Uyazi ukuba uziva njani xa ufika kwindawo ongakhange uyityelele ngaphambili kwaye ibonakala ngathi iqhelekile kuwe?
Okanye kwenzeka into kwaye ufunge into efanayo eyakhe yenzeka ngaphambili.
Ewe, oko sekudlulileyo, kwaye akuyiyo le nto sithetha ngayo apha.
Ngapha koko, akukaze kubonwe okuchasene ngokupheleleyo ne-déjà vu.
Luhlobo olufumanayo xa usiya kwenye indawo okanye uhlangabezana nento osele uqhelene nayo, kodwa ngalo mzuzu, intsha kuwe ngokupheleleyo - ngokungathi lixesha lakho lokuqala.
Abanye abantu baye bakufumana oku xa bethetha igama abalithethileyo ngesigidi amaxesha angaphambili, kodwa ngequbuliso bacinga ukuba yeyona nto ivakala ingavakaliyo. Yithi “isingqisho” ngokuvakalayo amaxesha ambalwa kwaye ucinge ngendlela ekuvakala ngayo ukuba iyaxaka, ngokungathí sina.
Abanye bavalile ngokupheleleyo kwiinombolo zabo zepini emva kokuzisebenzisa yonke imihla kangangeminyaka elishumi, okanye balibale ukuba yeyiphi ipaseji yokuhamba emsebenzini okanye esikolweni.
Okomzuzwana nje, kufana nesileyiti esosulekileyo kwaye ipaseji yindawo engafumanekiyo.
Njani ukuba le nto ibe yinto epholileyo
Nini kwaye ukuba ukhe ukwimeko apho ufumana khona i-jamais vu, endaweni yokuphambana ngenxa yokuba 'kufanele' uyiqonde imeko-bume yakho (okanye isitya osityayo, okanye nantoni na eyenye), thatha umoya kwaye ubekhona.
Ngoku unethuba lokufumana into okokuqala ngqa- kwakhona- kwaye unokwenza iinkumbulo ezintsha, kunokuba ubengezelele.
Ukuba undwendwela indawo kwaye ngequbuliso uziva ngathi awuzange ubekhona ngaphambili, zama ukungakhathali! Endaweni yoko, ngenene thatha ixesha lokujonga kwaye ungene kuzo zonke iinkcukacha.
Ngaba ukhe watyelela indawo entsha ngelixa useholideyini kwaye wabethwa ngumoya wobuhle bayo kangangokuba ngokunyanisekileyo awunakuqonda ukuba kutheni abahlali bengahambi bekhwankqisiwe kwaye bemangaliswa bubuhle bonke obubangqongileyo?
Abantu abahlala kwiindawo ezifana neFlorence, ePrague, naseParis basebenzise ubugcisa, imifanekiso eqingqiweyo, njl. Azikho zintsha okanye zipholile okanye zintle: zikhona nje, kwaye ziyazibona ngalo lonke ixesha ziphuma ngaphandle.
Iindwendwe zibethwa ngumoya omangalisayo, kwaye zithatha zonke iinkcukacha zokwakha kwizakhiwo, wonke umthombo oqingqiweyo, yonke ibhedi yegadi elinywe ngononophelo.
Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
Ukuqonda kunye namava okwenyani
IJamais vu isandula ukukwenza ukhenketho kwiyadi yakho yangasemva, ikuvumela ukuba ufumane indawo efana nokuba intsha ngokupheleleyo kuwe.
Unokuba nomzuzu owonwabileyo wokumangaliswa okomntwana njengoko ujonga ngeenxa zonke kwaye ubona- uyabona ngenene- yonke into ekujikelezile.
Hayi ukuthatha nantoni na , ungagqithisi nje okanye uhambe kunye namehlo akho ethe nca kwifowuni yakho. Zingaphi iinkcukacha ongazihoyi ngokupheleleyo?
Into efanayo iya kwimeko apho ungcamla isidlo ngento ebonakala ngathi yeyokuqala, nokuba kuthethwa ngathi yintandokazi yakudala.
Abantu abaninzi babonakala ngathi bayilibele indlela yokutya isidlo. Sifaka ukutya kwimilomo yethu ngelixa sibukele iTV, okanye ngengqondo siqhekeza kwaye sihlafuna kwaye siginye ngaphandle kokugcina nantoni na.
Thatha ixesha lakho.
Ngo-2016 sihlawula ngokubona ngakunye
Yonwabele ngokwenene loo ndebe (okanye iglasi) yayo nantoni na oselayo. Phefumla ngevumba lalo, jika isiselo ujonge emlonyeni wakho kwaye ubone ukuba ungazichonga na iinowuthsi ezahlukeneyo.
Ukuba utya isidlo, vala amehlo akho kwaye ujonge ngokwenene kulunya ngalunye. Qaphela ubume obahlukeneyo, amaqondo obushushu, indlela ezidlala ngayo izithako. Akukho ziluma zimbini zihlala zilingana: ungcamla ntoni kule? Njani ngokulandelayo?
Inokwenzeka ngokupheleleyo-inokwenzeka, nokuba-inkumbulo yakho malunga nendawo okanye isidlo okanye into engazukubuya kungekudala, kodwa okomzuzwana nje, ungathatha ithuba lokufumana ulwazi oluqhelekileyo ngokungathi okokuqala.
Esi sisipho esinqabileyo kwaye sihle, kwaye ukuba ungadlula ngaphaya kokungonwabi okwethutyana kwaye uzintywilisele kumava, unokufumana ubuhle obutsha obunzulu kwinto obusoloko uyithatha njengesiqhelo.
Kanye njengenqaku elincinci elisecaleni: IJamais vu ngamanye amaxesha inokunxulunyaniswa neefom zokuxhuzula kunye ne-amnesia. Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba uhlangabezana namaxesha amaninzi kunokuba ukhululekile, ngekhe kube ngumbono ombi ukuthetha nomboneleli wezempilo malunga nayiphi na inkxalabo.
Ukhe waba namajamais vu ngaphambili? Kwenzeke nini kwaye kwakunjani? Shiya iikhomenti ezingezantsi ukuze wabelane nabanye.
