Iimpawu ze-16 Wenza Ngokwenene NjengoMfana: Ungaqiniseka njani ngeemvakalelo zakho

Yeyiphi Imovie Ukubona?
 

Ke, kukho umntu omtsha ebomini bakho…



… Kodwa awuqinisekanga ukuba uyamthanda ngokwenene, okanye uyazidlalela.

Mhlawumbi iimvakalelo zakho ziye zakungcatsha ngaphambili.



Ngaba akho amaxesha apho wawuqinisekile ukuba uyamthanda umntu? Uqinisekile ukuba, ngeli xesha, yayinyani.

Kwaye, ngequbuliso, iimvakalelo zakho zatshintsha, okanye waqonda ukuba awuzange ube nguye kuye kwasekuqaleni…

… Kwaye uzifumanise ukwimeko ekukhohlisayo ukuphuma kuyo.

Awufuni ukuba yenzeke kwakhona.

Ngaba ukhathazekile kukuba ulilolo, okanye kukuqwalaselwa okuthandayo, hayi indoda?

Ngaba ukhathazekile ngumbono wokuba nendoda ebomini bakho oyithandayo?

Ngaba uqinisekile ukuba uyamthanda ngenxa yento ayiyo?

Ngaba uvuthela kushushu kwaye kuyabanda?

Ngaba uziva ngathi uyintloko phezu kolunye usuku, emva koko ungakhathali ngolandelayo?

Ngaba udidekile malunga neemvakalelo zakho , kunye nokukhangela ukuqaqamba kubomi bakho bothando?

Imiqondiso engezantsi iya kukunceda uqonde ukuba, nzulu ezantsi, iimvakalelo zakho ngalo mfana ziyinyani okanye hayi.

1. Kuziva kuyindalo ukuba phakathi kwakhe.

Xa uqala ukuchitha ixesha naye, nini uxinzelelo lwezesondo luqhuba phezulu , Mhlawumbi uya kuziva ngaphezu kancinci flustered phambi kwakhe.

Kodwa ukuba uyawuthanda umfana, kuya kufuneka uzive ungokwemvelo ukuba naye.

Incoko kufuneka iqukuqele, kwaye akufuneki ukuba ujonge izihloko oza kuxoxa ngazo okanye uzame ukugcwalisa ukuthula.

Kuya kufuneka uzive ukwazi ukuba ngokwakho kwaye ungonwabele unxibelelwano olugqitha ngokwasemzimbeni kuphela.

Akukho nto malunga nexesha olichitha naye kufuneka uzive unyanzelekile.

2. Uye waba neencoko ezigqitha ngaphezulu kwangaphandle.

Ukuba awuyazi ifani yakhe kwaye awuzange uxoxe ngokudlula kwakho, imisebenzi yakho, amaphupha akho, okanye iintsapho zakho, kuyakubanzima kakhulu ukwazi ukuba ngubani ngokwenene ngu.

Kodwa ukuba ufumanise ukuba nobabini ngokwemvelo niqale ukuvulelana izinto ezinzulu kwaye uyayithanda into oyifumeneyo ngaye ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, olo luphawu oluhle lokuba iimvakalelo zakho zinokuba zezokwenene.

3. Ucinga ngaye ngalo lonke ixesha.

Ukuba uhlala nomntu othile kuba ungaluthandi uluvo lokuba wedwa okanye ngenxa yokuba uyakruquka, ke xa unenye inkampani, uxakekile usenza izinto ezonwabisayo, okanye ufumana ingqalelo yamanye amadoda, ' Ngokuqinisekileyo iya kuba yinto yokugqibela ocinga ngayo.

Kwelinye icala, ukuba ufumanisa ukuba nkqu yena uhlala engqondweni yakho xa uphumile kwaye usonwabisana, olo luphawu oluhle lokuba uyamthanda lomfo.

Ukuba umthanda ngokwenene, uya kuba ucinga ngaye. Zonke. Inkqubo ye-. Ixesha.

Uya kuphazamiseka emsebenzini kwaye ufumanise ukuba abahlobo bakho baqale ukukuxelela ukuba uphuphe emini xa bezama ukuthetha nawe okanye ukubalisela ibali.

Uya kuhlala umlindile ukuba akubhalele umyalezo, ufuna ukuba ibe nguye okuthuthuzelayo xa ukhathazekile, kwaye uya kuba ucinga ngaye kuqala ekuseni kwaye okokugqibela ebusuku.

Akasoze abe kude neengcinga zakho, nokuba ungambona kangaphi.

4. Uyamkhankanya.

Xa uncokola namaqabane akho, umzisa.

Ubalisa amabali ngaloo nto ihlekisayo wayithethayo okanye wayenzayo.

Awunakukunceda ukumkhankanya, kwaye sele beqalile ukuqaphela.

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5. Oku khange kwenzeke ngobusuku obunye.

Khange udibane nalo mfana kwiveki ephelileyo.

Ukuba ubukwimihla embalwa kwaye umazi okwethutyana ngoku kwaye izinto ziya zisakha ngokuthe ngcembe, olo luphawu oluhle lokuba oku kungaphucula ubudlelwane obusempilweni.

Ukuba uza nje ebomini bakho, kufuneka unike izinto ithuba lokuqhakaza kwaye ukhule, kwaye unike iimvakalelo zakho ithuba lokuba zikhule.

6. Kudala unomona.

Njengokuba uyithiyile ukuyivuma, sele ufumana amawele omona.

Ukuba ubungamthandi, ngekhe umbone ekhankanya okanye ethetha nabanye abantu basetyhini, kungasathethwa ke ngokuba nomona ngayo.

Kodwa ukuba uzifumana ulumkile kakhulu nanini na xa ekunye nabanye abantu basetyhini kwaye uneendlebe zakho ezixheliweyo ngokukhankanywa kweedes zakhe okanye abahlobo ababhinqileyo, olo luphawu oluhle kakhulu oluthandayo.

Akufanele sivumele umona ukuba usilawule okanye uphume esandleni, kodwa umona wekhwele apha naphaya yinto yendalo.

7. Unobunzima bokucinga ngobomi bakho ngaphandle kwakhe.

Awazi ukuba yenzeke njani, kodwa uyasokola ukuba nomfanekiso-ngqondweni wokuba ubomi ngebunjani ukuba ebengekho kuyo.

Awunakukhumbula kakuhle ukuba kwakunjani xa wayengekho ngenxa yokuba uye wabelana ngeenkumbulo ezininzi ezimnandi kakade.

Uye waba yinxalenye enkulu yobomi bakho, kwaye ukuba uyamthanda ngokwenene, ufuna ukuba uhlale unjalo.

8. Niqalisile ukuba nomfanekiso wekamva kunye.

Unokucinga ikamva ekwabelwana ngalo nalo mfana.

Ukusuka kwinto oyaziyo ngaye ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, ucinga ukuba nobabini ninenjongo zobomi ezincomekayo, ukuba niza kwenza iqela elilungileyo, kwaye ninokukhupha ezona zibalaseleyo komnye nomnye.

Uzifumene uphupha ngendawo onokuhlala kuyo, okanye iihambo onokuthi uqhubeke kunye.

Okanye, kwikamva elisekude, ucinga ngezinto ezimnandi eninokuzenza kunye ngeKrisimesi, okanye kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ukusukela ngoku.

Uyakwazi ukuba umthanda kangakanani ngokonwaba kwakho malunga nokwenza izicwangciso naye.

9. Abahlobo bakho bayayibona indlela obethwe ngayo.

Abahlobo bakho bangakuxelela ukuba umthanda kangakanani lo mfo, nokuba awukaqiniseki.

Bayibonile indlela obuziphethe ngayo kunye nendlela othetha ngayo ngaye, kwaye bayazi ukuba uyintloko ngokupheleleyo.

10. Unomdla ngaphezu komzimba wakhe kuphela.

Ukwabelana ngesondo, ukuba ufikelele kude, kuhle. Kodwa awuyikumfowunela okanye umthumele imiyalezo ngokufanayo kuphela.

Uyayithanda ingqondo yakhe, kunye nomzimba wakhe.

Unokuchitha iiyure uncokola naye. Uyakuthanda ukuva ngokuthatha kwakhe emhlabeni kwaye unomdla wokwenene kwizimvo zakhe kwizinto.

Ufuna ukuchitha ixesha naye, nokuba elo xesha alibandakanyi ukufumana umzimba.

11. Wenza umgudu wokwenene.

Uyaphuma uye kulo mfo, kwaye olu luphawu oluhle lokuba umthanda ngokwenyani.

Wenza umzamo wokwenene ngempahla yakho yemihla. Ubusoloko ucebisa ezinye iintsuku ezithandabuzekayo, ezicingayo nobabini.

Usenokuba umthengele isipho esincinci ocinga ukuba angasithanda, okanye mhlawumbi umenzele isidlo sangokuhlwa.

Ungahamba ngolonwabo umgama omde ukuze umbone.

Ucinga ngento ayithandayo okanye ayifunayo, kwaye ubeke yena kuqala.

Awuphumi naye kuphela kuba ukhona kwaye kuba kulula. Ukulungele ngokwenene ukubeka ixesha lakho kunye namandla akho ukumbona nokumenza ancume.

12. Uthatha umngcipheko wokonzakala.

Uye wazibeka phaya kuye. Uvule, kwaye umxelele izinto ezisondeleyo ngawe. Uyeke umlindi wakho wehla.

Ukulungele ukuthatha umngcipheko wokwenzakala ukuba oko kuthetha ukuba uchitha ixesha kunye nalo mfo kwaye uvula amandla ekamva kunye.

Ngokucacileyo ubungeke uyityhile intliziyo yakho kwintlungu enokubakho kunye nentlungu xa ungaqinisekanga ukuba uyamthanda lo mfo kakhulu.

13. Awucingi nge-ex.

Iingcinga zakho azihambi rhoqo kumfo wokugqibela owawunaye.

Ngapha koko, kunqabile ukuba ucinge ngazo konke konke, uxakeke kakhulu uphupha ngomdla wakho omtsha wothando.

Awukwenzi oku nje ukwenza ukuba umfana wokugqibela abe nomona. Awusakhathali malunga nokuba omnye umntu ucinga ntoni kwaphela.

14. Uyekile ukukhangela omnye umntu.

Kwiintsuku zokuqala zokuthandana nalo mfo, usenokuba uqhubeke nokuthumela umyalezo kwabanye abantu kwiiapps ezahlukeneyo kunye nakwiisayithi phaya.

Usenokuba uye nakwimihla nabanye abantu ngaxeshanye.

Kodwa umise yonke lento ngoku. Okokuqala, awufuni kubeka into onayo nale ndoda emngciphekweni. Okwesibini, awuva nje isidingo sokujonga ezinye iindlela.

Uyazi ukuba kutheni? Kuba uyamthanda kwaye idlula nje kancinci - wena ngokwenene njengaye.

15. Ufuna ukuba abahlobo bakhe bakuthande.

Isenokuba kusekutsha kakhulu ukudibana nosapho, kodwa mhlawumbi ukwazisile kubahlobo bakhe abasenyongweni.

Wenze umzamo wokwenyani wokuzibandakanya nabo kunye nokuba nobuhlobo ngaphaya nje kwee-sweetries zenqanaba lomphezulu.

Ufuna abahlobo bakhe bacinge ngokuqinisekileyo ngawe kuba uyazi ukuba kuya kuba kuhle kubudlelwane bakho obunokubakho kunye nalo mfana.

Inyaniso yokuba uza kuphuma ecaleni kwakho ngumqondiso olungileyo wokuba uthanda umntu ngaphezulu kancinci.

16. Awufuni ukudlala imidlalo.

Ngamanye amaxesha, xa siqala ukubona umntu, sidlala izinto ngendlela ethile.

Oku kunokuthetha ukuthi uxakekile xa ungekho nje ukubenza bakufune ngakumbi, okanye ukuthetha ngomnye umntu ukubenza babe nomona.

Kodwa awuyenzi lonto ngalomfo. Uphendula ngokukhawuleza kwizicatshulwa zakhe, umenzela ixesha, kwaye awuzami ukumenza azive engaqinisekanga okanye engazithembanga nangayiphi na indlela.

Oku kubonisa ukuba iimvakalelo zakho ngaye ziyinyani kwaye unomdla wokuthatha ubudlelwane bakho baye kwinqanaba elilandelayo.

Ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba uyamthanda lo mfo? Thetha kwi-Intanethi kwingcali yobudlelwane kwi-Relationship Hero enokukunceda ufumane izinto. Ngokulula.

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