Kwilizwe labathengi kunye nokusoloko usenza into enye kumajelo asekuhlaleni, kunokuba nzima ukuzimisa ngamanye amaxesha.
Ukuthatha izinto njengento engenamsebenzi yinto uninzi lwethu olunetyala ngayo, kodwa ikwayinto ekulula ukuyilungisa.
Ndichithe iintsuku ezingama-30 ndiziqhelanisa nombulelo wemihla ngemihla - ndicinga ngezinto ezintathu suku ngalunye endinombulelo kuzo kwaye ndicamngca ngazo.
Ezi zizinto ezi-7 eziphambili kuluhlu lwam…
1. Indawo ekhuselekileyo yokuhlala, yokutya neyokulala
Uninzi lwenu olufunda oku luyakwenza njalo ukusuka kwinduduzo yekhaya lakho, mhlawumbi uhleli esofeni okanye uphakanyiswe yiminye imibhede ebhedini.
imiqondiso uyakuthanda kodwa uyoyika
Ukuba nendawo yokuhlala yinto yesiqhelo kuninzi lwethu, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo into uninzi lwethu luyithatha kancinci.
Ukufika ekhaya kunokuziva uxinzelelo ngamanye amaxesha, njengoko unokoyika ukujongana nemfumba enkulu yokuhlamba okanye ukuhlamba okushiye ngasemva!
Into yokuba unendlu (okanye igumbi) apho itshixa ucango, amanzi abaleka etephini, kwaye ungalala kamnandi iyamangalisa.
Uninzi lwethu mhlawumbi sithatha izinto ezithile eziluncedo. Umbane, amanzi, kunye nendawo yokugcina ukutya esinokukutya zizinto ‘ezisisiseko’ ezintle, kodwa ziyamangalisa kunjalo.
Kulula kakhulu ukukhalaza ngezinto ezincinci, kodwa ukuba nekhaya apho ungaziva ukhuselekile, ushushu, kwaye uzenzele ikomityi yeti ngokuqinisekileyo into yokubulela .
2. uhambo lwakho
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ngumfutho omkhulu kunye nokugcwala kwabantu kunokuba yinto eyoyikisayo, kodwa ukuhamba kwakho akufuneki kube ngumthombo woxinzelelo lwemihla ngemihla.
Ukuba uqhuba uye emsebenzini, unakho ukuyiguqula imoto yakho ibe yiklasi ngokukhuphela iipodcast ezinomdla kwaye uzifundise kwisifundo esingahleliwe kuhambo ngalunye.
Okanye usebenzise uhambo lwakho lukaloliwe ukuze usebenze incwadi, okanye ubhale ngokwakho.
Enye yezona zinto zibalaseleyo malunga nokuhamba emotweni yakho ukuchitha ixesha wedwa , ukumamela umculo owuthandayo nakweliphi na ivolumu elungele imeko yakho. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, uyidlala kangaphi le ngoma iphindaphindwayo ngaphandle kokukhalaza?
wazi njani ukuba umhle na
Nabaphi na abazali ngaphandle phaya banokwazi ukuba inokuba yindawo engakanani yokusabela kwimoto yakho - njengoko uthanda abantwana bakho, kuyinto entle ukuba nexesha lokuthula.
Yenza olona hambo lokuhamba lwakho kwaye ubenombulelo kuba unexesha lakho wedwa-kunye nomsebenzi oza kuwo!
Ukuqunjelwa kwikhwapha lomntu wasemzini kwimetro akulunganga, ndiya kuvuma, kodwa sebenzisa eli xesha ukuziqhelanisa nokucamngca nemfesane.
Ukuzinika ixesha lokuba uvelane nabantu ongabazi kwaphela kuyayimangalisa ingqondo yakho kwaye kunokukunceda ube kwimeko entle.
Ncokola nabantu kuhambo lwakho! Ingabonakala ngathi iyoyikisa kwaye iyothusa, kodwa nokuba kukunxibelelana okuncinci nomntu omtsha (okanye umntu oqhelekileyo osoloko umbona usiya emsebenzini) kuya kukwenza uzive wonwabile ngawe.
Awudingi ukuba nentliziyo entliziyweni, kodwa ukutshintshiselana ngoncumo kunye nokuzibandakanya kwintetho encinci yindlela entle yokuzibekela usuku.
Yiba nombulelo ngeli xesha lokudala amava amatsha, kwaye unokucela umngeni kwimimandla yakho yokuthuthuzela.
yintoni chyna yafa
3. Ukuxolelwa okuncinci
Iikhofu ezingapheliyo endizithengayo yonke imihla ngelixa ndisebenza zihlala ziziva ngathi ziyimfuneko-ngokuyinxenye ukundigcina ndiphilile, kodwa nokugcina abo bandingqongileyo bekhuselekile!
Ngokwenyani, ezi coffees zincinci kufuneka zivakale ngathi ziyanyanga.
Ndinemali eyoneleyo yokuzithengela isiselo esimnandi, esimnandi (kunye nesilayi yekhekhe, masinyaniseke), kwaye lonto kufuneka ibambe ixabiso elingaphezulu kwelo lenzayo.
Ukuba neglasi yewayini emva komsebenzi, ukuthenga i-top entsha ngokuhlwa, okanye ukufumana i-guac eyongezelelweyo kwi-taco yakho zonke izinto ezincinci ezithathwa kalula.
Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
- Izinto eziyi-8 uninzi lwabantu oluthatha ixesha lokuphila ukuze uzifunde
- Imigaqo emi-6 eya kuLula ukwenza uBomi baKho kube ngokuLungileyo
- Izizathu ezili-10 zokungabuthathi kakubi ubomi
- Iindlela ezi-5 Isivamvo selungelo siyazityhila
- Izinto ezingama-28 ekufuneka uzenzile xa ukuKhaya wedwa kwaye uyadikwa engqondweni yakho
4. Indlela yakho yesiqhelo
Kulula kakhulu ukuba uthathe indlela yakho yesiqhelo, kwaye eneneni uyonyanya!
Ukwenza into efanayo ngemini, ukuphuma kwemihla kunokuziva kukruqula kwaye kungathandeki, kodwa kukho izinto ezithile ezilungileyo ekubeni nesiqhelo.
Usenokungaziva engqondweni yakho, kodwa umzimba wakho ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuba nombulelo ngesiqhelo osibekeleyo.
Imizimba yethu kunye neengqondo zisebenza ngcono kakhulu xa zizinzile-ukuvuka ngexesha elifanayo yonke imihla, ukubeka amaxesha okutya, kunye nokulala ngexesha eliqhelekileyo ubusuku ngabunye konke kuyanceda.
Kungaba lula ukulibala malunga nezi zinto zinje emva kwayo yonke loo nto, akusoloko sihlala phantsi kwaye sicinga ngenene ngobomi bethu. Ukuba neshedyuli kunye nokuvumela umzimba wakho ukuba uhlale kuyo kusebenza kakuhle!
Ngexesha elizayo xa ufumanisa ukuba uvuka umzuzu ngaphambi kokuba ialam yakho icime, zama kwaye uzive unombulelo- iingqondo nemizimba yethu iyamangalisa, kwaye indlela yakho yesiqhelo ibanceda ukuba basebenze ngokusemandleni abo.
Ziqhelise ukubulela kwintuthuzelo yesiqhelo sakho, kwaye uyixabise into yokuba unemikhwa ethile emincinci egxile kuwe ngoku.
Uyazi ukuba leliphi icala lesofa lelakho, isisu sakho siyangxola ukuba unemizuzu emihlanu emva kwexesha lesidlo sasemini, kwaye isithethe sakho sakusasa siyanceda ukuseta usuku.
5. Impilo yakho
Ewe kunjalo, oku bekufanele ukuba kwenziwe uluhlu!
Kuya kubakho abanye abantu befunda oku abanokuthi baphathwe sisifo esinganyangekiyo okanye esisongela ubomi.
Kwabo bangekhoyo, impilo yakho yinto enokuthi ithathwe ngokungakhathali. Siyayilibala indlela emangalisa ngayo imizimba yethu, kwaye inyani yokuba zihlala zingena nje ngasemva ngaphandle kwekhefu ngummangaliso wobomi.
Rhoqo siqonda ngokwenyani ukuba silunge kangakanani xa ngesiquphe singenalo oluhle. Ukuzama ukuphefumla impumlo yakho ngengqele kukwenza ukhumbule indlela ekumangalisa ngayo ukuphefumla ngokukhululekileyo.
xelela indalo iphela into oyifunayo
Zama ukusebenzisa lo mfuziselo emzimbeni nasengqondweni yakho ngokubanzi. Impilo yengqondo ibaluleke kakhulu kwaye nabani na osokolayo uya kuyazi indlela ekumangalisa ngayo ukuba 'aphinde avele' emva kwesiqendu esibi.
Yiba khona kwaye unombulelo ngempilo yakho, kwaye ukhumbule ukuba unethamsanqa lokuba unayo.
6. Ubuhlobo Nobudlelwane
Kunokuba luncedo kwaye kuluncedo ukuhlala phantsi ucinge ngabo bonke abantu ababalulekileyo ebomini bakho.
kutheni amadoda eshiya omnye umfazi
Jonga kwifowuni yakho kunye namaxesha obiza ngawo uMama wakho, mingaphi imiyalezo oyithumela kwiqabane lakho kwaye zingaphi iimemes zomhlobo wakho osenyongweni okumakishe ngazo namhlanje.
Sihlala sibathatha kancinci aba bantu, kwaye, ngelixa oko kuyinto eqhelekileyo, kufanelekile ukuthatha ixesha lokujonga ukuba unethamsanqa kangakanani.
Ukuba ngumntu owonwabileyo kwaye usempilweni uyehla eze kwizinto ezahlukeneyo, kodwa ukungqongwa ngabantu abaxhasayo abatyala imali kubomi bakho kudlala indima enkulu kuyo.
Kuyamangalisa ukwazi ukubiza abantu obathandayo kwaye obakhathaleleyo, kwaye kuyamangalisa ukukwazi ukuziva kwaye ukuvakalise oko.
Ukubuza 'Unjani?' Kungokwemvelo kuthi, kodwa cinga ngabantu abaneempendulo zabo obakhathalele ngokwenene.
Inyani yokuba sinabantu abakolu luhlu iyamangalisa kakhulu, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo yinto ekufuneka siyenzile ukuchitha ixesha elininzi siyayixabisa.
7. Ixesha
Khawufane ucinge imizuzu njengemali: yindlela entle yeklasikhi yokujonga izinto, kodwa ngesizathu.
Kukho imizuzu engama-1440 ngosuku ngalunye, enokubonakala ngathi ayilixesha elininzi, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo yimali eninzi! Njengoko umzekeliso omdala uhamba, cinga ukuba une-1440 yeedola kwaye kufuneka uchithe yonke into ngosuku olunye-awungekhe uyigcine kwaye awukwazi ukuyinika.
Kuvakala ukuba kumnandi, kunene?
Ngoku khumbula ukuba ezo dola yimizuzu, kwaye kuya kufuneka uzenze ngobuninzi bazo ngemini enye.
Ixesha liphelile kwaye lixabisekile, kwaye kunokuba luncedo ukuthatha umzuzwana ukuyixabisa into esiyiyo uyaphila .
Isenokuvakala ngathi yi'hipp dippy 'kodwa kukho amathuba amaninzi kunye namava ngaphandle apho esinokufikelela kuwo, kunye nexesha esilichitha kwimimandla yethu yokuthuthuzela.
Nokuba ufuna ukuhlala esiqhelweni okanye ulahle yonke into kwaye uhambe, unexesha lokwenza njalo, kwaye iyamangalisa.
