Ubomi bunokuba nzima. Ngokwenene erhabaxa, ngamanye amaxesha.
Ingaziva ngathi unengxaki yokubamba umphefumlo wakho.
Abantu bayakuphoxa, iiplani ziyaphazamiseka, kwaye amaphupha anokuqhekeka phantsi koxinzelelo kunye nesiphithiphithi sayo yonke loo nto.
Oko akuthethi ukuba kufuneka uhlale ulixhoba lemeko okanye uvumele ubomi bakho budlule kuwe!
Unokuthatha inyathelo lokuqala, ufumane uxolo lwakho kunye nokonwaba, kwaye ulandele into oyifunayo.
Ke, makhe sithethe malunga nendlela yokufumana ubomi bakho kunye kube kanye!
1. Thetha, kodwa yeka ukukhalaza ngokugqithiseleyo.
Nantsi into abantu abangazukukuxelela yona- ukumamela umntu ungakhalazi ngokungagungqiyo ngobomi okanye isikhundla sabo siyakutsala, ikakhulu yinkcitho yexesha, kwaye okunokwenzakalisa ekuhambeni kwexesha.
Abantu ngokubanzi bazabalazela umhlaba ophakathi bayanqwala ngentlonipho kwaye bathi, 'Kubi kakhulu oko.' njengoko umhlobo wabo ekhalaza ngemeko yabo kwithuba lamashumi amabini.
… Kwaye akukho nto yexabiso ifezekileyo.
Ngaba oko kuthetha ukuba akufuneki uthethe ngeengxaki zakho konke konke?
Hayi!
Kodwa yicacise ukuba kutheni uthetha kwasekuqaleni.
- Ngaba uthetha nje ukuthetha?
- Ngaba uzama ukuqhubekeka neemvakalelo ezinxulumene nengxaki onayo?
- Ngaba ujonge izisombululo?
Mininzi imiyalezo ekuziphuculeni kunye nendawo yempilo yengqondo ekuxelela ukuba uthethe ngento oziva ngayo.
Nangona kunjalo eli ayisoloko ingcebiso elungileyo.
Kwisayikholoji, irumum kuxa umntu eqhubeka nokuhamba kwizinto ezingalunganga ebomini bakhe, ephindaphinda-phinda-phinda, ebangela ukuba bangene nzulu kwiingxaki zabo.
Ukukhanya kweengxaki zakho kunokubangela uxinzelelo, uxinzelelo kwaye kubangele uxinzelelo olongezelelekileyo.
Kwaye konke oko kukukhalaza ngaphandle kwenjongo eyakhayo.
Ngazo zonke iindlela, phuma xa ufuna ukuphuma, kodwa khumbula ukuba abantu abakungqongileyo baneengxaki zabo zokujongana nazo.
Qiniseka ukuba ukhona kubo, okanye uya kufumanisa ukuba bayanyamalala.
Esi sisifundo esingalunganga, esingathandekiyo ukuba sifunde ngendlela enzima.
2. Phila ubomi bakho ngokukuko endaweni yokuba uphinde usebenze.
Ngaba uyalibazisa?
Uninzi lwabantu luyenza.
Sibekela kude kube ngomso oko sinokukufeza namhlanje!
Ingxaki kukuzibekel 'amangomso kukuba ikunika ithuba lokulibala ukwenza izinto ezibalulekileyo okanye ibavumele ukuba bafumbe kude kube ngumqobo wengxaki ojika waba yintaba.
Kwaye ke ushiyekile ukukrokrela ukuzama ukwenza izinto zihlangane ngelixa ujongene neengxaki ezongezelelweyo ukungasebenzi kwakho okwenzileyo.
Ukukhetha ukungenzi nto kuthetha ukuba isigqibo siya kwenziwa kuwe nangayiphi na imikhosi yangaphandle ekutyhalelayo.
Kufuneka wenze ntoni endaweni yoko?
Phila ngokuqhubekayo.
Fumana izinto ezifezekileyo ekufuneka uzenzile ngokukhawuleza ukuze uzicime engqondweni yakho kwaye uqhubele phambili kwizinto ezibaluleke ngakumbi.
Imveliso elula ongayisebenzisa ngoku 'yiMithetho eMihlanu.'
Ukuba inokwenziwa phantsi kwemizuzu emihlanu, yenza nje loo nto kwangoko kwaye iya kuphuma endleleni yakho unaphakade.
Elula, akunjalo?
Musa ukulinda de kube ngumzuzu wokugqibela. Ukuba uyayenza loo nto, ubomi buza kukunyanzela ukuba uhambe ngeendlela ongafuni ukuba kuzo.
Yiba nenxaxheba . Yenzani into ekufuneka niyenzile ngokukhawuleza ukuba niyenze.
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3. Lungelelana. Umbutho yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yempumelelo.
Kutheni ulungelelwaniso lubaluleke kangaka?
Ewe, ukuba ufuna ukwakha nantoni na yento kunye nomgangatho, kuya kuthatha ixesha kunye nolwalathiso.
Umbutho ubalulekile ekucwangciseni nasekuqhubekeni kwesicwangciso.
Masithi ubufuna ukwakha isakhiwo. Awufuni ukuba oombane bakho babonise ukufakela izibane ngaphambi kokuba abasebenzi bathulule isiseko, akunjalo?
Umbutho ukwadibana nokuphila ubomi bokuzibandakanya.
Kungenxa yombutho kunye nokubekwa phambili kwizinto onokuzicwangcisa Intoni kufuneka yenziwe kwaye nini (ukuba ayisiyonto efuna ukuphathwa kwangoko).
Mhlawumbi yinto ekufuneka ujongane nayo kwiveki ezayo.
Mhlawumbi unomhla wokugqibela kwinyanga kude.
Mhlawumbi kufuneka wenze ugcino-mali kwiinyanga ezintathu ukusukela ngoku.
Fumana indlela yombutho ekusebenzela, nokuba kukugcina izinto zicocekile okanye zamkele isiphithiphithi kuba uyazi ukuba ushiye amatyala ekufuneka ehlawulwe kwimfumba kuba kulapho uhlala ubeka khona amatyala!
Awudingi ukuhlala kwimeko yokucoceka kweklinikhi ukuvuna izibonelelo zombutho.
4. Zibekele usukelo olufutshane, oluphakathi nolwexesha elide.
Isakhono sokuzibekela iinjongo sinokukukhokelela apho ufuna ukuba khona ebomini bakho.
Nazi iintlobo ezininzi zeenjongo ebomini, kodwa zonke zinokwahlulwahlulwa ngokweendidi ezintathu.
Iinjongo zexesha elide zibonelela ngendawo ohamba kuyo.
Iinjongo zexesha eliphakathi zikunceda ukulinganisa inkqubela phambili kwaye wenze ukuqonda kwamaqoqo eenjongo zexesha elifutshane osele uzikhuphile.
Kwaye iinjongo zexesha elifutshane ziindlela ezizezinye ezikuthwala kuhambo lwakho lokufezekisa iinjongo zakho kunye nempumelelo yexesha elide.
Ukumisela iinjongo akufuneki kube yinkqubo entsonkothileyo…
Konke okufuneka ukwenze kukukhetha injongo enye yexesha elide kwaye ubuyisele injineli kwindlela oza kuyifeza ngayo loo njongo.
I-intanethi ilungile ngokwenza olo phando kuba unokufunda kubantu esele beyenzile into efanayo:
Ungaqala ngaphi?
Yintoni ekufuneka uyenzile ukufikelela kule njongo?
Yeyiphi imigibe enokubakho yokulandela loo njongo?
Luhlobo luni lwezixhobo kunye nolwazi olufunekayo ukufezekisa loo njongo?
Ungazifumana phi ezo zixhobo kunye nolwazi?
Abanye abantu bathanda ukwahlula iinjongo zabo zibe ziinqumlo zexesha…
Ndifuna ubomi bam bube njani kwiinyanga ezintandathu? Unyaka? Iminyaka emihlanu? Iminyaka elishumi? Ndingayiphumeza njani loo njongo kwangelo xesha?
5. Sika abantu abanetyhefu ebomini bakho.
“Ungumndilili wabantu abahlanu ochitha ixesha elininzi nabo.”
Loo ntetho yalatha kwindlela abantu esisingqongileyo esinefuthe ngayo kubomi bethu.
Kodwa iya nzulu kunoko.
Kunzima ukugcina isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo kwaye uhlale ugxile kwiinjongo zakho ukuba ungqongwe nguwe Ikrakra , abantu abathandabuzayo.
Kunzima ukwenza inkqubela phambili ukuba abantu obungqonge nabo bahlala bekujongela phantsi okanye iinzame zakho.
Oko akuthethi ukuba kuya kufuneka unqumle ubudlelwane nawo wonke umntu ongavumelani nawe.
Igama elithi 'ityhefu' liphoswa kwindawo ekude kakhulu, ngakumbi kubantu abanokuthetha into efuna ukuthethwa, kodwa ayisiyiyo le ufuna ukuyiva.
Umntu onetyhefu yokwenene ngumntu owenza into engalunganga kwintlalo-ntle yakho.
Oko kunokuba ngumzamo obalwayo, kodwa amaxesha ngamaxesha kunokuba kunjalo, ngumntu otshona nzima kwiingxaki zakhe okanye ukungasebenzi kakuhle kangangokuba konakalisa abantu ababangqongileyo.
Kubalulekile ukuba nobubele kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ukuqonda.
Kukwabalulekile ukuba nemida elungileyo kubudlelwane bakho ukuqinisekisa ukuba abantu abanetyhefu abanako ukubukhulisa ubomi bakho kunye nolonwabo.
6. Yikhathalele impilo yakho.
Uninzi lwabantu lunokuma ukuze lukhathalele ngcono impilo yabo yomzimba.
Ukutya okusempilweni, ukulala ngokwaneleyo, kunye nokuzilolonga rhoqo kunokunika izibonelelo ezimangalisayo zokuziva uphile qete, impilo yengqondo kunye neemvakalelo.
Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, kunzima kangakanani ukuba uzive wonwabile ngobomi kunye nesiqu sakho ukuba uhlala uziva uphantsi kwaye ubuthathaka.
Ngokuchasene nenkolelo edumileyo, umntu akadingi kuphila ubomi obubiza kakhulu kunye nendlela yokuphila yendalo ukuze afumane ezinye zezi zibonelelo.
Amanyathelo amancinci, njengokunciphisa iswekile kunye ne-caffeine, anokuwaphucula onke amandla akho, kukunceda ulale ebusuku , kwaye uze nomzimba wakho kwindawo esempilweni.
Kukho inani lokutya okucutshungulwayo okulayishwe nje kwiswekile ecocekileyo enefuthe elibi emzimbeni wakho.
Yenza ixesha ngosuku lwakho lokuzilolonga. Nokuba uhambe ngemizuzu engama-20 amaxesha ambalwa ngeveki ubonelela ngezibonelelo ezininzi ngemveliso yakho yemichiza yangaphakathi, impilo yentliziyo, kunye nempilo yengqondo.
Ukuzilolonga kuyanceda ekuphuculeni umgangatho wokulala, ococa isibonelelo esihle sempilo yakho yasemzimbeni nasengqondweni.
7. Yenza izinto ezininzi ezihambelana nomnqweno wakho.
Abantu bafuna uhlobo oluthile lothando ebomini babo.
Kwaye eyona ndlela yokufumana olo thando kukuzilolonga kwimililo yakho kwaye wenze ngakumbi kwezo zinto.
Ewe kubalulekile ukuba ukwazi ukuzenzela kwaye uphile ubomi bakho.
Kodwa kukho umntu ngamnye kuthi umzobi wolunye uhlobo, elangazelela ubuchule bokuyila, ukukhuthaza iimvakalelo kunye nengqondo, kunye nokudala.
Mhlawumbi unokufumana ukwaneliseka emsebenzini wakho okanye emsebenzini wakho, okanye mhlawumbi awukwazi.
Ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba ungayifumana phi, vele ubuze:
Uthanda ukwenza ntoni?
Ngaba ikhona into oyenzayo?
Ngaba wenza okwaneleyo ngayo?
Ngaba ukhangele phambili kuyo?
Ukuba awuyenzi, kutheni ungayenzi kwakhona?
Ngaba umntu othile wayengenabubele kuwe malunga nento oziva uyithandayo?
Ewe, ixesha lokungahoyi loo tyhefu kwaye wamkele ukuthanda kwakho. Yenza into, udlale umdlalo, funda incwadi!
Yenza ngakumbi nangayiphi na into ebeka umlilo wakho!
Kubaluleke kakhulu kwimpilo yakho yengqondo kunye neemvakalelo ukulinganisa umsebenzi wakho kunye nokudlala okwaneleyo.
Ngaphandle koko, uvutha nje uzitshise kwaye ube nobunzima ngakumbi xa ilixesha lokwenza umsebenzi omninzi.
Awunomdla nantoni na? Awukhumbuli ukuba uzimisele ngantoni? Khetha nantoni na onomdla kuyo kwaye uyizame okomzuzwana!
8. Sebenzela ukuvavanya, ukuqonda ngcono, kwaye wamkele ukuba ungubani.
Inkulu kakhulu, akunjalo?
Ukuziqonda, makungathethi nokuzamkela ngokwakho, kuhlala kuluhambo olude lokuphelisa iingcinga ezinzima, iimvakalelo kunye neengcinga ngawe.
Uhambo lokuzithanda kunye nokwamkelwa yeyona nto ibalulekileyo.
Ukwazi ukuvuka ekuseni kwaye uzithande ukuba ungubani, uza nantoni na etafileni, kwaye uphile ubomi bakho ekunyanisekeni kwakho yinto enamandla enokukunceda ukukhokelela apho ufuna ukuba khona.
Oku kubophelela ekufumaneni iinkanuko zakho kunye nokuvula eyona inkulu wena Oko kungangcwatywa kakuhle phantsi kwenkohlakalo yabanye abantu okanye ukungakhathali kwehlabathi.
Kwaye yiyo loo nto kufuneka uthathe ixesha ukuya zazi .
Kuya kufuneka ukuba uxobule ngononophelo umaleko wezo zinto ukuze ufumanise ukuba ungubani kanye kanye nokuba kutheni ungumntu onguye.
Ubomi bunzima. Ubomi abuhlali bulungile . Ezininzi kwenzeka izinto ezimbi kubantu abangafanelekanga kwaye loo mava aya kushiya uphawu lwabo.
Kodwa la mava obomi mabi ayinguye umntu onguye.
Ziyinxalenye yakho, ziyinxalenye yakho ekufuneka ukwazi ukuyiqonda kwaye uyamkele… kodwa ayingoyiyo le nto uyiyo.
9. Yeka ukuleqa ulonwabo lwangaphandle kunye nokuqinisekiswa. Ziqhelise ukubulela.
Ukuleqa ulonwabo lwangaphandle kunye ukungqinisisa kufana nokubaleka kumatshini wokunyathela ukuzama ukubamba iminqathe ejingayo ngaphambili.
Luhlanga olungapheliyo olungayi ndawo.
Ngoba?
Kuba ulonwabo esiluleqayo ngohlobo lwezinto zangaphandle ayilulo ulonwabo lwenene.
Oko sikuleqayo xa sithenga into entsha, sibeka into emzimbeni wethu, okanye sifuna ulonwabo lwangaphandle yidosi yexeshana ye-endorphins kunye ne-dopamine.
Ukuba kuphela ndinayo le nto, ndingavuya.
Ukuba kuphela bendinayo, ndingavuya.
Mhlawumbi okwexeshana…
Kodwa kungekudala okanye kamva uyakudikwa yile nto kwaye emva koko uqalise ukukhangela ukonyusa okulandelayo kokuziva ulungile kwimichiza yobuchopho.
Isitshixela kumjikelo ombi wokufuna izinto ngenxa yokuba nezinto kuba sicinga ukuba ezo zinto ziya kusinika ulonwabo…
… Kodwa ayizukuyenza.
Oko akuthethi ukuba imali nezinto azinakho ukubonelela ngolonwabo. Ukucinga ngenye indlela kuyahlekisa.
Abanye abantu abonwabanga kuba bengenako ukuhlala okanye ukufumana uncedo abaludingayo.
Kwaye oko kuyaqondakala kuba ayithengi zinto nje ukuthenga izinto kwaye wonwabe.
Oko kukwazi ukuqhuba kwaye uphile ubomi bakho, ekufuneka ibe yinjongo kuwo wonke umntu.
Awuyi kufumana ulonwabo ngokuleqa ngaphandle.
Ulonwabo yinto ezolileyo, enoxolo. Yinto oyifumanayo xa uqala ukuba ulungile kuwe kwaye uphi ngoku kunye noko unayo.
Oko akuthethi ukuba awufanele uzame ngaphezulu. Musa nje ukungeniswa kumgibe wokucinga ukuba izinto ziya kukonwabisa.
10. Thatha amanyathelo. Yenza izinto.
Uyazi ukuba yintoni embi kunokungaphumeleli?
Ungenzi nto.
Ukwenza nto akuqinisekisi ukuba awuyi kuphumelela kwinto ofuna ukuyifeza.
Ngazo zonke iindlela, thatha ixesha lokucwangcisa kwaye ujonge indlela yakho, kodwa ke uphume uye apho wenze izinto.
Baninzi kakhulu abantu abachitha ixesha elininzi bekhathazeka ngenxa yeenkcukacha ezincinci ukuzama ukufikelela kwisigqibo esifanelekileyo.
Konke abakwenzayo kukuchitha ixesha elixabisekileyo ngempahla ongenakufumana ngaphezulu.
Xa sele ihambile, ihambile.
Yenza ke izinto.
Ewe, uya kusilela kwezinye zazo. Ukusilela akunakuphepheka.
Unokukhetha ukuyoyika kwaye ujonge njengokuma okumileyo okukhulu, okanye ungakhetha ukujonga ukusilela njengenyathelo lendlela yempumelelo.
Ngokuzama nokungaphumeleli, ufunda izinto ezingasebenziyo, ezikuvumela ukuba ucoce indlela yakho kwaye wakhe kwisicwangciso sakho.
Ngapha koko, ufunda xa uphuma phandle wenze izinto.
Amava ngqo angaba ngutitshala omkhulu.
Musa ukoyika ukusilela. Guqula olo loyiko lube sisizathu sokuphumelela.
Kwaye sukuvumela umbono wokungaphumeleli ukuphazamise ekuqhubekeni nezinto ozifunayo ebomini.
Amaxesha amaninzi izinto azihambi njengoko bekucwangcisiwe, kwaye kulungile. Akuthethi ukuba abanakuhamba kakuhle okanye ukubuyela umva kukuphela kwenkqubela yakho.
Ayisiyo siphelo ixesha elide ukuba uphume kwaye uqhubeke uzama.
11. Ukulibaziseka ukuzanelisa.
Ukonwaba kwanamhlanje kumnandi, kodwa ukuba oko kuthetha ukuba kufuneka uncame amaphupha akho exesha elizayo, ngekhe kulunge.
Ngamanye amaxesha kuya kufuneka uxhathise ukuqhuba kwakho kwendalo ukwandisa ulonwabo kumzuzu wangoku usazi ukuba ukwenza njalo kuya kukusa kufutshane nobomi ngokwenene Ndifuna.
Oku kunokuthetha ukubeka imali bucala ngolunye usuku kunokuyichitha kwinto onokuyonwabela okwethutyana ngoku.
Endaweni yokusela kakhulu kunokuba ubufanelwe kukusela ngoLwesihlanu ebusuku, unokuxuba kwiziselo ezinxilisayo ukuze usebenze kwaye wonwabele uMgqibelo wakho.
Ukuthi hayi kwiziyunguma zentlalo ukuze ufunde ngokuzimisela kuvavanyo oluzayo kukunika elona thuba lifanelekileyo lokufumana amanqaku amahle.
Ukugqithisa ithuba ngoku kunokukhokelela kumathuba angcono kamva.
Kufanelekile ukuba ukhumbule ukuba kwixesha elizayo xa uziva unomdla wokubeka ulonwabo lwexesha elifutshane ngaphambi kolonwabo lwexesha elide.
12. Phuhlisa inkqubo esebenzayo.
Izinto ozenzayo mihla le ngaphandle kokucinga ngazo - yinto yakho yesiqhelo leyo.
Kodwa iquka ntoni ngoku?
Kwaye ngaba ezo zinto ziyakunceda ukudibanisa ubomi bakho?
Isiqhelo esihle seso sijongana nayo yonke imisebenzi emincinci kodwa eyimfuneko yemihla ngemihla.
Ukwenza ezi zinto zenziwe ngokufanelekileyo kwaye ngaphandle kokusilela kuthetha ukuba azakhi kwaye zilinganise ingqondo yakho.
Isiqhelo sithatha uxinzelelo kwingqondo yakho yokucinga. Endaweni yokuba uhlale uxhalaba malunga nezinto ekufuneka zenziwe, uyazi nje ngokuba uhlala uzenza ngamaxesha athile okanye ngeentsuku ezithile.
Unokubeka ubusuku bangoLwesithathu nangoMgqibelo njengexesha lokuhlamba.
NgeCawa emva kwemini kunokuba kukufumana yonke imbalelwano kunye nobomi bobuntu obufana nokuhlaziya i-inshurensi okanye ukwenza izicwangciso zokuhamba.
Isiqhelo esisebenzayo sigcina ubomi bakho buhamba kakuhle kwaye sikwenza oko ngaphandle komzamo omkhulu owongezelelekileyo kwicala lakho.
13. Cinga ngenyameko malunga nezigqibo zakho.
Wenza amakhulukhulu, mhlawumbi amawaka ezigqibo veki nganye.
Ezinye zikhulu, zininzi zincinci.
Kodwa ezo zigqibo zinokuchaphazela indlela obuqhubeka ngayo ubomi bakho.
Isigqibo ngasinye osenzayo sinesiphumo. Kwaye eso siphumo sinokukunceda okanye cha.
Xa kufikwa kwizigqibo ezibaluleke ngokwenene ebomini, sukuzikhawulezisa.
Thatha ixesha lakho lokulinganisa izinto ezahlukeneyo onokukhetha kuzo, ubuhle kunye neengozi zalowo nalowo, ukuze ukwazi ukwenza ukhetho olufanelekileyo kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
Qiniseka ukuba cinga nzulu malunga nolwazi olufanelekileyo kwisigqibo. Sukuthathela ingqalelo ingcebiso zabanye kuba ucinga ukuba bayayazi le nto bathetha ngayo.
Oko kwathiwa, nje ukuba uqwalasele zonke iinketho ngononophelo, yenza isigqibo. Musa ukubambeka kuhlalutyo ukukhubazeka.
Ukuphucula ubuchule bakho bokwenza izigqibo kunokwenza ubomi bakho bukhokelele kwicala elilungileyo.
14. Zityhale.
Unokucinga ukuba usebenza nzima, kodwa amaxesha amaninzi kukho itanki lakho elinokusetyenziswa kakuhle.
Ngelixa isenokungabi sisisombululo sexesha elide kwiingxaki zakho, ngamanye amaxesha unokubeka nje iiyure ezongezelelweyo ukwenza izinto.
Nokuba oko kukucela ixesha elongezelelekileyo okanye ukuqala icala ukuba uphume emngxunyeni onemali, okanye uchithe impelaveki yakho uvuselela igumbi lokuhlambela elingafanelanga injongo, uya kumangaliswa yindlela onzima ngayo ukuzityhala.
Awunakuyiqonda, kodwa ungumntu owomeleleyo onokunyamezela ubunzima bomzimba nobokwengqondo obudingeka ngamanye amaxesha ukwenza izinto.
15. Injongo yeNkqubela phambili, hayi ukugqibelela.
Awunakulindela ukuba ubomi bakho buhambe ukusuka kwinto ekuyiyo ngoku ukuya kubukho bakho bephupha ngokuqhwanyaza kweliso.
Ngapha koko, elo phupha lisenokuhlala liphupha kuba kusenokwenzeka ukuba ligqibelele kwiinkcukacha zonke ezincinci kwaye zigqibelele azikho kwihlabathi lokwenyani.
Endaweni yoko, jolisa ekwenzeni inkqubela phambili kwezona zinto zibaluleke kakhulu ukuze ubomi bakho buthe chu bude bufikelele kwinqanaba apho bonwabela okanye bungonwabisi kakhulu ixesha elininzi.
Ukuba izinto zimbi ngoku, jolisa kuqala uzenze zilunge.
Ukusuka kulungile, zama ukufumana intlawulo. Emva koko kulungile. Emva koko enkulu.
Ukuba ungafikelela kubukhulu, wenza ngcono kune-99% yabemi.
Sebenzisa le ndlela kwindawo nganye ebalulekileyo ebomini bakho.
Zama ukuphucula imeko yakho yomsebenzi nje kancinci ngexesha.
Thatha iinjongo zakho zempilo inyathelo ngenyathelo kunokuzikhawulezisa.
Yenza izinto ezincinci ezinokwenza ubudlelwane bakho bomntu ukuba wonwabe ngakumbi kwaye usempilweni.
Gcina umfutho ophambili uye phambili nanini na kunokwenzeka. Xa ujongene nezithintelo (kwaye uya kuthi), vele ubuyele kwizinto ezinokuphucula imeko kwaye ujolise kuzo.
16. Gxila ekufundeni iziseko.
Ngezinto ezininzi, ukufumana iziseko ezilungileyo yi-90% yomsebenzi. Kungoko kuphela apho unokukhathazeka ngeenkcukacha ezintle ezikufumanela ngaphezulu nge-10%.
Ukuba unethemba lokulahlekelwa ubunzima, ungakhathazeki malunga nokulinganisela okuthe ngqo kwe-carbohydrate, amafutha, kunye noshukela kwisidlo, jolisa nje ekufumaneni ubukhulu bezabelo zakho phantsi kolawulo.
Ukuba ufuna ukuba liqabane elingcono kulowo umthandayo, ulibale izipho ezintle kunye nemiboniso engaphezulu yothando kwaye uqiniseke ukuba wenza ngentlonipho ngawo onke amaxesha.
Uninzi lwezinto ebomini zineziseko ezibalulekileyo ukuze zilunge. Njengalo naluphi na ulwakhiwo, ezi zibonelela ngesiseko esomeleleyo nesomeleleyo apho unokwakha khona ikamva eliqinisekileyo.
Awunakuzama ukubhaka into enqabileyo ye-patisserie ngaphandle kokuqala ufunde isonka esisisiseko. Kuyafana nakwezinye iinkalo zobomi.
Sebenzela ukujongana nokoyisa uloyiko lwakho.
Yintoni ekuyekisayo ekuhlanganiseni ubomi bakho?
Impendulo enokubakho luloyiko.
Uloyiko ngomnye weyona miqobo mikhulu ekufezekiseni iziphumo esizinqwenela nakweyiphi na inzame.
Kwaye ebomini, uloyiko yinto enokukuthintela ekuthatheni inyathelo eliyimfuneko ukuphucula iimeko zakho.
Woyika ntoni? Chitha ixesha elithile kwi Ukucinga ngokwakho kwaye unyaniseke ngokupheleleyo kuwe.
Nje ukuba uchonge uloyiko lwakho oluphambili, isitshixo ayizami ukuzama ukuzisusa kubo, kodwa kungcono uye phambili nangona kunjalo.
Isibindi asikukoyika. Ijongene noloyiko kwaye isebenza nokuba kunjalo.
Ekugqibeleni, ukuba unokuqhubeka nokuthatha amanyathelo nokuba woyika ntoni, olo loyiko luyakuncipha.
Ayizukuhamba ngokupheleleyo, kodwa iya kuziva ilawuleka ngakumbi.
18. Bhiyozela impumelelo yakho.
Nanini na xa ulawula ukoyisa umqobo, jongana noloyiko, okanye wenze nje into ekufuneka yenziwe, zinike umva ngasemva.
Ziphathe ngokwakho kumvuzo omncinci owaneleyo ngaphandle kokuzifica ngokugqithisileyo.
Kwaye ziqhayise ngamanyathelo owathathileyo ukuphucula ubomi bakho.
Jonga impumelelo njengento efanelekileyo ukubhiyozela kuba nesona senzo sincinci esincinci sinokutyhala inaliti yobomi bakho kwicala elilungileyo.
19. Cela uncedo.
Ezinye izinto ziya kuba nzima ukuba umntu omnye azilawule ngokwakhe.
Kodwa fumana abantu ababini nangaphezulu abasebenza kunye ukusombulula ingxaki okanye ukujongana nomsebenzi kwaye kuma ithuba elingcono lesiphumo esiphumeleleyo.
Musa ukoyika ukucela uncedo xa ulufuna.
Uya kufumanisa ukuba abantu abaninzi bayonwabile ukuboleka uncedo lomntu abamkhathaleleyo.
Kwaye ukuba akukho mntu unako ukunceda ngento ethile, kunokubakho imibutho enokukuxhasa.
Gcina ukhumbula ukuba ukucela uncedo akukuenzi buthathaka kwaye ayikwenzi uxanduva. Sonke sidinga uncedo oluncinci amaxesha ngamaxesha.
20. Buza ingxelo.
Enye into onokuyicela yingxelo ngento oyenzileyo ukuze uphucule indlela oyenza ngayo loo nto kwixa elizayo.
Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ngekhe ubenakho ukubona into enenjongo njengomntu wesithathu. Banokukwazi ukubona iindawo apho unokutshintsha khona indlela yakho ukuze bakunike iziphumo ezingcono.
Thatha udliwanondlebe lomsebenzi, umzekelo. Xa ungaphumelelanga ekufumaneni indima ebinikezelwa, ungabuza umqeshi ukuba ingaba ikhona into ethile onokusebenza kuyo.
Oku kunokukunceda ulungiselele udliwanondlebe lwexesha elizayo kwaye kukunike ithuba eliphezulu lokufumana umsebenzi.
Ungade ubuze nabo kubudlelwane bakho buqu ukuba unokwenza ntoni ukuze ube ngumhlobo ongcono, iqabane, umzali, okanye umntakwenu.
Qiniseka ukuba uyabamamela kwaye vulekele nakuphi na ukugxekwa okwakhayo banokunika.
21. Yeka ukuthatha izinto ngokobuqu.
Kuyinyani yobomi ukuba izinto ezimbi zenzeka kubantu abalungileyo.
Oku akubonakalisi ukuba ungubani njengomntu okanye into onokuyilindela kwikamva.
Ngokufanayo, uluvo lomntu omnye ngawe aluyonyani ekufuneka uyikholelwe kwaye uyithabathele entliziyweni.
Abanye abantu abayi kukuthanda kwaye banokude benze okanye bathethe izinto ukuze bakwenzakalise, kodwa akufuneki uyamkele le ndlela yokuziphatha njengento ekufaneleyo.
Ingxaki ihlala yeyabo kwaye nezenzo zabo zibonakalisa njengomntu, hayi wena.
Kwelinye icala, ukucaphukiswa yiyo yonke into encinci umntu ayithethayo okanye ayenzayo-nokuba akukho njongo zimbi-yinkcitha-xesha lakho namandla.
Ukuba uziva ngathi uhlala uhlaselwa, uya kuba uxakeke kakhulu uzama ukuzikhusela ukuze uthathe ubomi bakho bube kwicala elilungileyo.
22. Yonga imali.
Ukuba awuhlali ngokwamandla akho kwaye ucwangcisela iimfuno zezemali zexesha elizayo, uya kujongana nobunzima kungekudala okanye kamva.
Ukuphanga akuthethi ukuziphika kulo lonke ulonwabo ebomini, kodwa oko kuthetha ukuba ukhetha nini ukubonisa ukuzibamba.
Kuthetha ukuba kwenziwe uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali ngononophelo ukuqinisekisa ukuba into ephumayo ayidluli kwinto engenayo.
Kuthetha ukuchonga iindawo apho unokunciphisa khona inkunkuma engeyomfuneko okanye ubuncwane.
Kuthetha ukusebenzisa ngokupheleleyo izinto osele unazo endaweni yokuthenga izinto ezintsha zomsebenzi ofanayo.
Ukuba nolondolozo yinto enokukunceda kakuhle ngaphandle kwenqanaba lomvuzo wakho. Inokukunceda ukunciphisa uxinzelelo olunokubakho ukuba imali ixinene.
23. Buya umva kumdlalo weqonga.
Ubomi bunamaxesha okuzola noxolo, kodwa ikwanamaxesha apho abantu baphazamisa olo xolo ngokwenza umdlalo weqonga apho kwakungekho.
Idrama kukuchitha ixesha kunye namandla akho. Xa ucinga malunga nokujongana nemicimbi yabanye, awujolisanga ekufumaneni obakho ubomi ngolungelelwano.
Ukuba unganako susa uninzi lomdlalo ebomini bakho ngokwala ukubandakanyeka, uya kuba nenkululeko yokujongana nezo zinto zinokuphucula imeko yakho.
Musa ukunika izimvo zakho ngaphandle kokuba ubacelile ngokukodwa. Kuphephe ukubandakanyeka kwiiyantlukwano zabanye. Musa ukoyika ukugcina umgama wakho kubantu abanobomi obuzaliswe yidrama.
24. Beka imida.
Kwinqaku elifanayo, kufanelekile beka imida ecacileyo nabantu ebomini bakho nasengqondweni yakho ukuze ukwazi ukunqanda ukutsaleleka kwizinto ezingakuncedangayo.
Funda ukuthi hayi ebantwini nakumathuba angahambelaniyo nenjongo yokufumana ubomi bakho kunye.
Khetha malunga nokuba unceda bani kunye nento onceda ngayo.
Ewe kulungile ukuboleka umntu omthandayo oludinga ngokwenene uncedo lwakho, kodwa qiniseka ukuba abantu abayithathi.
Ukuba umntu uthembele kuwe kakhulu ukumnceda ebomini babo, buza ukuba unganakho na ukuchitha eli xesha kubo hayi kuwe.
Asikokuzingca ukubeka iimfuno zakho kuqala ngamanye amaxesha.
Ekuhambeni kwexesha, unokuxhotyiswa ngcono nceda abanye Nje ukuba izinto zizinziswe ebomini bakho.
25. Fumanisa ukuba yintoni ekhuthazayo.
Inkuthazo inceda ukuqhubela phambili ukuthatha inyathelo elifanelekileyo kunye nokuphucula ubomi bakho.
Kodwa zininzi iintlobo zokukhuthaza kwaye azizukusebenzela zonke.
Ukuchitha ixesha ukufumana into ekunika amandla okwenza izinto kuya kukuvumela ukuba wenze ngakumbi.
Mhlawumbi uziva ukhuthazeka xa uyinxalenye yeqela labantu abasebenza kwizinto ezifanayo. Abantu abaxhasayo kwaye sikhuthazane ukufezekisa iinjongo zabo.
Okanye mhlawumbi ukhuthazwa kukwenziwa kwemisebenzi ngokwabo kunye nemvakalelo oyifumanayo xa ugqibezela into ngempumelelo.
Nokuba yintoni ekukhuthazayo, funda ukuyisebenzisa ukuze ukwazi ukuqhubeka xa umdla wakho uphela.
26. Phila usuku olunye ngexesha.
Le nto uyenze izolo ayinakuphinda itshintshwe. Ngeendlela ezininzi, kubaluleke kakhulu ngoku ngoku.
Into onokuyenza ngomso ibalulekile, kodwa ibaluleke kakhulu xa kufika ingomso kwaye uyayenza loo nto.
Namhlanje lusuku olubaluleke ngokwenene.
Endaweni yokuba uchithe ixesha lakho uxhala malunga nexesha elidlulileyo okanye ulungiselele ngocoselelo ngekamva, hlala uzinze kwizinto onokuzenza namhlanje, ngoku, ngalo mzuzu.
Yintoni onokuyenza namhlanje eya kubuyisela ubomi bakho kumkhondo oqinisekileyo? Yintoni onokusebenza kuyo efuna ukusetyenzwa? Yeyiphi imisebenzi onokuyenza, yeyiphi imiqobo onokujongana nayo?
Ukucwangcisela ingomso kunokuba yeyona nto ifuna ukwenziwa namhlanje, kodwa nangona kunjalo kuya kufuneka ujolise ekugqibeni ezo zicwangciso.
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27. Hlala uzolile ngexesha lobunzima.
Xa ubomi bakho bungekho apho ungathanda ukuba bube khona, kuya kufuneka ufumane indlela yokuyihambisa kwindawo ofuna ukuba kuyo.
Olu hambo luya kubandakanya ukubuyela umva. Oko akunakuphepheka.
Isitshixo kukugcina upholile ngeli xesha libuyela umva kwaye ungabavumeli ukuba bakuphazamise ngokupheleleyo.
Ewe, kuyakubakho iintlungu kunye nokungonwabi okunxulunyaniswa nezi zithintelo, kodwa ukuba ungagxila kwinyathelo onokulithatha ukubatyhalela, ziya kuba zezethutyana.
Bajonge njengethuba lokuvavanya isigqibo sakho. Kwaye xa sele bedlulile, jonga emva kwabo njengethuba apho ubonakalise isimilo kunye nokuzingisa.
28. Qonda unobangela nesiphumo.
Xa uthatha isenzo okanye usenza isigqibo, useta izinto ezinokuthi zikhokelele kwisiphumo.
Kubalulekile ukuba uqonde eli khonkco phakathi kwento oyenzayo kunye nento eyenzekayo ebomini bakho.
Iluncedo ngeendlela ezimbini.
Okokuqala, kuyanceda ukuba ubone xa isenzo sinokukhokelela kwisiphumo esibi. Ukuba ucinga ukuba oku kunokuba njalo, unokukhetha ukungakwenzi oko okanye uthathe amanyathelo ayimfuneko okunciphisa umngcipheko.
Okwesibini, ikuvumela ukuba uqikelele iziphumo ezilungileyo zezenzo zakho. Olu lwazi lokuphumelela okunokubakho kwixesha elizayo kunokuba yinto ekhuthazayo ekunyanzeleni ukuba uthathe inyathelo.
Musa ukuhamba ngokungaboni ebomini, ungazi ukuba uyaphi. Vula amehlo akho ukuze ubone indlela izenzo zakho ezikuthathayo ngayo.
Emva koko uthathe isigqibo sokuba uyafuna ukuhlala kuloo ndlela okanye ufumane enye indlela.
29. Phendula ngezinto ozi thethayo.
Xa usamkela indima oyidlalayo kwindlela obubonakala ngayo ubomi bakho, uyazinika amandla okukhetha ngobulumko.
Kodwa awuyi kwenza ukhetho olufanelekileyo ngalo lonke ixesha. Ngapha koko, kuyakubakho amaxesha apho uyakuchukunyiswa yimvakalelo yakho okanye unyanzelwe ngabanye abantu ukuba benze izigqibo ezingalunganga.
Xa oku kusenzeka, ukuthatha uxanduva kwezo zenzo kwaye ufunde kubo.
Musa usole abanye ngeempazamo zakho okanye uzame ukunciphisa indawo obudlala kuyo.
Umntwana ufunda indlela yokwenza ezona zinto zisisiseko umntu azenzayo ngokuzama kunye nephutha. Izazinzulu zenza impumelelo enkulu ngokwenza izinto zingalunganga kunye nokuzama indlela eyahlukileyo.
Ukuvuma ukuba wenze ukhetho olubi linyathelo lokuqala lokwenza ukhetho olungcono kwixesha elizayo.
Ukuba awufundi kwiimpazamo zakho, umiselwe ukuphindaphinda.
30. Yeka izinto ongenakukwazi ukuzilawula.
Ngelixa unelizwi kwizinto ezininzi ezenzekayo kuwe, kukho amandla angaphaya kwamandla akho anokukhokelela kwiimeko ezimbi.
Nokuba azithandeki ezi zinto, musa ukuvumela ingqondo yakho ukuba ibambelele ngokuqinileyo kuzo.
Ukuba uhleli ulusizi okanye unomsindo ngenxa yezinto ezimbi ezenzekayo ngaphandle kweenjongo zakho ezintle, uqala ukuphulukana namandla akho.
Oku kunokukhokelela kwingqondo yexhoba elikushiya uziva ungakwazi ukuzenzela ubomi obungcono.
Endaweni yoko, zama ukwamkela ukuba kukho into eyenzekileyo ongayinqweneli ukuba yenzeke kwaye akukho nto encinci ubuya kuyenza ukuyinqanda.
Yeka nayiphi na inzondo kwaye ubuyisele ingqwalasela yakho kwizinto onokuzilawula.
Kulapho amandla akho alele khona. Yile ndlela ubenza ngayo ubomi bakho kunye kunye kunye.
Ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba ubudibanisa njani ubomi bakho? Thetha kumqeqeshi wobomi namhlanje onokuhamba kwinkqubo. Cofa nje apha ukunxibelelana nenye.
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