Kuya kuba nzima ukuva igama 'imbeko,' okanye ubone inqaku malunga nembeko, kwaye ungacingi ngoKumkanikazi womphefumlo, u-Aretha Franklin, osishiye kalusizi kutshanje eneminyaka engama-76.
UAretha wayenomsebenzi obalaseleyo, ephumelele amabhaso eGrammy ali-18 kwaye ethengisa ngaphezulu kwama-75 ezirekhodi kwihlabathi jikelele.
Ewe, ingoma yakhe yokutyikitya yayinesihloko esithi, “Intlonipho.” Kwaye ibinzana eliqhelekileyo lengoma yile:
IINKCUKACHA, fumana ukuba kuthetha ntoni na kum
Ukuba inye kuphela into esiyithathayo kule ngoma, yile intlonipho ibalulekile. Kodwa yintoni intlonipho, ngokuchanekileyo?
Makhe sihlolisise oku ngakumbi, ngaba thina?
Sibonisa Njani Ukuba Sibahlonela Abanye?
Ngoko sibonisa njani ukuba siyabahlonela abanye? Injani imbeko? Sazi njani xa siyibona? Sibona njani xa ingekho?
Ewe, akukho sithuba sokukhankanya zonke okanye uninzi lwazo, kodwa nazi iindlela ezi-6 zokubonisa intlonipho onokuthi uyiqwalasele kwaye ngethemba lokuba uyenza.
1. Mamela
Ukumamela into ethethwa ngomnye umntu yindlela esisiseko yokuhlonipha. Wonke umntu ufuna ukuthetha. Wonke umntu ufuna baziva ngathi bayamanyelwa . Nokuba banento enzulu abanokuyithetha ayisiyonto. Abantu bafuna ukuviwa… ixesha.
Xa unika omnye umntu ixesha lakho kunye nokugxila kwakho kunye nendlebe yakho, uyamqinisekisa. Edlulisa imbeko.
Ukunikezelwa kwamalungelo oluntu kuqala xa abo bangakhange bamamele icandelo elithile loluntu beqala ukumamela. Lonke utshintsho kwezentlalo luqala ngengxoxo. Incoko yababini.
ndiziva ngathi andifaneleki kweli hlabathi
Ude umamele iinkxalabo zomnye umntu, ngekhe ubazi ukuba bangobani kwaye yintoni ebalulekileyo kubo. Intlonipho iqala ngo ukumamela .
2. Qinisekisa
Xa singqina umntu, sinika ubungqina bokuba ubalulekile. Ukuba banexabiso. Ukuba zibalulekile. Kwaye bafanele ukuhlonitshwa.
Ukuqinisekisa nje umntu ngokuqinisekileyo kuqinisekisa ukuba uyamhlonipha. Ukuqinisekisa umntu, kuya kufuneka uqaphele into elungileyo malunga naloo mntu kwaye uqinisekise lo mbono.
'Ubonakalise ukuzimisela okukhulu kule minyaka mi-2 idlulileyo yokufumana ishishini lakho emhlabeni.'
'Ubenomonde ngendlela emangalisayo kwaye ubuqonda xa ujongene nale meko inzima.'
“Undenza ndincume qho xa ndikubona.”
Awunakho ukuhlonipha yonke into yokuba bangobani kwaye benza ntoni, kodwa ungabanika imbeko efanelekileyo kwinqanaba elibaqinisekisayo. Ukuqinisekiswa yindlela ephambili yokubonisa imbeko kwabanye.
3. Phaka
Imbongi yesiNgesi yaseMelika uW. U-Auden wakhe wathi, “Sonke silapha emhlabeni nceda abanye yintoni emhlabeni apha abanye abangayaziyo. '
Ubomi emhlabeni bumalunga nokunceda abanye. Ngapha koko, imisebenzi yethu, imisebenzi yethu, kunye nemisebenzi yethu kufuneka zijikeleze kumnqweno wokunceda abanye. Ukubuyisela kwabanye. Ukusebenzisa iitalente zethu kunye nokukwazi ukwenza ubomi bube ngcono kwabanye.
Ukukhonza kubonisa ukuba siyakhathala. Kwaye inkathalo ibonisa ukuba siyayihlonipha. Ukukhonza yinto ebalulekileyo ekuboniseni imbeko.
4. Yiba Nobubele
Nangona ububele kunye nenkonzo zingabazala bokuqala, azifani. Singakhonza ngaphandle kokuba nobubele. Kodwa kunzima kakhulu ukuba nobubele ngaphandle kokukhonza.
Xa sinobubele komnye umntu, siyazinikela. Sinika into abanokuyisebenzisa. Mhlawumbi into abayifunayo. Mhlawumbi into abayifunayo ngokungxama.
Ububele bubonisa imbeko. Intlonipho yokuba omnye umntu uswele nje. Sonke besiswele. Kwatsho kwathi qabu xa umntu othile esenzela ububele. Ububele buyindlela ebonakalayo yokubonisa imbeko.
5. Yiba Nembeko
Kuyothusa ukubona ubungqina bokuncipha kwembeko kwihlabathi lanamhlanje. Nokuba kuhola wendlela, kwivenkile yokutya, kwindawo yokupaka, ebaleni leembaleki, kuFacebook, okanye kwincoko yezopolitiko - intetho enesidima kunye nokunxibelelana ngokukhawuleza iba bubugcisa obulahlekileyo.
Ukanti, kulula kakhulu ukuba nembeko. Kwaye ayibizi kakhulu nayo. Isenzo sokuziphatha kakuhle sinokutshintsha ngokwenyani usuku lomntu. Inokude itshintshe nobomi bomntu.
Inokubaphakamisa ngokukhawuleza. Inokubanceda baqhubeke nezinto ezinokuba nzima. Ezinye iinkcubeko ehlabathini zaziwa ngokuba nembeko. Ezinye iinkcubeko ziyaziwa ngokuba krwada.
Yiyiphi eyazisa intlonipho kwaye yeyiphi engenayo? Ukuba ufuna ukubonisa intlonipho emntwini, qala ngokuba nembeko.
6. Yiba Nombulelo
Ukuba uWilliam James wayenyanisile, ukuba abantu bafuna ukuxabiswa, ngoko ke ukubulela yindlela esiqinisekisa ngayo.
Xa umntu ekwenzela into eluncedo. Okanye bathetha into kuwe eluncedo ngandlela thile. Okanye bakuqinisekisa ngokunyanisekileyo ngandlela thile ukuba kubalulekile kuwe. Kufuneke u enkosi kubo .
Kwakhona, ukubulela kuya kusiba yinto enqabileyo kwihlabathi lethu.
Ndibambele abantu ucango, kwaye bahamba bedlula bengakhange babonakale ngathi bayabona. Ndivumela abantu baphume kwindlela yam yezithuthi ukuze bonge ixesha. Bandijonga ngokungathi lilungelo labo lokuzalwa. Ndinceda abantu ngezinye iindlela endiqinisekile ukuba baxabisekile kubo. Nangona kunjalo andiva nto kwindlela yokubulela.
Akuninzi kangako ukuba sifuna ukubongwa. Kungenxa yokuba sifuna ukuziva ukuba into esiyenzileyo yenze umahluko. Xa kungekho mbulelo ngento esiyenzileyo, okanye nokuba singobani, siziva singenantlonelo.
Intlonipho ayisoloko ifuna umbulelo. Kodwa kuhlala kunjalo. Yenye nje indlela esibonisa ngayo imbeko. Yenye nje indlela esivakalelwa ngayo ukuba siyahlonitshwa.
Kutheni iNhlonipho ibalulekile eBomini
Yintoni entle ngentlonipho phofu? Kutheni le nto ibalulekile kwisikimu esikhulu sezinto?
ndinemibuzo yokulahla
1. Ukubonisa imbeko yimpendulo elungileyo kuluntu.
Olunye lweempawu zoluntu ekuboniseni imbeko kwabanye abantu. Inkolelo yokuba amanye amalungu osapho, idolophu, isixeko, ilizwe, okanye ummandla wehlabathi kufanelekile ukuba ahlonitshwe.
IUniversal Declaration of Human Rights yamkelwa yiUnited Nations General Assembly eParis ngo-1948. Injongo yayo yayikuku unike iwonga elifanele ukuhlonitshwa kubo bonke abantu ezindaweni zonke. Akukho mntu ukhululweyo.
Ukubonisa intlonipho ngobomi bomntu kunye nabantu kubalulekile kubuntu kunye nehlabathi loluntu.
2. Intlonipho iqinisekisa abo bafanelwe yimbeko.
Xa sihlonipha abanye, ingqina ilungelo labo lokuhlonipha kunye nokufaneleka kwentlonipho. Kwelinye icala, xa sibamba intlonipho kwabanye, sibonisa ukuba abafanelekanga.
Oku kunokubangela ukwehla okunzima kakhulu ukukubamba kunye nokuphela. Xa sele kukholelwa ngokubanzi ukuba uhlanga oluthile okanye uhlanga okanye ubuzwe okanye ibala lolusu okanye isini okanye ubudala abufanelanga ukuhlonitshwa, amasango ezikhukhula avulela ukuxhatshazwa.
Sibonile oku amaxesha amaninzi kwiinkulungwane ezimbini ezidlulileyo ngokukodwa. Isiphumo sendalo kunye nesengqiqweni sokususwa kwembeko kwiiklasi ezithile kukhatywa okokuqala, emva koko kucalulwe, emva koko kuxhatshazwe, kwaye ekugqibeleni kubulawe.
Iqala ngokungabi nantlonelo. Esi sesinye isizathu sokuba imbeko ifanele ibe yinto eqhelekileyo kubo bonke abantu kuyo yonke indawo, kwaye kutheni imbeko ibaluleke kangaka.
3. Ikhuthaza indlela yokuziphatha ehloniphayo.
Xa umntu ephila ngendlela ebazisa, enikwa imbeko nembeko, iyabakhuthaza ukuba baphile ngaloo ndlela. Hayi rhoqo, kodwa ngesiqhelo. Ukuziphatha okuvuzwayo kuhlala kuphinda-phinda.
Okanye, beka enye indlela, 'Yintoni enomvuzo eyenziwayo.'
Nokuba sinqwenela ukuba isimilo esihloniphekileyo siqheleke ngaphandle kokukhuthazwa siyayiphosa inqaku. Yindalo nje yomntu ukwenza into evuzwayo kunye neentloni zokungabikho.
4. Inika isiseko esiqinileyo kubudlelwane.
Kufuneka kubekho ukungathandabuzeki okukhulu ukugcina ubudlelwane obunganiki imbeko. Abantu abakuthandi ukuphathwa kakubi. Abantu abakuthandi ukuthotywa isidima, ukujongela phantsi, ukungahlonitshwa, kunye nokungahlonitshwa.
Ukuba ubudlelwane buswele intlonipho, ngokuqinisekileyo buyimpilo. Ubudlelwane obuyityhefu phantse buhlala bunokungabikho kwembeko njengento eqhelekileyo.
Ubudlelwane obunentsingiselo, obunempilo, kunye noluncedo macala babonisa ukuhloniphana. Yisiseko.
5. Ngaphandle kwentlonipho siphelelwa ngamandla.
Intlonipho isisiseko sentlalontle yomntu kangangokuba xa ingekho, abantu abaphumelela. Akukho mfuneko yokuba babenembeko kuwo wonke umntu - kodwa kukho abantu abathile imbeko enyanzelekileyo kubo.
Ubawo wezifo zengqondo zale mihla, uWilliam James uthe, 'owona mthetho-siseko unzulu kwindalo yomntu kukufuna ukuthandwa.' Abo bangaxatyiswayo abaziva behlonitshwa. Kuyadimaza.
Imbali yomzabalazo wamalungelo oluntu kwihlabathi liphela ngumzabalazo wokufumana imbeko kwabanye. Ootata baseMelika baseMelika bayichaza kwi-United States Isibhengezo senkululeko ngale ndlela:
'Sibambe ezi nyaniso ukuba zicace gca, ukuba bonke abantu badalwe belingana, banikwe nguMdali ngamalungelo athile anokubakho, aphakathi kwezi nguBomi, iNkululeko, kunye nokufuna ulonwabo.'
Ukuhlonipha abantu kubandakanya ukunika, ukugcina nokukhusela la malungelo. Ngaphandle kwentlonipho, la malungelo aya kube engekho. Kwaye ukuba la malungelo awekho, intlonipho iya kuphoswa nayo. Zikhona kunye.
Isiphelo
Ke, sibonile ukuba yintoni imbeko. Siye sabona indlela yokubonisa inhlonipho ngeendlela eziphathekayo. Kwaye siye sabona ukuba kutheni imbeko ibalulekile.
Ndiyathemba ukuba asiboni kuphela ukuba imbeko yinto ebalulekileyo ebomini, kodwa siyabona ukuba kutheni kubalulekile ukuyibonisa ngokungaguquguqukiyo. Wonke umntu uhlonitshwe ngenxa yokuba ngumntu.
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Wonke umntu ufuna intlonipho. Wonke umntu kufuneka abonise imbeko. Ndiyathemba ukuba wonke umntu uya kuyifumana imbeko ayifaneleyo, kwaye baya kuyinika imbeko efanele abanye.
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