Ngaba uziva ubambekile ebomini bakho?
Ngaba yonke inkqubela phambili imisiwe?
Ngaba unyathela amanzi, awuyi ndawo?
Kulungile - uninzi lwabantu luziva ngale ndlela ngexesha elithile ebomini babo.
Kodwa ukuba ufunda le nto, ufuna ukwazi ukuba ungazinqandi njani, akunjalo?
Kulungile, lelo linyathelo lokuqala - uvumile ukuba kukho into engalunganga kwaye ujonge iindlela zokulungisa le meko.
Ke makhe singene ngokucela kuqala…
Kunjani ukuziva ubambekile?
Kukwazi, kwindawo ethile ngaphakathi ngaphakathi, ukuba apho ukhoyo ebomini bakho okwangoku akukho ndawo ofuna ukuhlala kuyo kwaye uhlale kuyo.
Unokwazi ukuchonga izinto ezithile ongazithandiyo, okanye usenokungakwazi ukubeka umnwe wakho kuso.
Nokuba yeyiphi indlela, izinto aziziva zintofontofo. Awuvuki suku ngalunye ujonge phambili kokuzayo.
Ukuziva ubambekile lulwazi lwendalo lokuba kukho okuninzi ngaphandle kwakho. Ukwaneliseka ngakumbi, ukuphumeza ngakumbi, ukonwaba ngakumbi.
Kodwa kukwayimvakalelo yokuba awunakufumana ezo zinto ngendlela obubomi bakho ngalo mzuzu.
Yilapho ezi zinto zidlala khona…
1. Ziqhelise nokuzikhethela.
Mhlawumbi eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu ekuqiniseni ubomi bakho kukuthatha uxanduva.
Wonke umntu uxakekile ngobomi bakhe, kwaye ngelixesha usenokukwazi ukuxhomekeka ebantwini ngenkxaso ethile, akukho namnye umntu onamandla emzimbeni, engqondweni, okanye ngokweemvakalelo ukutshintsha ubomi bakho.
Kuya kufuneka ulungele ukubeka umsebenzi ofanelekileyo ukuze ubone apho umendo wakho ulele khona kwaye emva koko uhambe.
Nguwe kuphela onamandla okwenza oko.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, uqeqesho lobomi lunokukunceda kwinxalenye yokuqala-indlela onqwenela ukuyithatha- kodwa kusafuneka ubeke unyawo olunye phambi kolunye, ngokomfuziselo.
iingozi zokuba mnandi emsebenzini
2. Cwangcisa ulindelo olusengqiqweni.
Buza iqela labantwana ukuba bafuna ukuba yintoni xa bekhula kwaye unokufumana iimpendulo ezifana nogqirha, inkwenkwezi ye-NBA, isicima mlilo, usomajukujuku notitshala.
Eminye yale mi sebenzi ichanekile kuneminye.
Njengoko ulawula ubomi bakho, kuyahlawula ukugcina iinyawo zakho emhlabeni xa kuziwa kwinto ofuna ukuyifeza-ubuncinci, kwixesha elifutshane neliphakathi.
Kukho izinto ezimbalwa ezidambisayo kunokuba ungafiki naphi na kufutshane neenjongo zakho okanye amabhongo.
Uyakuphela kuphela uziva ubambekile.
Oku akusebenzi kuphela emsebenzini wakho, kodwa kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi bakho.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuba ubukwindawo entle ngokwengqondo nangokweemvakalelo, 'cinga kakhulu' inokuba licebo elilungileyo, kodwa awukho kwaye ke akunjalo.
'Cinga ngokwenyani' kufanelekile kwimeko yakho yangoku.
Asinakho sonke ukuhlala ubomi bamaphupha ethu, kodwa sonke sinokufumana indlela yokuphucula ubomi bethu ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba apho siziva sanelisekile koko sikufezekisileyo.
3. Gxila kwiinjongo zexesha elifutshane ngoku.
Ukuba nombono wokuba ufuna ukuya phi ebomini kulungile, kodwa mhlawumbi ayisiyiyo loo nto unokuyicinga ngoku.
Kulungile. Ukungabi nombono wexesha elide akuthethi ukuba awungekhe uthathe amanyathelo exesha elifutshane usiya kubomi obonelisayo.
Ngapha koko, ukwenza izinto ukunciphisa amanqaku akho okwexeshana kunokukwenza ukuba ucinge ngokucacileyo malunga nokuba ufuna ntoni kwikamva elikude.
Ngamanyathelo amancinci owathathayo anokuthi ahlahle indlela yamanyathelo amakhulu kamva.
Ke sukuphazama ukwenza utshintsho oluncinci njengolungabalulekanga konke konke. Bazi.
Cwangcisa iinjongo onokuzenza ngokwenyani (kukho elo gama kwakhona) ukufezekisa kwixesha elifutshane.
Fumana iindlela zokunciphisa uxinzelelo, ukonyusa ukonwaba kwakho, okanye ukhulule ixesha lakho kunye namandla, nokuba baziva bengabalulekanga kangakanani ngoku.
4. Yakha umfutho ngokusebenzisa imikhwa.
Njengoko besesandula ukuxoxa, izinto ezincinci zihlala zibalulekile.
Isizathu esibalulekileyo sokuba kutheni umfutho: enye into ihlala ikhokelela kwenye ize enye enye.
Kwaye benza oku kuba xa usenza utshintsho oluncinci kwindlela yakho yokuphila kwaye uyakwazi ukunamathela kuyo, kungekudala iba ngumkhwa.
Akusekho mfuneko yokuba ucinge ngayo okanye uchithe amandla uzama ukuqhubeka. Yinto nje ozenzekelayo ukusuka ngelo xesha ukuya phambili.
Kwaye oku kukunika iqonga kunye namandla okujongana nolunye utshintsho oluya kuthi ke lube ngumkhwa.
Ngaphambi kokuba uyazi, wenze utshintsho oluninzi oluye lwaba yimikhwa kwaye awusaziva uziva ubambekile.
Uqhubela phambili kwaye nengqondo yakho iyatshintsha ukusuka kwenye apho utshintsho luziva luye nzima apho uziva uphefumlelwe kwaye ukwazi ukuqhubeka.
ungamthemba njani umfana wakho emva kokuba exokile
Kwaye uyakumangaliswa yindlela ezibaluleke ngayo izinto ezincinci esizenzayo suku ngalunye.
Kwimveliso ezeleyo bubomi bakho, zinokubakho kuphela izihlandlo zokuma xa kusenzeka iinguqu ezinkulu.
Elinye ixesha, ziinguqu ezibonakala ngathi zincinci ozenzayo ezakha iqonga lolo tshintsho lukhulu lwezifundo oluthatha ubomi bakho kwicala elitsha.
Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
- Iindlela ezingama-30 zokudibanisa ubomi bakho kube kanye
- Imigaqo eyi-9 yokuPhila ngobomi obuza kuzisola ngayo okwesibini
- Amanyathelo ama-6 oKoyisa imiqobo ebomini bakho
- Yenza uninzi lwezi zinto zingama-30 kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukuze ubenze ubomi bakho bube ngcono
- Ungabubuyisela njani uBomi bakho kwiTrekhi xa yonke into isiya kuSh * t
- Iindlela ezi-8 zokuba usebenze ngakumbi kuBomi (+ imizekelo)
5. Yiba nomonde kwaye ungaguquguquki.
Nokuba wenza utshintsho oluncinci- kwaye ngakumbi xa kusiza olukhulu - kuya kufuneka uhlale unesineke kwimfuno yakho yeziphumo.
Akukho nto izakwenzeka ngobusuku obunye. Yonke into ithatha ixesha.
Kungenxa yoko le nto kubalulekile ukuba ubeke ugxininiso olukhulu ekuthatheni inyathelo kwaye ungqinelane neso senzo kunokuba ugxile koko ukufezekisayo.
Ukubona iziphumo zomsebenzi wakho kunokuba kokonwaba, kodwa ukuba uhlala ufumana intuthuzelo kula maxesha anqabileyo, unganqwenela kude neentsuku zakho unethemba lokuzifikelela kwakamsinya.
Kwihlabathi elifanelekileyo, ungatshintsha umvuzo wengqondo kunye neemvakalelo ukusuka kwimveliso yokugqibela uye kwinkqubo efunekayo ukuze ufike apho.
Ngamanye amagama, fumana uvuyo kunye noxolo kulwazi lokuba usebenza nzima ukuya kwinto ethile, hayi kuphela ekufezekiseni loo nto.
Ngale ndlela, awuyi kuziva ubambekile, nokuba iziphumo azikafiki. Uya kuziva unamandla ngazo zonke izinto ezilungileyo ozenzayo ukuzikhuthaza kwinto engcono.
6. Kulungele ukuthatha inyathelo lokubuyela emva ukuya phambili.
Ngamanye amaxesha asinakufikelela apho sifuna ukufikelela khona ngokuhlala kwindlela yethu yangoku.
Kufuneka sibuyele umva, sifumane ifolokhwe endleleni, kwaye sizame indlela eyahlukileyo.
Kodwa la manyathelo abuyela umva zihlala zinzima ukuzithatha kuba zisenza thina ndiziva ngathi ndisilele .
Kwaye ke akukho nto siyenzayo, kwaye siziva sibambekile ngenxa yayo.
Oku kunokuba kwikhondo lakho lomsebenzi, apho ungayitshintsha khona kunokuthetha ukuqala ngokuhla kwileli kunokuba ungangoku kwaye ubuyela umva.
Okanye inokusebenza kubudlelwane bakho bothando, apho kuya kufuneka uyamkele into yokuba lowo ukule nto ayisebenzi ukuze ukwazi ukuyiphelisa ngaphambi kokudibana nomntu ofanelekileyo kuwe.
Ukwenza ukuba wenze olu tshintsho lunzima, kuyanceda ukungazichazi njengamanyathelo okubuyela umva, kodwa njengesiqalo sohambo olutsha lokufikelela kwindawo oziva useluxolweni ngakumbi kuyo.
Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, iziqalo ezitsha zihlala zivela ekuvaleliseni kwenye into-nokuba kungumsebenzi, ubudlelwane, indawo ethile oyibiza ngokuba yikhaya, umhlobo, okanye nokuba nenjongo ukuba ayisenalo igalelo kubomi bakho ngendlela elungileyo.
7. Guqula isimo sakho sengqondo ngomngcipheko.
Esinye isizathu esiqhelekileyo sokuba umntu azive ebambekile ebomini bakhe kungenxa yokuba abafuni ukuthatha umngcipheko ofunekayo ukuze batshintshe.
Banoloyiko lotshintsho, kwaye nangona bengenako ukonwaba apho, bakhetha ukuhlala kakuhle kwaye ngokwenyani ngaphakathi kwemida yommandla wentuthuzelo yabo.
Ukuba uyakwazi ukujongana noku, kuya kufuneka uzame umngeni kwindlela ocinga ngayo ngomngcipheko.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, nawuphi na umngcipheko unokuchaphazeleka okukhoyo kuwo. Unokuzama ukufezekisa into ethile, ungayilawuli kakuhle, kwaye uzifumane ukwimeko okhetha ukungabikho kuyo.
Kodwa ukhetha ukungaziva unamathele.
Ke kuhlala kuyimeko yokujonga ukuba icala eliphantsi lelona likhulu kakhulu lesikhundla esingamkelekanga kunokuba ukule ndawo ukuyo ngoku, kwaye ukuyithelekisa necala elingaphezulu nokuba lingangcono kangakanani.
Kwaye kufuneka ujonge kwiimvakalelo zokuzisola oya kuthi ngokuqinisekileyo ube nazo ukuba awungenzi nto konke konke.
Ukuba, njengoko kuya kuba njalo ngamanye amaxesha, umngcipheko awuhlawuli, ubuncinci unokuthi uzame.
Ukuba awenzi kwanto, uyakuphila de uphefumle okokugqibela uzibuze ukuba 'uza kuthini ukuba?
Ewe kunjalo, awunyanzelekanga ukuba uthathe umngcipheko ngokungakhathali. Unokuthatha umngcipheko obaliweyo endaweni yoko.
Ukuba awonwabanga emsebenzini wakho, ungathatha umngcipheko wokuncitshiswa komvuzo ngethemba lokuba uya kufumana ulwaneliseko oluphezulu lomsebenzi kwenye indawo. Kodwa awunyanzelekanga ukuba wenze njalo de ugcine imali ukuze wenze olo tshintsho kumvuzo osezantsi ulawuleke ngakumbi.
Okanye ungathatha umngcipheko wokufudukela kwilizwe elitsha kwimozulu engcono kunye nendlela yokuphila efanelekileyo kubuntu bakho. Kodwa ungasoloko urenta ikhaya lakho langoku, ukhuselekile kulwazi lokuba ungabuyela kulo ukuba ubomi bakho obutsha abuhlangabezani nolindelo lwakho.
Nje ukuba ulawule umngcipheko kangangoko unako, kuyehla ujongene noloyiko lwakho lotshintsho Intloko kwaye uthathe umtsi.
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8. Khangela iindlela ezifikelelekayo zokuqhubela phambili.
Ezinye izinto kunzima ukuzitshintsha, nokuba uyazi ukuba olo tshintsho yinto onokuzuza kuyo.
Olo tshintsho lukhulu lufuna amandla amaninzi engqondo kunye neemvakalelo, kwaye usenokungabikho kwimeko yokunika amandla ngoku.
Kulungile.
Usenakho ukujongana nemvakalelo yokuncamathela ngokujonga iindlela zokuhambisa ubomi bakho kwicala elifanelekileyo elilawulekayo.
Oku kubhekisa kulindelo olusengqiqweni- okulindelwe nguwe kunye nezinto onakho ukuzenza ngeli xesha ebomini bakho.
Mhlawumbi uhlala nentlungu engapheliyo, kodwa ungathanda ukufumana umsebenzi ohlawulelweyo ukuze ufumane ukuqonda. Kodwa elo nqanaba lokuzibophelela likhulu kakhulu kwindawo okhoyo ngoku.
Endaweni yoko, unokujonga umsebenzi wokuzithandela oguquguqukayo ngakumbi. Oku kunokukunceda ukuba ufumanise ukuba imida yakho ikukuphi kokubanakho komzimba kunye nexesha oziva ulinikezele.
Unokwazi ukutshintsha uye emsebenzini ohlawulelwayo kamva ezantsi emgceni, okanye akunjalo. Nokuba yeyiphi na indlela, wenze into ukujongana nenqaku lentlungu obukhe wanalo.
Enye indlela eya phambili yokuhamba ayifuni nokuba inxulumene nenjongo enkulu ongathanda ukuyifeza.
Masithi unqwenela ukutshintsha amakhondo emisebenzi, kodwa awulungelanga ukutsiba okwangoku. Usenokujongana neemvakalelo zakho zokubambeka ngokufumana iindlela zokuphucula ezinye iinkalo zobomi bakho.
Mhlawumbi ujonga indlela ophila ngayo kunye nento onokuyenza ukuze uphile ubomi obunempilo.
Okanye mhlawumbi ufumana iindlela zokukhula ngokobuqu ngokwembonakalo yemeko yakho yeemvakalelo kunye nendlela onxibelelana ngayo nabanye.
into yokwenza xa ur ndikruqukile
Ezi ntlobo zezinto zinokuthi ekugqibeleni zibe negalelo kukuziva ukwazi ukujongana nomceli mngeni omkhulu wokufudukela kwindawo entsha yomsebenzi, okanye ngekhe bangabinakho.
Banokukwenza ukuba utshintshe indlela ocinga ngayo malunga nekhondo lakho lomsebenzi kunye nendlela ekungekho mbi ngayo ngenxa yokuba wonwabile kuwe ngenxa yolunye utshintsho olwenzileyo.
9. Thatha nje inyathelo.
Ezinye izinto ziyatshintsha zibe ngcono ngokwazo.
Kodwa oku kunqabile kwaye akunakuthenjwa ngako.
Eyona ndlela yokuziqinisa kukuba njengoko sele sichukumisile, uthathe amanyathelo.
Ukuziva unamathele kukuziva ngathi akukho nto itshintshayo kwaye yonke into imile.
Intshukumo kukuhamba. Kwaye, ngenkcazo, ukuhamba akumi ndawo.
Nokuba eso senzo sikhulu okanye sincinci, nokuba linyathelo elibuyela umva, elisecaleni, okanye inyathelo eliya phambili, nokuba liyingozi okanye likhuselekile…
… Yithathe nje.
Thatha inyathelo kwaye uzibonele ngokwakho ukuba kungangcono kangakanani ukwenza ukuba uzive ukwenza okuthile ukuhambisa ubomi bakho kwicala elilungileyo.
Emva koko thatha elinye inyathelo kwaye wakhe umfutho esithethe ngawo.
Thatha amanyathelo amaninzi njengoko ufuna ukoyisa uvakalelo lokubambeka.
Akukho kuphinda ulibazise. Akusekho kuhlalutya ukukhubazeka.
Thatha nje inyathelo.
Unayo le.
