Namhlanje, njengayo yonke eminye imihla, siphila kwihlabathi elixakeke kakhulu neligcwele abantu abalindelwe kulowo nalowo mntu.
Ndiziva ngathi andinabahlobo kodwa ndinayo
Iindlela zokuziphatha kunye neenkolelo ezivela kwabanye zenza isithunzi esinzima sokuzikhukhumeza ebomini bethu, rhoqo nangaphambi kokuba sizalwe. Iinkqubo zale mihla zemfundo kunye nomsebenzi zingumthombo ongapheliyo woxinzelelo olukhulu, ziphuphuma iingqondo nemizimba yethu. Nokuba lelona khefu lincinci kufuneka libaliwe kwaye lilungele ishedyuli egcwele imisebenzi kunye noxanduva.
Kuyaziwa ngokuxhaphakileyo ukuba abantu abanolwazelelelo kakhulu boyisiwe ngokulula, kungoko bengaxhotyiswanga kakuhle ukujongana noxinzelelo kunye neemeko ezikhuthazayo ngokuqhubekayo. Ukungaqondi kakuhle lo mbandela kuhlala kunyanzela loo miphefumlo ibuthathaka ukuba ifune isisombululo ngokwabo.
Bahlala bejikela kwizinto ezilikhoboka ukuze banciphise uqhwithela olwenzeka ngaphakathi ezintliziyweni zabo. Xa ingqondo yakho ebandezelekileyo ikubulala, kwanechiza elinemiphumela emibi libonakala ngathi libububi obuncinci, njengoko uzama ngamandla ukujongana nomzuzu wangoku. Le ndlela yokuzikhathaza, nangona iyingozi kakhulu, isenzo sokuphila.
Ukwenza umKhwa
Ndingumntu osemngciphekweni kwaye ndingenisiwe kwaye ndibone ukunganyanzeleki kwesenzo esitshintsha kancinci sibe ngumzekelo. Iqala ngesiquphe ukufumana isiqabu kwimeko eyoyikekayo: masisebenzise umzekelo wokusela ibhotile kaJack Daniels emva kokwahlukana.
Isiganeko esinjalo siqhelekile, kwaye uninzi lwabantu luya kuzama uhlobo oluthile lwe-anesthesia yokuzenzela ukuvavanya ukusebenza kwayo xa singumlinganiswa ophambili kumdlalo wethu olusizi.
Ngaba uyalikhumbula ixesha laxa wawusebenzisa utywala ukunciphisa umsindo wakho kunye nosizi njengoko wawusiya usiya kude nentliziyo yakho ebuhlungu? Ukuba impendulo yakho nguewe, kukho ithuba eliphezulu kakhulu lokuba - ukuba imeko elusizi iyaziphinda-uyakuphinda uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde uphinde om no nye no ukuba nawo ukuba Ukuba noPhenduli ngu-Ewe nguEwe, kukho ithuba eliphezulu kakhulu lokuba - ukuba imeko ebuhlungu iyaziphinda-uyakuphinda uphinde uphinde ubonise imeko efanayo, ufuna isimilo owaziyo ukuba siyakuphinda siphume kolo sizi.
Ingqondo yethu ithatha inxaxheba ekwakheni umkhwa ngaphandle kokuvavanya iziphumo zayo: ungazenzekelayo ukufikelela kwibhotile ngokulula njengoko uhlakulele umkhwa wokuxubha amazinyo rhoqo kusasa.
Abantu abanovelwano kakhulu abachaphazeleka ayisiyabo kuphela, kodwa kunye neemvakalelo zabanye abantu iinkqubo zabo zemithambo-luvo zihlala ngokusisigxina, ziqhubekeka nokukhuthaza okubonelelwa ngawo omabini amazwe: angaphakathi nangaphandle.
Kwa ezona zinto zincinci zinokwaphula iintliziyo zabo kwaye bazizalise ngosizi olungachazekiyo kwiintsuku ezininzi: ngaxesha lithile ndazibona ndilila ngenxa yokuba umphathi wemali kwivenkile enkulu wandingxolisa ngokuthinta isikali esinobunzima. Ubundlobongela bakhe kunye nomsindo wakhe kwabangela ukungalingani ngokweemvakalelo kum.
Sishiywe ngaphandle kwekhuselo kwaye yonke into ifika kuthi, ngoko sinokuziva sinomdla wokufuna ukukhululeka rhoqo kunabanye, ukudala iindlela eziyingozi ngokukhawuleza kwaye sizilahle kuzo ngamandla amakhulu.
Kwinzulu yokuba likhoboka lam bendisithi ilizwe liyandityhefu kwaye kufuneka ndikhuphe iityhefu kwigazi lam ndize ndizibulale iintsholongwane ngotywala. Yintoni edla ngokuvala iluphu - ngokwenza wena ndiziva ndingento yanto -Ukukhatywa kwabanye kunye nokungamkelwa ngokukhohlakeleyo ngokusekwe kwizimvo ezingeyonyani.
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Iingxaki kunye nendlela yokuzoyisa
Xa ulikhoboka, impembelelo ekunyanzela ukuba uphinde impazamo yakho ibizwa ngokuba yimbangi. Isenokuba yimvakalelo enxulunyaniswe 'nonyango' ngengqondo yethu engaziwayo, indawo, okanye ivumba. Ukubona indawo obukade uzibandakanya kuyo kulonwabo lwakho olungavumelekanga okanye ukudibana nomntu okugcine kwinkampani kuya kubuyisa iinkumbulo kwaye kukuhende ukuba uziphinde.
Kwakhona, kunzima ngakumbi kumntu onobuzaza kakhulu ukunqanda izinto ezibangela ukuba zibekho, kuba ziya kuvela rhoqo ngenxa yesakhono sabo esimangalisayo sokubhalisa zonke iinkcukacha kwaye bazibophelele kwizimo ezingqinelanayo (umzekelo ivumba lama-apile linokuvusa imvakalelo yolonwabo kunye nokhuseleko ngenxa ye-apile ye-apile umakhulu wakho awayekunyanga ngayo).
Ukuva ingoma oyitshayele ngokuzithandela ukutshaya, nokuba kungunyaka emva kokuba uyekile, kuya kudala umnqweno ovuthayo wokuthenga ipakethe yeeNkamela, ndikholelwe.
Unyango olubonelelwe kumaziko alwa neziyobisi lujolise ikakhulu ekuboneni izinto ezibangela kunye nokufunda indlela yokuziphepha kunye nokujamelana nazo xa ingekho enye indlela. Isitshixo sokugqibela silele ekubambeni ipateni ngendlela entsha yokuphelisa uxinzelelo.
Ukuvakalisa iimvakalelo ngobugcisa lukhetho olukhulu kubantu abanobuthathaka kakhulu njengoko bethanda ukuba nobuchule obungummangaliso bokwenza indalo kunye nokukhulula okungcwatyelwe kubunzulu obumnyama bengqondo kunokuba ngamava acelomngeni kwaye acoce ngokunzulu.
Ukungena komnye umntu nge-intanethi yinto elungileyo kwaye kukuvumela ukuba uhlale uncognito kwaye uphephe ukugwetywa ngqwabalala ngumntu oqhelekileyo (kukho iindawo ezimbalwa ezintle zokwenza oku - zama uGoogling 'indawo yokuthuthuzela'). Ukucwangcisa usuku lwakho lukwabalulekile ukuze kuthintelwe amaxesha xa ungenanto yakwenza kwaye xa ucinga kakhulu kunokubamba.
Elona cebiso libalulekileyo endinokuthi ndilinike wonke umntu onobuzaza kakhulu onengxaki yokulutha zezi: ziphulaphule. Vula intliziyo yakho kwaye uzimamele ngokwenyani ngaphandle kokwenza uluvo okanye okulindelweyo. Uyayazi eyona nto uyifunayo uyithemba yakho intuition ukuze uphinde wakhe unxibelelwano neemvakalelo zakho. Zibone njengoko zinjalo, ziluhlaza kwaye zintle kwaye uphinde uzimise emhlabeni okwamkelayo.
