Ukunyaniseka akusayi kuvumela umona, intiyo, kunye nokungakhathali ukuba kungene kwingcinga yethu yoluntu. -I-Bainbridge Colby
Ukunyaniseka kuyinto enamandla. Kwanegama ngokwalo linokubashukumisela abantu ukuba baphakamise iimvakalelo zabo. Xa sibubona ubomi njengebali, sifuna abalinganiswa abasondeleyo kunye nabathandekayo kuthi ukuba babe ngabo sinokubathemba.
Ke, ukuba sizibona njengoFrodo, sifuna uSamwise. Ukuba siyiBatman, sifuna uRobin.
UKirk wayeneSpock. UT’Challa wayeno-Okoye. USnoopy wayeneWoodstock. IBond yayineMoneypenny. Ayizizo iicekeceke, kodwa imiphefumlo ethembekileyo, ethembekileyo.
Ukunyaniseka, kwisichazi-magama, yimvakalelo eyomeleleyo yenkxaso okanye yokunyaniseka.
Ukunyaniseka, kwimiphefumlo emininzi, kukwazi umntu onomdla wakho entliziyweni, nokuba (umntu angatsho ngokukodwa) xa loo mdla uphikisana noko ucinga ukuba unqwenela kodwa ungakwenzi.
Wwe jonh cena vs umngcwabi
Kubudlelwane bothando, ukunyaniseka kudlula ngaphaya kokunyaniseka, okanye kwanokuhambelana (ukuba umntu ulinganisa ukungqinelana nobomi obude).
Xa umntu omnye esazi, ngaphandle kweempazamo kunye nokungahambi kakuhle, ukuba omnye unyanisekile ngokwenene, banokuhlala bengabahlobo (bakuphiliswa) nasemva kokuba bengasathandani.
Cinga nje ngomnye umntu ophethe isiqwenga sakho kunye nawe, kwaye akukho namnye kuni - nokuba kwenzeka ntoni-oya kuvumela ububi ukuba buze kwezo ziqwenga.
Kukho isixa esifanelekileyo sokuzincama ekunyanisekeni okuhlala kuhamba kungaphawulwa, njengoko kufanelekile. Ukunyaniseka akufuni ukwamkelwa ngokugqithiseleyo. Ukunyaniseka okwenyani sisivumelwano esithe cwaka intlonipho . Kukwazi ukuba akukho nto umntu osondeleyo kuwe ayithethayo okanye ayenzayo kuwe engaphandle kothando.
Ukunyaniseka kubonakala njani kulwalamano?
Ukunyaniseka
Into yam iphela kukunyaniseka. Ukunyaniseka kwilizwi lobukhosi kuyimbophelelo. -Fetty Wap
Iqabane elinyanisekileyo liza kuthembeka kuwe, nokuba kubuhlungu komnye okanye kuni nobabini. Oku akuyiyo 'inkohlakalo' yokunyaniseka, ukunyaniseka komphefumlo.
Xa iqabane lakho lisazi ukuba okuphuma emlonyeni wakho kunamandla ngokwaneleyo okuhambisa iintaba ukuba bekunyanzelekile, imvo yokhuseleko kunye nokunyaniseka kubudlelwane ixhomekeke kumandlalo oqinileyo.
UKUYA umntu onganyanisekanga Unyanisekile kubuxoki ekufuneka bebugcinile.
isayina umhlobo obhinqileyo uneemvakalelo ngawe
Ziphe Wena
Ndinokunyaniseka okuhamba egazini lam, xa nditshixela emntwini okanye kwinto ethile, ngekhe undisuse kuyo kuba ndiyazibophelela. Oko kubuhlobo, sisivumelwano, kukuzibophelela. Sukundinika iphepha- ndingafumana kwa igqwetha elifanayo elalizoba ukuze liphule. Kodwa ukuba uyandixhawula, yeyobomi. -UJerry Lewis
Kubudlelwane, ukunyaniseka kuthetha ukuba 'uzakundithathela ixesha kwaye nam ndizakuthatha ixesha lakho.' Kuthetha ukunikela ngokukhululekileyo kuwe ukufezekisa iimfuno zomnye umntu ngekhe azi ukuba banazo okanye ngekhe bathethe nelizwi.
Ithetha ukuthi 'Ndizinikela kuwe' ngesenzo hayi ngokholo nje kuphela, kodwa kakhulu kwizenzo : ubungqina bokunyaniseka ngumgangatho wonyango olufunyenweyo, kuba ukunyaniseka njengegama kuwa ngokukhawuleza nangokulula kubantu abaninzi abanethemba lokuyisebenzisa njengokuphazamisa ukusilela kwabo.
Nyukela
Ukunyaniseka kunye nokuzinikela kukhokelela kwisibindi. Ubukroti bukhokelela kumoya wokuzincama. Umoya wokuzincama udala ukuthembela kumandla othando. -Umorihei Ueshiba
USamwise wayengelilo iqhawe. Engqondweni yakhe, wayengumgadi weHobbit olula owayenothando nenkolelo kumhlobo wakhe uFrodo ukuba kwakungekho mbuzo angayi kuhamba naye kuhambo oluyingozi lwalo naluphi na uhlobo.
Kukho amaxesha apho kufuneka sime ecaleni - okanye nkqu phambi komntu - sizikhusele xa zikhathazekile okanye zibuthathaka. Ukuba oku kwenziwa ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo okanye imfuno egqithileyo yempindezelo, unobudlelwano apho ukunyaniseka kulixabiso eliphambili.
Akunakuze ujamelane nohlobo lwakho lokukhapha umntu ukuya kwiNtaba yeDoom, kodwa ukunyaniseka kuthetha ukunyathela umntu, ukubamela xa kufuneka njalo, kwaye ubavumele emagxeni akho ukubazisa uthando kunye nenkxaso zizinto abanokuzilindela wena.
Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
- Indlela yokwenza ukuba umntu azive ekhethekileyo, uyathandwa, kwaye ubalulekile
- Iinjongo ezi-9 zobudlelwane Wonke umntu otshatileyo kufuneka azibekele
- Ngaba uthando lokwenene lukhetho okanye luluvakalelo?
- Iindlela ezili-9 zokujongana nokuNgcatshiswa kunye nokuPhiliswa kwiNtlungu
- Umahluko ophambili ophakathi kwenkanuko nothando
- Ukuxela imiqondiso yomntu onemicimbi yokuzibophelela
Umbingelelo
Nabani na okhe wangonwabi ngokwenyani ngumsebenzi wengcinga akasokuze anike ukuthembeka kwingcinga enye, inkqubo yenkolelo, inkolo okanye iqela. -UWoward Jacobson
Ukunyaniseka akuthethi ukungaboni. Akukho malunga nokuba kwicala elinamandla okanye eliphumelelayo.
Imalunga nokupha.
Imalunga nokuvuleleka kumathuba onxibelelwano oluyinyani, ngokuchasene neefadesi uninzi lokunyaniseka okuqhotyoshelweyo.
uthini emntwini omthandayo
Ukufumana Ubabalo
Waziva ukunyaniseka esivakalelwa kukungonwabi-uluvo lokuba yindawo esikuyo ngokwenene. -Graham Greene
Ukunyaniseka, kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba ungakufumana njani ukunyaniseka.
Ukunyaniseka kwenza abantu abaninzi bangakhululeki. Bavakalelwa kukuba umntu othembekileyo kubo ubeka uxanduva lokuziphatha okuthile kubo. Endaweni yokujongana nale ngxaki, bayazivalela beziva befanelekile.
Ngokwenyani, baba lusizi kwaye banethemba lokuba abanye banokuzibophelela kolo sizi, kodwa ukuthembeka akuthethi ukuhlala ujonge ukuba lusenzeka njani usizi.
Ukunyaniseka kuguquka kakuhle kubudlelwane obuzalisekiswe ngokupheleleyo. Njengokunyaniseka kwilizwe langaphandle elitshintshayo kunye notshintsho, ukunyaniseka okusondeleyo kunamava amatsha okuhlala ethe rhoqo.
Kuluzuko ukuba nako ukuhamba nala mazwe kwaye udanise kunye nawo, kunokuba ukhubeke ngawo.
Ukunyaniseka kwezesondo nangokweemvakalelo
Kuba ngaphezu kwazo zonke izinto uthando luthetha ubumnandi, nenyaniso, kwaye ulinganisa ewe, ukunyaniseka kulowo umthandayo nakwilizwi lakho. Kwaye ngenxa yoku andizami kuphazamisa umcimbi ophakamileyo kangaka. - UMarie de France
Zininzi iincasa ezahlukeneyo zonxibelelwano phakathi kwabantu, ngakumbi kwindawo yezesondo.
Ukutshata nomntu omnye, isithembu, isithembu- zonke zinendawo yazo yokunyaniseka, kwaye eyona ndlela yokunyaniseka ngaphakathi kuyo nganye kukuthetha ngokunyaniseka.
Nokuba ukunyaniseka ngokweemvakalelo kufuna ukuxoxwa ngaphakathi kobu bukumkani, kuba ubudlelwane obunye bunokuvuleka kakhulu ukudibana ngokwasemzimbeni, kodwa buzobe umgca wokuziva ulangazelela kwaye uncamathiselo .
asihambelani kodwa ndiyamthanda
Omnye unokucinga ukuba kwamkelekile ukuba baninzi abasondeleyo, abathandanayo nobudlelwane bangaphandle ngangokunokwenzeka, ukuba banjalo bonke iplonic .
Isitshixo sokugcina ukuthembeka kwezesondo kunye neemvakalelo kukuba unxibelelwano . Kanye imida ziyaxoxwa, iimfuno zokunyaniseka ziyasebenza.
Amandla okuthi Hayi
Wonke umntu ufuna ukunyaniseka, ukungaguquguquki, kunye nomntu ongayi kuyeka. Kodwa wonke umntu uyakulibala ukuba ukufumana loo mntu, kufuneka ubengulomntu. - ezahlukeneyo
Ukunyaniseka kubudlelwane bakho kuya kulifuna eli gama rhoqo. Hayi kwizilingo zentliziyo, inyama, ukuzithanda, nangamaxesha omdla wakho.
Kuba umntu othembeke ngokwenyani akayena u-yebo-bot kwabanye okanye kubo, isixa esifanelekileyo samandla siboniswa ngabo banokubanga ngokufanelekileyo ingubo yomhlobo / umthandi / umntu othembekileyo.
'Hayi' akukho lula, kuba ngamanye amaxesha umvuzo okhawulezileyo uyaphazamisa. Nangona kunjalo, akukho lula ukuhambisa umntu othembeke ngokwenene ekufumaneni umvuzo okhawulezileyo, kwangoko.
Umntu othembekileyo uyazi ukuba ibali libali, mhlawumbi li-epic, mhlawumbi lisondele, kodwa lifanelekile ukuhamba nabo uSpock, uSamwise, okanye uDora Milaje okanye ezimbini.
Ngamanye amagama, bayayazi loo nto ngo ukuthi hayi ukuphazamiseka, bathi ewe kwiqabane elithembekileyo nelilungileyo, kwaye abahlobo abanjalo baxabisa kabini ubunzima begolide.
Ngaba unemibuzo malunga nobudlelwane? Thetha kwi-Intanethi kwingcali yobudlelwane kwi-Relationship Hero enokukunceda ufumane izinto. Ngokulula.
Eli phepha linamalungu onxibelelwano. Ndifumana ikhomishini encinci ukuba ukhetha ukuthenga nantoni na emva kokucofa kuyo.
