Ndingathanda ukumemelela ukunqunyanyiswa kwenkqubo yangoku yokuchonga phantse wonke umntu 'njengegorha.'
Kulungile, ke mhlawumbi ndiyayibaxa kancinci. Kodwa kuya kufuneka uvume ukuba siyiphungule ngenene imbono 'yeqhawe' kweli xesha langoku.
Masiyibize, 'Ukunyuka kwamaxabiso obuqhawe.' Oko kuyakwenza okwangoku. Kodwa ndithetha ukuthini emhlabeni?
Ndiyangenisa ukuba silahlekile Intsingiselo ephambili yeqhawe. Ngokuqinisekileyo silahlekelwe yintsingiselo yoqobo yeqhawe.
Makhe sihlolisise ukuba yintoni iqhawe lokwenene. Yintoni eyenza iqhawe? Ngaba amaqhawe aqhelekileyo okanye aqabile? Ngaba singqongwe ngamagorha, okanye ngaba kufuneka sizizingele? Ngaba besisoloko sinamagorha, okanye ngamagorha afikayo kutshanje?
Ihlala iluncedo ukuqala ngokuqonda okusisiseko ngaphambi kokuba ungene kukhula olujiyileyo. Makhe sibone ukuba igama elithi 'iqhawe' lithetha ntoni.
IQHAWE ngumntu onesibindi okanye isakhono esaziwayo, oncomekayo ngezenzo zakhe ezomeleleyo kunye neempawu ezintle. Umntu othi, ngokoluvo lwabanye, uneempawu zobuqhawe okanye enze isenzo sobugorha kwaye uthathwa njengomzekelo okanye ofanelekileyo.
Ngokubhekisele kwiiHorse zakudala
Kwihlabathi lakudala, wonke umntu wayesazi ukuba yintoni iqhawe. Amagorha enziwa. Babedla ngokunqulwa njengoothixo. Uninzi lwamagama amaqhawe akudala afana nothixo aya kuqhelaniswa. Amagama afana no-Achilles, Odysseus, Perseus, kunye noHercules.
indlela yokufumana ukuphoxeka kubudlelwane
Amaqhawe amandulo ayethanda ukulandela incwadi efanayo. Kwakukho amaxesha ngamaxesha, kodwa njengomthetho, amaqhawe amandulo ayethanda ukuba nezi mpawu zilandelayo:
- Benza izenzo zabo zobuqhawe kuzuko lomntu.
- Benza izenzo zabo zobuqhawe ukuphumelela imbeko engunaphakade.
- Bebengengabo abakho konke ukuzincama, kodwa ubukhulu becala ukuzenzela.
- Bahlala bekwiphulo lokufuna into eyinzuzo kuye.
Ewe, izibonelelo zihlala zihlala zikhona kwabanye ngenxa yesenzo seqhawe. Izizwe zahlangulwa, iziqalekiso zaphakanyiswa, kwafunyanwa ubutyebi bezinto eziphathekayo, kwasindiswa ubomi.
Kodwa nangona izenzo zabo bezisoloko zizenzo zobukroti, ukomelela kunye nokuzimisela… bebengekho kangako ngaphandle kokusindisa uluntu. Ubukhulu becala babezokugcina ngokwabo.
Okokugqibela, kufuneka siyiqonde into yokuba amaqhawe akudala ayengamaqhawe. Oko kukuthi, banamakhono aphezulu kunye nobuchule babantu. Kwakungenanto ngaphandle kwenqanaba lokudlala. Amaqhawe amandulo ayengamaqhawe rhoqo kuba umgangatho wawubekelelwe.
Kwaye amaqhawe amandulo ayengekho adumileyo njengoko sinokucinga. Uninzi lwazo lwalunesiphene esinye ubuncinane. Abanye babenokuninzi.
Ewe amaqhawe amaninzi amandulo ebengekho. Babengamaqhawe emveli kuphela. Kwaye amaqhawe okwenyani ahlala ethatha ubungakanani bentsomi njengoko amabali abo ebaliswa kwaye ebaliswa kwizizukulwana.
“Amagorha” ethu anamhlanje ayalingana neentsomi zamandulo ukuba ayingomaqhawe asentsomini. Kodwa ke, sonke siyazi ukuba amaqhawe angoonobumba nje ngabalinganiswa abakwintsomi. Azinyani kwaye azange zibekho.
Aphi amaGorha amaNamhlanje?
Ke aye phi onke amaqhawe? Kwenzeka ntoni kula madoda nabafazi ababebakhulu kunobomi? Ngubani owenza imisebenzi emikhulu? Ngubani obalaseleyo isibindi namandla ? Ngubani owenze into abanye abangathandi ukuyenza okanye abangakwaziyo ukuyenza?
Ungakhathazeki. Balapha emva kwayo yonke loo nto. Amaqhawe okwenene ebenjalo indawo yabantu abaqhelekileyo.
Sihambile AKUKHO MAQHAWULA saya kuye WONKE UMNTU LILIGQA! Kubonakala ngathi abantu bafuna amaqhawe. Ke size nezinye iintlobo zegadi zokuma kumaqhawe okwenyani.
Bebehlala benikezela iindebe zokuphumelela ubuntshatsheli. Ngoku banikezela iindebe ngokuthatha inxaxheba. Babedla ngokunika amabhaso okugqwesa kunye nempumelelo ephezulu. Ngoku banika amabhaso ngokubonisa nje!
Kule mihla… oobawo ngamagorha. Oomama ngamagorha. Ootitshala bangamaqhawe. Amajoni angamaqhawe. Amapolisa ngamagorha. Oogqirha ngamaqhawe. Abantu abanezigulo ngamagorha. Abo bakhathalela abazali abalupheleyo ngamagorha.
Abazali abakhulisa umntwana wabanye abantu ngamagorha. Abazali abakhulisa umntwana wabanye abantu ngamagorha. Abo bathumela i-tweet ngamaqhawe. Abadlali ngamaqhawe. Abo banemisebenzi eyingozi ngamagorha. Kwaye ke iyaqhubeka.
Xa ndandikwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo (kudala), incwadi yethu yonyaka yayinento eyaziwa ngokuba yi 'Senior Superlatives.' Aba yayiliqaqobana labantu abadala abagqwesileyo kudidi olukhethiweyo. “Esona sibini sisithandekayo,” “Esona Sithuba Sokuphumelela”
ndingaze ndilufumane uthando lwam lokwenyani
Andazi ukuba basayenza le nto, kodwa ukuba bayayenza, ndiyarhana ukuba wonke umfundi uya kuba ezinye unobubele.
“Kusenokwenzeka ukuba uthweswe izidanga,” “Uninzi lweeTrout zeQela leVarsity,” “Ezona mpahla zicocekileyo,” “Zimbalwa iiklasi ezingaphumelelanga” Ndiphume eKholejini. ”
Ufumana umbono.
Kodwa ayingabo bonke abafundi bezikolo eziphakamileyo ababalasele. Uninzi luphakathi nje. Bafana kakhulu nabanye abantu.
Ndiyabathanda ootitshala. Ootitshala ngabona bantu ndibathandayo ehlabathini. Ootitshala babutshintshile ubomi bam. Kodwa uninzi lootitshala alingawo amaqhawe.
Ootitshala bahlala bekuthanda ukufundisa, ukuthanda abafundi, kunye nothando lokuthatha imali yokubhatala inyanga nenyanga yokufundisa. Ingazukiswa loo nto. Nokuba iyancomeka. Kodwa ayiloqhawe.
Utitshala ofundisa esixekweni esingaphakathi, ongakwaziyo ukuhlawula imoto, obomi bakhe busemngciphekweni kuhambo lwabo lokuya esikolweni, ofundisa abafundi abasoloko befuna ukufunda, nabenza imali eyoneleyo yokuthenga igourmet ngamanye amaxesha isandwich. YIBUQHAWE LABO! Ndiyathemba ukuba siyawuxabisa umohluko.
Ngaba siye sayenza lula into yokuba ligorha ngokwenza wonke umntu ukuba abe ligorha? Ingaba kungenxa yokunqongophala kwamagorha kula maxesha - ukuba isisombululo kukwenza wonke umntu abe ligorha?
Eliqhula laseMelika uWill Rogers wakha wenza into ebalulekileyo. Uthe:
Asinakho konke ukuba ngamagorha, kuba umntu kufuneka ahlale elunxwemeni aze aqhwabe izandla njengoko bedlula.
URogers wayeqonda ukuba uninzi lwabantu alungomaqhawe. Uninzi lwabantu ayinakuba njalo amaqhawe. Uninzi lwethu luphakathi nje. Amaqhawe anqabile. Kungenxa yoko le nto sinemingcelele yabo.
Ukuba wonke umntu uliqhawe, ngoko Akukho mntu uliqhawe. Amagorha anqabile ngokwenkcazo. Amaqhawe aqhelekanga. Amagorha aqhelekanga. Wonke umntu akanakuba yinto engaqhelekanga. Zimbalwa kuphela ezinokungaqhelekanga.
Iimpawu zamagorha okwenyani
Ke ngoku njengokuba sibonile ukuba ligorha elingakanani ayiyo , makhe sihlolisise ukuba yintoni iqhawe ngu. Oko kukuthi, ziziphi iimpawu zeqhawe lokwenyani? Yintoni eyenza iqhawe?
Ungaze woyike, asekhona amaqhawe okwenyani. Kodwa kusengqiqweni ukuba amaqhawe okwenyani kufuneka ahlangabezane neziqinisekiso ezithile.
Ke nazi iimpawu ezi-6 zika-a iqhawe lokwenene.
1. AmaGorha okwenene akhonza abanye
Iqhawe lokwenyani ngumntu owenza into ethile yobuqhawe ukuze kuzuze abanye. Ukunceda omnye umntu ngaphandle kwabo.
Oko akuthethi ukuba iqhawe alinakuxhamla kubuqhawe balo. Kodwa isenzo sabo okanye isenzo okanye intsebenzo okanye ukufezekisa ayisiyonto eyenzelwe bona. Abazicingeli bodwa kwinkonzo yabo - abazenzeli.
2. AmaGorha okwenyani aMangalisa
Amaqhawe okwenyani ayingobantu abaqhelekileyo abenza izinto eziqhelekileyo ngeendlela eziqhelekileyo. Abafani nabanye abantu.
Bahlukile.
Bakhaliphile xa abanye besoyika. Bomelele xa abanye bebuthathaka. Bazimisele xa abanye beyeka. Bayaqeqeshwa xa abanye besonqena. Benza okulungileyo xa abanye besenza okungalunganga.
Amanye amajoni ngamagorha. Kodwa uninzi alunjalo. Amanye amajoni ayabhalisa kuba awufumani msebenzi bafuna izibonelelo kwaye banethemba lokuya kwikholeji kamva kwi-GI Bill. Oku kulungile kwaye akufuneki kuthotyelwe.
Kodwa enye ayilogorha ngenxa yokuba lijoni. Kufuneka benze into yobuqhawe njengejoni ukuze ufanelekele ukuba ligorha.
I-Ditto yamagosa anyanzelisa umthetho. Oogqirha. Ootitshala. Kubongikazi. Abacimi-mlilo. Kubaqhubi beenqwelomoya.
andilungelanga kulomhlaba
Kukho amaqhawe anokubakho KUZO ZONKE ezi zifundo. Kodwa ayingawo amaqhawe ngokuba nje KUKHO imisebenzi. Iqhawe lokwenene lingaqhelekanga.
3. IiHighes eziyinyani zithatha iingozi kwaye zijongane nokulahleka okunokubakho
Iqhawe lokwenene lithatha umngcipheko. Iqhawe lokwenyani lenza into enokubabiza kwinqanaba lomntu.
Inokubangela ukwenzakala kwabo. Banokulahlekelwa yinto enexabiso. Banokude baphulukane nobomi babo ngezenzo zabo zobuqhawe. Kodwa bakulungele ukuthatha loo mngcipheko.
Iqhawe lokwenene likulungele ukuthatha umngcipheko egameni labanye. Ukuba ndizama ukunyuka intaba, ndingawa kuloo ntaba ndife. Oku akuyiyo, ngokwayo, umngcipheko weqhawe.
Umngcipheko weqhawe uya kuba semngciphekweni wobomi bam ukuze ndisindise enye abakhwela ezintabeni. Iqhawe lokwenene lithatha umngcipheko egameni labanye.
4. AmaGorha Oyinyani Ayazincama
Iqhawe lokwenyani likulungele ukuhlawula ixabiso lobuqu ukuze abanye baxhamle. Iqhawe lokwenyani alenzi nje izinto apho wonke umntu exhamla. Iqhawe lokwenene liyazincama. Nantsi eminye imizekelo:
- UMartin Luther King, Omnci.
- UGandhi
- UAlfred Vanderbilt
- UDesmond Doss
- UIrena Sendler
- U-Ernest Shackleton
- UDietrich Bonhoeffer
- UOskar Schindler
Kukho amakhulu ngakumbi esinokuthiya amagama. Amagorha ayazincama. Olunye uphawu olwenza ukuba babe ligorha.
5. AmaGorha Okwenene Anesibindi
Iqhawe lokwenyani linokoyika kanye njengomntu olandelayo. Iqhawe lokwenyani linokuyazi ingozi abajamelana nayo njengomntu olandelayo. Kodwa benza ngaphandle kokuba uloyiko lwabo.
Ayilulo udidi olukhethekileyo lwabantu olukhululwe kutyekelo oluqhelekileyo lokoyika ebusweni bengozi. Amagorha okwenene nawoyika!
Kodwa benza nantoni na. Besazi ngokupheleleyo ukuba ingozi iseza, baqhubela phambili ngokufanayo. Ukujongana noloyiko lwakho kwaye ngenkalipho ucinezele kwiqhawe.
6. AmaGorha okwenene ahlala ezithobile
Uninzi lwethu luya kubizwa ukuba luhlale elunxwemeni kwaye luqhwabe izandla njengoko kudlula amaqhawe. Kulungile. Amaqhawe okwenyani ayayixabisa imbeko ayinikiweyo ngento abayenzileyo. Kodwa uninzi lwamaqhawe ayinyani thobeka .
Bayavuya nje ukuba bangakhonza ngandlela thile. Amaqhawe okwenyani ahlala eneentloni ekudumiseni. Amaqhawe okwenene akasoloko ezijonga njengamaqhawe.
Oku, ngandlela thile, kubenza babe ngamagorha ngakumbi. Kunzima ukuthanda nokuncoma iqhawe elinekratshi neliziphakamisayo. 'Iqhawe elinekratshi' livakala njenge-oxymoron, akunjalo?
Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
- Amabali ama-5 okhuthazayo aBantu abaQhelekileyo abaFezekise izinto eziNkulu
- Ungayeka njani ukubaleka kude neengxaki zakho kwaye ujongane nesisombululo esinesibindi
- Iindlela ezili-10 onokulitshintsha ilizwe libe ngcono
Uyifumana njani iHero yakho yangaphakathi
Njengoko siqhubela phambili kweli candelo lilandelayo, unokuziva ukuba ndiza kuphikisana ngokunzulu nam. Oko ndilichithe lonke eli xesha ndisenza imeko yokuba amaqhawe angaqhelekanga. Ukuba amaqhawe anqabile kwaye kunzima ukuwafumana. Okokuba uninzi lwabantu, kubandakanya nathi, alingawo amaqhawe kwaye alunakuze lube njalo.
Ke yintoni le malunga nokufumana IQHAWE LANGAPHAKATHI lomntu?
Ulwimi lomzimba umntu onomdla kuwe
Umbuzo omkhulu. Makhe ndikucacisele. Nangona bembalwa kakhulu kuthi abaya kuze babe ngamagorha kweyona ngqondo iphezulu, sonke singafumana into ngaphakathi okanye senze into evakalayo encomekayo, encomekayo, eyanelisayo, nexabisekileyo ukubhiyozela umgangatho. Nokuba kukwinqanaba elincinci.
Sonke singalifumana 'iqhawe lethu elingaphakathi,' nokuba iqhawe alibhalwa ngoonobumba abakhulu u 'H.'
1. Yenza umsebenzi omnye ongathandekiyo suku ngalunye.
Sonke sinemisebenzi enzima, engathandekiyo esikhetha ukuyibekela ecaleni. Asifuni nje ukubenza. Ke asenzi njalo.
Kodwa nali ithuba lokukhupha iqhawe elincinci langaphakathi ngaphakathi kwakho. Yenza nje umsebenzi . Nokuba awufuni. Nokuba ukhetha ukwenza phantse nantoni na.
Khangela loo msebenzi imihla ngemihla-kwaye wenze! Uya kuzifumana ufumana isuntswana le-vibe yeqhawe. Uya konwaba xa uyenzile le nto. Kwaye nokuba ayiloqhawe ngokwenene, uya kuziva uligorha ngokwenza oko.
2. Khetha ukungayenzi into ENGATHANDEKILEYO othambekele kuyo.
Sonke sihendelwa ekwenzeni izinto esaziyo ukuba akufanelekanga ukuzenza. Yethu sonke. Ewe, nkqu nani. Ewe, nkqu nam.
Kodwa endaweni yokwenza le nto utsalwa ukuba uyenze, khetha ukungayenzi. Sukuwenza loo mnxeba. Musa ukubhala loo imeyile. Sukuyithumela loo leta. Ungathethi loo nto.
Sukwenza le nto-nokuba yeyiphi na eneziphumo ezibi kuwe okanye kwabanye.
Nangona ungafuna ukuyenza - ungayenzi. Uya kuziva ezinye ze-vibe zeqhawe zivakala ngaphakathi. Uya kuyithanda.
3. Khetha ukwenza into ENTSHA ongathambekiyo ukuyenza.
Le yeyona corollary yangaphambili. Ezinye izinto sithanda ukuzenza ngokwemvelo esifanele siziphephe. Ezinye izinto sinomdla wokungazenzi ekufuneka sizenzile. Yenza loo nto ukhetha ukungayenzi.
Bhala loo leta ubusoloko uyibeka kade. Yenza loo fowuni uyazi ukuba iya kuba nzima okanye ingathandeki. Yiba mnandi kumntu ongezantsi ongakhange abe nobubele kuwe.
Qala ukutya ngcono NGOKU. Qalisa ukusebenzisa ngoku. Qala ukucoca igaraji ngoku. Qalisa ukuhlela iimali zakho ngoku.
Uya kufumanisa ukuba nje ukuba uqalise nje ukuba woyise i-inertia wakube ugqithile kwinqanaba lokuncamathela, uya kuba nenkuthazo enkulu yokugqiba into oyiqalileyo.
Oko kuya kukwenza ukuba ube luhlobo lweqhawe leligi elincinci. Kulungile. Kungcono ukuba kwiligi encinci kunokuba ungabinalo kwaphela.
4. Zama into okhe wafuna ukuyizama, kodwa ungaze uyenze.
Oku kunokuba yinto yobuqu kwaye yahluke kuthi sonke. Akufuneki ukuba ibe yinto enzulu njengokuqala ishishini lakho ukususela ekuqaleni. Okanye ubaleka umdyarho weembaleki xa ungakhange ubaleke nangayiphi na injongo enzulu ukusukela kwikhefu lesikolo sokuqala. Okanye uthenga iphenyane kwaye uhamba ngaphesheya kweAtlantic.
Oku kunokubonakala ngathi kuyothusa ngoku. Ke hamba nento encinci enengxaki. Qala kule noveli uhlala uzithembisile ukuba uya kubhala ngenye imini. Bhukisha uhambo olungaqhelekanga kunye nokhenketho lwezinto ezibalulekileyo. Suka kude nedolophu okhe wahlala kuyo.
Funda ukupheka kakuhle. Funda ukudlala isixhobo somculo. Funda isakhono esitsha. Thatha intaba enzulu. Funda ngendlela yokubhabha inqwelo moya.
Zininzi izinto okhe wafuna ukuzenza kwaye awuzange uzenze. Yenza enye yazo. Iya kukunceda ufumane iqhawe lakho elingaphakathi.
5. Nceda umntu phandle ngendlela ebonakalayo.
Kuya kuhlala kukho abantu abakungqongileyo ngolunye uhlobo lwesidingo. Kukho abantu abakungqongileyo abanesidingo esifana nesakho. Fumanisa ukuba yeyiphi le mfuno kwaye uncede ukuhlangabezana nayo. Nokuba yeyiphi na.
Kuvuyisa ngokukodwa ukufumana imfuno onokuhlangabezana nayo usebenzisa ubuchule obukhethekileyo okanye amandla onawo. Emva koko ayizukuba sisenzo senkonzo kuphela, kodwa uya kuyonwabela nayo. Khumbula, amaqhawe ayazincama. Ke unokuba ligorha elincinci ngenkonzo yakho yokuzincama.
6. Chonga into ekutyayo xa uyenza kwaye uyenza loo nto.
Sonke sinezinto ebomini bethu ezisikhuthazayo. Oko kuyasitshisa. Kuyasichulumancisa oko. Oko kuyasomeleza. Kutheni ungasukeli enye yezo zinto?
Ukuba yinto onokuthi ube nayo kakuhle ngakumbi, ngcono kakhulu. Hayi, abantu baye baqalisa ukuzalisekisa imisebenzi ngokulandela nje iinkanuko zabo . Yizame. Iya kunceda ukukhupha iqhawe lakho elingaphakathi. Unokufumana umkhombandlela omtsha ebomini bakho.
Amagama okugqibela
Uninzi lwethu alunakuze lube ngamagorha okwenyani. Iqhawe lobomi lokwenyani lokunyaniseka. Ngokuqinisekileyo ngekhe sibe ligorha lamabali kunye neentsomi. Uninzi lwethu luya kuhlala nje ubomi obuqhelekileyo. Ubomi obunokonwaba, obonwabisayo, obumangalisayo, kwaye obusikelelweyo- kodwa hayi ubuqhawe nangayiphi na indlela yakudala.
Ilungile. Siza kugqitha kuyo.
into oza kuyenza xa udikiwe ekhaya
Kodwa ngenxa yokuba singenakuba ngamagorha okwenyani, oko akuthethi ukuba asinakuba ngamagorha amancinci ngeendlela ezincinci. Yonke imihla. Khangela iqhawe lakho langaphakathi. Qala ngoluhlu olungentla. Zive ukhululekile ukongeza kuluhlu.
Mhlawumbi siya kuhlala sifuna amaqhawe. Mhlawumbi siya kuhlala sidinga abantu ukuba bajonge kubo. Owenza izinto esingakhange sikwazi ukuzenza thina okanye uninzi lwabanye.
Okanye mhlawumbi khange balifumane ithuba. Noba kutheni. Sonke sinokuzivocavoca izihlunu zamagorha ethu kwinqanaba elincinci. Kwaye kufanele. Ke masingene kuyo, akunjalo?
Okwangoku, mhlawumbi singavuma ukumisa 'iHero Hype.' Masizukise yinyani amaqhawe ayeke ukunika iwonga legorha kunye negama elithi 'iqhawe' kwabo baqheleke ngakumbi kunobuqhawe.
Ndiyivile ibeka into enje: Masizame ukuzizisa kumanqanaba obuqhawe, endaweni yokutshintsha inkcazo yeqhawe ukuze sonke silungele.
