Ngelixa abantu abaninzi bezibonakalisa njengabangenisi, bona kunye nabanye bahlala bejonga uninzi lwezibonelelo ezinokuthi zizise. Abo banolu hlobo lobuntu banamandla ahlukeneyo afihliweyo athi, ngelixa engasoloko ebonakala kumphezulu, ahlala eshukuma.
Akukho bungakanani-bukhulu-bonke-bonke Inkcazo yokungenisa nto leyo eyenza kubenzima ukukhomba onke amandla aqinisekileyo avela kuwo. Ezi 9 zixoxwe ngezantsi zezona zinokwenzeka ukuba zisetyenziswe kuluhlu olubanzi lwabantu abazisiweyo.
Lixesha lokuba siqaphele kwaye sizixabise ezi mpawu kumbhiyozo woluntu oluzolileyo.
Nye. Ukucinga ngokwakho
Enye yeempawu uninzi lwama-introverts eziza kuhambelana nazo kukuthambekela kwabo ukujonga ngaphakathi kubo kwaye babonakalise oko bakufumanayo.
Bazimisele ngakumbi kwaye banako ukuthathela ingqalelo indlela abaziphethe ngayo, iingcinga, iimvakalelo kunye nolwalathiso ebomini. Ukukwazi ukujonga ezi zinto ngaphezulu kuyabavumela ukuba bachonge indawo kwaye banqwenela ukutshintsha phi kwaye njani.
Olu bhetyebhetye lwengqondo lubaluleke kakhulu xa kusiziwa ekusukeleni nasekufezekiseni ukukhula komntu ngamnye. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, kuphela ukuzazi ngcono Ungaqala ukuziqhelanisa kwaye uguquke ube yinto entsha.
Kutheni ndikuthanda ukuba ndedwa?
Ungathanda ukucinga ngokuzibonakalisa ngokwakho njengesingeniso njengendlela yokwenza izilungiso zekhosi ezininzi ezincinci ukuze ube ngulowo bafuna ukuba nguye.
2. Ukuthobela IKhampasi Yokuziphatha Yomntu
Elinye icala lesiphumo sokungeniswa kokubonakaliswa kwesingeniso kukuba banxibelelana kakhulu nokuziphatha kwabo kunye neenqobo zabo. Baqwalasele ngononophelo ukuma kwabo kuzo zonke iintlobo zemicimbi kwaye oku kubuyela kwiimfundiso zabo eziphambili.
Ukuba nekhowudi yokuziphatha ecacileyo nefikelelekayo, izethulo zihlala zihlala uzive unomdla ngokuthanda ezinye zezizathu ngelixa uchasene ngokulinganayo nezinye. Ngapha koko, kunokwenzeka ukuba banamathele kwimipu yabo kunokuba baphenjelelwe sisihlwele.
Ukukwazi ukulandela ikhampasi yokuziphatha komntu kuthetha ukuba zimbalwa izihlandlo ezingonwabanga zongquzulwano lwangaphakathi apho izenzo kunye neenkolelo zingqubana khona.
3. Ukukhuthaza ngaphakathi
Ama-introverts ngabantu abazimeleyo abaqhuba kwaye inkuthazo yabo ivela ngaphakathi ngaphakathi. Abavumeli ulindelo lwabanye luthintele eyona nto bafuna ukuyenza.
Oku kubanika inkululeko yokuzenzela indlela yabo ebomini ngaphandle kwengcinezelo yokuhambelana nabanye abanokufumana. Bazimisele ukutyeshela iingcinga ezikhohlakeleyo kwaye beme ngaphandle kwesihlwele ukuze balandele amaphupha abo.
Olu luhlobo lwesibindi olungaqwalaselwa kuba luboniswa ngabantu abathuleyo, abangaziphakamisiyo.
4. Ubuntununtunu bokomoya
Ngubani ojonga ngaphandle, amaphupha. Ngubani ojonga ngaphakathi, avuke. - UCarl Jung
Isibongo somntu ongasekhoyo
Isicatshulwa esingentla sinxibelelana kakuhle nelinye lamagunya afihliweyo okungenisa: ukukwazi kwabo ukuhlakulela inzulu ukukhula ngokomoya .
Ibuyela kutyekelo lwabo lwendalo lokujonga ngaphakathi kunangaphandle kunye nendlela oku okuchaphazela ngayo ezona zinto ziphambili kubo. Ama-intrets awangenanga kwihlabathi langaphandle kwaye athambekele ekungazikhathazi kangako malunga neemfuno kunye neminqweno eyenzileyo.
Endaweni yoko, babeka ixabiso elingakumbi kuxolo lwabo lwangaphakathi kunye nolwaneliseko olukhokelela ekubeni babe phantsi kokomoya.
5. Izakhono zokujonga kakuhle
Ngelixa umbono wokungenisa njenge ubuntu obuzolileyo Ikho kancinci, kukho inyani kuyo. Batyekele ekubeni babe nelizwi elingaphantsi kunabalingane babo abadumileyo, kodwa oku kunesiphumo esiluncedo kakhulu.
Kunzima kakhulu ukuba ulwazi luhambe ngokuqonda kumacala amabini ngaxeshanye. Ngamanye amagama, akukho lula ukuthatha indawo ekungqongileyo xa uthetha okanye usenza ngolunye uhlobo.
Ukungeniswa kwamazwi okuqala okungena rhoqo kuvumela ukuqaphela okukhulu ukuba kwenzeke. Banokufumana ezinye iinkcukacha ezintle kwaye bazisebenzise ukuphucula ukufunda kwabo kunye nokuqonda kwabantu kunye neemeko.
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6. Ingxelo yokwakha
Ngamandla abo afanelekileyo okujonga, izethulo zihlala zilungile ekwakheni unxibelelwano olunentsingiselo nabanye abantu. Banokukhetha ngononophelo abantu ababaziyo, kodwa banokumazi ngokukhawuleza umntu xa befuna.
Esona sixhobo sabo siphambili sokufezekisa oku ukumamela ngenyameko kulento ithethwa ngomnye umntu. Baphanda ngemibuzo kwaye bafuna ukucaciswa ukuze baqonde kungekuphela nje iinkcukacha zomhlaba, kodwa imeko ebanzi nayo.
Ngaba ujulia robertsen unabantwana
Ama-Introverts athambekele ekuthandeni iincoko ezinzulu ngaphezulu kwezinto ezingaphezulu ezinceda ukunciphisa izithintelo zobuqu kunye nokwenza amava angalibalekiyo ekwabelwana ngawo.
7. Ubuchule bendalo
Iindidi zokungenisa zihlala zifuna ukuthuthuzelwa wedwa rhoqo kwaye oku, kudityaniswe nentetho yabo esele ikhankanyiwe ngaphambili yokungena ngaphakathi, kubonakala ngathi kuvula icala lokuyila ezingqondweni zabo.
Nokuba lixesha elininzi elichithwe ekucingeni okanye kwenye into engaphakathi, bayakwazi ukuvula iingcinga zabo kwaye bavumele imixholo ukuba ihambe ngokukhululekileyo ngokwazi kwabo.
Yiyo loo nto uninzi lwababhali, amagcisa, iimvumi, kunye nabanye abadlali bechonga njengabangenisi ngaphandle kokubonakala.
8. Ukugxila / Ukuqwalaselwa
Xa isiza ukugcina ujoliso lwabo ixesha elide , Ama-introverts azisula phantsi ngokuzibandakanya.
Baza kuzifihla ngovuyo kwikona kwenye indawo kwaye baqhubeke nomsebenzi abawenzileyo. Abaziva isidingo sokuphazamiseka rhoqo kunye nokunxibelelana njengoko uninzi lwee-extroverts lunokuba njalo.
Oku kugxila kubanika iliso leenkcukacha ingqalelo yabo ayinciphisi ngokulula intsingiselo yeempazamo kunye neempazamo ezingena kuyo nantoni na enokuba bayayenza.
9. Ukuzikhusela Ekukruqukeni
Ukonwaba kwabo bodwa, ukucinga kwabo okucacileyo, kunye nenqanaba labo lokugxila konke kunegalelo ekwenzeni isingeniso singabinasithukuthezi. Ayinamsebenzi nokuba bazifumana bekweyiphi imeko, baya kuba nakho ukwenza uhlobo oluthile lokuvuselela ingqondo.
imiqondiso indoda ayikho kuwe
Nokuba kukucinga nje ngobuninzi bobomi imibuzo enzulu , ukuzixakekisa ngencwadi, ukonwabela uxolo lwendawo ebangqongileyo, okanye ukufumana imisebenzi engaqhelekanga ukuba bayenze, kunqabile ukuba babe noxinzelelo okanye isonyulo ngexesha labo.
Unokubeka isingeniso kwigumbi elingenanto elingenazifestile kwaye bazive bekhululekile.
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