Yintoni omele ukholelwe kuyo?
Ngomnye wemibuzo ebalulekileyo yobomi.
Iinkolelo zakho zinempembelelo enkulu kuwe, kodwa ukuba ngoku uyeka ukucinga ngento okholelwa ngokwenene kuyo, nazi iingcebiso.
Imiqondiso yokuba akasandithandi
1. Nawe.
Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu, kholelwa kuwe .
Ungaze ujongele ukuba ungubani kwaye unokufikelela phi ukuba ubeka ingqondo yakho kuyo.
Uninzi lwezithintelo ocinga ukuba lubekwe ebomini bakho zizibekele. Kholelwa kuwe kwaye loo miqobo ingaphulwa.
2. Abanye (ukulunga).
Kanye njengoko kufanele ukholwe kuwe, kufuneka ukholwe nakwabanye.
Kholelwa ekubeni uninzi lwabantu luneenjongo ezintle kwaye akufuneki zoyikwe okanye zingathenjwa.
Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukuba uyoyika okanye ungabathembi abanye, baya koyika okanye bangakuthembi.
Hayi, uninzi lwabantu lulungile. Zama ukungavumeli nawaphi na amava amabi angcolise umbono wakho kuye wonke umntu odibana naye.
3. Amandla obubele.
Izenzo zobubele-nokuba zincinci okanye zincinci-zinokuba nefuthe elikhulu kwaye lihlala lihleli kubomi babanye.
Xa ubona ithuba lokuba nobubele, thatha. Akunakuze kubekho ububele obuninzi kweli hlabathi.
Kwaye xa umntu enobubele kuwe, mbulele kwaye ubonise uxabiso.
Ububele buhlala bukhuthaza ububele obuninzi, nako oko kuthetha ukuba isenzo sakho sobubele sinokudala ifuthe elichaphazelayo kubomi babantu abaninzi.
Kwaye ungalibali yiba nobubele kuwe !
4. Nale yona iya kudlula.
Uya kujongana namaxesha anzima ebomini bakho. Imiqobo iyakuma endleleni yolonwabo lwakho.
Kodwa zonke izinto ziphela ekugqibeleni-kwaye zihlala zikhawuleza kunokuba ucinga. Kholelwa ukuba naziphi na iingxaki onokuthi ujongane nazo okwangoku, ziya kudlula.
Kwaye ukholelwe ukuba okuhle kukoyisa okubi ebomini.
5. Amandla akho angaphakathi.
Ngala maxesha anzima, khumbula ukuba womelele ngakumbi kunokuba uzinika ityala.
Ujongane nobumnyama ngaphambili kwaye ugqithe kuyo wafikelela kwelinye icala.
Unerekhodi yokulandelela eyi-100% yokufikelela kwizinto, ke ungaze uthandabuze amandla onawo ngaphakathi.
6. Isibindi.
Kunye namandla akho angaphakathi, kuya kufuneka ukholelwe kumandla enkalipho.
Inkalipho ikuvumela ukuba ujongane nezinto ezikoyikisayo kwaye uzenze nokuba kunjalo.
Ngaphandle kwesibindi, uya kubanda emkhenkceni wakho, woyike into ephambi kwakho.
Ngenkalipho, uyakwazi ukuqhubeka usiya phambili nangona usoyika.
7. Ithemba.
Ithemba, ngokwalo, liyinkolelo, kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba ungakholelwa kuyo.
Ithemba yinto enamandla kwaye kubalulekile ukubambelela kuyo naxa izinto zibonakala zilahlekile.
Ithemba likugcina uhamba. Kukhumbuza ukuba iintsuku ezingcono ziseza. Kuyanceda ukuba ubone intsingiselo kunye nenjongo kwinto oyenzayo suku ngalunye.
Ngaphandle kwethemba, uwela kuxinzelelo kunye nokuphelelwa lithemba.
8. Impembelelo yakho kwilizwe elikujikelezileyo.
Yonke into oyenzayo ichaphazela umhlaba ngandlela-thile nangenye indlela encinci.
Unefuthe kwabanye abantu, uphembelela umhlaba kunye nendalo, uchaphazela indlela izigqibo ezenziwa ngayo kwilizwe ohlala kulo.
Kufuphi: ubalulekile.
Yonke into idibene. Ngandlela encinci (okanye enkulu), izenzo zakho ziyalitshintsha ilizwe. Kuya kufuneka uthathe isigqibo sokuba ngaba olo tshintsho luya kuba lolulungileyo na.
9. Inyaniso.
Ngelixa kunzima ukuthetha inyani ngalo lonke ixesha, kufuneka ukholelwe ekubalulekeni kwenyaniso xa ibaluleke kakhulu.
Inyaniso ikhuthaza ukuthembela kukhuthaza inyani- kwaye ke umjikelo uyaqhubeka.
Inyaniso kukuvuleka kwaye oku kudala unxibelelwano olusempilweni phakathi kwabantu.
ndingakuthemba njani kwakhona
Ubuxoki, kwelinye icala, bukhuthaza ukungathembani okwenza umqobo phakathi kwabantu.
10. Amandla amagama.
Ukuthetha inyani ngumzekelo nje omnye wendlela amagama akho anokuba nefuthe elikhulu ngayo kubomi bakho nakwabanye.
Ungaze uwajongele phantsi amandla amagama akhuthazayo kwabo bafuna ukuwava.
Ukhuthazo Ukuvuma kunye nenkxaso zizinto ezibalulekileyo ezigcina umhlaba ushukuma.
Wakhethe kakuhle amagama akho.
Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
- Izinto ezili-15 Ihlabathi lifuna ngakumbi
- Imigaqo eyi-9 yokuPhila ngobomi obuza kuzisola ngayo okwesibini
- I-101 zeMotto zoBuntu zokuPhila
- Yenza uninzi lwezi zinto zingama-30 kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukuze ubenze ubomi bakho bube ngcono
- Amanyathelo ama-4 okuphuhlisa ifilosofi yakho yobuqu ebomini
- Iinkolelo ze-4 zeBuddhist eziya kuthi zishiye ukuqonda kwakho kobomi kwaye zikwenze wonwabe
11. Umsebenzi onzima.
Akwanele ukufuna into. Kuya kufuneka uphume uyisebenzele.
Kuya kufuneka uqeqeshwe ukuze uhlale udityanisiwe naxa-kwaye ngakumbi xa- imbuyekezo yomzamo wakho ingafumaneki.
Izinto ezilungileyo, ezifanelekileyo zixabisa ixesha ukufezekisa. Bafuna ukuzinikela kwakho. Banokufuna igazi lakho, ukubila kunye neenyembezi.
ungamxelela njani umntu ongeyonyani
Kodwa iziphumo zokugqibela ziya kulunga.
12. Iinjongo namaphupha akho.
Ngelixa ukusebenza nzima kubalulekile, loo msebenzi kufuneka ujolise kwinto ethile.
Into leyo yinjongo yakho okanye iphupha lakho.
Kwaye ngelixa kufuneka ubenenyani kwaye uyazi nini ukuyeka iphupha , Ungaze uyeke ukuba namaphupha.
Amaphupha ayakhuthaza. Amaphupha asinika ithemba. Amaphupha asikhumbuza ukuba sinamandla ngaphakathi kwethu okutshintsha ubomi bethu.
13. Tshintsha.
Ukuthetha ngotshintsho, kubalulekile ukwamkela ukuba ayinakuphepheka.
Zonke izinto ziyatshintsha ngalo lonke ixesha. Ngamanye amaxesha olu tshintsho luncinci kangangokuba alubonakali. Ngamanye amaxesha, kubonakala ngathi ziyasongamela.
Kodwa ngokukholelwa kutshintsho, akusekho mfuneko yokoyika.
Utshintsho luba yinxalenye yendalo yobomi, akukho kwahluka ekuphumeni nasekuweni kwelanga.
14. Uxolelo.
Akukho mntu ugqibeleleyo. Wonke umntu uneempazamo kwaye wonke umntu wenza iimpazamo.
Ezi mpazamo kunye neempazamo zihlala zibacaphukisa abanye-ngamanye amaxesha ngendlela enkulu.
Kungenxa yoko le nto kubalulekile ukukholelwa kuxolelo kunye namandla ekuncedeni ukuphilisa ukwenzakala nokwakha ubudlelwane kwakhona.
Ngaphandle kokuxolelwa, asinakuze sizivule iintliziyo zethu emngciphekweni wokwenzakaliswa kwasekuqaleni. Kwaye ubomi obubuhlungu obuya kuba njani.
Ke kukulungele ukunika elinye ithuba lesibini.
15. Amandla akho kwiingcinga kunye neemvakalelo zakho.
Unelizwi kwindlela oziva ngayo kunye nendlela ocinga ngayo. Isenokungasoloko ibonakala injalo, kodwa wena uyayenza.
Ngelixa ungacinga okanye uve into njengempendulo yendalo kwimeko okanye kumava, oko akuthethi ukuba awunakuchaphazela ezo ngcinga kunye neemvakalelo.
Ungabacela umngeni kwaye unikeze ubungqina obuzokunceda ekuthomalaliseni (ucinga ukuba banezinto ezimbi).
Unako, ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba elithile, ukukhetha ukucinga kunye nokuziva ulunge ngakumbi.
16. Ukufunda.
Unesakhono esimangalisayo sokukhula njengomntu kwaye ufunde izinto ezintsha.
Kodwa kuya kufuneka ukholelwe kobu buchule ukuze ukwazi ukuyisebenzisa.
Ngokufunda kunye nokuziqhelanisa, unokufunda uninzi lwezinto. Unokubuphucula ubuchule bakho, ukuphucula ulwazi lwakho, kunye nokuguqula ubomi bakho kwinkqubo.
Ukufunda kuvulelekile kuye wonke umntu, nokuba ungakanani na ubudala, ke ungacingi umzuzwana omnye ukuba uyeke umzuzu oshiya kuwo imfundo.
17. Ukuzifumanisa ngokwakho.
Unokuzazi ngcono kwaye ubengcono ngayo yonke imihla edlulayo.
Unokuzifumanisa ukuba ungubani kwaye umeleni. Ungazivumela ezi zinto zikhokele izenzo zakho kunye nobomi xa bebonke.
Unokucinga ukuba 'isiqu sakho' ngandlel 'ithile sifihliwe phantsi komgangatho wokuqonda kwakho, kodwa akunjalo.
Kuthatha ukubonakalisa kancinci kunye nokuhlola, kunokwenzeka ukuba uzityhile kwaye uziqonde.
imibongo yabo bapasileyo
18. Ubulungisa.
Abantu bafanele ukuphathwa ngokufanelekileyo. Ufanele ukuphathwa ngokufanelekileyo.
Oku kuthetha ukubonisa imbeko kwabanye. Kuthetha ukuphatha umntu omnye ngendlela obuya kwenza ngayo kuye nawuphi na omnye umntu. Akukho mkhethe, akukho mkhethe, akukho kukhetha.
Ukulunga ngengqondo ebanzi kuthetha ukudala uluntu apho wonke umntu enamathuba afanayo okuphumelela.
Umhlaba olungileyo lihlabathi elinobubele- yinto onokukholelwa kuyo.
19. Ubuntu.
Ngamanye amaxesha kunokuba nzima ukukholelwa eluntwini. Abantu abaninzi ulahlekelwe lukholo eluntwini Ngokusekwe kwinto abayibonayo abanye besenza kunye nefuthe elibi thina, njengezilwanyana, esinalo kulo mhlaba.
Kodwa ubuntu abulahleki. Kuninzi ukubhiyozela kwaye unombulelo ngako.
Njengabantu, ubuntu buneziphene zabo kwaye benza isabelo sabo esifanelekileyo kwiimpazamo, kodwa ikwenze izinto ezintle kwaye igcwele ngabantu abalungileyo.
Ke kufuneka ukholelwe eluntwini. Uyinxalenye yalo, emva kwayo yonke loo nto.
20. Luxolo.
Uxolo luya kuhlala phezulu kuluhlu lweminqweno yabantu abaninzi. Uxolo lwangaphakathi ngokwabo. Uxolo lwangaphandle kubudlelwane babo. Uxolo lwehlabathi ngokulungileyo koluntu.
Ezi ntlobo zintathu zoxolo ziyafikeleleka ukuba uyakholelwa kuzo.
Ngapha koko, inkolelo yakho yoxolo linyathelo lokuqala elisa eluxolweni.
Zininzi izinto onokukholelwa kuzo, kodwa ezi zingama-20 kufanelekile ukuba uzikholelwe ngakumbi kunezinye.
Amandla enkolelo, ngokwawo, yinto ekufuneka ukholelwe kuyo. Xa ukholelwa kwinto ethile, ucinga kwaye wenze ngeendlela zokuyenza ibe yinyani.
Ke khetha oko ukukholelwayo ngononophelo.
