Ndenza ntoni ngobomi bam? Umbuzo omkhulu ukuba ubuze, kodwa wonke umntu ukhe wacamngca ngaxa lithile.
Ndiyazi ukuba ucinga ntoni. Ufuna ukuvuka ntsasa nganye ulungele ukwamkela usuku oluzayo. Ufuna ukuziva uphila, wanelisekile, kwaye unikwe amandla. Ufuna ukujonga emva kwiminyaka engama-30, 40, okanye engama-50 kwaye ubone ubomi obuchithwe kakuhle.
Kodwa ngoku ukwindawo emnyama. Uyasokola ebhedini ntsasa nganye kunye nemvakalelo yoloyiko ngemini ekulindeleyo. Uziva ungenanto, ungonwabanga kwaye unamathele. Awufuni nokucinga iminyaka engama-30, engama-40, okanye engama-50 ezayo kuba yonke into onokuyibona ikamva elimfiliba, eliphindaphindayo, nelingazalisekisi ngokulusizi.
Akunyanzelekanga ukuba kubenje.
izinto zokwenza usuku lwakho lokuzalwa lwamakhwenkwe
Inyathelo lokuqala lokuya ebomini onokuthi ujonge phambili lelo ungalithatha namhlanje. Konke okufuneka ukwenze kukuqhubeka nokufunda, kuba kweli nqaku siza kuphonononga umendo ukusuka kwinyanzeliso ukuya ekuphefumlweni.
Ukuba ujonga inqaku elithile lomsebenzi onokukunceda ufumane eyona ndlela ungayithatha ebomini bakho bokusebenza, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufuna jonga inqaku lethu elikunceda ufumane oku .
Ngaba Unaso Kutheni?
Ngokuqinisekileyo, yinto encinci kwi-bubble yophuhliso lomntu, kodwa ukuqonda ukuba 'kutheni' okanye isizathu sakho sokwenza into oyenzayo yinto ebalulekileyo kakhulu kwinkqubo.
Khawufane ucinge ukuba unomoya ophathwayo ophefumlelweyo odibanisa ngqo nengqondo, umzimba kunye nomoya. Wakho kutheni umoya. Jika ujonge ukuba kutheni kwaye iiturbine zakho zijikeleza, zikomeleza njengoko zisenza njalo. Jika uye nakweliphi na icala kwaye amandla akho ehle.
Ukufumanisa ukuba kutheni kutheni kubandakanya ukubona ezo zinto zikunika amandla. Impumelelo yomsebenzi, ubomi bosapho, izinto ozithandayo, uthando, kunye nophuhliso lomntu zezinye zezona ziqhelekileyo.
Zibuze lo mbuzo: ukuba imali ibingeyonto, ubuya kuba wenza ntoni ngoku?
Iimpendulo zakho ziya kubonelela ngefestile kwizizathu zakho. Ukuba, umzekelo, ubuya kuba uhleli elunxwemeni une-cocktail kwisandla esinye kunye nencwadi elungileyo kwelinye, kutheni kutheni kubandakanya ukuphumla kunye nokuhamba. Ukuba uzibona uqhuba isisa sabantwana abahlelelekileyo, emva koko kutheni usekwe ekunikeni kunye ukunceda abanye .
Luphi Ugqaliselo lwakho?
Ingqondo yakho ayinakubakho kwiindawo ezimbini ngaxeshanye. Ujoliso lwakho lilinganiselwe kwaye ukhetha into oyenzayo neyakho njengoko kudlula umzuzwana ngamnye.
Xa ujolisa kwinto yakho, xa ujika iincakuba zeinjini yomoya uye emoyeni, uziva unomdla, umxholo , uzimisele, kwaye uzolile. Gxila kwenye indawo kwaye ubeka esichengeni sokuziva uphantsi, andonwabanga , kwaye wagxininisa.
Umbuzo 'ndenza ntoni ngobomi bam?' ihlala ikho xa ungajolisanga kwinto yakho. Uqwalaselo lwakho luye lwathathwa zezinye izinto ngokokude ungakwazi ukuzalisa iivenkile zakho zamandla. Okude oku kuqhubeka, kokukhona uqala ukubuza kwicala lakho lokuhamba.
Uzifumana unesikhalazo malunga neemeko zakho zangaphambili kunye nokukhetha okwenzileyo okukukhokelele kweli nqanaba. Ulahlekelwa ngumbono wokulungileyo ebomini bakho kwaye unakho ukukhula oku.
Yeka. Ndiyacela. Awuzenzeli naziphi na izinto ezilungileyo.
ikati kumnqwazi weentlanzi
Cinga iingcinga zakho okomzuzwana. Yintoni ocinga ngayo kakhulu? Ukuba ayisiyiyo eyakho kutheni, akumangalisi ukuba uzive kancinci ngokuqinisekileyo awuqinisekanga .
Into ochitha ixesha ucinga ngayo lukhetho onawo amandla okwenza. Ukukhetha ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kugxile kwisizathu sokuba kutheni kuyindlela elungileyo yomlilo yokuziva ungcono ngobomi bakho.
Yintoni osele unayo ebomini bakho?
Yakho kutheni sele ikhona ebomini bakho. Konke okufuneka ukwenze kukujonga kakuhle kwaye uqaphele ukuba ikhona.
Khumbula, kutheni le nto ikunika amandla, kwaye wonke umntu ufumana amandla amaxesha ngamaxesha. Qaphela into oyenzayo kunye nabani onaye xa uziva oku kunyuka kwamandla yile nto iphambili yokuba kutheni.
Ukuphakamisa le nto kutheni kuza ezantsi ekuqondeni ubukho bayo kwaye unombulelo ngayo. Ungaze uthabathe ixesha lokuziva uphila.
Ayipheleli kwinto onayo ngoku…
undijonge emehlweni xa sithetha
Yintoni oyifunayo ngaphantsi / ngaphezulu?
Ukukunceda ukuba ubone apho ungabeka khona ugxininiso lwakho, kufuneka uqale ufumane izinto ezimbini: into oyifunayo encinci kunye nokuba ufuna ntoni ngaphezulu.
Kuya kufuneka ube ubanzi 'kutheni' entlokweni yakho ngoku, kodwa kuyanceda ukufumana ngakumbi ngakumbi. Phuhlisa umfanekiso ocacileyo wento eyenzayo nengabalulekanga kubomi obungathanda ukubuphila kwaye ungaqala ukutshintsha ukugxila kwakho kwicala elifanelekileyo.
Bamba iphepha kunye nosiba uze uzobe umgca othe nkqo ezantsi embindini wephepha. Kwikholamu yesandla sasekhohlo, bhala phantsi zonke izinto ongazifuni kangako ebomini bakho. Ngokunjalo, dwelisa izinto ozifuna ngakumbi kwikholamu yesandla sasekunene.
Uxinzelelo lomsebenzi, uxinzelelo lwezezimali, iingxaki zempilo, kunye nengxaki yobudlelwane yimizekelo yezinto ezinokuhamba kwikholamu yakho 'encinci'. Ixesha nabantwana, iiholide, ubuhlobo obunentsingiselo, kunye noxolo lwengqondo kunokuya kwikholamu yakho 'engaphezulu'.
Gcina eli phetshana kuwe, okanye ulibeke kwindawo ebonakalayo apho uza kulibona rhoqo. Yenza ukhetho lokucinga kancinci malunga nezinto ezikwicala lasekhohlo, kwaye wenze ukhetho lokwenza ngendlela eya kukuzisela izinto kwicala lasekunene.
Ngoku oku kubaluleke kakhulu, ke naka ingqalelo: AKUFANELE ujonge iingcinga zakho ngqo kwizinto ozifuna ngakumbi, kodwa kwizinto ezinokubazisa. Ukuhlala ixesha elide kakhulu kwizinto ozifuna ngakumbi ayisiyiyo ulungelelwaniso olululo kunye nesizathu sakho kuba uzinze kwinto ongenayo kunokuba unayo.
Kutheni kutheni eyinyani kwaye isentloko yakho. Xa unamava okuba kutheni ngokuthe ngqo, kuyakomeleza. Xa ungakwazi ukuba mnye nesizathu sakho, ubeka emngciphekweni wokuziva ungonwabanga-ukuba uvumela ingqondo yakho ukuba ihlale koku kungabikho kwesizathu.
Endaweni yokuzifaka kwiingcinga ezingalunganga malunga nokusilela kwakho kwesizathu, cinga ngawo onke amanyathelo aqinisekileyo onokuwathatha ukulungelelanisa nayo kwakhona. Isenzo ngasinye osithathayo kufuneka sonwabe ngakumbi njengoko ujika kancinci kancinci ujonge umoya kwaye iincakuba zakho zeinjini ziqala ukujikeleza ngokukhawuleza nangokukhawuleza.
Uzama ukuChukumisa bani?
Inye into ekufuneka uyiqwalasele ngononophelo kukuba ingaba kutheni entlokweni yakho kungqamana nesizathu sentliziyo yakho. Intloko yakho inokuyikhohlisa inokukucenga ukuba kufanelekile ukuba ujonge injongo enye kuba yinto elindelwe ngabanye kuwe. Intliziyo yakho ayenzi into enjalo.
Qhubeka ubuze umbuzo njengoko usiya malunga nokuthatha inyathelo lokungqamanisa nesizathu sakho: ndizama ukubonakalisa bani?
Ukuba iminqweno yakho ibandakanya ukuchukumisa abanye kwaye ubenze babamonele / bazingce ngawe, uya kuba uyilahlekisa indlela oya kuyo. Ukuba inyathelo ngalinye olithabathayo usiya kwinjongo ethile ayikukuniki amandla ngakumbi nangakumbi, ayisiyonjongo elungileyo ukusukela.
Sukuvumela abanye abantu bazame ukuyalela ukuba kutheni-baya kuyifumana gwenxa. Nguwe kuphela owaziyo into enqwenelwa yintliziyo yakho kwaye yile nto ibaluleke kakhulu, hayi iminqweno yelungu losapho, umhlobo, okanye uluntu. Banokuphoxeka ukuba uthatha indlela eyahlukileyo kuleyo bakukhethele yona, kodwa ukuba bakukhathalele ngokwenyani, baya kuza kungekudala njengoko amehlo akho eqaqambile ngumnqweno namandla.
Wenza ntoni ngobomi bakho? Mhlawumbi lixesha lokuba ubuze umbuzo owahlukileyo: kutheni usenza ntoni kwaye unokwenza ntoni ukunxibelelana nayo? Ukuba ndiziva ndililolo kwaye ndilahlekile , sukuzibetha ngokwakho wonke umntu ufumana le ndlela ngaxa lithile. Khawukhumbule nje ukuba ujoliso lwakho sisixhobo esinamandla ekubalekeni umkhwa okuwo. Jika kwicala elifanelekileyo kwaye uya kuba namandla amaninzi, ngekhe wazi ukuba wenzeni ngawo. Vumela oku kube yinkuthazo oyifunayo ukuze uqale uhambo lokufumanisa oluya kuthi ekugqibeleni lukukhokelele kulwaneliseko.
Ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba ungayenza njani into oyenzayo ngobomi bakho? Thetha kumqeqeshi wobomi namhlanje onokuhamba kwinkqubo. Cofa nje apha ukudibanisa nenye.
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