'Ndiyadlala ngobomi bam.'
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Abantu abaninzi baya kuyicinga le nto ngelinye ixesha.
Sonke sinamaxesha xa siziva ngathi asibenzi obona bomi bethu.
Kodwa ngesiqhelo yingcinga edlulayo eza xa sikhoyo ukuba nemini embi , iveki enzima, okanye khange ivelise ngokukodwa kutsha nje, nangasiphi na isizathu.
Ukuba uhlala uziva ngathi uchitha ubomi bakho, nangona kunjalo, lelo lelinye ibali.
Uvakalelo oluqhubekayo lokuvumela ukuba ubomi bungene kwiminwe yakho yinto ekufuneka uyijongile.
Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, phantse akunakwenzeka ukuba wonwabe ukuba uziva ngale ndlela.
Ukuba uzibone uziva ngolu hlobo, zimbini iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokulwa nalo. Kodwa kuyakufuneka udibanise zombini ezi ndlela ukuba ufuna ngenene ukwenza umahluko kwimbono yakho ngobomi.
Imalunga ukufunda ukuqonda ixabiso kwizinto osele unazo nezinto ozenzayo , ngeli xesha ukufumana iindlela zokwenza utshintsho kwindlela ophila ngayo , ngoko uziva ukuba konke kunentsingiselo.
Masiqale ngengcebiso malunga nokufunda ukuqonda ixabiso kwizinto ozenzayo kunye nobomi osele ukubukhokelela.
Iindlela ezi-5 zokuHlengisa iiNgqondo zakho ukuziva uzalisekisiwe
1. Yeka ukuzithelekisa nabanye.
UMark Twain uthe, 'ukuthelekisa kukufa kovuyo,' kwaye ndicinga ukuba sonke singavumelana ngaloo nto.
Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, nokuba uzithelekisa nomnye umntu, ulonwabo olufumana kulo luhlobo olujijekileyo lolonwabo.
Ngaba ukhe wema wacinga malunga nokuba uzifuna ngokwenene zonke ezo zinto ugqibe kwelokuba ubomi bakho abuzukugqibelela ngaphandle, okanye uziva ngathi ubufanele, kuba kukho omnye umntu?
Abantu bahlala behlupheka ngokuthelekisa-itis, kodwa imithombo yeendaba zentlalo yenze ukuba ibe yinxalenye yenyani yethu yemihla ngemihla, njengoko sinikwa nabanye abantu abafezekileyo kwimidiya yoluntu mihla le, amaxesha ngamaxesha.
Awusoze uyeke ukuzithelekisa nabanye ngokupheleleyo, kuba kukwindalo yethu.
Kodwa ungabiza kwakhona…
Unokuzikhumbuza ukuba ngenxa yokuba omnye umntu ephumelela, oko akuthethi ukuba usilele.
Impumelelo ithatha iintlobo ezizigidi ezahlukeneyo, kwaye akufuneki ube nazo zonke izinto umhlobo wakho we-Facebook anazo ukuze wonwabe.
Unokuthathela ingqalelo ukuba bonke abo bantu babelana ngobomi babo kwi-Intanethi babelana kuphela ngezinto ezilungileyo, njengawe. Unokubheja ukuba kuninzi okwenzekayo emva kwezigcawu ezingafaniyo nomfanekiso ogqibeleleyo.
Kuya kufuneka ufunde ukonwaba ngenxa yempumelelo enabanye ngelixa ugxile ekulimeni owakho umsele.
2. Yiba nombulelo ngayo yonke into onayo.
Esinye sezitshixo eziphambili zokuziva uzalisekisiwe ebomini bakho - kanye ngale ndlela okwangoku - kukukhaba inqanaba lakho lombulelo phezulu inotshi.
Ngamanye amaxesha sichitha ixesha elininzi sigxila kwinto esingenayo nesiyifunayo, kangangokuba asinalo uxabiso ngazo zonke izinto esinazo ebomini bethu.
Ukuba ufuna ukuphakamisa amanqanaba akho ombulelo, thatha ixesha ekupheleni kosuku ngalunye lokucinga, yithi, izinto ezintlanu onombulelo ngazo.
Isenokuba lusapho lwakho, ikhaya lakho, abahlobo bakho, imozulu entle, impumelelo yobungcali, okanye inyani nje yokuba usempilweni.
Oko kuya kukunceda ujolise zonke izinto ezintle ebomini bakho , nokuba zincinci okanye zibonakala ngathi azibalulekanga.
Iyakuthatha nengqwalaselo yakho ekutyibilikeni emsebenzini okanye loo nto umhlobo wakho ofunda naye esikolweni athunyelwe kuFacebook.
Isithethe sombulelo ebusuku kufuneka sithethe ukuba uya kulala kunye neengcinga ezimnandi ezijikeleze ingqondo yakho, kwaye ngethemba lokuvuka uziva ulungile ngosuku olulandelayo.
3. Zichaze izinto ngendlela eyiyo.
Kulungile, ke oku akusoloko kunokwenzeka. Kukho iminyhadala yobomi ekunzima ukuyifumana kulayini wesilivere.
Kodwa ukuba ubenethamsanqa kungekudala, zama konke okusemandleni akho ukujonga ezo ziganeko ngokwembono elungileyo.
Umzekelo, ukuba uye wakhululwa emsebenzini owawuthiyile, zama ukucinga ngawo njengenkuthazo yokuba ekugqibeleni uqale ukwenza into eyanelisa ngakumbi.
Ukuvalwa kweminyango ngokubanzi kuthetha ukuba windows zivulekile, ke yenza konke okusemandleni akho ukukhangela le festile kuzo zonke iimeko.
4. Yamkela abo ubathandayo ukuba bangobani.
Ukuba uchitha lonke ixesha lakho ugxile kwizinto onqwenela ukuba ungazitshintsha malunga nabo ubathandayo, ubudlelwane bakho buya kuba senkathazweni, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuziva ungonelisekanga.
Yenza konke onako ukwamkela abantu obathandayo kanye ukuba bangoobani, endaweni yokujolisa kwimiba yomlinganiswa wabo oyifumana ingaphantsi kokufanelekileyo.
Bathande ngokuchanekileyo ukuba bangobani ngoku, hayi abo ucinga ukuba banokuba nakho.
5. Cela umngeni kwilogic yakho.
Kulungile ukufuna okungakumbi ebomini, ngaphakathi kwesizathu. Kuhle ukuba namabhongo kunye neenjongo. Kuhle ukuba ukhuthazwe ukuba uzenzele ngakumbi.
Kodwa kufanele ukuba kube nengqiqo emva kokhetho lwakho nezinto ozilwelayo okanye ozibethayo ngazo.
Mhlawumbi uthathe isigqibo sokuba ufuna imoto entsha. Ngaba leyo yinto enokunyusa ulonwabo lwakho okanye yenze lula ubomi bakho?
Mhlawumbi uthathe isigqibo sokuba ufuna ukwenza imali eninzi. Ngaba kungenxa yokuba usokola ukufikelela ekupheleni kwenyanga kwaye ukhathazekile malunga nokukwazi ukukhathalela usapho lwakho?
Kuya kufuneka ucace gca ukuba kutheni ufuna izinto, kunokuba uthathe isigqibo sokuba awuzenzi ngaphandle kwesizathu.
Zibuze ukuba ithini into yokuqiqa ngasemva kwento oyifunayo, kwaye uvela phi lo mnqweno.
Ukuba ufumana amatye aqinileyo, ke oko kuyakhazimla, njengoko kukunika umkhombandlela kunye nenjongo yokuqhubeka kwaye wenze utshintsho olufanelekileyo kubomi bakho.
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Izinto ezi-5 onokuzenza ukuze uzive wonwabile ngobomi bakho
Kulungile, ke siqwalasele uhlengahlengiso onokuthi ulwenze kwisimo sakho sengqondo nakwindlela ojonga ngayo ukuze uzive uzalisekisiwe ngobomi bakho njengoko kunjalo ngoku.
Kodwa kunye nayo yonke loo nto, zininzi izinto eziphathekayo onokuzithatha ukukunceda uyeke ukuziva ngathi uchitha ubomi bakho.
Eyona ndlela ilungileyo kukudibanisa ezi zinto zimbini. Ungasebenza kwimbonakalo yakho kubomi onabo ngoku ngelixesha usenza utshintsho oluncinci kwindlela ophila ngayo eya kwenza umahluko omkhulu ngokubanzi.
1. Tyala imali ngobuhlobo obukhoyo nobutsha.
Ubuhlobo bokwenene sisipho sidla ngokuthatha ngokungakhathali , kodwa inokwenza umahluko omkhulu kumanqanaba akho okwoneliseka kunye nokuzaliseka.
Yakha obo buhlobo ngokufikelela ebantwini ababalulekileyo kuwe rhoqo, uququzelela imisebenzi yokwenza kunye, kwaye ubazise ukuba zibaluleke kangakanani kuwe.
Zibeke phambili, kwaye ubudlelwane obunentsingiselo obuphuhlisayo buza kukunceda uthi ndlela-ntle kwimbono yokuba uchitha ubomi bakho.
2. Zivolontiye ngenjongo elungileyo.
Ukuba uyasokola ukubona nayiphi na intsingiselo kwindlela ophila ngayo, Ukuzithandela kunokuba yinguqu.
Inokunika imood yakho ukomeleza kwaye ikunike ukuqonda ngenjongo, ukuze uqale ukubona inqaku ebomini.
Uyakwazi ukubona impembelelo entle onayo phambi kwamehlo akho.
Amakhitshi esuphu, iindawo zokuhlala ezingenamakhaya, amaqela okhuselo lokusingqongileyo, okanye iindawo zokufihla inja ziindawo ezilungileyo ukuqala.
3. Vulela utshintsho.
Ukuba uhleli kwiindlela zakho kwaye awuvulelanga ukutshintsha, ke, ngokufanelekileyo, ngekhe ukwazi ukukhula okanye ukuqhubela phambili.
Zama ukusondela kwiinguqu ezinokubakho ebomini ngezandla ezivulekileyo ukuze wazi ukuba kunokwenzeka imingeni emitsha, enomdla kungekudala.
Ukuzivula ngokwakho ukuze utshintshe kumalunga nokwenza inzame ebonakalayo yokutshintsha indlela oziphethe ngayo. Ukuba uqaphela ukuba unomkhwa ombi, yenza inqaku lokuzama ukusebenza ngalo lonke ixesha ufumana ithuba.
Kwaye imalunga nokumamela ngokuvakalayo abantu abavakalisa izimvo ezingangqamani nezakho, uhlala ukulungele ukulungelelanisa indlela yakho kwizinto ukuba kukho indlela ebhetele ongakhange uyiqwalasele.
Chitha ixesha elininzi nosapho lwakho.
Njengokuba ukwakha amaqhina omeleleyo kunye nabahlobo kunokuguqula indlela obona ngayo umhlaba, ukwenza umzamo omkhulu nosapho lwakho kunokunika ubomi bakho ngakumbi.
Fowunela usapho lwakho rhoqo kwaye wenze izicwangciso zokuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye nabo.
Ekupheleni kosuku, xa iichips ziphantsi, mhlawumbi iya kuba lusapho lwakho oluxhalabele kakhulu , kwaye ukuchitha ngabom ixesha elininzi lomgangatho kunye nabo kuya kuthetha ukuba kunzima kuwe ukuba uzive ngathi udlala ngobomi bakho.
5. Yenza izicwangciso kwaye unamathele kuzo.
Ulwaneliseko ebomini isekelwe kwimihla ngemihla, kodwa oko akuthethi oko uchulumanco oluncinci, umceli mngeni, kunye notshintsho alunakukwenza uzive ngathi ufezekisa izinto kwaye uphila ubomi benene.
Ke, ukuba ubufuna ukuba uhambe kolo hambo lukhulu, lubhukishe. Ukuba unenjongo yokutyelela kwenye indawo, funda into, zama into, amava ...
… Phuma apho uye uyenze!
Zityhale kancinci kwaye uzame izinto ezingaphandle kwendawo yakho yokuthuthuzela , ukuze ekupheleni konyaka uzokwazi ukujonga ngasemva ngoncumo kuzo zonke izinto ozenzileyo kwaye uhambe kangakanani.
Phila ngalo mzuzu, yibulela yonke into onayo, kwaye wonwabe ngekamva, kwaye ngekhe kube kudala ngaphambi kokuba ubomi bakho buthathe intsingiselo entsha.
Ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba ungayeka njani ukuziva ngathi uchitha ubomi bakho? Thetha kumqeqeshi wobomi namhlanje onokuhamba kwinkqubo. Cofa nje apha ukunxibelelana nenye.
