaluleke kakhulu.
Okanye kufanelekile.
Ukuba kukho umntu onefuthe elibi ebomini bakho, kwaye uhlala ekuhlisela phantsi, okanye ekuyekisa ekufezekiseni amandla akho, kwaye iinzame zakho zokuxoxa ngazo ziye zawa ezindlebeni ezingevayo, ke yenza isigqibo sokuchitha ixesha elincinci kubo.
Akufanele ulahle umhlobo wakho ukuba bayahamba ngendlela ebukhali, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo licebo elihle ukuphinda uvavanye ixesha olinikezele kwabo bantu bahlala benefuthe elibi kuwe.
5. Yithi hayi.
Ukuba imo yakho engagqibekanga ithi ewe kuyo yonke into kuba awufuni ukudanisa wonke umntu okanye unengxaki kwi-FOMO enkulu, lixesha lokuba uqale ngokuthi hayi.
Qalisa kancinci.
Kule veki, yithi hayi kwinto enye nokuba awunalo ixesha lokwenza kakuhle.
Okanye, yithi hayi kwinto enye ethi, entliziyweni yakho yeentliziyo, awufuni kuyenza.
Emva koko, qala ukwakha ii-nos zakho.
Sukuthi hayi kuyo yonke into ngenxa yayo, kodwa yithi hayi kwizinto oxakeke kakhulu ukuba ungazibophelela kuzo, okanye ongonwabanga ngazo.
6. Yithi ewe.
Kwelinye icala, ukuba indlela yakho emiselweyo kukungavumi ukuzama izinto ezintsha, ukudibana nabantu abatsha, okanye ukuphuma nabahlobo, ke ukuqala ukuthi ewe kungenza umahluko obonakalayo ebomini bakho.
Zityhalele ngaphandle kuloo ndawo intuthuzelo. Phuma ujikeleze, kwaye ube phakathi kwabantu. Wamkele amathuba.
7. Sela ulwelo olwaneleyo.
Eminye yemicimbi onayo inokuba iphantsi kwinto elula njengokuphelelwa ngamanzi emzimbeni.
Uninzi lwethu aluseli nantoni na efana nolwelo olwaneleyo yonke imihla. Sela iglasi yamanzi ngento yokuqala kusasa kwaye usele okuninzi ngakumbi ngalo lonke usuku.
Iti yemifuno ziindlela ezilungileyo zokufumana ulwelo oluninzi kuwe.
8. Yondla umzimba wakho.
Njengokuba unokucinga ukuba ukutya okuswiti, okunetyuwa, okanye okunamafutha kuyathuthuzela kwaye kukwenza uzive ungcono, into ekhaliswa ngumzimba wakho sisiqhamo esitsha kunye nemifuno.
Ukondla umzimba wakho ngokutya okutsha, kwendalo yindlela eqinisekileyo yomlilo yokwenza ukuba uzive ungcono.
Ungaze uzilambise ngeesaladi ezincinci, kodwa yongeza ipleyiti yakho ephezulu ngezithako ezimibalabala.
Ungalibali ukutya imifuno yakho, kunye nokuninzi kwabo.
9. Musa ukuhlala uziphika ukutya 'okubi'.
Isiqhamo esitsha kunye neveg kufuneka zenze icandelo elungileyo lokutya kwakho, kodwa akufuneki rhoqo uzikhanyele konke ukutya ofundiswe ukuba ukubone 'kukubi' okanye 'kubi.'
Ukubeka isibhengezo ngengubo kuko konke ukutya okuthandayo kuya kukukhathaza.
Qiniseka ukuba uyazinyanga ngokwakho kwaye kwakhona ngaphandle kokuziva unetyala, kwaye uzonwabele ngokwenene iincasa xa usenza.
Chitha ixesha kunye nezilwanyana.
Izifundo ezininzi baye bagqiba kwelokuba abantu abanezilwanyana zasekhaya bonwabe ngakumbi kunabo bangenazo.
Ke, ukuba unomhlobo onoboya, yenza umgudu wokuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye nabo. Ukuphulula nje isilwanyana kunokuba ngokukhululeka okukhulu.
Ukuba awunaso isilwanyana sasekhaya, esi ayisosizathu sokukhawuleza uphume usamkele. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ubunini bezilwanyana luxanduva olukhulu.
Kodwa ukuba ubusoloko uyifuna inja kwaye ubusoloko uyibeka ecaleni, kwaye uyazi ukuba unganika isilwanyana esidinga ukwamkelwa ikhaya elilungileyo, ungaqala ukukujonga.
Kodwa awudingi isilwanyana sakho ukuchitha ixesha kunye nezilwanyana. Nikezela ngokujonga inja yomhlobo wakho, okanye indlu hlala umhlobo nezilwanyana kwiholide yakho elandelayo.
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Chitha ixesha kwiindawo ezinkulu zangaphandle.
Abantu babengadalelwanga ukuba bahlale ezixekweni. Phuma edolophini uye emaphandleni.
Mamela izandi, uxabise imibala, kwaye uve umoya okanye ilanga kulusu lwakho.
Chitha ixesha wedwa.
Le yeyona nto unokuyidibanisa nenqaku elidlulileyo, kodwa naphi na apho uchitha ixesha wedwa, qiniseka ukuba ulilenza ixesha elifanelekileyo.
Ngamanye amaxesha, sidinga nje indawo yethu yokuhlala phantsi siqwalasele yonke into eyenzekayo ebomini bethu.
Ziphathe ngokwakho ngokuhlwa ngaphakathi, ngesigqumathelo sobuso kunye nefilimu oyithandayo.
Zibhukishele iholide yakho wedwa. Thatha usuku lwakho lodwa. Yiya kwi-cinema.
Ukuchitha ixesha uwedwa kunokukunceda uphinde unxibelelane nendlela oziva ngayo, kwaye ufumane ukucaciseleka okungcono malunga nezinto oziqhubayo ebomini bakho.
13. Yolula.
Zolule ezo zihlunu. Chukumisa iinzwane zakho. Okanye zama ukuchukumisa iinzwane zakho. Phinda uqhagamshele kunye nomzimba wakho, kwaye ulahle ezinye zezo zinto zakha uxinzelelo.
14. Ukuzilolonga.
Ayinamsebenzi nokuba loluphi na uhlobo lomthambo owenzayo, ukufumana ukubetha kwentliziyo yakho kuya kuhlala kukwenza uzive ungcono.
Qubha, baleka, hamba, danisa, tsiba, ukhwele, okanye wenze nje into ekwenza ukuba ukhuthele uyonwabele.
Awusoze uzisole ngokuzilolonga, kodwa usenokuzisola ngokungakwenzi.
15. Lala kwangethuba.
Mhlawumbi awufumani ukulala ngokwaneleyo. Ukuya kulala nje kwangoko kunokwenza umahluko omkhulu kubomi bakho.
Zininzi izibonelelo zokufumana ubuthongo obumnandi ebusuku, kubandakanya ukuba namandla ngakumbi, ukungalingwa kukutya okungenampilo, kunye nokuba kwimeko elungileyo.
16. Nciphisa ukusebenzisa kwakho iplastiki.
Ufuna ukuziva ubhetele malunga nawe kunye nemeko yeplanethi?
Qalisa ukwenza isuntswana lakho ukunqanda umsinga weplastiki ngokufumana iindlela zokunciphisa ukusebenzisa kwakho iplastiki.
Iiplastiki azilunganga kwiplanethi kwaye azilunganga kuthi, kwaye kuphela ipesenti encinci yazo iphinde iphinde isetyenziswe, ke qala ukubeka amandla akho ekunciphiseni isixa seplastiki esetyenziswayo ebomini bakho.
17. I-Declutter.
Ukuba nezinto ezininzi kakhulu kunokuba nzima kumntu. Zikhulule ngokususa zonke izinto ongazifuniyo.
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Nokuba unikele ngengxowa enye yeempahla ezingafunekiyo uyakukhulula indawo ebomini bakho.
18. Fowunela umhlobo.
Ubomi bumalunga nobudlelwane esinabo nabanye abantu. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha siyakulibala oko, kwaye sityeshele abona bantu babalulekileyo ebomini bethu.
Fowunela umhlobo. Fowunela isizalwane. Tsalela umama wakho umnxeba.
19. Ncoma umhlobo.
Ngexesha elizayo xa ucinga ukuba umntu ujongeka emhle ngokukodwa okanye enze umsebenzi olungileyo kwinto ethile, baxelele nje.
Iya kuyenza imini yabo, kwaye ukwazi oko kuya kukwenza uzive ungcono nawe.
20. Funda into.
Njengoko sikhula, sihlala sihamba ngokufunda kwethu. Kodwa kukwindalo yethu ukusoloko sifuna ukufunda kunye nokufunxa ulwazi olutsha, kungenjalo siyadikwa.
Ke, zithengele incwadi ngesihloko onomdla kuzo.
Bhalisela ikhosi ekwi-Intanethi, okanye kwikhosi yangokuhlwa.
Nokuba konke kuyethiyori okanye ufunda into esebenzayo, uya kufumana ulwaneliseko oluhle ngokwandisa ulwazi lwakho.
21. Ziqhelanise nombulelo.
Ukujolisa kwizinto onombulelo kuzo kunokuguqula indlela ocinga ngayo, nantoni na onayo.
Zama ukubhala phantsi izinto ezintathu onombulelo kuzo namhlanje, okanye ngokubanzi.
Gxila kuyo yonke into oyenzayo yenza unayo, kwaye onke amaxhala ngento ongenayo aya kunyibilika.
22. Xolela umntu.
Ukuba ubamba ingqumbo komnye umntu, oyena mntu ubandezelekileyo nguwe.
Ukuxolela umntu oko akuthethi ukuba kufuneka uzilibale izinto ezenzekileyo, kodwa kuthetha ukuba ungazibeka emva kwakho kwaye ujike iphepha elitsha.
2. 3. Zixolele.
Ukuba ubuzibetha ngokwakho ngenxa yento oyenzileyo okanye ongakhange uyenze, lixesha lokuba uyiyeke ihambe.
Yamkela ukuba awukwazi ukutshintsha okudlulileyo, qaphela into oyifundileyo kwiimpazamo zakho, kwaye uqale ukuba nobubele kuwe.
24. Yenza into entle.
Ukuba ukulahlekelwa lukholo eluntwini , ufuna isikhumbuzi sokuba kukho okuhle emhlabeni, kwaye unokuba sisikhumbuzo.
Ndimele kulinda ixesha elingakanani ukuthandana kwakhona
Yenza isenzo sobubele kumntu othile. Akukho mvakalelo ingcono.
Isenzo esinye sobubele phantse sihlala sikhokelela kwesinye, ke uya kwazi ukuba usete ikhonkco lokulunga, ekufuneka ibe yintuthuzelo nakwezona ntsuku zimnyama.
25. Thatha indlela ephezulu.
Ngexesha elizayo xa ungena kukungavumelani nomntu, nokuba buqu okanye ubungcali, sukuhendeka ukuba ubhenele kwizibetho ezisezantsi.
Thatha indlela ephezulu, kwaye uginye ikratshi lakho, kunokuba ungene kwingxabano ngento engafanelekanga ngokwenene.
26. Qalisa ukukhangela umsebenzi.
Ukuba awonwabanga okanye uzalisekisiwe ngokomsebenzi, yenza into malunga naloo nto.
Qala ukukhangela umsebenzi onokonwaba ngokwenene ngawo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, asinakuba nayo yonke imisebenzi enomdla kakhulu, kodwa sonke kufuneka sikwazi ukonwabela into esiyenzayo yonke imihla kwaye sifumane ukwaneliseka kuyo ngendlela yethu.
Qalisa ukukhupha iimvakalelo zamathuba amatsha emisebenzi, kancinci kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo, okanye uqalise ukuqaphela ezinye iindlela, njengokuzenzela.
27. Funda iindaba.
Ukufunda iindaba kunokuba yindlela elula kodwa esebenzayo yokubeka ubomi bethu kwindawo efanelekileyo.
Nokuba kwenzeka ntoni, inyani yokuba ufunda oku kuthetha ukuba ungcono kakhulu kunabantu abaninzi emhlabeni.
Kodwa sukujonga kuphela iindaba ezimbi, okanye awuzukuziva ungcono kakhulu. Yenza inqaku lokukhangela iindaba ezimnandi, nazo, ukukukhumbuza ukuba kukho abantu abamangalisayo phaya, kwaye kuhlala kukho ithemba.
28. Qala incwadi elungileyo.
Uyayazi loo mvakalelo yokuntywila ngokupheleleyo kwincwadi elungileyo, kwaye ungabinakho ukuyibeka phantsi?
Yenye yezona zinto zivuyisa kakhulu ebomini.
Ukuba uyakuthanda ukufunda kodwa khange ulenze ixesha lakho mva nje, fumana izandla zakho kwincwadi owaziyo ukuba uya kuyithanda.
Ziphathe ngokwakho loo nto kudala uyifuna.
Njengokuba ulonwabo lwethu lungaxhomekekanga kwizinto eziphathekayo, akukho nto inokuphika ukuba ngamanye amaxesha izinto esizithengayo ziyabuphucula ubomi bethu okanye zonyuse ulonwabo lwethu.
Sukwenza oko ngochulumanco lokuthenga nje into osandula ukuyikhupha kuloliwe evenkileni…
… Yenzele ukuziva uthenge into enye okhe wajongana nayo kangangeenyanga, okanye nokuba yiminyaka.
Yenza into oyaziyo ukuba uya kuyisebenzisa ngalo lonke ixesha.
30. Xelela umntu ukuba uyamthanda.
Nabani na uluva uthando, nokuba ngumhlobo, ilungu losapho, okanye iqabane, baxelele nje. Ilula njengoko kunjalo.
Ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba ungabenza njani ubomi bakho bube ngcono? Ngaba ufuna ingcebiso ethile? Thetha kumqeqeshi wobomi namhlanje onokuhamba kwinkqubo. Cofa nje apha ukudibanisa nenye.
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