Ndicinga ukuba ufunda eli nqaku kuba ufikelele kwinqanaba le-stasis: ubomi obumnandi bobomi kodwa, oh, ubomi bube buthuntu , Unamathele kwiluphu yindala efanayo, endala-efanayo.
Okubi nangakumbi kukuba, unokububona ubomi bakho bude buhlala ngokungapheliyo kwaye bungenanjongo kwikamva.
Ngokuqinisekileyo kufanele ukuba kubekho okungakumbi ebomini kunale, uyabuza: umdla omkhulu, ukonwaba ngakumbi kwaye, okona kubaluleke kakhulu, ukuqonda okungakumbi kokufezekiswa?
Ngaba uyasidinga iSicwangciso esiyiNtloko?
Kwelinye icala, ndinokuba ndenze ingcinga engeyiyo kwaphela ngawe, mfundi othandekayo.
Mhlawumbi kunjalo Umxholo ngokupheleleyo . Mhlawumbi uhambelana nefilosofi kaJohn Lennon, ukholelwa ukuba 'ubomi yinto eyenzekayo xa usenza ezinye izicwangciso' kwaye uzimisele ngokupheleleyo ukuba ungancami umnikelo kwisibingelelo sekamva.
Ndiyathemba ukuba eli nqaku liza kukunceda ekuqinisekiseni ukuba ngokuchonga iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zeenjongo, unokwenza i isicwangciso sophuhliso lomntu .
Eso sicwangciso siya kuphucula amava akho obomi ukuya phambili kodwa sisakuvumela ukuba uxabise okwangoku, hayi ubuncinci kuba iseti yakho entsha yeenjongo ayizukuba konke malunga nekamva.
Ngaba umntu wakho wasekhaya uCaveman / umfazi ukubambezele?
Olunye uhlobo lwesithathu kukuba uluhlobo lobomi balo bulawulwa ngumqolomba wangaphakathi okanye umfazi. Umntu ongonwabi kunanini na xa kungekho nto ikhoyo isenokuphazamisa ukuvumelana kobomi bomqolomba.
Le ndlela yasinceda kakuhle xa izilwanyana ezinobundlongondlongo zisenza umonakalo, okanye izizwe ezikufutshane zazihoyiwe. Ngokwenyani, inokuba lithuku elakhokelela ekusindeni kwethu njengezinto eziphilayo, ngoko ke thwalani umnqwazi kookhokho bethu bangaphambi konogumbe, kodwa…
Kwimpucuko ethelekisayo kunye nentuthuzelo yama-21stUbukho benkulungwane, umntu ongumqolomba wangaphakathi ukhonza enye into ngaphandle kokubamba thina kwaye ekugqibeleni asithintele ekubeni siziinguqulelo ezizezethu.
Musa ukumphulaphula. Jonga ngaphaya kohambo kwaye uqale ukuzibekela iinjongo ezingaphaya kokhuseleko lwalo mqolomba ucofileyo.
Kutheni Sifuna Usukelo?
Ngaphambi kokuba sijonge kwiindidi ezahlukeneyo zeenjongo onokuzibeka kuzo ebomini kunye nexesha elililo ngalinye, masicinge ngokuba kutheni iinjongo ezinjalo kunye namabhongo ebaluleke kangaka.
Kukho intetho endala:
i-braun strowman kunye ne-alexa yolonwabo
Ubomi ngaphandle kwemiceli mngeni abukho ubomi konke konke.
Yinyani kangakanani loo nto?
Ukuba besinako akukho zicwangciso, akukho maphupha, akukho namabhongo kwaye singaze sizityhale nangayiphi na indlela, obunjani ubomi obudinisayo obungenanjongo esinokubukhokelela.
Utitshala obekekileyo nelitshantliziyo, uBenjamin E. Mays, wabhengeza:
Kuya kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba intlekele yobomi ayixhomekekanga ekufikeleleni kwinjongo yakho. Intlungu ilele kukungabi nazinjongo zokufikelela.
Sinethuba elinye kuphela kobu bomi, ke ngoko ukuphatha ubomi njengohambo lophuhliso lomntu, kunye nemiceli mngeni emininzi apha endleleni, yeyona ndlela ifanelekileyo yokuqinisekisa ukuba sifumana okona kuninzi kubungakanani besithuba esabelweyo.
Nje ukuba uqalise ngokumisela iinjongo, ezinye iithagethi ozichongileyo ziya kuthi ngqo. Eminye inokuba ngumceli mngeni, nangona kunjalo, kwaye abanye baya kuvavanya kwimida yakho.
Ukuba uza kuziphumeza, kuya kufuneka uzityhale ixesha elide nobunzima.
Musa ukoyika, nangona kukho naziphi na amabhongo onokuba nawo abonakala ngathi aya kufikelela kwiinjongo ezingenakwenzeka, ezibizwa ngokuba zi 'moonshot'.
Kwaigama elithi 'moonshot' livela kumbono kaMongameli uKennedy obonakala ngathi awunakwenzeka ngo-1961 ukufumana indoda enyangeni kwisithuba seminyaka elishumi-ngoku yayiyinjongo entle kakhulu leyo, enyanisweni, yafezekiswa kwiminyaka engaphantsi kwe-9!
Iindidi ezili-10 zeenjongo ongathanda ukuzicwangcisa
Ngaphambi kokuba uqale umsebenzi wokuchonga iinjongo ezithile, uya kukufumanisa kuluncedo ukwahlulahlula izinto ezahlukeneyo zobomi bakho.
Eminye yale mimandla iya kuba nokubaluleka okuphezulu kuwe kunezinye. Nje ukuba uchonge ukubaluleka kwazo ebomini bakho, uya kuba sendleleni yokubeka phambili iinjongo zakho.
Icebo kukugcina amabhongo akho ebanzi kububanzi bawo kwaye ungagxili kwindawo enye okanye ekujolise kuko.
Unokufumanisa ukuba unenjongo enye kuphela kwindawo enye kunye noluhlu olupheleleyo kwenye. Ayinamsebenzi kwaphela loo nto! Ngalo lonke ixesha khumbula ukuba obu bubomi bakho kwaye ayisiyonto yokwenza umthambo ngebhokisi.
Ke, nazi iindidi ezili-10 zokubeka iinjongo ukuqala ezo zinto zengqondo zijika.
(Ezisixhenxe zokuqala zisekwe kwezo zichazwe nguJack Canfield kwincwadi yakhe Imigaqo yokuphumelela , ngelixa ezi zintathu zokugqibela ziindawo endiziva ukuba zikulungele ngokulinganayo ukuthathelwa ingqalelo.)
Iinjongo zezeMfundo
Ukukhula nokutshintsha, kuqala kufuneka sifunde. Unokucinga ngemfundo njengesikolo nje, kodwa iyaqhubeka kwizifundo zaseyunivesithi, kwizifundo zobugcisa kunye neziqinisekiso zobungcali.
Akumangalisi ke ngoko ukuba iinjongo zemfundo zinokutshintsha njengoko uhamba kwimfundo esesikweni, uphume uye kwikhondo lomsebenzi, emva koko uthethathethane ngendlela yakho ngokwenyusa kunye notshintsho lwendlela.
Isitshixo kukukhumbula ukuba ixesha lemfundo alikaze lidlule. Ukufunda ubomi bonke lithuba lokwandisa ingqondo yakho ngeendlela ezininzi, ke sukucinga ngemfundo njengento efanelekileyo kuphela kubantu abatsha.
Iinjongo onokuthi uzichonge ngokunxulumene nemfundo ziya kwahluka ngokwendlela okhethe ngayo. Mhlawumbi, nangona kunjalo, baya kwandisa kude balungiselele utshintsho lomsebenzi kwikamva eliya kufuna uqeqesho kwakhona kwindawo entsha.
Iinjongo zoMzimba kunye nezeMpilo
Umzimba wethu, impilo, kunye namandla omzimba anefuthe elikhulu kubomi bethu nakwinto esikwaziyo ukuyiphumeza.
Iinjongo kule ndawo ziya kwahluka kakhulu ngokuxhomekeke kubudala bakho nakwimo yakho esele ikho yempilo.
Ukuba umncinci kwaye ulungile, kunokwenzeka ukuba ufuna ukuzityhalela phambili nangakumbi, kunye nenjongo ebonakalayo yokomelela komzimba efana nemarathon njengethagethi yakho.
Ukuba ukwiminyaka yobudala ephakathi kunye nedesika yokubamba izinto ezivumela izinto zityibilike (ngandlela zonke!), Ukugcina nje ngaphakathi kwinqanaba eliqhelekileyo leminyaka yakho kunokuba ngumnqweno wakho - ungenzi mpazamo, nangona kunjalo, oko kusayinjongo!
Mhlawumbi ujolise kubomi obude, kwaye ukuhlala ngokwengqondo nangokomzimba kufanelekile kwinqanaba ngalinye lobomi.
Ubudlelwane Iinjongo
Ngelixa sonke siphelele kuthi, abantu ebomini bethu badlala indima enkulu kwindlela esivakalelwa ngayo kunye nento esinokuyiphumeza.
Iinjongo zobudlelwane zinomdla kuba zihlala zizinjongo ezingazingci ezibekelwe wena, kwaye ziya kuba ziphucula ubomi, kodwa ziluncedo nakwabanye ababalulekileyo.
Ukuba uphumelele kangakanani ekufezekiseni ezi zinto ziya kuba nefuthe elikhulu kulonwabo lwakho.
Ngokucacileyo, akukho msebenzi ungabalulekanga wokufumana iqabane lobomi kunye nendlela yokufezekisa oko, ukuba liphupha lakho elo. Nje ukuba ikhutshwe loo bhokisi, ukukhathalela loo mntu kunye nabanye abantwana onabo ngokungathandabuzekiyo kuya kukwenzela ezinye iinjongo.
Ukuqinisekisa ukuba unikezela ixesha elaneleyo lomgangatho kubudlelwane bakho nakusapho kunye nabahlobo bakho, kwaye ukuphucula ukusebenza kwakho / impilo eseleyo kunokuba yinto ojolise kuyo.
IiNjongo zoPhuhliso lwaBantu
Utshintsho kuphela kwesiqhelo kwindalo iphela, kwaye iya kuye ngamnye wethu. Singakhula ngeendlela ezininzi ezahlukeneyo kuxhomekeke kwinto esiyixabise kakhulu.
ndibufumana njani ubomi obungcono
Mhlawumbi uziva unesidingo sokuzolula ngokwengqondo okanye ngokwasemzimbeni ngokufunda olunye ulwimi, ukufunda isalsa, okanye ubuchule obuthile obutsha.
Mhlawumbi akunjalo.
Isidingo sophuhliso lomntu yile nto: yobuqu.
Abanye abantu babonakala ngathi abanamandla angenamda wokuthatha kwaye baphumelele kwimiceli mngeni emitsha. Kulungile kwaye kuyathandeka, kodwa iinjongo zabo akufuneki zibe zezakho kwaye akufuneki uzivumele woyikiswe bubukrelekrele babo ukuba ungaphumi kwiibhloko zokuqala.
Uphuhliso lomntu lukhulu, kodwa idrive kufuneka ivele ngaphakathi.
Ukwandisa ingqondo yakho ngokuhamba okanye ukufunda, ukufunda izakhono ezintsha, kunye nokubamba-konke 'ukuziphucula' konke kuza phantsi kwe-ambulula yokuzicebisa.
Amathuba okuba ube nezimvo ezimbalwa kolu luhlu. Ayinamsebenzi nokuba uluhlu lude okanye lufutshane.
Iinjongo Zomsebenzi
Sichitha isiqwenga esikhulu sobomi bethu sisebenza. Ngaba awucingi ukuba kububulumko ukuba neenjongo ezithile kwindawo ebalulekileyo ebomini bakho?
Njengoko bekutshiwo ngaphambili, olu didi lunxibelelene ngokungenakulinganiswa nemfundo kuba awunakuba nayo enye ngaphandle kwenye. Ukwenza umgudu wokufunda kunye nokuphucula iseti yakho yezakhono kunokukuvulela amathuba emisebenzi.
Uninzi lwethu luneengcamango ezimbalwa kwimikhono yethu malunga nekamva lethu lokusebenza. Injongo yakho inokuba kukuqala ishishini lakho, ukufumana udumo, ukufumana ukunyuselwa, okanye ukwandisa amandla akho omvuzo.
Isenzo sokwenza uluhlu lweekhonkrithi lweenjongo zamakhondo omsebenzi, sisiseko sesicwangciso esiyintloko sophuhliso lwakho lomsebenzi, siyasixhobisa. Isenokuba linyathelo lokuqala kwikamva elitsha.
Iinjongo zezemali
Imali yenza umhlaba ujikeleze-okanye ubuncinci, uyayenza ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba.
Akumangalisi ukuba yenye yezona ndawo zidume kakhulu xa kufikwa kuseto lweenjongo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yeyiphi i-ladder esikuyo ngoku, uninzi lwethu luneminqweno kunye namabhongo ngeyona njongo iphambili yokwenza imali eninzi.
Mhlawumbi unelishwa ngokwaneleyo ukuba unamatyala okwangoku. Ukuba kunjalo, ukubeka usukelo kuhlahlo-lwabiwo mali kunye nokufuna iindlela zokuhlengahlengisa indlela ochitha ngayo kuya kuba lolona luhlu
Ukuba iphupha lakho kukuthenga indlu, emva koko uchonge iindlela zokonga ukwenza elo phupha libe yinyani liya kuba phezulu kwi-ajenda.
Ukuthatha umhlala-phantsi ngomnye umba ofuna ukuba ucingisiswe ngononophelo kunye nokucwangciswa kwangaphambili, kungakho iinjongo ezithile 'zokunyathela ilitye' apha ngale ndlela engqondweni.
Iinjongo Zokomoya
Kuba ubomi bakho bokomoya yikhampasi yakho, le yenye indawo enxibelelene nezinye iintlobo zeenjongo- ubudlelwane kunye nophuhliso lomntu, umzekelo.
Nokuba ulandela inkolo ethile okanye awuyilandeli, ukukhula kwecala lakho lokomoya kuxhasa yonke into oyenzayo.
Mhlawumbi ungazibekela usukelo lokukhulula ixesha lokwenza umsebenzi wokuzithandela okanye ukunikela ngemali ethe chatha kwabo bangathathi ntweni.
Mhlawumbi iinjongo zakho kukuzibandakanya kwiprojekthi yophuhliso lwesisa phesheya kolwandle.
Kwelinye icala, unokuziva ufuna ukuba nengqondo engakumbi okanye ucamngce rhoqo.
Iinjongo zengqondo
Ingqondo yakho apho ikhoyo. Ubomi obunjalo. Oko sikudalayo, kwenzeka ntoni kuthi kwaye kusingqongile, oko sicinga nokuziva-yonke into iqhutywa kwaye isengqondweni.
Iyavakala into yokuba unokufuna ukuseta iinjongo ezithile ezinxulumene nendlela ingqondo yakho enxibelelana ngayo nehlabathi. Uzijonga njani izinto, ukholelwa ntoni, indlela ocinga ngayo ngeziganeko kunye nabantu, indlela ocinga ngayo.
Ingqondo yakho iyona sixhobo esinamandla kunazo zonke kwi-locker yakho, ngoko-ke uzimisele ukusebenza kuyo kwaye usethe iinjongo zendlela ongathanda ukuba isebenze ngayo.
Mhlawumbi oko kuthetha ukufunda ukuhlala uzolile kwiimeko ezikwenza uxinzelelo. Mhlawumbi kukuvuleleka ngakumbi kumathuba azibonakalisayo.
Nokuba yintoni, ingqondo yakho iyakwazi ukuziqhelanisa kwaye itshintshe ukuba unomnqweno wokuyenza yenzeke.
Iinjongo zangaphandle
Uninzi lweenjongo lujolise kubomi bakho, kwimpumelelo yakho, okanye kumaphupha akho, kodwa ungaseta iinjongo ezibeka omnye umntu kuqala.
Oku kuye kwachukunyiswa phantsi kweenjongo zokomoya kunye nokwenza umsebenzi wesisa, kodwa kunokuba ngaphezulu kakhulu kunoko.
Umzekelo, cinga ukuba ufuna ukuphila ubomi bakho ngendlela ebangela ukubandezeleka okungathethekiyo kwabanye. Oku kunokubandakanya ukuba yimifuno (okanye ukutya kuphela imveliso yasimahla), ukunciphisa ifuthe lakho kwindalo esingqongileyo, okanye ukuhlawula okongezelelekileyo kwimpahla emhlophe.
Wwe brock lesnar vs igolide
Okanye, ukugxila kwinjongo yakho kunokuba kufutshane nekhaya. Mhlawumbi ufuna ukunceda umntakwenu aphume kwimeko yezezimali ekhohlisayo okanye uxhase umhlobo wakho osenyongweni njengoko beqhawula umtshato.
Iinjongo zangaphandle zihlala zihamba kunye neminye imiba enje ngezemali okanye ikhondo lomsebenzi. Mhlawumbi ufuna isixa esithile semali ukunceda umntu aphume, okanye umsebenzi oguqukayo okunika ixesha lokuzinikezela kwinjongo ethile.
Iinjongo ezinamava
Ubomi bethu benziwe ngothotho lwamava. Amanye amava ayinto eqhelekileyo - ukuqhuba usiya emsebenzini, umzekelo-ngelixa abanye ngokwenene beqinisekisa ubomi.
Ukuba kukho into ofuna ukuyenza ngaphambi kokuba liphele ixesha lakho, beka usukelo ekujikelezeni.
Ngaba uyafuna ukugcoba kwizibane ezisentla kunye nabo bonke ubukhazikhazi obumibalabala?
Njani ngokuhamba ngekhaphethi ebomvu kwindawo yokuqala yefilimu yaseHollywood?
Okanye ngaba liphupha lakho lokujikeleza isiQithi seGalapagos ukuze ubone izilwanyana zasendle ezimangalisayo apho?
Kuyaqondakala ukuba uninzi lweenjongo ezinamava ziya kudityaniswa kwezinye iintlobo zeenjongo.
Ukuchonga ixesha elibekiweyo kwiinjongo zakho
Nje ukuba waphule iinkalo ezahlukeneyo zobomi bakho kwiindawo ezahlukileyo zokubeka iinjongo kwaye wavelisa izimvo ezimbalwa, inyathelo elilandelayo kukuthathela ingqalelo isakhelo sexesha kwinjongo nganye.
Uya kufumanisa ukuba ungaziqhekeza zibe ziintlobo ezintathu ezibanzi: ixesha elifutshane (iiveki ezimbalwa ukuya kwiminyaka emi-2), ixesha elide (iminyaka emi-2 ukuya kweli-10), kunye nexesha lokuphila (iminyaka eli-10 edityanisiweyo).
La maxesha ayazithetha, kodwa ezinye iinjongo ziya kuthi zontathu.
Ukulondolozela umhlalaphantsi obutofotofo, umzekelo, kuyakudinga inyathelo elifutshane, ukukhula kancinci ixesha elide njengoko ubeka izicwangciso ezifanelekileyo endaweni yoko, kodwa sisiphumo sobomi bakho bonke.
Ngaba Lixesha Lokufumana Iinjongo Ezifanelekileyo?
Xa usetyisile umxholo wokumiselwa kweenjongo kwaye wachonga iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zeenjongo, amathuba okuba ugqibe kwelokuba lixesha lokuba uphinde ucinge nzulu.
Lixesha lokuba usete iinjongo ezithile eziza kukukhupha kuloo ndawo intofontofoyo oh-so-cozy.
Ayizukuba yinto elula kakhulu kwimisebenzi, kodwa xa yenziwe, uya kuba nohlobo lwendlela yokukunika isikhokelo kunye nokubuyisela imeko yakho yenjongo.
Awuyi kubakho nje, uya kuba uhamba phambili kwaye ngubani owaziyo apho indlela ingakhokelela khona?
Ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba zeziphi iinjongo zokuzibekela ebomini? Ngaba ufuna uncedo lokuyiqonda? Thetha kumqeqeshi wobomi namhlanje onokuhamba kwinkqubo. Cofa nje apha ukunxibelelana nenye.
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