Uziva ngathi uyakhukuliseka kulwandle lwe-dreary, u-extiting, monotony kwaye awunakubona unxweme lwesiqithi esithuthuzelayo, esonelisayo apho i-raison d'être (aka isizathu sakho sokuba ulinde).
Sukuba nexhala, awuwedwa. Ngapha koko, uyinxalenye yeqela elikhulu labantu kule planethi. Awazi ukuba wenzeni ngobomi bakho kwaye awazi ukuba ungayifumana njani.
Into yokuqala yokuyiqonda kukuba le yinto eqhelekileyo ukuba abantu abazalwanga besazi ukuba yeyiphi eyona ndima yabo ekuhlaleni. Endaweni yokuba bazalwe benamathuba amaninzi okufumana ubizo lwabo. Ingxaki kukuba ngelixa ukhetho lukhulu, ukhetho lukhe lube nzima.
Ngaphezulu, ubomi buhlala buhamba kwaye ukhetho oluchanekileyo luyatshintsha njengoko uhambo lwakho luyehla. Akumangalisi ukuba abaninzi kuthi bazifumane benemvakalelo ekhathazayo yokuba kungabakho okuninzi ngakumbi phaya ngaphandle ukuba besinokufikelela kuko kuphela.
Ukuba ukhubekile kweli nqaku, amathuba okuba ungomnye waba bantu. Ngale nto engqondweni, nazi ezinye izikhombisi-ndlela ekufuneka uzilandele ekufuneka zikukhokelele kwicala elifanelekileyo ukuze ekugqibeleni uyityhile into (s) ofuna ukuyifeza ebomini.
Ixesha elizayo Asilolethu Ukubona
'Ixesha elizayo ayilolethu ukubona' ngamazwi avela kwingoma edumileyo yosuku lukaDoris kwaye ayinyani kwinqanaba elikhulu. Sinokuqala ukucinga ukuba ubomi busigcinele ntoni kwaye asifanele iwela emgibeni yokucinga kufuneka sicwangcise lonke ixesha lobomi.
Awunakuze wazi into enokuba ikukuhle kwikona yempilo yakho, imeko yakho yomsebenzi, usapho lwakho, kunye noluntu ngokubanzi banokubona utshintsho oluninzi kwaye izinto ezininzi azinakulungiselelwa.
ukungcatshwa ngumntu omthandayo
Unako, nangona kunjalo, ukujonga phambili kwikota elifutshane kwaye uzame ukwenza izinto ezininzi ezikunika uvuyo kangangoko. Nokuba oku kubandakanya umsebenzi wakho okanye izinto ozithandayo, ngokusukela amaxesha amahle, ubuncinci sinokwenza ukuba uhambo lube mnandi ngakumbi.
Imveliso ephuma kule ndlela kukuba unako fumanisa iitalente ezifihliweyo okanye iminqweno kuphela ngokufuna amathuba okufumana ulonwabo lokwenene.
Kwaye ngenxa yezo zinto ungenako ukuzibona kwangaphambili, unokuzama ukuqengqa ngamanqindi kwaye uzithathe njengoko zisiza. Ukungaqiniseki akunakuthintelwa kwaye eminye iminyhadala izakuzisa isiphithiphithi enye indlela yokujongana nokuzama ukujonga isiphoso ngasinye njengokulindela okuhle ukuba kwenzeke - ukuba uyakwenza oko.
Wamkele ukungakhululeki ukufezekisa ulonwabo
Indlela yoBomi kunqabile ukuba ihlale igudile, oko kuthetha ukuba uza kudibana nobunzima obukhulu. Nokuba kukusilela kwemali ngokwasemzimbeni okuthintela ukuba wenze into okanye inyikima yomoya ejika umhlaba wakho ujonge ezantsi, kuya kufuneka ukwamkele ukuba ukungqongqoza kunye neebumps akunakuphetshwa ngokupheleleyo.
Ngalo lonke ixesha ufumana ukungathandeki okunje, uya kufunda ngakumbi malunga nawe kunye neminqweno yakho ngekamva. Uyakufumanisa ukuba uyiintoni kwaye awukulungelanga ukunyamezela kwaye oku kuya kukukhokela kwindlela efanelekileyo ngakumbi kuhambo lwakho.
Umzekelo, ekuqaleni ungafuna ukuba ligqwetha, kodwa uzifumanele iminyaka emi-3 kuqeqesho lwakho kunye neminyaka emininzi phambi kwakho, phantse ungenamali, usebenza iiyure ezingama-70 kwaye ungonwabanga. Ufumene ixesha lokungonwabi okukhulu, kodwa ufunde ukuba imida yakho yeyiphi ngokubhekisele ekutyhaleni ingqondo nomzimba wakho ngenjongo yomsebenzi. Ngoku unokuhlengahlengisa ikhosi yakho kwaye ukhangele amathuba awahlukileyo alunge ngakumbi nokunyamezelana kwengqondo kunye nomzimba.
Bambisa iziphazamiso kwaye ususe kude nokuzibekela amangomso
Ungaze ulibale ukuba ixesha alindelanga mntu. Unokufuna ukufumanisa kunye nokuleqa iphupha, kodwa ngekhe ukwazi ukwenza njalo ukuba ugcina ukubeka kude okungenakuphepheka. Gcina izinto ozithandayo, ixesha losapho kunye nezinye izinto ozixabise ngokwenene, kodwa uthathe lonke ixesha elichithwe ngenye indlela wenze into ngalo.
Ukutyhila indlela yakho efanelekileyo ebomini akukho ngaphandle kokusebenza kanzima kunye nomzamo. Kuya kufuneka ubeke ingqondo yakho ukuba isebenze, uzibandakanye nomzimba wakho kwaye usebenzise eliphi ixesha onalo.
Iindlela ezinokuphandwa ezinokubakho zomsebenzi, thetha nabantu abanamava ebaleni, nokuba ungavolontiya ukuba kunokwenzeka ufumane ukuqonda ukuba kulungile na kuwe. Awunakuze uxelele ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba uya kuyonwabela kangakanani into de ube uzenze izandla zakho zimdaka uyenza okwethutyana. Kwaye ungayenza loo nto ukuba uyeka ukwenza izizathu kwaye uyeke ukufumana iindlela zokuchitha ixesha lakho.
uyithatha phi isoka lakho xa usiya kwimini yokuzalwa
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Buza imibuzo (Zombini ezikhulu nezinkulu)
Awunakho ukufumana ulwazi ngaphandle kokubuza imibuzo ethile, kodwa xa ukhangela injongo yokuqhuba ukukhokela iintshukumo zakho zekamva ebomini, kuya kufuneka uzibuze hayi abanye.
Ngamanye amaxesha uyakufumana imibuzo enkulu iluncedo, njengawe unomdla kakhulu malunga , apho umi khona kwimicimbi emikhulu yokuziphatha, ubuya kuqala njani ukuba imali kunye nexesha bezingeyiyo into - olo hlobo lwento.
Ngamanye amaxesha, isenokuba yimibuzo emincinci enokukunceda uphucule indlela yakho. Ngaba uyathanda ukusebenza kwindawo yeofisi? Ngaba ukhetha isixeko, idolophu, okanye ilizwe? Zingaphi izinto zentlalo ezonele wena? Ngaba ixesha lokuphumla libalulekile kuwe?
Okukhona uphonononga le mibuzo kunye neminye imibuzo, kokukhona uya usondela ukuqonda ukuba ungubani kwaye loluphi ubizo lwakho olufanelekileyo ebomini (okanye, ubuncinci, kwinqanaba lakho lobomi ngoku).
Yiba Nomnqweno Wokuzincama Ngexesha Elifutshane
Okwangoku mhlawumbi ndiziva ndilahlekile awazi ukuba wenzeni ngobomi bakho kwaye ufuna ukufikelela kwindawo apho wenza khona. Nangona kunjalo, phakathi kwendawo okhoyo ngoku kunye nalapho unqwenela ukuba lapho, kukho indlela enzima yokuhamba.
Ukungakhululeki yinto esele ikhankanyiwe, kodwa enye into ekunokufuneka uyiqhelile kukubingelela.
Uyabona, sinexesha elininzi kunye namandla esinawo kwaye ngelixa ungafumana iindlela zokuzisebenzisa zombini, ukuba ufuna ukuthatha umtsi uye ku ubomi bolwaneliseko ngakumbi Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufuneka uyeke ezinye ze izinto ozithatha ngoku .
Mhlawumbi, emva kokwenza uphando lwakho kwaye uzibuze imibuzo efanelekileyo, ugqiba kwelokuba ufuna ukuqala ishishini. Kodwa awukabinayo imali eyimfuneko yokuyikhupha emhlabeni. Kuya kufuneka ubeke iiyure ezongezelelekileyo emsebenzini wakho wangoku, ulondoloze imali yakho kwinkcitho yakho, kwaye ude uncame ubunewunewu obukhoyo njengeemoto ezinee-flash kunye neeholide zangaphandle ukwenzela ukuba iphupha lakho libe yinyani.
Kuya kufuneka ulungele ukurhola phambili okwangoku ukuze uphumelele kwikamva, kuba ukuba akunjalo, uya kusokola ukutshintsha imeko yakho kwaye uhambe kwindlela yolonwabo.
Nqo nqo
Ngamanye amaxesha kuya kufuneka ubone amathuba azayo enkqonkqoza emnyango kwaye kufuneka uzimisele ukuphendula umnxeba wabo. Khumbula, ukuzama into yenye yezona ndlela zisebenzayo zokufumanisa ukuba ikulungele kangakanani na, ke xa ubomi bufuna ukukubonisa indlela, ungayihoyi - bamba ngezandla zozibini ubone ukuba kukuthatha phi.
Unganexhala lokuba ayiloxesha lililo okanye lithuba elifanelekileyo, kodwa ngekhe wazi ngaphandle kokuba uthathe umtsi kwaye ufumanise.
Ukuhlala ezandleni zakho ungenzi nto lukhetho, kodwa yeyona nto uya kuzisola ngayo njengoko usiya ukhula. Abantu kunqabile ukuba bazisole ngokuzonwabisa kwabo, kodwa bahlala bezisola ngokungahambi kwasekuqaleni.
Ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba wenzeni ngobomi bakho? Thetha kumqeqeshi wobomi namhlanje onokuhamba kwinkqubo yokufumanisa. Cofa nje apha ukunxibelelana nenye.
