Kukubheja okukhuselekileyo uninzi lwethu olunokuthi 'ukuba bendinemali eyoneleyo' iphupha lokuzaliseka kobuqu.
Njengokwakha kwezentlalo, imali inokwenza izinto ezintle: ikuvumela ukuba uthenge amatikiti ebhanyabhanya nabahlobo aququzelela imihla evumela ukuthengwa kwezithako ukwenza isuphu eyenziwe ekhaya.
Kodwa masingaze senze ngathi asinako, kwaye singonwabisi, ukuba kunye nabahlobo ngaphandle kwayo, ukukhuthaza ukusondelelana nothando ngokungabikho kwayo, okanye ukufezekisa ulonwabo olugqibeleleyo ekufumaneni izithako zeentlobo ezahlukeneyo zokutya endle.
Ngaphandle kokulungiswa kwemali yoluntu kwihlabathi liphela, akukho zinto zingenakuthengwa.
1. Ukwaneliseka
Imali ayikuthengi ukwaneliseka. Amaxesha ngamaxesha siye sabona isenzo esichaseneyo sibambe inyani: kokukhona umntu enayo, kokukhona umntu efuna.
Isidingo sokungakumbi siba sisiyobisi esingaqhelekanga sokungoneliseki, endaweni yokukhangela ulwaneliseko.
2. Ulonwabo
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba zininzi kangakanani izinto eziphathekayo, ukuba ubomi bakho bungenakho ukulingana kunye nokulinganisela, imali ayizinzisi izinto. Ukuba kukho nantoni na, iyithumela ukuba ijikeleze kwenye indawo yasendle, engalindelekanga.
Ngokuphindaphindiweyo, sibona imizekelo yabantu abazizityebi belusizi ngokupheleleyo. Abonwabanga kubomi babo bothando, kubomi bosapho, okanye nakwimisebenzi yabo. Ngokucacileyo, imali ayiluthengi ulonwabo.
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3. Uthando
Kumawakawaka eminyaka yembali yoluntu, imali yokuthenga ngempumelelo imvakalelo yothando lokwenene ihleli iqinile kwiziganeko ezingenzeki.
Uthando lwenziwa kuphela ngokudibanisa okunzulu ubunjwe kukuthenjwa , ukungafihli nto, umthendeleko, nemfesane. Akukho ngqekembe kule planethi isondela kolo lubabalo.
4. Ubumoya
Nokuba sinikela malini na nokuba sinikela malini na kwabangathathi ntweni, okanye ukhenketho oluya kwiitempile ezikude, impilo yokomoya ifuna unxibelelwano olunzulu kubo bonke kunokubhala igama lethu kwitsheki okanye ukuswayipha ikhadi lekhredithi.
Ukucinga ngoncedo lwemali kolo nxibelelwano kukuhamba okuzenzekelayo okubuyela umva kumdlalo wobomi.
ubuza njani umfana ukuba ume phi
5. Ukuvisisana Kwentsapho
Yimalini enokwenza uMalume uJoe ahloniphe uMakazi uMary? Okanye kubangela ukuba utata angathethi kakhulu ekwamkeleni umama ukuba anyamekele ngokunyanisekileyo?
Kuhlala kukho isilingo sokucinga ukuba ukuba sinokunika kuphela okwaneleyo kulo mntu ukuba aphelise uxinzelelo lwabo, abanye kuloo mntu, okanye mhlawumbi banokwanela ukubeka umgama ohloniphekileyo phakathi kwethu kunye nosapho lonke, kuya kuzisa Utshintsho oluhle losapho esasilunqwenela njalo.
Hayi. Ayisebenzi.
6. Ukuzixabisa
Bala inani lamaxesha abantu abaneewotshi ezibizayo abaziva benesidingo sokujonga ixesha xa bekunye nabanye. Emva koko jonga umntu ofaka iringi yabo yokuzibandakanya enkulu ebusweni babanye kolunye ucaphukiso
Umsonto oqhelekileyo: zizinto zabo. Ingqondo yabo yokuzixabisa ibuthathaka kangangokuba kufuneka bayomeleze ngezinto ezihamba phambili, ezibizayo, ezibonakalayo abantu abangakwaziyo ukuzibona. Okulusizi kukuba, xa izinto zihambile, kwaye nabantu bemkile, kufanelekile.
7. Intlonipho
Isityebi esivuthelayo esihlambalaza isihlwele malunga nobukhulu asibuzuzileyo sisincoko esinjalo kufanele ukuba sibhinqiswe kwaye sifakwe ifiligre.
Intlonipho ayihambelani nesipaji, ingxowa mali, ifa, okanye iakhawunti yeheji. Intlonipho ilungile kakhulu umbono walezo zinto zincinci.
Ukuba ikhona, imali ihlala ibangela ukuba abantu baziphathe ngeendlela ezinciphisa intlonipho encinci abanokuyifumana ngokuzama ukuba ngabantu abahloniphekileyo.
8. Umbulelo
Isisa sikhulu ngaphandle kwaxa kusenziwa kulindeleke ukuba abo bafumana le mali baya kuguqa, kodwa baninzi abanesimo sengqondo ngokuchanekileyo: Ndinikile, ngoku ndicela undihlambe ngombulelo.
Umbulelo wenene awuze uze nexabiso lexabiso, kwaye, xa liyinyani, uhlala unikwa ngokukhululekileyo.
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9. Abahlobo
Le inokubhalwa ebhodini amaxesha aliwaka kwaye isafuna ukuphindaphindwa: Imali ayizithengi izihlobo.
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Isipaji njengeziko lomxhuzulane lizakutsala ezona ndawo zikufutshane zengqushu ye-humanoid kunye ne-flotsam, hayi imizimba yeenkwenkwezi eninzi.
I-rubble kunye ne-flotsam zikhona ukuze zixhamle abanye, ukuzakhela ngeendleko zabanye. Oko ayikuko ukolula ingcinga yakhe nabani na ukuba ngumhlobo ozamile kwaye uyinyani.
10. Uxolelo
Ngamanye amaxesha siyamosha. Yazi ukuba yeyiphi imali engenakuthenga? Imali ayinakuthenga indlela yokuphuma kuloo nyaniso yobomi ingenakuphepheka. Ayikokuthengwa kwedayimane, isipha, isuti, okanye ibhokisi yokudlala egcwele izipho zekrisimesi.
Kodwa ngubani ongakhange acinge, 'Ukuba ndingafumana into elungileyo, ndingayenza ngcono?' Uxolelo lubangelwa kukuzibeka phambi kwabanye, hayi ngokwenziwa ngumntu okanye nge-bauble.
11. Inyaniso
Isixa semali esichithwe kwimikhankaso yezopolitiko sinokucima isigulo sentlalontle namhlanje ngaphambi kwesidlo sasemini, kodwa sonke siyazi ukuba ingakanani inyani equlethwe kwezi zinto zentengiso. Uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali olukhulu alunakuze lube yenye inyani.
12. Imfesane
Nabantu abakhohlakeleyo banokuphosa imali kwizibonelelo zoncedo. Nangona kunjalo imali ayinakuthenga intliziyo enovelwano apho kukho ukusilela kwayo. Ayinako ukusenza sinyamekele, sivelane, okanye sifune ukusombulula.
Okona kungcono, imali inganciphisa iingxaki ezithile (iingxaki ezenziwa ziinkqubo zethu zoqoqosho), kodwa imfesane sisenzo sokuphelisa imiqobo phakathi kokuqonda kunye nokubandezeleka kwabanye, hayi ukutshintsha imali eyabelweyo.
13. Udibaniso
Imali ngokuqinisekileyo inokuqinisekisa ukungqubana kwabantu abakungqongileyo, kodwa akukho nokuba ibe nye kuloo nto inaye wena .
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14. Ukunyaniseka
Ukunyaniseka sisiphumo sentlonipho yomlinganiswa, hayi intengiselwano yezemali. Imali inokuthenga ii-sycophants, toadies, kunye namajoni ahamba ngeenyawo… ngubani oya kuthi ajike umzuzu wesithembiso esingcono sivela kwenye indawo.
15. Ukhuseleko
Imali inokuthenga isixhobo, isiqinisekiso sobungozi. Imali inokukubeka kwindawo etyebileyo, eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kwixesha lokubhabha. Imali ayinakuze ibonelele ngendawo esisigxina ekhusela nabani na kulwaphulo mthetho loluntu.
16. Injongo
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