Yonke imitshato ihamba ngamahla ndenyuka.
Kwaye, njengoko ixesha lihamba, iindlela apho nibonisana khona uthando luya kutshintsha.
Kodwa uyazibuza ukuba ingaba umyeni wakho usakuthanda kwaphela na?
Ukuba unamathandabuzo, zibuze ukuba zingaphi kwezi miqondiso onokuzibona kuye nasemtshatweni wakho.
Okukhona ubona, kokukhona kunokwenzeka ukuba umyeni wakho akasakuthandi.
1. Uyeka ukubuza ngobomi bakho.
Kudala-dala, uza kuchitha ixesha elithile uthetha ngeentsuku zakho.
Yayiyinto encinci, kodwa yayikuvumela ukuba uhlale unolwazi ngezinto ezibalulekileyo (kwaye, ewe, ngamanye amaxesha ezingabalulekanga kangako) eziqhubekayo kubomi bomnye nomnye.
Kodwa ezo ncoko kudala zimile.
Uzamile ukuzigcina okwethutyana, kodwa umyeni wakho akabonakali ekhathala.
Kwaye ngoku akaze abuze malunga nomhla wakho, umsebenzi wakho, abahlobo bakho, usapho lwakho, okanye nantoni na eyenzekileyo.
Usazama ukumbuza, kodwa akaphindisi.
2. Akakuphulaphuli.
Xa ulawula ukumbandakanya kwincoko- kwanezona zixhaphakileyo malunga nokhathalelo lomntwana okanye uphahla oluvuzayo- umane eyindawo.
Ufumana ukungxola ngamanye amaxesha okanye ukunqwala, kodwa ungamxelela ukuba ulapha egumbini nawe, ngokuthetha ngengqondo.
Ucinga enye into, ujonge umnxeba wakhe, ubukele umabonwakude, okanye wenza enye into ngaphandle kokujolisa ingqalelo yakhe kule nto uyithethayo.
Usenokuthetha nodonga lwezitena.
3. Urhoxile wonke umsa.
Izibini ezininzi ziya kuncamisa ekuvukeni ekuseni okanye ngaphambi kokuba ziye kulala.
Abanye bayangana ubuncinane kanye ngemini.
Kwaye kukho abo bamba kunye esofeni ngokuhlwa kakhulu.
Zininzi iindlela zokubonisa iqabane lakho uthando , kodwa umyeni wakho uyekile ukuzenza ezi zinto.
Ngaphezulu, ukuba uzama ukumbonisa uthando, uyashenxa kuwe.
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4. Akakhuthazi ukusondelelana ngokomzimba.
Ngamanye amagama, akabonakali enomdla wokulala nawe kwakhona.
Masinyaniseke, kuninzi- nangona ingeyiyo yonke - imitshato, yindoda ene-sex ephezulu yokuqhuba kwaye oqala ngesondo rhoqo kunokuba kungenjalo.
Kodwa iihambo zakho kwigumbi lokulala zonke zome, kwaye xa ulawula ukumfumana phakathi kwamashiti, kungenxa yomzamo wakho.
Ngaphezu koko, isini - ukuba kukho nayiphi na into - sibe ngumatshini. Akukho buhlobo bokwenene, akukho nxu lumano. Yimeko nje yokufumana umsebenzi kwaye uhambe ngeendlela zakho kwakhona.
Isilumkiso esincinci: ukuba olu kuphela komqondiso owubonayo, unokufuna ukuqaphela ukuba umyeni wakho ukhe wehlelwa yinto ethile ebhedini. Oku kunokuba malunga naye kakhulu kangangokuba angafuni ukulala ngesondo ngenxa yokoyika ukuba iphinda yenzeke.
5. Akazenzi izinto ocela ukuba azenze.
Sonke senza izicelo zamaqabane ethu amaxesha ngamaxesha. Sinokudinga ukuba bancede ngento ethile okanye banakekele umsebenzi othile.
Xa umtshato usempilweni, ezo zicelo ziya kwenziwa ngaphandle kwesikhalazo esikhulu.
Kodwa ukuba umyeni wakho akasakuthandi, uya kuyingomb 'isifuba ngayo nayiphi na into encinci ocela ukuba ayenze.
Kwaye mhlawumbi uya kulandela kuphela kwaye enze loo nto iqhezu lexesha.
Ngalo lonke elinye ixesha, uya kufumana isingxengxezo sokuba kutheni engenako ukukwenza oko.
6. Uyazingca ngakumbi kunangaphambili.
Inqaku langaphambili ngumzekelo omnye wendlela azakubonakalisa ngayo isimilo sokuzingca kunangaphambili.
Ngokubanzi, uya kwenza izinto ezimkholisayo ngaphezu kokukholisa wena.
Iminqweno yakhe iza kuqala kwaye unqabile ngakumbi ukufumana ulungelelwaniso.
Ke utya into afuna ukuyitya, uya apho afuna ukuya khona, wenze le nto afuna ukuyenza.
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Izinto ozifunayo (kunye neemfuno zakho) thatha isihlalo sangasemva.
7. Wenza izicwangciso ezininzi ngaphandle kwakho.
Unokuba uhlala uhlala ebomini bakho ngaphandle komtshato, kodwa umyeni wakho ngoku uthabatha loo nqanaba elitsha.
Ubonakala ngathi uphumile esenza into ngeempelaveki, uhamba nabahlobo kakhulu, kwaye uchitha ngokuhlwa esenza izinto zokuzonwabisa ezahlukileyo.
Kudala zahamba iintsuku apho unokuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye. Uye wabekelwa bucala kubudlelwane bakho.
Injongo yakhe, ewe, kukuphepha ukuchitha ixesha kunye nawe kuba akasathandani nawe.
8. Akafuni ukuya kwimihla nawe.
Ayichithi kuphela ixesha elininzi ngaphandle kwakho, akanamdla wokuqhubeka ngokufanelekileyo ubusuku bemini nawe.
Ezo zihlandlo apho ubeke zonke iziphazamiso kwelinye icala kwaye ugxile ngokupheleleyo komnye komnye ngoku zimbalwa kwaye ziphakathi kakhulu.
Wenza izizathu zokuba kutheni ungafanele uhambe okanye uqhubeke nokubeka kude kube kudlule iiveki neenyanga.
Ngokukrokrela ukuba akukhuphele ngaphandle kusuku lwakho lokuzalwa okanye kwisikhumbuzo, kodwa nangoko uzama ukugcina isitshixo esiphantsi.
9. Uyekile ukukuncoma.
Kumnandi xa umntu omthandayo ekuqaphela kwaye akuxelele ukuba ujongeka ulungile.
Mhlawumbi wenza iinwele zakho okanye unxibe ngokwahlukileyo kancinci okanye ukhazimle ubusuku bonke.
Okanye mhlawumbi yindlela nje ukukhanya kwelanga okubetha ngayo ubuso bakho ngorhatya olufudumeleyo lwasehlotyeni egadini.
Qha, umyeni wakho akabonakali ngathi uyazibona ezi zinto kwakhona.
Ngokwenene awunakukhumbula ixesha lokugqibela awathetha ngalo nantoni na entle ngawe, nokuba sele wenze umzamo ngokukodwa kuye.
10. Uphatha abanye abantu bhetele kunawe.
Kumntu owakha wathi uyakuthanda, umyeni wakho unendlela ehlekisayo yokuyibonisa.
Ngoku ubonakala emhle kakhulu kwabanye abantu kunakuwe.
Ezo zincomo ungasazifumaniyo zinikezelwa kwabanye abantu endaweni yoko.
Uphulaphule ngenyameko kwaye enomdla onyanisekileyo kwinto ethethwa ngabanye abantu, kodwa hayi wena.
Unesisa ngexesha nemali yakhe xa abanye abantu bexhalabile.
Oku kubonisa nje ukuba ukuxabisa kangakanani wena nomtshato wakho kule mihla.
11. Ucaphuka msinya kuwe.
Wonke umntu unokuba mfutshane kancinci kunye neqabane lakhe amaxesha ngamaxesha. Uxinzelelo ngaphakathi nangaphandle kobudlelwane lunokusenza sicaphuke.
Kodwa emtshatweni wakho, oku kuye kwaba yinto eqhelekileyo.
Umyeni wakho ubonakala nje ukuba akanamonde kuwe kwaye uyakhawuleza ukuba nomsindo, kwanezona zinto zincinci.
Uqaphele ukuba uliphakamisa kangaphi ilizwi lakhe okanye wenza amazwi ahlabayo, abuhlungu xa usenza okanye uthetha into angayithandiyo.
12. Ukhomba 'iimpazamo' zakho.
Kuwo nawuphi na umtshato, kufuneka ufunde ukwamkela ukuba iqabane lakho alisokuhlala lisenza izinto ngendlela othanda ukuzenza.
Kumtshato ophilileyo, ezi zinto kulula ukuzijonga kuba azibalulekanga.
Kodwa ukuba umyeni wakho akasakuthandi, uya kuqala ukukuxelela ukuba wenza konke okungalunganga.
Uya kugxeka iindlela zakho kwaye achaze indlela 'osisiyatha' ngayo ngokungenzi izinto ngendlela yakhe.
Okubi nangakumbi, uya kuqala ukukhankanya iimpawu zakho zomzimba angasazithandiyo.
Imibimbi, iinwele ezingwevu, amasuntswana e-saggy- uyakukhalaza ngokuba uye 'wazivumela ukuba uhambe' ngelixa ungavumi ukwamkela ukuba umzimba wakhe utshintshe njani.
13. Uyakubetha ngomlomo phambi kwabanye.
Yinto enye ukuba nesimbonono esincinci malunga neqabane lakho kubahlobo okanye kusapho lwakho - sonke sikwenza ngandlela ithile.
Yenye into xa iyonke ukuthetha kakubi ngomfazi wakho xa ekhona kwaye unokuva onke amagama.
Bukhohlakele ngokuqinisekileyo kwaye bunokushiya uziva uhlaselwa kwaye uneentloni.
Unokuzibumba ezi zinto zimbi njengesiqhulo, kodwa aziyinto ehlekisayo.
14. Akonwabe, nokuba wenza ntoni.
Ungaya eziphelweni zomhlaba kuye, kodwa ayiyi kuba yanele.
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Nokuba ungazama kangakanani ukumkholisa kwaye uhlangabezane neemfuno zakhe, kuhlala kukho into anokukhalaza ngayo.
Awufumani lizwi lombulelo ngayo yonke into oyenzela yena. Uyaphila kwaye uyinyani ithathwa njengesiqhelo .
Ukanti ulindele ukuba ube nombulelo nakwezona zinto zincinci azenzayo, kwaye uyacaphuka ukuba awuyiboni inzame yakhe.
15. Uphepha unxibelelwano xa ningekho kunye.
Kwimeko yokuqala yolwalamano lwenu, ninokuthumela imiyalezo okanye nithethe emnxebeni kangangeminyaka.
Kule mihla, xa nishiyene, uzama ngandlela zonke ukuba anganxibelelanisi nawe konke konke.
Akaze aphendule iifowuni zakho kwaye kungamthatha iminyaka ukuba afunde kwaye aphendule imiyalezo yakho - ukuba uyazikhathaza.
Yindlela yakhe yokukuxelela ukuba awusabalulekanga ngokwaneleyo ukuba achithe imizuzu embalwa evuma ubukho bakho.
16. Akakukhumbuli.
Akayi kuzama nje ukungathethi nawe xa nishiyana, akabonakali ngathi uyakukhumbula nakanye xa nidibene kwakhona.
Akukho phuculo lwethutyana kwimeko yakhe yokuziphatha okanye kukuziphatha kuwe.
Akukho magama athetha ukuba angathanda ukuba ubekhona naye.
Akukho mnqweno wokukuxelela ukuba unjani okanye ubuze ukuba unjani.
Izinto zibuyela nje ngqo kwindlela ezazinjalo.
17. Akathethi ngekamva kunye.
Kwakukho ixesha apho wawuza kwenza izicwangciso ngekamva eniza kulichitha kunye.
Uya kuba neenjongo kunye namaphupha obomi obungcono. Yosapho, ukufudukela kwindawo entle, kunye neeholide ezininzi ongazithatha.
Kodwa ezo ntlobo zeencoko azisenzeki. Ikamva akuthethwa ngalo ekhayeni lakho.
Ngoba?
Kuba umyeni wakho akaboni nyani kunye ekuhambeni kwexesha.
Okanye kuba uyanibona kunye (nangasiphi na isizathu), kodwa akacingi ukuba ikhona into eza kuphucula.
Akakudeleli ngeendlela ezininzi.
Xa imbeko iyoma, uyazi ukuba uthando luye lwaya.
Kwaye umyeni wakho wenza izinto ezininzi ezibonisa ukungabi nantlonelo kuwe.
Mhlawumbi uthatha isigqibo sokuya kusela emsebenzini ngenye ingokuhlwa engakhange adibane nawe okanye akuxelele ukuba uzakuba sekhaya nini.
Mhlawumbi ukuxokisa rhoqo, kwanezinto ezincinci.
Okanye ngaba uchitha imali owabelana ngayo ngasemva kwakho?
Zininzi iindlela anokukungahloniphi ngayo, kodwa zonke zikhomba kwinto yokuba akakuthandi.
19. Ulibale imihla ebalulekileyo.
Xa into ibalulekile kuwe, uhlala uyikhumbula.
Kodwa umyeni wakho uhlala eyilibale imihla yokuzalwa, izikhumbuzo, okanye eminye imihla ebalulekileyo.
Kwanezinto ezifana nokuqeshwa esibhedlele onokuba nazo okanye iintsuku ezinkulu kuwe emsebenzini - akazukuzikhumbula ngaphandle kokuba umqhubele phambili.
Unokubanga ukuba uyalibala (kwaye oku kunokwenzeka), kodwa nokuba uyifaka ekubhaleni okukhulu okubomvu kwikhalenda, ufumana indlela yokuyijonga.
20. Akasayibeki iinzame kwakhona.
Uninzi lwala manqaku angasentla abilayo kule nto inye: umyeni wakho akafuni ukubeka inzame emtshatweni wakho kwakhona.
Uye wajonga ngokwasemphefumlweni, ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwasemzimbeni.
Uvumela ulwalamano lonxweme ngokucinga ukuba akukho mfuneko yakwenza okuninzi, kodwa akukho sikhuthazo kuye sokuba azame ukulungisa izinto.
Akafuni ukuthatha olo xanduva kwaye ukhetha indlela elula yokuvumela kancinci umtshato wakho ukuba uphumelele.
21. Uzama ukujikisa abantwana bakho kuwe.
Le yinto yokwenyani yokwenyani yokwenza, kodwa amanye amadoda aya kugoba oku kuzantsi.
Ukuba unabantwana kunye, baya kuzama konke okusemandleni abo ukuba ngabazali abathandekayo.
Baza kukuthoba isidima, bathethe kakubi ngawe, kwaye benze nantoni na abanokuyenza ukonakalisa ubudlelwane onabo nabantwana bakho.
Ngaba ukhona umqondiso omkhulu wokuba umyeni wakho akakuthandi kunokusebenzisa abantwana bakho ukukwenzakalisa?
22. Udlala ngothando nabanye abafazi.
Unomdla kwabanye abantu basetyhini kwaye akazami ukukufihla oku.
Nokuba ngabom okanye akunjalo, umyalezo wakhe ucacile: ufumanisa ukuba abanye abantu basetyhini banomtsalane, kodwa ayinguwe.
Usenokude umrhanele ngokungathembeki kuwe, okanye ube nobungqina bokuba ukreqile.
23. Ayibethi ijwabu leso ukuba uflitha enye indoda.
Ungazama ukumenza umona ngokudlala ngothando nomnye umfana, kodwa umyeni wakho akasabeli nakancinci.
Akasathandani nawe, kwaye ke akaboni le enye indoda njengesisongelo.
Kuye, umdla wakho komnye umntu uqinisekisa kuphela iimvakalelo zakhe (okanye ukusilela).
24. Akafuni ukuthetha ngayo.
Xa uzama ukumbandakanya kwincoko malunga nemeko yomtshato wakho, akafuni kwazi.
Uyakuvalela ngaphandle kwaye uyala ukuthetha ngemicimbi ojongene nayo.
Ukhutshiwe kwaye akabonakalisi kuzimisela ukuzama ukugcina umtshato.
25. Usola wena ngemeko yomtshato wakho.
Ukuba unokumenza ukuba athethe ngobuhlobo bakho obungaphumeleliyo, ubeka ityala ngqo emagxeni akho.
Yimpazamo yakho ukumgxotha.
Yimpazamo yakho ngokungazami ngamandla.
Yimpazamo yakho ngokutshintsha usuke emntwini athandana naye.
Yimpazamo yakho ngokuzama ukumtshintsha kwaye ungamkeli ukuba ungubani.
Yimpazamo yakho… kuyo yonke into.
Apho unayo. Iingxaki zakho zomtshato zishwankathelwe ngamanqaku angama-25.
Mamela, ayikaze ibe mnandi into yokuqonda ukuba umyeni wakho - osamthandayo-akakuthandi kwakhona.
Ngaba oku kupela umtshato? Kusenokwenzeka.
Xa uthando luphelile, ulwalamano aluzange lishiye ixesha elide.
Kodwa, akukho ngaphaya kweendawo ezinokwenzeka ukuba umyeni wakho alufumane kwakhona uthando lwakhe kuwe.
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Amathuba okuba afune iingcebiso ngezibini kunye nokusebenza nzima kunye nomzamo kuni nobabini.
Kodwa umtshato kufanelekile ukuwulwela- ubuncinci de ube uyazi ukuba uwunike owona mboniso mhle.
Ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba wenze ntoni ngokungabikho kothando lomyeni wakho?Le ayisiyonto intle ozifumana ukuyo, kwaye ukuzifanisa nayo ngokwakho ngokubhekisele kwinto eza kulindelwa ngumtshato wakho kunokuba nzima. Inokukunceda ngokwenene ukuxoxa ngeemvakalelo zakho kunye nezinto onokuthi ukhethe kuzo kunye nengcali yobudlelwane.Ke kutheni ungancokoli kwi-Intanethi kumcebisi wobudlelwane ovela kwiHelshipship Hero onokukunceda uthathe isigqibo malunga nokuba amanyathelo akho alandelayo afanele ukuba yintoni, nokuba ucinga ukuba umtshato wakho unokuhlangulwa. Ngokulula.
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