Zeziphi ezi-4 iintlobo zoTyikityo oyiyo?

I-Introversion luhlobo lomlingiswa ukuba inani elikhulu labantu lingathi liza kungena, kodwa lithetha ntoni kanye?

Lo ngumbuzo ugqirha wezengqondo u-Jonathan Cheek kunye noogxa bakhe abazame ukuwuphendula xa bebe dliwanondlebe nabangenisi abazihlolelayo malunga nobuntu babo. Bafumanise ukuba aba bantu basebenzise ulwimi olwahlukeneyo xa bechaza ukuba kuthetha ntoni ukungenisa kubo.

Isiphetho ekuphela kwaso esenza nayiphi na intsingiselo kuCheek yayikukuba akukho nkcazo inye inokubandakanya zonke iimpawu ezinabangeneleli. Endaweni yoko, esebenzisa ulwazi aluqokeleleyo, yena neqela lakhe bacebisa iintlobo ezi-4 ezahlukileyo zokungenisa.

Njengalo naluphi na uphawu lobuntu, umntu akazukuba kwiqela elinye, kodwa banokudibana ngokusondeleyo nabanye kunabanye (okanye bahluke ngenxa yexesha kunye neemeko).

Iintlobo ezi-4 zokungeniswa zi:

1. Ezentlalo Ukujongana nokuthambekela komntu wokonwabela amaqela amancinci abantu okanye ukuba wedwa ngaphezulu kwamaqela amakhulu.
2. Ukucinga - ngokubhekisele kwinqanaba lomntu lokungena kunye Ukucinga ngokwakho lingakanani ixesha abalichithe bonwabile kwiintloko zabo.
3. Ukuxhalaba - malunga nobunzima umntu uziva kungekuphela nje kwabanye, kodwa amaxesha amaninzi xa eyedwa naye umntu oxhalabileyo uhamba nabo.
4. Ukuthintela - ngokunxulumene nesidingo sokuthatha ixesha lomntu malunga nezinto kunye nendlela umntu ekufuneka 'efudumele' ngayo kwimeko ngaphambi kokuba azive elungile.

Imibuzo engezantsi ayenzelwanga ukuba ibe yi-100% yenzululwazi, kodwa iimpendulo zakho kwimibuzo kufuneka ziveze ukuba zeziphi kwezi ntlobo zine uhambelana kakhulu nazo ngoku.

Izithuba ezihambelanayo:

• Iindlela ezili-15 zokuSebenzisanayo zinxibelelana ngokwahlukileyo neLizwe
• Iingcaphuno ezingama-30 zokubhiyozela amaNtshayelelo, iintyatyambo zodonga kunye neengcuka zodwa

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