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Ngaba uziva ngathi isangqa sakho sentlalo sijikeleza nje isiphelo esinzulu sedama loluntu?

Ngaba iqabane lakho okanye umzali wakho uthetha izinto ezenza ukuba umhlathi wakho uhle ngokuntywila?

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Cinga ngamanqaku angezantsi njengoluhlu lokutshekisha ukufumanisa ukuba ngaba abantu onxulumana nabo rhoqo banobunzulu bebhotile.

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Ayinamsebenzi nokuba ithathwa njengelungileyo okanye hayi, ukuba nje abantu bacinga ukuba bayashushu. Banokuthandana oyena mntu ubalaseleyo emhlabeni, kodwa baya kulahla elo qabane njengesihlunu esele sisetyenzisiwe ukuba umntu onomtsalane ngakumbi ubafumana benomdla.

Baza kungqongwa ngabantu abahle, nokuba abathandi ngokwenene, kwaye banqumle abanye ngenxa yabo ukuba mbi , ityebile, ayinasinxibo, okanye ayipholi ngokwaneleyo ukuba ijongwe nayo.

Bona bazibuyisela ngokwabo rhoqo rhoqo, Uba luvukelo Ukutshatisa umdlalo kunye nabani na abazixakekise naye kulenyanga. Baya kulungelelanisa naluphi na uhlobo lobugcisa, bazenze ngathi bathanda naluphi na uhlobo lomculo, ukuze nje balingane nayo nayiphi na into eshushu nefashisayo.

Baya Umhla Kuba Isimo, Kunokuba Uthando

Kubantu abaninzi abanzulwanga, abathandanayo kubaluleke ngendlela nje enomtsalane abanye abantu bacinga ukuba banjalo. Ngapha koko, ukuba bakunye nomntu obonwa eshushu kwaye enqweneleka ngabanye abantu, ke bayakholelwa ukuba kuyabaphakamisa emehlweni abanye abantu.

Basenokungamthandi umntu kangako, kodwa bajongeka behle kunye. Amanqaku ebhonasi ukuba umntu uthe usisityebi kwaye uchitha isixa semali kubo ukuze abagcine.

BayakuBheyila Kwizicwangciso Ukuba Kuza Into Engcono

Wenza izicwangciso zalo mntu zokuchitha ixesha kunye, nokuba kuyokuphuma iziselo okanye imovie, kodwa ke bakuthumela umyalezo ngomzuzu wokugqibela ukukuxelela ukuba abanakukwazi.

Hayi kuba begula okanye isalamane siyazidinga, kodwa ngenxa yokuba isiganeko esithile se-supercool senzeka kwaye yinto yexesha elinye kwaye babekwa kuluhlu lweendwendwe kunye ne-OMG, uxolo, mhlawumbi kwixesha elizayo.

Ukuhleba kwabantu abadumileyo kunye neNkunkuma Ukuthetha

U-Eleanor Roosevelt wakha wathi: 'Iingqondo ezinkulu zixubusha ngezimvo iingqondo eziphakathi zixoxa ngeziganeko iingqondo ezincinci zixoxa ngabantu.' Yindawo entle leyo.

Ukuba umntu ububhanxa obuphezulu, amathuba kukuba kuphela izinto abazothetha ngazo ngabaphi abadumileyo abathandanayo okanye abakhulelweyo, kwaye ngubani kwisangqa sakho sentlalontle otyebileyo.

Izimvo, imicimbi yangoku, ukucamngca ngendalo iphela ayamkelekanga kuba iyadika, kungoko baya kuhamba malunga nobomi babanye abantu endaweni yoko.

Bachonga “Ngezinto” zabo

Aba ngabantu abakhawuleza baqhayise igajethi esandula ukuyichola (ngaphambi kokuba nabani na abe neyakhe, kunjalo), kunye ne-warble malunga nokuba iimpahla zabo zokuyila ezintsha zibiza malini.

Bayazixabisa izinto zodidi oluphezulu ngeelebhile ezikumgangatho ophezulu, kwaye baqinisekile ukukhankanya ezo zinto kwincoko xa kunokwenzeka, ngakumbi ukuba bathe bahleka ukuba bababhatale malini.

Isixeko saseSelfie

Ukuba ujonga amajelo abo eendaba ezentlalo, uya kufumana amawaka alishumi eefoto zobuso babo. 'Mna, mna, mna, jonga kum' kubonakala ngathi yimantra yabo, kwaye ungabheja ukuba bathathe iiselfie ezilikhulu ngaphambi kokufumana eyona ilungileyo ukuba bayithumele ngaleyure. Amanqaku ebhonasi ukuba asondele kumphezulu obonakalisayo ngenxa yoko kukho imifanekiso engapheliyo yazo zonke iindlela.

“Kwanele Ngam, Ucinga Ntoni Ngam?”

Ungazikhathazi ngokuxelela lo mntu nantoni na malunga nawe kwaye ulindele ukuba bakhathalele: nantoni na ephuma emlonyeni wakho yingxolo emhlophe nje, kwaye iyakulityalwa imizuzwana emva kokuba kuthethiwe.

Ungamxelela umntu ongekho nzulu kangangezihlandlo ezilishumi elinambini ukuba unesifo sokufa esibangelwa ngamandongomane kwaye basaya kukunika ixesha ngalinye xa bekubona, balandelwe ngu “Kulungile, i-OMG ndiyilibele. Uxolo! LOL ”impendulo.

Abayi kwenza Nantoni na ngaphandle kokuba ibancede

Ekuphela kwezinto aba bantu ababandakanyeka kuzo zezo ziya kuba yinzuzo kubo ngandlela thile, ngandlela thile. Lo msitho wesisa abanceda ngawo? Ewe, yiyo loo nto banokusondela kosaziwayo balapha abafuna ukudibana nabo. Umntu omtsha abachitha ixesha elininzi kunye naye angabangenisa kwigumbi lokuphumla le-VIP kwiklabhu yabo abayithandayo.

Kwaye nangokunjalo. I-Altruism ayikho kwisigama sabo: konke malunga nokuba abanye abantu banokubenzela ntoni, kwaye kufuneka benze ntoni ukuze kwenzeke oko.

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Izinto eziBalulekileyo zibenza babaleke

Ukuba ujongene ne alwe neqabane lakho , kuyaphola: baya kuzisa iwayini kunye ne-ayisi khrim kwindawo yakho kwaye bakuncede uzirhwebe de kube sekuseni.

Ukuba, nangona kunjalo, ulwa nokusweleka komzali, okanye ingxaki enkulu yezempilo, okanye nantoni na eyenye enamandla ngokweemvakalelo, azisayi kubakho ndawo. Ngesiquphe, ibaluleke kakhulu nantoni na eyakhe yavela ebomini babo kunye nosana olubi, kodwa abanako nje ngoku. Ziyi-totes zikuthumela uthando, nangona.

Nje… kude.

Baza kubonakala okwexeshana phantsi kwendlela xa isaqhwithi sithe xibilili kancinci, kodwa baya kuphepha iinkcukacha malunga nokuqhekeka obukhe kwafuneka uzihlelele ngokwakho.

“Bazama Ukunceda”

Ukugweba njengesihogo sonke, baya kuthetha ezona zinto zoyikekayo kwabo babangqongileyo ngokungathi bafuna ukuba 'luncedo.'

Bayakugxeka iimpahla zabantu kwaye babaxelele into amabayinxibe, okanye bababuze ukuba bafuna uku-odola loo nto kwisidlo sasemini endaweni yesaladi enxibe ukukhanya ecaleni.

Baza kwenza intetho engacacanga malunga nokuhonjiswa kwamakhaya abantu, okanye indlela ekufanele ukuba bayabaqeqesha ngayo abantwana babo, kwaye xa bebizwa malunga nokuziphatha okungalunganga okutshiwo, baya kubonakala bothukile luhlobo lwempendulo.

Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, bazama nje ukunceda.

… Kodwa nceda ntoni, ngokuchanekileyo? Nceda ube ngumntu abathanda ngcono, okanye ngakumbi njengabo, kunjalo.

Unobuzaza kakhulu

Oku kuhamba kunye nenqaku langaphambili: ukuba bakonzakalisa ngenye yeengubo ezingenangqondo ezikhankanywe ngasentla, ngoko ke uvakalelo kakhulu kwaye ndinemicimbi ethile yokujongana nayo. Ayisoze ibe lityala labo, kwaye abayi kuthatha xanduva lwaso nasiphi na isenzo esiphosakeleyo.

Ubomi babo bulungile

Akukho nto iye ihambe gwenxa ebomini babo. Ubudlelwane babo, ubomi bosapho, ikhondo lomsebenzi, impilo… konke oku kukuphazamisa nje. Abakwazi ukukuxelela ukuba kwenzeka ntoni ngenene kwihlabathi labo - entlokweni yabo - kuba oku kungawophula umfanekiso owakhiwe ngononophelo abaye bachitha iminyaka behlonipha.

Ukuya kuthi ga ngoku bafuna ukuba uyazi, abanazintsilelo kwaye yonke into abayenzayo ilungile, akukho zilahliweyo, zilungile!

Bafuna ukuqaqamba Bonke kubo

Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba wonke umntu ucinga ntoni ngabo, kwaye bagula ngokwasemoyeni nangokwasemzimbeni ukuba omnye umntu ubile indudumo yabo. Izulu alivumi ukuba unesibhengezo osenzayo okanye abantu bamamele into oyithethayo okanye bahlekise ngeziqhulo zakho.

Ukuba omnye umntu ufumana lonke ingqalelo-nokuba sesibini-umntu ongekho nzulu uziva engakhathalelwanga. Baza kwenza konke okusemandleni abo ukuba baphinde babalasele ngokwenza konke malunga nabo kwakhona.

Iimfihlo zakho zezokwabelana

Ukuba ukhe wathembela ekumthembeni lo ubizwa ngokuba ngumhlobo ngezinye iinkcukacha zobuqu, amathuba okuba wonke umntu okwisangqa sakho sentlalo azi konke malunga nemizuzu.

Abakwazi kuzinceda ngokwabo: ulwazi oluncinci lolwabiwo lolokwabelana, bengagcini mfihlo, kwaye uya kufumanisa ngokukhawuleza ukuba akukho nto ingcwele.

Ziya kuba neekati ukuba wabelana ngazo naziphi na iinkcukacha ezithe zakuxelela zona, kodwa xa iindima zibuyiselwa umva, nantoni na ekwabelwana ngayo lulwazi loluntu, sithandwa. Jongana nayo.

Ukunyaniseka Ngokwenene Akukho kwiNdalo yabo

Xa kuziwa kubuhlobo okanye ubudlelwane bezothando, baya kukhawuleza emzuzwini ukuba kukho umntu onomdla ngakumbi, onomdla ngakumbi, okanye onomdla ngakumbi.

Ukuba uthandana nomntu onje, zilungiselele ukuqhekeka okungaphephekiyo xa umntu okhanyayo ekhangele, kwaye ukuba ucinga ukuba uhlakulela ubuhlobo obusondeleyo kunye nabo, qonda ukuba uya kulahlwa njengezicathulo zonyaka odlulileyo, ngaphandle ingcinga yesibini.

Ukuqukumbela, emva koko: ku Chaza umntu ongekho nzulu , kufuneka siqwalasele imikhwa yabo efanayo. Ukuba ufuna ukwazi ukuba injani into engekho nzulu, umntu ongakhathaliyo, nazi Iimpawu ezili-15 Ukukhangela i:

1. Babeka phambili ukubonakala kwayo yonke enye into.
2. Bathandana nenqanaba, endaweni yothando.
3. Bayabheyila kwizicwangciso ukuba kuza into engcono.
4. Bayakonwabela ukuhleba kosaziwayo kunye nenkunkuma yokuthetha.
5. Bazichonga “nezinto” zabo.
6. Bathatha iiselfie ezininzi.
7. Bayazilibala izinto ezibalulekileyo oye wabaxelela zona.
8. Babeka phambili izinto eziyinzuzo kubo.
9. Bayabaleka xa izinto ziba nzulu.
10. Bathetha izinto ezoyikisayo kwaye bathi bazama ukunceda.
11. Banga ukuba 'ubuthathaka kakhulu' ukuba uyacaphuka yile nto bayithethayo.
12. Benza umfanekiso wobomi obugqibeleleyo.
13. Bayakonwabela ukubalasela.
14. Azinakuthenjwa ngeemfihlo zakho.
15. Abanyanisekanga kubahlobo okanye kumaqabane.