Unomhla obekiweyo oza kufika, kodwa awenzanga kakuhle kwisabelo, umsebenzi, okanye umsebenzi. Isandi esiqhelekileyo?
Ngaba utyekele ekulibaziseni?
Ngaba uhlala uziva ungenayo i-drive kunye nehlombe elifunekayo lokwenza oko kuyimfuneko?
Sukuba nexhala, awuwedwa besikhe sikhona sonke, siyenzile loo nto, safumana isikipa. Akukho mntu ukhuselekile kule meko yokudodobala, kodwa wonke umntu unako ukuyoyisa.
Ingxaki kukuba umhlaba kunye nee-gurus zayo ezininzi zixakekile ngengcebiso esekwe kwi Iithiyori zenkuthazo , ukucwangcisa, amanqanaba amandla, ukonwaba, njalo njalo njalo njalo.
Banyanzelisa ukuba ezi zezona zinto ziphambili xa kusenziwa ekwenzeni izinto.
Bayaphazama.
Inye kuphela into evuthela bonke abanye. Inye kuphela into, ukuba ayikho, iya konakalisa naliphi na ithuba onokuba nalo lokonwabela usuku olunemveliso.
Le nto yile ingqeqesho.
Uqeqesho sisiseko sawo wonke umsebenzi. Ukuba uyasilela, uya kusokola ukufezekisa iziphumo ozifunayo. Uya kuwuphosa umhla wokugqibela, usilele kwimisebenzi yakho, kwaye usilele kwimfuno yakho.
Ukuba unawo nawaphi na amathandabuzo malunga noku, kuya kufuneka apheliswe xa ugqiba ukufunda eli nqaku. Siza kujonga ezo mpawu zichazwe apha ngasentla (phakathi kwezinye) kwaye sichaze ukuba bawa njani phantsi koqwalaselo ukuba abayiyo na into ukuba abaxhaswa luqeqesho.
Makhe siqale, ngaba thina?
Uqeqesho lubaluleke ngaphezu kwenkuthazo. Eyona nto kugxilwe kuyo ngootitshala abaninzi kunye ne-gurus ekuzincedeni kunye nakwimihlaba yophuhliso lomntu kukukhuthaza. Umzi mveliso uphela unenjongo eyodwa yokukhuthaza abantu ukuba bafezekise iinjongo zabo, babe ngabasebenzi abangcono, kwaye banyukele phezulu.
Ewe, akukho mathandabuzo okuba ukukhuthazwa ukwenza into kukunika ithuba elikhulu lokulandela. Kodwa ayikuniki ithuba eli-100%. Akuqinisekisi ukugqitywa ngempumelelo komsebenzi.
Ngokuqinisekileyo kumnandi ukuziva ukhuthazekile ngelixa usenza into, kwaye uyakufumana ukonwaba ngakumbi kulo msebenzi ngokwawo (isihloko esiza kubuyela emva kamva), kodwa ungakhuthazeka kakhulu kwaye uhlale apho ujija izithupha.
Jonga nje abantu abaya kubona izithethi ezikhuthazayo ukuze bafumane iziphumo zabo abazifunayo. Beme kwaye baqhwabe izandla batsibe bakhwaze benze nantoni na abaxelelwa yindwendwe. Abanye babo baya kuhamba kwaye bahle entloko kuqala ukujongana nemiceli mngeni abajongene nayo. Abanye baya kugoduka, bazive bethabatheke ziintsuku ezimbalwa, bazixelele ukuba yiyo le, Isiqalo sobomi babo obutsha , kwaye ukungahoyi ukwenza nantoni na.
Le yeyona ngxaki iphambili yenkuthazo: konke kusengqondweni . Inkuthazo ayilingani nesenzo. Inkuthazo ayiyonto yomzimba. Inkuthazo yimvakalelo nje, kunye neyethutyana kuloo nto.
Oko izithethi ezikhuthazayo zihlala zikutyeshela ukuxelela abaphulaphuli bazo abangenakuhlutha kukuba babeke kwiiyure ezili-15 zeentsuku ezipakishwe zizele ngumsebenzi oqeqeshekileyo kunye nomzamo wokufikelela kule ndawo bakuyo ngoku. Abavumi ukuba inkuthazo yabo ayisoloko ikhona, ukuba ihlala inyamalala kwaye inyamalale. Abazimasi babo abafuni kuyiva le nto abafuni kuxelelwa ukuba abayi kuphumeza nantoni na ukuba abakulungelanga ukunikezela iiyure ezithile ezinzulu ukuba bathathe amanyathelo.
Ngaphezu, kunzima ngandlela ithile ukufumana inkuthazo yokugqibezela imisebenzi yesiqhelo, nokuba ibaluleke kangakanani kwaye ibalulekile. Nokuba yimisebenzi yasendlwini, imbuyekezo yerhafu yeshishini, iifowuni ezithengisayo, okanye iintlanganiso ezikruqulayo, kukho into oza kusokola ukuyifumana inkuthazo.
Uqeqesho lubaluleke ngaphezu kokucwangcisa. Ukugqitywa ngempumelelo komsebenzi, ngakumbi lowo kubandakanya inqanaba lokuntsokotha, kuyancedwa kakhulu ngokwenziwa kwesicwangciso ngaphambi kokuphunyezwa. Nangona kunjalo isicwangciso sisicwangciso kuphela. Isicwangciso siya kukuxelela ukuba usuka njani ku-A uye ku-B, kodwa ayizukuthatha manyathelo akho.
Unokucinga ukuba uluhlu lwakho lwezinto eziza kwenziwa luyakunceda ukuba wenze izinto, kodwa lusebenza ngokukuko njengoko uphawula izinto. Zingaphi izinto ezikuluhlu lwakho ezingasetyenziswanga? Zingaphi iinowuthi zePost-it osasazileyo kwidesika yakho okanye ubambelele kwifriji yakho esele zikho iiveki okanye iinyanga okanye iminyaka?
Uyazi ngokwakho ukuba kunjani ukwenza isicwangciso kwaye ungayilandeli. Kwenzeka rhoqo kunokuba ungathanda ukuvuma. Izicwangciso ezinkulu, izicwangciso ezincinci, akunamsebenzi ukuba bawele ecaleni kwendlela.
Musa ukuzibetha malunga nayo - wonke umntu uyayenza. Nditsho nabona baphumeleleyo phakathi kwethu baye bangena kwizicwangciso, kodwa banalo uqeqesho lokwenza ngokuhambelana nezicwangciso ezibaluleke kubo.
Kungenxa yesi sizathu le nto ucwangciso lusekondari kuqeqesho: isicwangciso, ukuba asilandelwa, asitshintshi kwanto, kodwa isenzo sisenguqu uqobo. Xa uqeqeshwe ekulandeleni isenzo, uya kuba ngamandla okutshintsha ebomini bakho, kwaye uhlala kwilizwe elibanzi.
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Uqeqesho lubaluleke ngaphezu kokonwaba. Xa ukonwabela ukwenza into, xa kunjalo ukuthanda kwakho , ayingomzamo kwaphela. Kuluyolo. Kwaye oku kungakhokelela kwixesha elinemveliso kakhulu lomsebenzi okanye ulonwabo.
Kodwa uza kuthini xa kufuneka wenze into ongayithandiyo? Kuthekani ke ngoku? Ngaba ngandlela thile ungazonwabisa? Akunakulindeleka.
Hayi, ukuba awonwabeli umsebenzi othile, uya kufumana zonke iindlela zokungawenzi. Ukuba awuyonwabeli, uya kuyilibazisa. Ukuba awuyonwabeli, uya koyika ukuyenza.
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Kwaye, ewe, mininzi imisebenzi onokukhetha ukuyenza, kodwa ibalulekile, ukuba ayibalulekanga. Ke kufuneka zenziwe, akunjalo?
Kodwa wenza njani zizise ukuba wenze zonke izinto ongathandi ukuzenza ? Isisombululo kukuphela kwengqeqesho. Kuya kufuneka ubhajwe ngaphakathi kwaye ukhuhle indlu yangasese, uye ubaleke, kwaye ubhale la dissertation.
Ayinamsebenzi ukuba awuyithandi, isenzo sokwenza sanele ukuba senziwe. Unokuziva ukhathazekile, udikwe, okanye udiniwe, kodwa ukuba gxila kulo msebenzi kwaye uqhubeke usenza , ekugqibeleni uza kuyigqiba.
Enye into eyonwabisayo yile: into esiyonwabelayo inokutshintsha ukusuka komnye umzuzu uye komnye. Singonwabela into yokuqala, kwaye emva koko sibone umdla wethu uphela ixesha elide silwenza.
Khawufane ucinge i-ice cream sundae engapheliyo kunye nazo zonke izinto ozithandayo ngaphandle kokuba itikiti lendlela yesifo seswekile, ibonisa kakuhle ubume bokuzonwabisa. Imilomo embalwa yokuqala ifana nezulu kwipleyiti, ezili-10 ezilandelayo ziyanelisa kakhulu, kwaye ezili-10 emva koko zilungile. Kodwa emva koko kukho into eyenzekayo uyayonwabela icephe ngalinye lincinci kancinci kunelo lokugqibela, de, ekugqibeleni, ungayonwabisi kwaphela.
Ke musa ukuxhomekeka kukonwabela kwakho umsebenzi ukuze uwenze.
Uqeqesho lubaluleke ngaphezu kwamandla akho. Ngokuqinisekileyo kubonakala ngathi wenza okuninzi ngakumbi xa iibhetri zakho zihlawulisiwe kwaye i-vim kunye namandla obomi ahamba ngawe. Kusengqiqweni ukucinga ukuba usebenza kwinqanaba elifanelekileyo lokusebenza kwakho ngala maxesha xa unamandla omzimba nawengqondo.
Kodwa kwenzeka ntoni xa ungaziva ugcwele iimbotyi? Ngaba uwe yimfumba, ungashukumi? Ngokuqinisekileyo, kodwa akufuneki kube njalo. Nokuba udiniwe, unawo amandla okuqhubeka nokusebenza ukuba kufanelekile khetha ukwenza njalo.
Akunqabile ukuba nabani na awachithe onke amandla abo ngaphandle kokuba, mhlawumbi, baye babaleka umdyarho okanye bathathe inxaxheba kolunye uhlobo, ngaphandle komceli mngeni oqhelekileyo. Ubukhulu becala, siya kuba nokugcina amandla elungile kwaye silindile ukuba sinqwenela ukuwasebenzisa.
Kulapho uqeqesho lungena khona. Ngezo zihlandlo apho kudinwa khona, ungaqhubeka nokutyhala, uzingise ngawo nawuphi na umsebenzi owenzayo. Isenokungabi lula, kwaye ungakonwabisi, kodwa inokwenziwa ude ufikelele kwinqanaba lokudinwa okunyanisekileyo.
Mininzi imisebenzi efuna ukuba abantu baqhubeke nokujongana nokudinwa. Oogqirha kunye nabanye abasebenzi kwigumbi likaxakeka esibhedlele baya kuthi rhoqo benze iishifti zeeyure eziyi-12 apho amanqanaba abo ezinto ebethelelwe. Abapheki bahlala ekhitshini ixesha elininzi emini nasebusuku bengayeki. Abathengisi bamasheya baya kufaka iiyure ezinzulu ukugubungela zonke iimarike ezinkulu zezemali kwihlabathi liphela.
Ngaba aba bantu banengxaki yokuzibekela amangomso izinto ngelixa besebenza? Akukho thuba. Intando yabo yokuqhubeka nokusebenza ayixhomekekanga kumanqanaba emandla abo, ixhomekeke kuqeqesho lwabo kunye nokuzinikela kwabo.
Uqeqesho lubaluleke ngaphezu kwemikhwa. Ukuthatha amanyathelo athile ngaphandle komkhwa okanye ngenxa yokuba eyinxalenye yesiqhelo kunokuba yeyona ndlela isebenzayo yokwenza izinto. Inokuba ilunge ngakumbi kwimisebenzi ofumana kuyo ulonwabo oluncinci okanye ungonwabi, njengokuhlamba impahla, ukuphendula ii-imeyile zenkonzo yabathengi, okanye ukuthenga ukutya.
Ukuba unamathela kumaxesha athile xa kwenziwe le misebenzi kunye neminye imisebenzi, uthatha into oyikhethileyo kunxaki. Awusakhethi ukwenza ezi zinto, ulandela nje indlela yokuziphatha.
Kodwa ngaba oku kwanele ukuqinisekisa ukuba izinto ziyenziwa? Akunjalo. Imikhwa inokuqhawulwa kunye neendlela ezinxaxhileyo. Ukuba uziva udiniwe okanye ulusizi, okanye enye into evelayo onokuthi ukhethe ukuyenza endaweni yoko, imisebenzi encinci kunye nemisebenzi yasekhaya inokuhlala ingagqitywanga.
Ukuze unamathele kwishedyuli yakho yesiqhelo, kufuneka uye kuyo ngoqeqesho. Kuphela kungumnqweno ozimiseleyo wokubona umsebenzi ukuya esiphelweni sakho apho unokuqinisekisa ukuba inkqubo yakho iyagcinwa.
Yintoni ebeka uqeqesho ngokwahlukileyo?
Kuya kufuneka uqiniseke ngoku ukuba uqeqesho lusisiseko kuwo wonke umsebenzi, kodwa kutheni kufanele ukuba kube njalo?
Ewe, kuqala uqeqesho lususa isenzo kwidomeyini yengqondo kwaye siyibeka ngokuqinileyo kwilizwe lokwenyani. Inkuthazo, ucwangciso, ukonwaba, amandla, kunye nemikhwa zonke zisekwe engqondweni (okanye emzimbeni), ngelixa uqeqesho luyinto eyahluke kwaphela.
Uqeqesho aluyongcinga ingako, kodwa sisenzo ngokwaso. Ukucacisa ngakumbi, yinkqubo apho kuthathwa inyathelo. Imeko yakho yengqondo ayibalulekanga kuba unyamezele nje ukwenza nantoni na.
Uqeqesho yindlela ethatha ukwazi, ukuthanda-okusekwe engqondweni okanye ukhetho kwaye uyijike ibe sisiphumo sokwenyani, okwenyani kunye nesenzo.
Okwesibini, lo gama yonke le misebenzi ikhankanywe apha ngasentla yeyethutyana, uqeqesho lusisigxina. Ayisebenzi, ichithe okanye ilahleke. Ukuba unqwenela ukungena kuyo, ihlala ikho.
Oku kubalulekile kuba kuthetha ukuba nantoni na eyenzekayo kuwe nakwiindawo ezikungqongileyo, ukuba ungasebenzisa uqeqesho lwakho, inyathelo elifunekayo linokufezekiswa.
Okwesithathu, Ingqeqesho inokuba ngumthombo wazo zonke ezinye izinto ekuxoxwe ngazo apha. Xa uqhubeka nomsebenzi owenzayo, xa uzingisa kuwo, ungafumanisa ukuba inkuthazo, ukonwaba, kunye namandla akho enyuka. Ulwaneliseko olukhulu lokufezekisa kuhlala kunele ukugcwalisa ingqondo yakho ngeengcinga neemvakalelo ezintle.
Ingqeqesho inokukunceda imikhwa yeefom kwaye wenze iinkqubo, kwaye kuba ukucwangciswa kungumsebenzi ofana nawo nawuphi na omnye, uqeqesho kuko konke okufunekayo ukwenza isicwangciso oza kuthi kamva usenze.
Uqeqesho lusembindini weyona mpumelelo inkulu. UMichelangelo ngekhe awugqibe umzobo weSistine Chapel ngaphandle koqeqesho lokuqhubeka kuyo yonke loo minyaka. Iimbaleki ezikhethiweyo azifikeleli kumgangatho wazo wokuqina kunye nobuchule ngaphandle kweminyaka yokusebenza nzima nokuzimisela. Nokuba imikhosi yethu exhobileyo iyasilela ukusebenza ngaphandle koqeqesho lwentengiso yabo - ngapha koko, xa usemfazweni, akukho sixa sokucwangcisa, ukukhuthaza, ukonwaba, amandla, okanye indlela yesiqhelo eya kwanela ngaphandle koqeqesho lokulandela nokwenza iimfuno ukuba yenziwe.
Ukuba ufuna ukugqiba umsebenzi kunye phumelela kwiinjongo zakho , ekuphela kwendlela yokuthintela iimbumbulu yeyokuqeqesha.
