Kusenokwenzeka ukuba ukhe weva amabinzana athi “zonke iinkalo zobomi” nawo onke amabakala obomi.
Zihlala zisetyenziswa xa kukho into eyenzekayo enokubuchaphazela ubomi bomntu kuwo onke amanqanaba.
Emva koko, omnye umntu unokuthi, 'izakuchaphazela zonke iinkalo zobomi bam / bakho.'
Kodwa zithini iinkalo ezahlukeneyo zobomi?
uyifumana njani kwakhona imbeko kumfana
Ngelixa kukho izinto ezingenakubalwa ukuba umba ungene kwiinkcukacha, kukho ezili-10 ezibaluleke ngaphezu kwezinye.
Ukusuka kwezona zibalulekileyo kuye kwezona zibalulekileyo (ngokuthetha ngokurhabaxa), zi…
1. Impilo yakho
Xa usempilweni, uyakwazi ukuqhubeka nokwenza ezinye izinto ezibalulekileyo ebomini.
Xa unempilo enkenenkene, ukukwazi kwakho ukwamkela konke oko kunikelwa bubomi ngamanye amaxesha kunokusikelwa umda.
Oku akusebenzi nje kwimpilo yakho yasemzimbeni impilo yakho yengqondo ibalulekile.
Ukuzijonga nokubeka impilo yakho ngokwasemzimbeni, engqondweni nangokweemvakalelo yinto elungileyo kakhulu.
2. Usapho
Kubantu abaninzi, usapho lubalulekile.
Usapho lwakho yinto ehlala ihleli ebomini bakho.
Nangona unokubeka ixabiso elingaphezulu kuyo ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo obomi bakho, ikwindawo ephezulu kakhulu kwizinto ezibalulekileyo zobomi.
Inkcazo yakho yento oyibiza ngokuba lusapho inokutshintsha njengoko uqhubeka ebomini. Izongezo ezintsha ezinje ngamaqabane okanye abantwana bakho banokungena, ngelixa izizukulwana ezindala ziya kukushiya.
Kodwa nangona iyunithi yentsapho itshintsha, inika izibonelelo ezininzi kwaye izisa ucelomngeni.
3. Umsebenzi
Uninzi lwabantu luza kuchitha inani elikhulu lobomi babo bobuntu obudala kuhlobo oluthile lomsebenzi okanye kolunye.
Kuthatha ixesha kunye namandla ethu amaninzi, ngamanye amaxesha naxa singafanelekanga ukuba sisebenze.
'Ingaba wenza ntoni?' ngowona mbuzo uqhelekileyo ukubuzwa xa udibana nomntu okokuqala, kwaye oku kubonisa ukuba likhulu kangakanani iqhekeza lobomi bethu umsebenzi wethu.
ukuba mawuthini ixoki
Umsebenzi wakho unganefuthe elikhulu kwezinye iinkalo zobomi, ngakumbi kwimpilo yakho, kubomi bosapho lwakho, nakweyakho…
4. Ubomi baseKhaya
Xa ungasebenzi, ixesha lakho elininzi eliseleyo liya kuchithelwa ekhaya.
Ubomi bakho basekhaya buquka la malungu osapho ngqo ahlala nawo kunye nazo zonke izinto eziyimfuneko ukugcina ubomi buhamba kakuhle.
Ukuhlamba iimpahla, ukupheka, ukukhathalela abantwana kunye nokuzonwabisa, igadi, ukuhlawula amatyala, izicelo zesikolo, ukwenza amalungiselelo ohambo… uluhlu luyaqhubeka njalo.
Ngelixa unokufumana ukonwaba kwezinye zezi zinto, zizinto ezifuna ukwenziwa, ngenye indlela okanye enye.
5. Ubuhlobo
Awunakho ukukhetha usapho lwakho. Unolawulo olulinganiselweyo koogxa bakho osebenza nabo. Kodwa unelizwi phezu koba ngubani ombiza njengomhlobo.
Abahlobo babalulekile ngenxa yezizathu ezininzi, kwaye abahlobo abohlukeneyo banokunika izibonelelo ezahlukeneyo.
Abanye abahlobo bakho - abahlobo bakho abasenyongweni- bakho ngenxa yakho ebunzimeni nobunzima. Banikezela ngenkxaso xa kufuneka kwaye banikezela ngonxibelelwano olunzulu lweemvakalelo.
Unokuba nabanye abahlobo owenza nabo izinto ezithile - abahambahambayo, abahlobo bezemidlalo, okanye amaqabane omculo.
Nangona, kuninzi lwabantu, izihlobo zingenakuze zithathe indawo yosapho, zinika into eyahlukileyo ongenakukwazi ukuyifumana kusapho lwakho.
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6. Imeko yokomoya neenkolelo
Abanye abantu, iinkolelo zabo zokomoya zibaluleke kakhulu ebomini babo.
Nokuba oku kuyinxalenye yenkolo ehleliweyo, okanye isenzo esiqhelekileyo njengokucamngca, icala lokomoya lobomi linokubaluleka kakhulu.
Isenokuba ngumcimbi wokholo okanye wokuphila ubomi bomntu ngokusekelwe kwiinkolelo zakhe.
Nokuba yeyiphi indlela, inokungena kwezinye iinkalo zobomi bakho kunye nefuthe kwindlela owenza ngayo izinto.
7. Ukuzonwabisa
Ukuzonwabisa ngandlela thile kubalulekile ukuba amaxesha ngamaxesha.
Nokuba ukubiza ngokuba kukonwabisa, uxolo, ukwaneliseka, okanye ukonwaba, ukuzonwabisa kunokubonisa iimvakalelo ezininzi ezilungileyo.
Ayinamsebenzi nokuba ifunda iincwadi, ibuyisela iimoto zakudala, okanye ukubhaka, izinto okhetha ukuzenza ngexesha lakho lokuphumla kufuneka zibe zizinto obeka ixabiso kuzo.
Ezi zinto zinokubandakanya abahlobo bakho okanye usapho. Banokujikeleza impilo kunye nentlalo-ntle yakho. Banokuba nefuthe elikhulu kwezemali (into leyo esiza kuza kuyo).
izinto onokuzitsho kwileta yothando kwintombi yakho
8. Ukukhula komntu
Akukho mntu uhlala efanayo kubomi babo bonke.
Nokuba kungokusebenza kwabo nzima kunye nomzamo, okanye ngenxa yeziganeko kunye neemeko abajongana nazo, abantu bayatshintsha.
Wonke umntu unakho ngaphakathi kuye ukukhula nokukhula njengomntu, kwaye le yinto yobomi ihlala ixabiswa.
Oku kunokubandakanya imfundo esesikweni yokufumana izakhono kunye nolwazi olutsha.
Inokubandakanya uhambo oluthe kratya lobuqu lokufumanisa ngokwakho kunye nokusebenza kwiimpawu ezintle okanye ezimbi esinokuthi sifune / sibe nazo.
Inokubandakanya uncedo lwengcali ukusikhokelela ezantsi kwiindlela ezizayo neziqhamo.
Nokuba yeyiphi na eyenzekayo, ukukhula komntu yinto engapheliyo.
9. Uluntu
Uninzi lwabantu aluziva ngathi luyinxalenye yoluntu, kodwa sonke siyinxalenye yomnye nokuba siyakuqonda oko okanye hayi.
Wazi njani xa uqala ukuthandana
Olu luntu luhlala luzityhila ngamaxesha obunzima xa abantu behlangana-ngamanye amaxesha bengazani - ukunceda abo basweleyo.
Uluntu lunokuthi, ewe, lube yinto osele uyazi ngayo. Mhlawumbi uyinxalenye yeqela okanye umbutho oziva njengoluntu kwaye usebenza kuluntu ngokubanzi.
Impembelelo yoluntu lwakho inokuvakala ngeendlela ezininzi, ukusuka kwiintyatyambo ezityalwe kwiindawo eziluhlaza zasekuhlaleni ukuya kwinkathalelo enikwa abo bazifumana bengenakhaya. Kuya kufuneka uvule amehlo kwaye uyibone.
10. Ezemali
Kubantu abaninzi, imali yinto esoloko ibeka umthwalo ezingqondweni zabo.
Kwaye ngelixa inokuba nefuthe kwezinye zeengongoma zangaphambili, ibekwe okokugqibela kolu luhlu ukugxininisa ukuba, kwilizwe elifanelekileyo, akufuneki ibe yeyona nto iphambili.
Ewe, ukuba nemali eyoneleyo yokuphila kakuhle kwaye uhlale usempilweni kukhethwa, kodwa ubomi akufuneki bujikeleze imeko yemali eseleyo ebhankini.
Kweli hlabathi lanamhlanje, kuyanceda ukukhumbula oko.
Ke ezi zezona zinto zibalulekileyo zibalulekileyo ebomini ekufuneka uzithathele ingqalelo.
Kumanqaku ahlukeneyo ebomini bakho, inye okanye zimbini kwezi zinokuza ngaphambili kwaye zithathe indawo okwexeshana, kodwa, ngokubanzi, ukugcina ulungelelwano phakathi kwabo kuyanqweneleka.
Ukuba ungakwenza oko, uyakudala ubomi obuzalisekisayo kwaye bumnandi.
