Indoda yakho iyazisusa kuwe.
Uyarhoxa kuye.
Ushiyeka ucinga ukuba kutheni…
Ngokuqinisekileyo wayenomdla.
Ngapha koko, uqinisekile ukuba uyakuthanda ngaphezu kokuba ekuvumela.
Ke kutheni le nto esenza kude ngesiquphe?
Kutheni, emva kokusondela kuwe, ngoku arhoxa?
Yiloo nto sinethemba lokuphendula kweli nqaku.
Siza kuphinda sihlolisise into onokuyenza xa oku kusenzeka kwaye wenze njani xa / ukuba ebuyela kuwe.
Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba ayingawo onke amadoda akwenzayo oku. Kwaye abanye abantu basetyhini benza ngale ndlela nabo.
Kwaye ayenzeki kuphela kumanqanaba okuqala obudlelwane - abafana ngamanye amaxesha bayokutsala okwexeshana ubudlelwane obuzinikeleyo .
Ke makhe sihlolisise ezinye zezizathu zokuba kutheni amadoda erhoxa kumaqabane awo.
Izizathu ezili-13 zokuba abantu baShenxise
Izinto zihamba kakuhle. Usondela kumfana kwaye kubonakala ngathi uyaphindisela.
Luluphi utshintsho olwenzekayo engqondweni yakhe ukuze ngesiquphe amenze azikhwebule kuwe nakubudlelwane?
1. Uyoyika iimvakalelo zakhe.
Mhlawumbi esona sizathu sokuba amadoda asuke kwangoko kubudlelwane kungenxa yokuba bayoyika indlela abaziva ngayo.
Nokuba bayakhangela uthando xa ungadibananga nabo, imvakalelo yokuwa ngesiquphe komntu izele kukungaqiniseki.
Abanye abantu bakufumanisa kunzima ukwenza le nto.
La madoda awadibani neemvakalelo zawo njengabanye, kwaye awathelekiswa nabasetyhini abaninzi.
Banokufumana ingcinga yobudlelwane inomdla kakhulu, kodwa iimvakalelo eziza nazo kunzima kubo ukuba iintloko zabo zijikeleze.
Ke bathabatha ixesha elithile ukuze basebenze kwezi mvakalelo.
Kuphela, mhlawumbi abayithethi le nto kuwe. Ziyaba lula ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo.
2. Unguye Ndiyoyika ukuzibophelela .
Amanye amadoda afumana umbono we ukuhlala unyanisekile kumntu omnye yelinye ilizwe.
Mhlawumbi basebancinci kwaye bafuna 'ukudlala intsimi' ngaphambi kokuzinza.
Mhlawumbi bayayonwabela imiphunga yokuqala yokuzibophelela kwezothando kunye 'nokuleqa' komdla wothando, kodwa hayi emva koko.
Indoda ayinakuze ibe nolwalamano lwexesha elide kwaye ayazi ukuba kubandakanya ntoni-ke iyasuka kwaye iyakuthintela ukufikelela kwelo nqanaba.
Ukukhuliswa kwakhe kunokuba nendima ekufuneka eyidlalile, ngakumbi ukuba abazali bakhe bohlukene ngexesha lobuntwana bakhe.
3. Ubambelele kwinkululeko yakhe.
Ulwalamano lufuna ukuzinikela, ixesha kunye nomzamo. Ngokuqinisekileyo ikususa kwezinye zezinto onomdla kuzo ngoku.
Kwamanye amadoda, le nkqubo yokuba babini babe banye (ngokomfuziselo, ubuncinci) ibonisa ilahleko yenkululeko kunye nokuzimela.
Kwaye ukuba indoda iyazixabisa ngokukodwa ezi zinto, inokurhoxa ngenjongo yokubambelela kuzo.
ukukhula njani ukukhula
Oku kuyinyani ngokukodwa kubafana ababengakhange bafune ubudlelwane xa behlangana nawe.
Ewe banokuonwabela ixesha abalichitha nawe, kodwa banokulangazelela amaxesha apho banokwenza khona into abayifunayo, xa befuna.
Banokunduluka kwaye bachithe ixesha elininzi bebodwa ukuze babone eyona nto ixabiseke kakhulu entliziyweni yabo.
4. Woyika ukonzakala.
Ubudlelwane obudlulileyo bunokushiya amanxeba ngokweemvakalelo kunye nemithwalo ebangela ukuba umntu azihlukanise ngaphambi kokuba enze intliziyo yakhe kunye nomngcipheko wokulimala.
Ukuba wayekhe waba neqabane elahlukana naye xa wayethandana nabo, oko kungamenza oyike ukuphinda afumane iintlungu ezifanayo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo oku akupheleliselwanga emadodeni. Abafazi abaninzi banokuziva ngale ndlela nabo.
Kule meko, ukutsala yindlela yendlela yokhuselo eyilelwe ukuzikhusela.
Masijongane nayo, xa bekhona ndiwa emathandweni , umntu unokwenza zonke iintlobo zezinto ezingaqhelekanga. Ngamanye amaxesha oku kubonakala njenge-self-sabotage.
Oko akuthethi ukuba akanazimvakalelo ngawe, kodwa oko kuthetha ukuba akaqinisekanga ukuba angazenza njani na ezo mvakalelo.
5. Konke kuye kwanzima kakhulu kuye.
Olunye ubudlelwane buhamba ukusuka kwi-zero ukuya kumashumi amathandathu ngokukhawuleza.
Kangangoko anokukuthanda ezimotweni zakhe, usenokungabi namdla kangako kuyo xa kufikwa kumba wokuthandana.
Iimvakalelo phakathi kwakho kunye nendlela enichitha ngayo ixesha elininzi kunye zinokuba zincinci kakhulu kungekudala.
Inkqubo ye- ubudlelwane bunokuhamba ngokukhawuleza okukhulu ukwenzela yena.
Ke uyatyhala umva kwaye urhoxe kancinci njengendlela yakhe yokubeka iziqhoboshi kwizinto.
Unokuba nje ukhululekile ngakumbi ukuthatha izinto kancinci.
6. Kufuneka ahlaziye ubudoda bakhe.
Ubudlelwane butshintsha abantu ukuya kwinqanaba elithile. Kwimeko yendoda, ihlala ibenza sesichengeni ngakumbi kwaye ndicacisa ngakumbi ngokweemvakalelo (nangona kungenjalo).
Oku kunokuziva kungaqhelekanga kumadoda amaninzi kwaye impendulo yabo yendalo isenokuba kukulwa nayo.
Banokuziva isidingo sokutsala ukuze baphinde bavuselele 'ibhetri yendoda' yabo ngokwenza iintlobo zezinto ezonwabelwa ngamadoda.
Banokubuyela endaweni yentuthuzelo kunye nobudoda-bobabini ngokoqobo nangokomfuziselo.
Le ndawo ihlala ibizwa ngokuba 'ngumqolomba womntu' apho amadoda esenza izinto zobudoda, ngokufuthi namanye amadoda.
Kumanqanaba okuqala obudlelwane, oku kunokuba kuthetha ukuba uchitha ixesha elininzi endaweni yakhe ngaphandle kwakho.
indlela yokufumana ixoki
Okanye angabiza abahlobo bakhe abangamadoda ukuba bazonwabise ngendlela ethile elawulwa ngamadoda njengemidlalo, imidlalo yevidiyo, okanye ukuba ibhiya okanye ezimbini.
Le yokugqibela ixhaphakile kubudlelwane obusekwe ngakumbi xa isibini sihlala kunye kwaye indoda ayinayo indawo eyahlukileyo yokubiza eyayo.
Nokuba kunjalo, ngeli xesha kude emfazini ebomini bakhe kuyamvumela ukuba adibane kwakhona nenxalenye yesazisi sakhe esinokuthi 'sibuthathaka' lulwalamano.
7. Unolunye uxinzelelo ebomini bakhe.
Xa umntu etsala, ngamanye amaxesha ayinanto yakwenza nawe okanye ubudlelwane.
Uyakhupha ngenxa yokuba enexinzelelo oluninzi kwezinye iindawo zobomi bakhe.
Mhlawumbi umphathi wakhe ucela into eninzi kuye kwaye, ekubeni engumntu onamabhongo anguye, akafuni ukubaphoxa.
Okanye mhlawumbi unemicimbi ethile nosapho lwakhe kwaye oku kuyayithatha imvakalelo.
Unokuba ejongene nemicimbi yezempilo ongayaziyo.
Kwaye kukho ithuba lokuba unengxaki zemali.
Ukuba ubudlelwane busekwinqanaba lokuqala, usenokungaziva ekwazi okanye engakulungelanga ukuzityand 'igila kuwe.
Usenokuba nexhala lokuba ezi zinto zinokukoyikisa okanye zikwenze uthandabuze amathemba exesha elide olwalamano.
Ke uyabafihla kwaye ahambe kude kancinci ukunqanda ukuba ungafumani.
8. Uziva yena ayilufanelanga uthando nolonwabo.
Abanye abantu banokuziva bengaxabisekanga kwaye bengaxabisekanga kangangokuba basenokungasiqondi nje isizathu sokuba umntu angabathanda.
Mhlawumbi umfo wakho ngumntu onjalo.
Usenokuba uyatsala kuba uqinisekile ukuba awumthandi kwaye akakufanelanga ulonwabo anokuziva xa ekunye nawe.
Unokuphatha amanxeba emphefumlweni okanye imithwalo angayiboniyo ngaphambili malunga nolwalamano lwakho kunye nekamva kunye.
Ngapha koko, izinto ezinzulu ngakumbi phakathi kwakho, kokukhona eqala ukuzithandabuza njengeqabane elifanelekileyo kunye nesithandwa. Ukuba waqala warhoxa kwakamsinya emva kokuba uzicacisile iimvakalelo zakho ngaye, oku kunokuba sisizathu.
9. Unexhala lokuphulukana nesazisi sakhe.
Ngaphambi kokuba uze, waye (mhlawumbi) engatshatanga ixesha elincinci, kwaye mhlawumbi ixesha elide.
Ngexesha leentsuku zakhe ezingatshatanga, wavelisa ubungqina malunga nolwalamano oluthile.
Nokuba uyonwabele okanye akayonwabanga into yokuba wayengatshatanga, wazichaza kunye nayo kwaye wayesazi ukuba angabuphila njani ubomi bakhe njengalo mntu. Wayeneendlela zakhe zokuzonwabisa kunye nabantu awayeqhele ukubabona ngalo lonke ixesha.
Ngoku ukuba usemkhondweni kwaye akasatshatanga (okanye elo themba likhulu njengoko izinto ziba nzulu), usenokuba urhoxile ebomini nakumntu awayefudula eyiyo kuba enexhala lokuba kuya kufuneka anikezele izinto ezithile angafuni ukuzincama.
Mhlawumbi ubomi bakhe obudala baziva butofotofo kwaye buqhelekile kangangokuba unexhala lokuphulukana naloo nto.
10. Uyabhidisa inkanuko yothando… kwaye iyaphela.
Ukuba ubunaye nalo mfana okwethutyana kwaye ngoku sele eqalile ukuzikhupha kuwe, kusenokwenzeka ukuba unxibelelwano olukhulu lomzimba oluvayo nawe luqala ukuphela.
Leyo yinxalenye yokuqhubela phambili kwesiqhelo kobudlelwane, kodwa kunokuba yinto edidayo ukuba awuyazi eyona nto ithethwayo.
Usenokuba nenkanuko ngempazamo ngothando. Kwaye ngoku ukuba inkanuko iyaphela ngokuthe chu, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo, uziqinisekisile ukuba awulungelanga omnye nomnye kuba uthando alukakhuli ngokupheleleyo ukuthatha indawo yenkanuko.
Ubanjelwe kwinkolelo yokuba kufuneka uzive uziva umntu onomdla ngamaxesha onke ukuba uza kusebenza njengesibini, xa inyani kukuba iimvakalelo ziya zibaleka kwaye zihamba lonke ixesha nakolona lwalamano luqinisekileyo noluzinikeleyo.
11. Uxakeke kakhulu.
Kulungile, ke usenokuthi ukuba ukukhathalele nyani, ebezakwenza ixesha, kodwa ubomi abuhlali bulula njalo.
Ukuba unamanye amaxesha amakhulu azimiseleyo ukuba akazimiselanga okanye akakwazi ukuwaphosa, usenokuziva engenakulunga ubudlelwane kunye nawe kumxube.
Ukurhoxa kwakhe kungangabi ngenxa yokuba efuna, kodwa kungenxa yokuba engakwazi ukugcina unxibelelwano lwedijithali nolwasemzimbeni kunye nawe.
Ukuba usebenza imisebenzi emibini, wabelana ngononophelo lwabantwana kunye neqabane langaphambili, kwaye unceda ukujonga isihlobo esikhulileyo, usenokuphelelwa ngamandla.
Inokuba yimeko yomntu olungileyo, ixesha elingalunganga… ngelishwa.
12. Uphonononga ezinye iindlela.
Ukuba awukavumi ukuba sisibini esikhethekileyo, unokuziva ngathi ukuthandana nabanye abantu kusakulungile.
Kutheni ndiziva ngathi andingowalapha
Kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuba uchitha ixesha nabanye abantu, uchitha ixesha elincinci nawe.
Ayisiyiyo kuphela ixesha lokuzibophelela apho unokubona umohluko, kodwa nakwicala leemvakalelo. Ukuba uphonononga iimvakalelo zakhe kwabanye, unokubuya umva kancinci kuwe ngengqondo.
13. Akakho njengokuba wawucinga.
Oku kusenokwenzeka ukuba sisizathu esinokubakho kubudlelwane obutsha, kodwa usenokungabi namdla njengoko ucinga.
Oko kunokuba nzima ukukuva, kodwa amadoda amaninzi awalunganga xa kufikwa ekunxibelelaneni ngeemvakalelo zabo zokwenyani ngexesha lesigaba sokuthandana.
Ke endaweni yokuba bathethe nawe kwaye bayenze icace into yokuba abafuni ukulandela ezinye izinto, bayaziqhela ngethemba lokuba uya kuzifikelela ngokwakho.
Iyadika, kodwa kusenokwenzeka ukuba uye waba nokubaleka ngethamsanqa ukuba kunjalo.
Kwenziwe ntoni xa umntu etsala kude
Inokuziva imbi xa umntu erhoxa kuye, njengokulahlwa kweentlobo.
Usenokuzibuza ukuba ingaba uyakuvavanya na, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo akunjalo.
Usebenza nje ngeengcinga kunye neemvakalelo zakhe.
Ke, yeyiphi eyona ndlela yokujongana nezi meko?
Fumana umbono wengcali
Njengokuba eli nqaku linokukunceda ekuboneni ukuba kutheni umntu wakho erhoxa kwaye unika ingcebiso ngendlela yokujongana naleyo, eyakho kunye neemeko zakhe zahlukile.
Kuhlala kungumbono olungileyo ukufumana iingcebiso ezithile ngokubhekisele kwinto eyenzekayo kubudlelwane bakho. Kwaye ngenxa yoko, uya kufuna ukuthetha nengcali yobudlelwane (ngokunokwenzeka nguwe kule meko).
Kodwa ungaya phi uye emntwini? Ewe, iiseshoni ezikwi-Intanethi ezibonelelwa lukhetho olufanelekileyo kwabaninzi. Ungancokola kwi-Intanethi okanye ngefowuni kwingcali kwezi zinto ezinokuthi zikumamele kwaye zinike iindlela ezithile zokuzama.
Ngamanye amaxesha, ukuthetha nje nomntu kunokuqaqambisa iindlela zokuqhubela phambili kwaye uphathe isimilo sendoda yakho. ukuncokola nomntu ngoku.
Mnike indawo.
Ngokunyaniseka… kufuneka mnike indawo .
Akukho nasinye sezizathu singasombululekileyo ngokuzama ukumbuyisa umva kwaye unyanzelisa ukuba nichithe ixesha elininzi kunye.
Uyatsala kuba yile nto iziva ilungile ngalo mzuzu kanye ngexesha.
Isenokungazi ncam ukuba kutheni, kodwa ukulwa nethuku kubeka umngcipheko kwimpikiswano enokwenza izinto zibe mandundu kwaye kungafuneki.
Isithuba, ewe. Cwaka, hayi.
Ukumnika indawo akuthethi ukuba kufuneka uyeke zonke iindlela zonxibelelwano ngokupheleleyo.
Akuthethi nokuba ungamboni.
Ithatha ukuba ukuba nembeko yesidingo sakhe sokuba ahlukane nawe.
Ngaba ufanele umthumelele umyalezo? Ngokuqinisekileyo, ayongxaki.
Ingqondo yakhe inokuba izele ziingcinga kunye nokungaqiniseki, kodwa uya kuthanda ukuba uyangena naye amaxesha ngamaxesha.
Yazi nje ukuba usenokungancokoli okanye aphendule ngokukhawuleza njengangaphambili.
Nokuba kunzima kangakanani xa unomdla kuye, kuya kufuneka uhloniphe ukuba abantu baqhubekeka nezinto ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo.
Kwaye amadoda ahlala esenza iingcinga kunye neemvakalelo zawo ngendlela eyahlukileyo kubafazi.
Ngokubona omnye nomnye, ungacebisa ukudibana, kodwa yiphose ngendlela enokwenza isandi siguquke.
Yithi, 'Ukuba ukhululekile ngenye imini kule veki, kufuneka…'
Oku kumnika ithuba lokukhetha usuku olulungele yena kunokuba azive enyanzelekile ukuba enze usuku oluthile.
Ixabiso elifanelekileyo lomgwebi uJudy
Kwaye uzame ukuyenza into ocinga ukuba angaziva ekhululekile kuyo. Mhlawumbi akakulungelanga ukuthetha ngezinto ngobude obukhulu, kodwa ninokubamba imovie okanye umboniso kunye.
Oku kumgcina esondele kwaye kumkhumbuza ukuba umkhathalele ngaphandle kokubeka kuye naziphi na iimfuno ezinkulu kuye ukuba abe sesichengeni.
Okanye ukuba nichithe uninzi lweempelaveki kunye, ungasoloko usithi unezicwangciso zenye yeentsuku, kodwa ungathanda ukumbona kwelinye… kwakhona, ukuba ukhululekile.
Oku kuthatha ubunzulu phantsi kwenotshi ngelixa ukumqinisekisa ngeempelaveki zakhe ukwenza nantoni na ayifunayo.
Yiba ngokungaguquguqukiyo.
Unokushiyeka ukhathazekile okanye ndidanile xa etsala, kodwa zama ukungaguquguquki kwindlela osondela ngayo kuye.
Oku akuyi kuba lula. Iimvakalelo zakho zisemthethweni njengezakhe.
Kodwa ukuba unako, zama ukuzibeka ezicathulweni zakhe umzuzwana.
Ukuba ubudidekile ziimvakalelo zakho, uyoyika ukwaliwa, okanye ukufumanisa kunzima ukutshintsha ukusuka kwindlela yokuphila uye kwenye, ngekhe ufune ukuphathwa ngovelwano?
Ayisiyo malunga nokukhula okanye uxanduva lukabani ukugcina ubudlelwane buhamba…
… Kodwa ukuba uyamthanda kwaye ucinga ukuba une-wobble nje, ngekhe kuyenze into embi ukuhlala ulungile, ulungile, kwaye nembeko kuye.
Ukuba uphendula ukurhoxa kwakhe ngokuba kude, naye, kunokwenzeka ukuba enze izinto zibe mandundu.
Kuya kufuneka umbonise ukuba, nokuba unayiphi na ingxaki yangaphakathi anokuba nayo, ukhona ukumxhasa.
Ukuba unokwenza oku, unokukuvulela nje kancinci malunga noko akucingayo kunye nemvakalelo yakhe.
Yigcineni nina nobabini.
Ukuba ubumbona ixesha elifutshane, luxinzelelo olukhulu kuye ukuba uchithe ixesha nabahlobo bakho okanye nosapho.
Kwaye kuyafana ukuba uchitha ixesha naye nabahlobo bakhe okanye usapho.
Yonke 'ukudibana nokubulisa' yinto enkulu. Yenza izinto zive ngathi zisemthethweni kwaye zinobuzaza.
Ungakulungela oko, kodwa isenokungabikho.
Thatha uxinzelelo. Gcina izinto nina nobabini ukuba ninako. Uya kuziva ekhululekile kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba aphumle xa ekunye nenkampani yakho.
Yile nto uyifunayo. Ukuba uziva ekhululekile, mancinci amathuba okuba afune ukuphuma.
Ixesha lokuba yinxalenye yobomi bomntu wonke ngokubanzi liza kufika. Ungazami ukunyanzela umba ngokukhawuleza.
Bonisa inkxaso yakho kwezinye izinto azithandayo.
Sithethe ngentla malunga noloyiko lomntu wakho lokuphulukana nokuzimela kwaye inxenye yale nto yehlela kwezinye izinto azithandayo ebomini.
Mhlawumbi uqhutywa likhondo okanye uqala ishishini lakhe.
Mhlawumbi uthatha umdyarho wakhe wokubaleka kakhulu kwaye uzibophelele kulawulo lwakhe loqeqesho.
Okanye ngaba ufuna ukuya kwiindawo ezikude zehlabathi ngaphandle kwesithintelo?
Ukuba unokumqinisekisa ukuba awuzami ukuthatha ezi zinto kuye, akasayi kuba nasizathu sokurhoxa ngenxa yaso.
Yenza ixesha lokumbuza malunga neenkanuko zakhe nokuba zihamba njani. Zama ukuqonda ukuba leliphi ixesha lokuzibophelela asele enalo kwaye ube nembeko kwabo.
Yiba nentembelo kwinto afuna ukuyiphumeza kwaye uyenze icace into yokuba uyayithanda indlela aneenjongo ezicacileyo kunye namaphupha kwaye ufuna ngokwenene ukumbona ephumelela.
Zigcine uxakekile.
Xa umntu etsala kude, zama ukungaziqwalaseli malunga nezizathu zokuba kutheni okanye upine ngaphezulu kwakhe.
Ulixabiso eliphezulu mfazi kwaye akukho ndoda ichaza ukuba ungubani.
Zigcine uxakekile nabahlobo bakho, usapho, okanye izinto ozithandayo kunye nokuzonwabisa kangangoko unakho.
Khumbula, usenokunxibelelana naye, kwaye ukumxelela ukuba unedayari epakishwe kuya kumqinisekisa ukuba uyakuxabisa ukuzimela kwakho.
Ngubani dan kunye phil
Ukuba indoda inokubona ubudlelwane bexesha elizayo apho umntu ngamnye egcina izihlobo zakhe kunye nomdla, iya kulungisa ezinye zeengxaki zakhe.
Ndifanele ndenze njani xa ebuya?
Ukuba indoda inemvakalelo yokwenene ngawe kwaye ifuna ebomini bayo, iya kubuyela kuwe ekugqibeleni.
Nokuba sele umbonile, umbhalele umyalezo, okanye uthethile naye okwangoku, kuyakufika ixesha lokuba abuye ngokwasemphefumlweni nasemzimbeni.
Okwangoku, kufuneka wenze ntoni?
Ufanele wenze njani?
Ewe, sukuya ngqo kwimibuzo ecacileyo enje ngokuba kutheni emkile, yintoni ayifunayo ngoku ebuyayo, kwaye uza kuyenza kwakhona.
Usenokungaqiniseki ukuba kutheni esiva isidingo sokushiya kude, ke ukuzama ukumenza athethe kuya kuphelela kwintlekele.
Zama ukumbonisa indlela onwabe ngayo kuba ubuyile. Yiba nothando nenkathalo.
Mxelele indlela onombulelo ngayo ngokuba naye ebomini bakho kwakhona.
Yenza into ongathanda ukuba kubudlelwane nayo: wonwabile kwaye unomdla kwaye wonwabile.
Sukuzama ukumenza ahlawule indlela athe wakuphatha ngayo.
Ewe, thetha ngendlela oziva ngayo, kodwa gcina ungathathi cala okanye ulungile naphina apho kunokwenzeka.
Yitsho into efana nale:
Ndiyazi ukuba ubudinga indawo kunye nexesha lokwenza into yakho kunye nokulungisa iingcinga kunye neemvakalelo zakho. Kulungile. Andidingi kuqonda, kodwa ukuba uyafuna ukuthetha ngayo ngoku okanye kwixa elizayo ke ndihlala ndikulungele ukumamela.
Ndikukhumbule. Kubuhlungu ukungakuboni rhoqo, kodwa ndizimisele malunga nobu buhlobo ukuba ukhona.
Ewe kunjalo, ukuba uhlala kubudlelwane bexesha elide kwaye umntu wakho urhoxa rhoqo, ngekhe ufune ukuthetha nantoni na.
Yazi nje ukuba le ayisiyonto ingaqhelekanga kubudlelwane kwaye uvule kwaye wamkele xa iqabane lakho libuyela kuwe ngokweemvakalelo.
Ingaba iza kuthatha ixesha elingakanani?
Xa indoda iziqhelanisa, kuya kude kube nini 'ukumka' kuyo?
Oko kuxhomekeke.
Inokuba ziintsuku ezimbalwa okanye iveki. Inokuba nde.
Umbuzo oyinyani ekufuneka uzibuze wona kukuba ulungele ukulinda ixesha elingakanani.
Ukuba ulwalamano lwakho lusebusaneni, awunakulungela ukujikeleza kwaye ugcine umnyango uvule ixesha elide.
Kodwa ukuba ukude kubudlelwane, unokukhetha ukumnika ixesha elingakumbi lokulwa neemvakalelo zakhe.
Oko kuxhomekeke kuwe.
Ngaba Onke Amadoda Anje?
Impendulo emfutshane yile: hayi, ayingawo onke amadoda aziva isidingo sokutsala ngokweemvakalelo okanye ngokwasemzimbeni kwiqabane.
Kodwa kuqhelekile.
Nokuba ngaba yindlela amadoda anentambo ngayo, ngekhe sazi.
Xa berhoxa, kunokuba nzima ukuthatha, kodwa ngethemba ukuba eli nqaku likunike iingcebiso ezinokulandelwa kwaye uncede ukuqonda kwakho imeko ojamelene nayo.
Ngaba awukaqiniseki ukuba wenzeni malunga nokuziphatha okurhoxisiweyo kwale ndoda?Kwiimeko ezinje ngezi, kunokuba luncedo ekufumaneni ingcebiso-kuye-nye kumntu oqeqeshwe ukujongana nabo, endaweni yokuzibandakanya ngokwakho. Baza kumamela into oyithethayo kwaye banike iingcebiso zendlela oqhubeka ngayo.Ke kutheni ungaxoxi kwi-Intanethi nengcali yobudlelwane kwi-Relationship Hero ukukunceda wazi izinto. Ngokulula.
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