Ingqondo yakho ilulwandle olungafakwanga kwiingcinga kunye neemvakalelo, ukubetha ngokungathi amaza atshona ngaphakathi kukakayi lwakho. Uzama ukuhlala udada, kodwa akunakunceda uzive ngokungathi yinto nje yexesha ngaphambi kokuba intloko yakho inyamalale ngaphantsi komphezulu wamanzi.
Nguwe lo xa uziva ukoyiswa bubomi. Yile ndlela ingqondo yakho isabela ngayo xa yonke into ifika phezu kwakho xa uziva ungakwazi ukujamelana nayo yonke.
Unobangela woku Ingavakala icacile: yimpendulo yoxinzelelo. Kwaye, ewe, uya kuba ulungile xa ucinga ukuba oku kukuqonda okungaphezulu kakhulu kwemeko. Kodwa, kwisiseko salo, uvakalelo lokufumana okukhulu kukusabela komzimba wakho kunye nengqondo kuxinzelelo.
Ngokukodwa, yimpendulo yoxinzelelo ebangelwe kukwakha uxanduva oluninzi- olukhulu noluncinci- kunye nenkolelo yokuba awukwazi ukugcina zonke iipleyiti zijikeleza ixesha elide. Uloyiko lokungazi ukuba ipleyiti iwile kwaye lityumze kubangela impendulo yoxinzelelo ekhokelela kukuziva okungaphaya kwamandla.
Olu hlobo lwempendulo luchazwe ngokuthe ngqo ekubeni inxulumene nokudityaniswa kwezinto ezininzi ezixhalabisayo - ayilulo uhlobo lwempendulo onokuthi ulufumane ngokubanzi xa uxinzelelo luyinto enye njengokungazaliseki emsebenzini wakho okanye ukufelwa kutshanje.
Xa kusenzeka into engaphaya kwamandla akho, ingqondo yakho izabalaza ukujongana nayo yonke imiba eyahlukeneyo kuba unokunika ingcinga enye kuphela ngexesha. Kodwa xa uzama ukwenza njalo, ixhala elibangelwa zizo zonke ezinye iingxaki likuthintela ekucingeni ngokucacileyo kule uyikhethileyo.
ukuba wenzeni xa ungaziva unqwenela ukwenza nantoni na
Cinga ngengqondo yakho njengomnyango apho iingxaki zihambelana khona nezisombululo xa zidlula. Xa uziva uxakekile, zininzi iingxaki ezizama ukutyhala indlela emnyango, ekugqibeleni, akukho namnye kubo onokugqobhozela ngaphaya kwabanye.
Isisombululo sichanekile: Kuya kufuneka ususe isithintelo ukuze imicimbi ojamelene nayo iphinde idlule ngocango apho kufumaneka khona izisombululo.
Zimbini iindlela onokukwenza ngazo oku:
- Yilahle eminye imicimbi iyonke ukuze indlela icace kwabanye.
- Yenza inkqubo yolawulo lwezendlela ukuze ingxaki nganye isonjululwe ngexesha elinye ngokucinga okucacileyo nokufutshane.
Ukuziqhelanisa, uya kuthi ekugqibeleni uphele ngokudibanisa zombini iindlela zokwenza isicwangciso esinye esihambelanayo.
Izandi zilula, kodwa uyithatha njani kwaye uyiphumeze kwilizwe lokwenyani?
wenzani xa udikiwe
Ewe, kuqala kufuneka uchonge zonke izinto ezinegalelo kuwe ukuba uzive ukhululekile. Ngaphandle koluvo olucacileyo lwemicimbi emininzi ekufuneka ilungisiwe, ngekhe ukwazi ukujongana nayo yonke ingxaki.
Thatha usiba kunye nephepha kwaye ubhale phantsi yonke inkxalabo enye edlala engqondweni yakho kulo mzuzwana. Sukuba nexhala lokuba abanye bangabona kungabalulekanga kangakanani ukuba kubangcono bangene ekuhleni.
Emva koko, thatha isigqibo sokuba yeyiphi, ukuba ikhona, amaxhala onokuthi ungabhina ngokupheleleyo. Jonga uluhlu lwakho kwaye uzibuze ngokwenyani ukuba into nganye iyinto efanelwe kukuqwalaselwa, okanye ukuba ukhathazwa yinto engenasiseko sekhonkrithi kwinyani.
Mhlawumbi uyifumene entlokweni yakho ukuba usengozini yokugxothwa ngumqeshi wakho. Gweba nzulu kancinci kwaye ubuze ukuba ingaba lo mngcipheko uyinyani kwaye unobuzaza, nokuba awuzikhathazi ngento. Nyaniseka kwisiqu sakho kwaye uya kufumana iimpendulo ezichanekileyo kule mibuzo.
uyeke kanjani ukuba yintombi esweleyo
Ndiyathemba ukuba ngoku uza kuba noluhlu oluncinci lwezinto onokuthi usebenze nazo emva kokuchonga ezo onokuthi ungazihoyi ngovuyo ngaphandle kweziphumo. Umsebenzi wakho olandelayo kukufumana indlela yokubeka loo micimbi eseleyo kuhlobo oluthile locwangco.
Kuphela xa ubeke phambili Ngaba uya kukwazi ukuwuphatha kakuhle umcimbi ngamnye xa ucango lwakho luvulekile kwaye indlela inendlela enye yokugcwala.
Ukubekwa phambili kubekwa kwizinto ezimbini eziphambili: ubaluleke kangakanani umba osondeleyo kwaye ufuna ukujongana kungekudala?
Makhe sijonge eminye imizekelo:
Umzekelo 1: Umnini-mhlaba ukunike isaziso seenyanga ezimbini sokuba uphume kwikhaya lakho langoku. Umbuzo wexesha unokubonakala ucacile-uneenyanga ezimbini zokufumana enye indawo yokuhlala-kodwa kuya kufuneka uphinde ubuye kuloo mhla unqamkileyo kwaye ucinge ngamanyathelo aphakathi kwelo xesha nangoku. Kuthatha ixesha elingakanani ukulungiselela ukubonwa kwenye indawo yokuhlala, kuthatha ixesha elingakanani ukusayina izivumelwano, kuthatha ixesha elingakanani ukulungiselela inkampani yokususa, kwaye kuthatha ixesha elingakanani ukupakisha?
Ukuba unokwaphula ingxaki nganye phantsi ngoluhlobo, unokujongana nenyathelo ngalinye ngexesha elifanelekileyo.
ubuza njani umfana ukuba ubudlelwane buya phi
Ngokubaluleka kokuba umba ubaluleke kangakanani, ukungabi namakhaya ngokuqinisekileyo ayisiyonto ongathanda ukuyicinga, ke kuya kuba kufanelekile ukumaka oku njengeyona nkxalabo inkulu efuna ingqalelo yakho.
Umzekelo 2: usuku lwakho lokuzalwa luza ngexesha leveki kwaye ungathanda ukulungiselela umbhiyozo nabahlobo bakho.
Ixesha elibekiweyo liphinde lacwangciswa, kodwa ngeli xesha usenokungakhathazeki kangako ukuba akukho nto icwangciswe kakuhle kuba ungasoloko uhamba ngokunyanzelwa kwaye ufumane indawo yokutyela, ibha, okanye umsebenzi ngosuku. Okwangoku, mhlawumbi eyona nto icinezelayo kukuvumela abantu bazi ukuba kufuneka bagcine umhla simahla.
Umzekelo 3: awonwabanga emsebenzini wakho wangoku kwaye ungathanda ukulandela ikhondo lomsebenzi owahlukileyo ngokuthatha isiqinisekiso esitsha.
Apha inkalo yexesha lenkxalabo yakho inqabile. Unomsebenzi kunye nengeniso elandelayo kwaye, ukuba kuyafuneka, ungaqhubeka kwithambo elifanayo okwethutyana.
Kwelinye icala, unokuba uphelelwe lithemba yimeko yakho kangangokuba uyinike amanqaku aphezulu ngokubaluleka kwayo.
izinto ezimnandi ezilula ukuzenza xa udikiwe
Ke, ngento nganye kuluhlu lwakho, kuya kufuneka ulinganise ubungqongqo bemeko kunye nayiphi na imiqobo enokubekwa ekufumaneni isisombululo. Ayizukuhlala imnyama okanye imhlophe, kodwa ngandlela thile kufuneka u-odole uluhlu ukusuka koxinzelelo oluninzi ukuya kuncinci.
Emva koko, ngombono ocacileyo wento ekufuneka yenziwe kuqala, ungaqala ukujongana nemicimbi yakho ngaphandle koluvo lwentshabalalo ebesinayo ngaphambi kokuba wenze lo msebenzi.
Ingqondo yakho isenokungathuli kwaphela, kodwa uya kuba nakho ukunikezela ngokwaneleyo ngokwamandla akho engqondo ekusombululeni inkxalabo nganye ngexesha.
Zama le ndlela kwixesha elizayo xa uziva ukoyiswa ziingxaki zobomi. Sazise ukuba kuyasebenza ngokushiya iikhomenti ezingezantsi.
