Ufuna ukwenza umntu azive ethandwa.
Ufuna ukubenza bazive bebodwa, baxatyisiwe, kwaye bafuna.
Ufuna ukubabonisa indlela abaluleke ngayo kuwe.
Unokuyenza njani loo nto? Ewe, kufuneka u…
1. Baxelele
Hayi, ngokunyanisekileyo, wagqibela nini ukumxelela lo mntu ukuba ubathanda kangakanani kwaye ubakhathalele kangakanani?
Kutheni kugxothwe icass enkulu?
Yinto entle ukuyiva emntwini kwaye ngephanyazo inokwenza umntu azive ngathi ubalulekile.
Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ibe mushy ngokwenene ukuba ufumanisa ukuba olohlobo lwento alonwabisi.
Kungaba lula njengokuthi, 'Ndiyabulela kakhulu ukuba nawe ebomini bam,' okanye, 'Ungumhlobo / umama / isoka elilungileyo.'
2. Bange
Ukuwolana akusayi kuze kuphume kwifashoni.
Ukuwola kakuhle kunokuxelela umntu ngakumbi malunga nendlela oziva ngayo kunemibongo emikhulu yentliziyo okanye iingoma zothando.
Xa umanga umntu - umange ngokufanelekileyo ixesha elide-wabelana ngomzuzu wonxibelelwano olukhethekileyo.
Ithi, 'Ubaluleke kakhulu kum kwaye ndikuxabisile nayo yonke into oyiyo njengomntu.'
3. Bancome
Le yinto ekhohlisayo kuba awufuni kuhamba ngaphezulu, kodwa ukunika abathandekayo bakho ukuncoma okwenyani yindlela entle yokubenza bazive bebodwa.
Akuyomfuneko ukuba yonke imihla, kodwa kuhlala kumnandi xa umntu eqaphela ukuba wenze umzamo okanye unenwele.
Zama ukubanika imvakalelo efudumeleyo oyifumanayo xa umntu ehoye ngokwenyani kwaye eyixabisile into oyenzileyo.
Qinisekisa ukuba uyigcina iyinyani, nangona kunjalo - ukuba umntu ukuncoma kakhulu, iqala ukuziva ngathi ayithethi nyani.
Qinisekisa ukuba unyanisekile kwaye ungathethi nje into ngenxa yayo (abantu baya kubona ngoko nangoko!). Awufuni ukuba bacinge ukuba ungubani kukukhohlisa .
4. Yibonise Ngezimbo Zakho Zomzimba
Ngamanye amaxesha, isenzo singahamba ngendlela ende ngokubonisa umntu ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani kuwe.
Izipho ezicingisisiweyo yindlela emnandi yokwenza ukuba umntu azive ekhethekileyo. Sukuba nexhala, awudingi ukwaphula ibhanki kule!
Ngokumamela okuthethwa ngabantu obathandayo kwaye wenze inqaku lezinto ezibalulekileyo (ezinje ngeelekese abazithandayo okanye inyani yokuba kutshanje balahlekelwe yishaja yabo yefowuni) bothusa ngento ethile bafuna ngokwenene okanye oko kuya kubavuyisa.
Ngaba wakha wathatha ukuthatha okanye ukuhambisa ivenkile ufika endlwini yakho ungalindelanga? Ukuba awukwenzi oko, sinokuqinisekisa ukuba yenye yeemvakalelo ezilungileyo!
Yothusa omnye wabathandekayo bakho ngoku-odola ukutya kusiwe ekhayeni labo. Ukuba bathumele nje kuFacebook wabo ukuba bayadana kwaye bahlala bodwa, ngena kwifowuni yakho uodole ipitsa endlwini yabo.
(Jonga kancinci ukuba basekhaya ngokuthumela imiyalezo babuze ukuba baphi - ngokuqinisekileyo awufuni nayiphi na ipitsa ezakuchitha ...)
Ayizizo zonke izipho ekufuneka zibize imali, ewe. Indlela entle yokwenza ukuba umntu azive exabisekile kukuthatha ixesha lokwenza into ngesandla.
Cinga ngento oyithandayo kwaye uphathe umntu omthandayo kwikhadi elenziwe ngezandla, ii-cookies ezibhakwe ekhaya, okanye isikhafu osilukeleyo.
Ukwazi ukuba ubeka eyakho intliziyo nomphefumlo kwisipho sabo kuya kwenza ukuba lowo ukhethekileyo azi ukuba ubathanda kangakanani kwaye ubuxabisile.
Hlanganisa iiteyiphu kusenokwenzeka ukuba ziphume kancinane kwifashoni, kodwa ukwenza uluhlu lwadlalwayo olubandayo lomntu ohamba ngexesha elinzima lubonisa imfesane kunye nenkxaso.
Thatha ixesha lokuya kwi-mile eyongezelelweyo kwaye wenze umntu azive ekhethekileyo.
5. Beka Iiyure
Thatha ixesha lokuxabisa ngokwenene abo bakungqongileyo.
Oku kunokuba kukubeka ngokwasemzimbeni ixesha lokudibana nabo rhoqo.
Isenokuba kukubeka isikhumbuzi kwifowuni yakho veki nganye okanye ukubiza abazali bakho.
Isenokuthetha ukuba nomonde ngokwenene xa umntu omthandayo efumana ubunzima - nokuba oku kuthetha ukuhlala nabo kwaye ubavumele bathethe into enye kaninzi.
Qinisekisa ukuba abantu ababalulekileyo bayazi ukuba uyazixabisa ukuba nazo ebomini bakho, kwaye awoyiki ukuzibeka phambili kunezinye izinto.
Inokuba buhlungu ngokwenene into yokuba umntu omkhathaleleyo ‘axakeke kakhulu’ ukuba angakubona, kwaye kunokwenza uzive ungaxatyiswanga kwaye ungafunwa.
Khumbula ezo mvakalelo kwaye wenze konke okusemandleni ukuphepha ukwenza abo ubakhathaleleyo bazive njalo! Ukuba kukho into eyenzekayo kwaye ugqiba ukwenza umntu azive enjalo, yenza konke okusemandleni ukulungisa izinto kwaye ubaqinisekise ukuba uyakhathala.
6.Boleka indlebe umamele
Ngamanye amaxesha ukumamela nje kwanele. Ukuba umntu omthandayo uhamba ngexesha elinzima, zama ukubakhona nje - iyakwenza umahluko omkhulu kwindlela abavakalelwa ngayo.
Fowunela kwaye ubaxelele ukuba ukhululekile ukuba umamele ukuba bafuna ukulila okanye ukurhabaxa. Batyelele rhoqo ukuba bahlala kufutshane kwaye ubavumele bakhuphe zonke iingxaki zabo kuwe.
Ukuba abahambi ngexesha elinzima, mamela nakanjani! Ukuthatha inxaxheba kubomi bomntu obathandayo yindlela entle yokubonisa ukuba uyakhathala, kwaye ukumamela nantoni na eyenzekayo kunye nabo kubalulekile kuloo nto.
7. Bonisa Umdla
Oku kusebenza ecaleni kokuphulaphula into eyenzekayo, kodwa kuyisa kwelinye inqanaba. Ngokusabela kule nto uyixelelwayo, ubonisa ukuba unomdla kwaye uyakhathala.
Umntu othabatha umdla kwizinto ozenzayo ukwenza uzive ukhethekileyo ngokwenene, kwaye ukuba nomntu oza kubelana naye ngeendaba zakho uhlala ekwenza uzive uthandwa kwaye ukhathalelwe.
Buza malunga nokuzonwabisa kwabo kwakutshanje, okanye iklabhu abaye bayijoyina, okanye malunga nomsebenzi wabo. Buza malunga nezinto 'ezimbi' nabo - baya kufuna umntu oza kuthetha naye, kwaye yindlela yokubonisa ukuba ukhona kubo.
Abanye abantu bayarhoxisa ekuthetheni ngezinto ‘ezingezizo’ kuba bexhalabile ukuba ziya kutyhala abanye kude. Ngokubonisa ukuba unomdla kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi babo, baya kuyazi indlela ebaluleke ngayo kuwe.
8. Landela Up
Ukuchitha ixesha nabantu obakhathaleleyo sisiseko esihle, kodwa kulula ukuthatha inyathelo elongezelelweyo kwaye ulilandele.
Izinto ezincinci zenza umahluko omkhulu, ke qalisa ukuthatha ingqalelo kwinto ezayo kubomi babathandekayo bakho.
Cwangcisa isikhumbuzi kwikhalenda yakho kusuku olungaphambi kosuku lokuqala lomhlobo wakho emsebenzini wabo omtsha - usazi ukuba ukhathalele ngokwaneleyo ukukhumbula kwaye emva koko ubathumele umyalezo ubanqwenelela amathamsanqa aya kubenza bazive bexabisekile.
Ukuthumela umyalezo emva kokudibana nomntu omthandayo yenye indlela ethandekayo yokubonisa ukuba ubakhathalele kangakanani. Ngaba kukho imvakalelo emnandi kunokuhamba ekhaya emva kwekofu kunye nomhlobo kunye nokufumana umyalezo othi 'Bekumnandi ukukubona, masiphinde kwakhona kungekudala!'?
9. Ukungaguquguquki
Nabani na onokwenza umzamo weentsuku ezimbalwa okanye iiveki ezimbalwa. Ukumthanda ngokwenene umntu kuthetha ukungaguquguquki, ke zama ukugcina ubuhlobo bakho okanye ubudlelwane bakho buzinzile kangangoko.
Ukuba ngu umhlobo olungile okanye iqabane alikho nje malunga nokumamela, nangona oko kubalulekile - kumalunga nokuthembeka.
Enye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokubonisa umntu omthandayo kukubakho okuqinisekileyo ebomini babo. Ukwazi ukuba banokujika kuwe nangaliphi na ixesha kuya kubenza bazive bexabisekile kwaye bexatyisiwe.
Ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba ungenza njani ukuba umntu azive ekhethekile okanye ethandwa okanye efunwa? Thetha kwi-Intanethi kwingcali yobudlelwane kwi-Relationship Hero enokukunceda ufumane izinto. Ngokulula.
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