Iimpawu ezili-10 zokuCinga nzulu

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Kwindawo ehamba ngokukhawuleza, ehamba ngokuzenzekelayo, kunye netekhnoloji, apho sikhuthazwa ukuba 'sicinge ngeenyawo zethu,' kwaye 'sibethe umhlaba sibaleke,' kukho abantu abayibamba ngokupheleleyo imeko. Bakhetha ukunciphisa, bathathe ixesha lokucinga ngezinto, kwaye baqwalasele izenzo zabo, umhlaba kunye nendawo yabo kuwo.



Dibana nomntu ocinga nzulu… Nazi iindlela ezili-10 abanokuzibonisa ngazo:

1. Wangenisa

Ngokungaguquguqukiyo, uninzi lweengcinga ezinzulu zinjalo igcinwe , ethule engenisa. Oku akunzima ukuyiqonda. Ukuba uchitha ixesha elininzi entlokweni yakho , kwaye alikho ixesha elininzi ngaphandle konxibelelwano , awuyi kuba yincoko.



imibuzo yokubuza enye ebalulekileyo malunga nawe

Ngelixa lo ayingomthetho onzima kwaye okhawulezayo (akukho nanye kwezi zinto zidwelisiweyo, njengoko kuyakuhlala kukho abantu abaphambukayo 'kwisiqhelo'), uninzi lweengcinga ezinzulu ludla ngokuba ngama-introverts kuba nje ukucinga nzulu ayiyonto yentlalo. . Ayizizo iibhabhathane zentlalo, kwaye bachitha ixesha elininzi bebodwa bejonga ingxaki ngaphambi kokufikelela kwisigqibo.

Ukukhupha impendulo? Akunakuze. Yiba liziko lokuqwalaselwa ethekweni? Hayi ebomini bakho. Uya kubafumana behleli kude nomgangatho wokudanisa, bethetha ngokudlamkileyo nomntu omnye. Yiyo jam yabo.

2. Ukujonga

Abacinga nzulu bathatha ngaphezulu kunokuba babekhuphe, intsingiselo, bathi kancinci, kwaye bajonge ngaphezulu. Bazibandakanya ngokupheleleyo neminqweno yabo, bexakekile bejongisisa isihloko ngaphambi kokwenza uluvo, okanye begweba. Ngenxa yokuba bathambekele ekuqwalaseleni ngakumbi kwaye balinde ngaphambi kokufika kwisigqibo, abakhohliswa ngokulula luvo oluqhelekileyo.

Bafuna ixesha lokujonga ngokupheleleyo isihloko, kwaye baqokelele zonke iinyani ngaphambili ukwenza isigqibo . Oku kunokubakhathaza abantu abajikeleze ukucinga nzulu abafuna impendulo kwangoko, kwaye baqonde ukuba soze yenzeke. Ekuhambeni kwexesha, unokuqiniseka ukuba ngokucinga okunzulu, xa befika kwisigqibo, akwenziwe lula. Isisombululo sabo sivavanyiwe macala onke ukunciphisa iingxaki ezinokubakho kunye nokunika ezona ziphumo zibalaseleyo. Ngubani ongayifuniyo loo nto?!

3. Kuhlekisa

Ngokuchasene nenkolelo edumileyo, iingcinga ezinzulu zinoburharha! Ewe, injalo loo nto, ayingabo abantu abangathandekiyo beqela elinobundlobongela, elidikayo, nelibi kakhulu njengoko kubonisiwe kwiphephandaba nakwinqaku lemagazini.

Ngelixa ngokuqinisekileyo bengengabo ubomi beqela, ngokuqinisekileyo banokonwaba, ubuqili, kunye nokuhlekisa. Banokuba ngama-oddballs, clever, witty, kwaye bakhawuleze ukufumana uburharha kuyo nayiphi na imeko. Bahlala bezithoba, kwaye baqonde indlela yokuzihleka.

Ezinye zezithandi zobulumko, kunye nababhali, baseRoma yakudala, iGrisi yakudala, kunye namaXesha Aphakathi, anjengoCicero, Aristophanes, noThomas Aquinas, bakholelwa ukuba uburharha kubalulekile ekufundeni. Abacinga nzulu abaziingubo ezimanzi kwaye bayakuthanda ukuhleka.

4. Abafundi abafundayo

Abacingayo nzulu bahlala bentywiliselwa ezincwadini. Banxanelwe ulwazi kunye neemfuno ezinzulu zokufunda ngakumbi kunye nokwandisa ukuqonda kwabo. Iincwadi ziindawo zazo 'zokuya' ukufumana ulwazi. Iincwadi zikwangabahlobo babo, kunye nentuthuzelo yabo, enika indawo yokubalekela kwingxolo kunye nokuphazamiseka kwelizwe langaphandle. Ukwazi ngakumbi, kufuneka uthathe ulwazi oluninzi ngangokunokwenzeka- iincwadi yeyona ibhetri yakho ibhetele. Abacinga nzulu bayayazi le nto kwaye baziqwenga iincwadi ngeloli.

5. Uyalibala

Inokwenzeka njani le nto, ubuza?! Bacinga nge yonke into! Ewe, yingxaki leyo, bacinga kakhulu ukuba imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla ikhutshelwa ngaphandle kweentloko, okanye ubuncinci, ibeke isitshisi esingasemva. Banokukhetha ukukhanya kwimicimbi yokucinezela, ukusombulula ingxaki, okanye bafunde ngokukuko kunokuba bakhumbule ukuthatha isonka evenkileni xa begoduka.

Umlingane wakho ocinga nzulu unokukuthanda, kodwa ulibele isikhumbuzo, usuku lokuzalwa, okanye wasilela ukubuyela kwindawo yomzali wakho kwisidlo sangokuhlwa sangeCawa. Bayalibala ukuhlangabezana nezibophelelo zentlalo kuba ezi zinto azinamsebenzi kubo kangako, okt ukunxulumana akukho phezulu kuluhlu lwezinto eziphambili ngokubaluleka. Ayisiyonto yobuqu, kwaye ayinabungozi ngabom, kukuba ezi meko zihlala zibandakanya ukungqinelana nolindelo lwentlalo njengokwenza intetho encinci okanye ukuxoxa ngezinto ezinganiki mdla kubo, ke ukuya kuzo kulula ukutyibilika ezingqondweni zabo.

Ukucinga ngombono wabo omkhulu olandelayo, kuthetha ukuba abanalo ixesha lokumamela udadewenu drone malunga nesiqendu samva nje 'Ukuhambelana namaKardashians,' okanye uthethe ngamanqaku ebhola ekhatywayo notata wakho. Akunjalo nakwi-radar yabo, ngoko ke ukunyamezela, ukuqonda, kunye nezikhumbuzo ezinobumnene ziya kuhamba ixesha elide kunye nomntu onzulu ebomini bakho.

6. Ukufuna ukwazi

Abacinga nzulu abanomdla ngokungazenzisiyo malunga nehlabathi elibangqongileyo. Bafuna ukuqonda ukuba zisebenza njani izinto, kutheni ezinye izinto zisenziwa ngale ndlela, kungenjalo, kwaye yintoni eyenza abantu baphawule.

Imbali, ezopolitiko, uncwadi, isayensi, uyinike igama- bafuna ukwazi ngakumbi, kuba ulwazi luyabonwabisa. Ihlabathi liyimbatyisi eyimbumba. Banokuba ngabona bantu babandakanyeke ngokupheleleyo oya kudibana nabo, besazi into encinci ngayo yonke into.

Iimuvi eziza kukwenza ucinge

Ubomi bunomdla kubo, kwaye abaze badike. Abadingi mntu wokubonwabisa bayayazi indlela yokwenza ubomi babanike umdla, kunye nabo babangqongileyo.

Iingcinga ezinzulu zinokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):

7. Abacwangcisi

Xa ucinga kakhulu, ubophelelekile ukuba ubuthathele ingqalelo ubomi bakho kunye nento oyifunayo kubo. Ayisiyongxaki yokuba abantu abaphumeleleyo bathande ukuba ziingcinga ezinzulu. Bathathe ixesha lokucinga ngekamva labo, kunye nalapho bafanele khona (okanye bangenzi), kwaye banesicwangciso somdlalo ebomini.

‘Ukuyiphapha’ ayingobabo. Abaphakami ngakwisihlalo seebhulukhwe zabo, kuba kufuneka bazi zonke izinto abanokuzenza ngaphambili. Ukuba nesicwangciso sekhonkrithi ebomini kufuna umonde, ukucinga okuninzi, kunye nokulungiselela ngononophelo-ezona mpawu ziphambili zeengcinga ezinzulu.

8. Izixazululi zeengxaki

Abacinga nzulu benza ukusombulula iingxaki ngokugqwesileyo. Kuba ukucinga nzulu kuza ngokwendalo kubo, banokubona iipateni kunye nezithintelo ezinokubakho ngokukhawuleza. Umonde wabo ekuhlekiseni ngazo zonke izisombululo, kuthetha ukuba kunqabile ukuba benze iimpazamo ezibiza imali eninzi kuba bathathe ixesha lokucinga malunga nokhetho kuzo zonke iinkalo ezinokubakho.

Aba bantu ngabantu kwiofisi yakho oya kuyo xa unamathele. Ngabantu obafunayo kwiqela lakho ukuba baqhube ezo nombolo zokugqibela kwaye ujonge ukubona ukuba zonke ii-i's zinamachaphaza kwaye ziwele. Musa ukulindela impendulo ekhawulezileyo impendulo eqinileyo, ecingwe kakuhle, ewe, kodwa ulungele ukulinda.

indlela yokuxelela ukuba umhla uhambe kakuhle

9. Ngentlalontle

Abacinga nzulu, ukongeza ekuthambekeni kokungeniswa, andithandi iindlela ezininzi ezamkelekileyo zenkcubeko kunye nokuziphatha okulindelwe kuthi yonke imihla. Bayayicaphukela intetho encinci, a.k.a, ‘iincoko zekheshi.’ Bathetha kuphela xa into ibalulekile ngokwaneleyo ukuba bangayithetha, ingekuko ngenjongo yokuthetha kuphela ukuzalisa ukuthula okungathethekiyo. Abafumani ukuthula ngaphandle kokubeka okanye ukungonwabi kuba bahlala belahlekile kwingcinga, kwaye bakhetha inkampani yabo kunengxoxo engenangqondo nabantu abangabaziyo.

Oku kunokwenza ukuba ubudlelwane bube nzima kubo njengoko beya kuthi bakuyeke ngokukhawuleza ukuhleba kunye neencoko eziqhelekileyo kwaye banokuza njenge-snobby, okanye ukuba kude. Kukude nenyaniso, njengoko iingcinga ezinzulu zithande ukuba phantsi emhlabeni, zibambeke, kwaye ziyinyani imiphefumlo, kodwa zive ukuba azinanto ibalulekileyo ukuyongeza, ngekhe bayitsho. Bakhetha iincoko ezizezinye apho banokuthi bajonge ixesha labo kunye namandla kuloo mntu kwaye banonxibelelwano olunzulu.

10. Ukuzimela

Kungenxa yokuba abacinga nzulu bathambekele ekungenisweni, kwaye loners , bahlala beqondwa phosakeleyo . Ngenxa yoko, bafunda kwangethuba ukuba baxhomekeke kubo kwaye bazimele geqe. Bayonwabela ukuchitha ixesha wedwa , bengoyiki okanye boyike, kuba bayazi ukuba kulapho ke banokuthi baphinde bazenze bahlaziye, kwaye bacinge ngento abafuna ukuyenza ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka. Kananjalo, ngenxa yokuba iminyhadala yokuhlalisana ayinakuphazamisa kwaye iyadinisa kubo, bafunda ngokukhawuleza indlela yokonwabela ukuba wedwa kwaye babusebenzise ngokupheleleyo.

Ngaba uzijonga njengomntu ocinga nzulu? Ngaba uzibona ukolu hlobo luchazwe ngasentla? Mhlawumbi ubona umntu osebenza naye, umntu omthandayo, okanye umhlobo apho? Ngelixa iimpawu ezidwelisiweyo zikude kakhulu, ziyindawo onokuthi uqale kuyo ukuba ufuna ukuqonda ukuba yintoni eyenza (kunye nokuba yintoni ekufuneka uyenzile) umntu ocinga nzulu.