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Ngamanye amaxesha sithetha ukuba banentliziyo ebandayo. Kodwa kuthetha ntoni kanye kanye oko?

Ukukunceda uqonde, Nazi izinto ezili-19 ezinokubonisa umntu oneentliziyo ezibandayo.



1. Abakhathali kwaye abanamdla.

Abantu abaneentliziyo ezibandayo bahlala bengenaluvelwano malunga neengxaki zabanye abantu okanye iintlungu.

Batyekele ekubeni baswele uvelwano olusisiseko olwenza ukuthobeka kwethu njengabantu ngabanye.

Ngenxa yokuba beme ngokwabo, bafumana kunzima ukuba bacinge ukuba ayinguye wonke umntu owakhiwe ngoluhlobo.

Abayiqondi into yokuba abanye abantu badlulisela uvelwano kunye neemvakalelo ezifudumeleyo kubahlobo babo, nangaphezu kwabasemzini.

Babambeke kwihlabathi labo elingenayo inkathalo, ubuhlobo kunye neemvakalelo ezibuthathaka.

2. Bakude kwaye bahlukanisiwe.

Abantu abanobuntu obubandayo banokuhlangana njengeentloni okanye ukungabinamntu ekuqaleni, kodwa ngokubanzi bahlukanisiwe kuyo yonke into ebangqongileyo.

Abasoloko befumana iimvakalelo ngendlela efanayo neyabantu abaninzi, ngoko ke kunganzima nokuba babe kumaqela abantu okanye bangakhathali ngokwaneleyo ukuba bazibandakanye nantoni na.

Rhoqo, yeyokugqibela. Bavame ukugcina kude kuyo nayiphi na into ebandakanya iimvakalelo ezininzi okanye unxibelelwano.

3. Babonakala njengabongamileyo nabangenabubele.

Amaxesha amaninzi kukho into yokuzidla ejikeleze abantu abaneentliziyo ezibandayo - baziva ngathi bangaphezulu kuwe kwaye benze ngokungathi awulifanelanga nexesha labo.

Banokungabi nabubele kakhulu ngamanye amaxesha - oku kuxhomekeke kwinto yokuba abazikhathalelanga izinto ezintle okanye iimvakalelo zabanye abantu.

Banokude bathethe ngenjongo ngabom, baphume endleleni yabo ukuze uzive umbi ngesiqu sakho.

4. Bahlala bezicingela bodwa kwaye bayazingca.

Usenokuba uqaphele ukuba uninzi lwabantu abanentliziyo ebandayo banomda wokuzibandakanya nabo-babonakala ngathi bangaphezulu kwabo bonke abantu.

Batyekele ekukholelweni ukuba zibaluleke ngendlela engathethekiyo, zinomtsalane, kwaye zinomdla, kwaye akufuneki ziqubude kunxibelelwano olusisiseko lomntu olufana nentetho encinci okanye uvelwano.

Abanawo umdla kwabanye abantu, ngoko ke ngekhe bakubuze okuninzi ngawe, kwaye, ukuba utyhila ulwazi kubo, abayi kumamela okanye bakhathalele, kunjalo.

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5. Abathembekanga kwaye abathembekanga.

Ukuthembela kumntu obandayo kunzima kakhulu - ngekhe wazi ukuba bayaziqonda na ukuba zibaluleke kangakanani izinto kuwe, kuba ngokucacileyo abanazo izinto ezininzi othandekayo.

Basenokungakhathali ukuba kutheni ufuna ukugcina into ethile iyimfihlo, eyenza ukuba kube nzima ukwazi ukuba ngaba uzityand 'igila kubo okanye hayi.

Bayakhawuleza ukuxoka - abayikhathalelanga into eyenzekayo ukuba bayayenza, emva kwayo yonke loo nto.

Ngokulinganayo, ababathembi nabantu ababangqongileyo. Bahlala bebona okona kubi kwabanye abantu - kwakhona, bezibona njengabongamileyo kunabo bonke abantu - kwaye abenzi ubuhlobo obusondeleyo okanye ubudlelwane.

Oku kunqongophala kokunxibelelana kwabantu kunye novelwano kunokuqhubeka kuqinisa kutheni bengabathembi abanye abantu.

6. Bayazithemba kwaye baneenkani.

Kuba bebona abo babangqongileyo njengabaphantsi, baxhomekeke kubo kuphela ekwenzeni izinto.

Ukuzithemba ngokwakho kunokuqaqamba ngeendlela ezininzi, kwaye ngesiqhelo kubonisa inqanaba elisempilweni lokuzithemba kunye nokukwazi.

Kubantu abaneentliziyo ezibandayo, nangona kunjalo, inxulunyaniswa nenyaniso yokuba bacinga ukuba bangcono kakhulu kunaye wonke umntu - kuyo yonke into.

Batyekele ekubeni neenkani nabo. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, bayazi ngcono, akunjalo?

7. Bayalawula.

Iziphumo ebezingalindelekanga zokuzithemba nokuba neenkani kukuba abantu ababandayo bayathanda ukuba nezinto ngendlela yabo.

Oku kubonakalisa njengokuziphatha okulawulayo kuba ayicingi nje ukuba bacinga ukuba bazi ngcono, bakhathalele kakhulu malunga nendlela abanye abantu abavakalelwa ngayo ukuba aboyiki ukubaphatha ngayo.

Baza kuthetha abanye, banyanzelise ukuba izinto zenziwe ngendlela ethile, kwaye benze ukhetho kwiqela liphela nokuba uninzi lufuna into eyahlukileyo.

8. Banokungcatsha abanye.

Abantu ababandayo ngokwasemphefumlweni ukuswela uvelwano , kwaye abasoloko bebona izenzo ngokukhanya okufanayo nabo banamanqanaba asempilweni ovelwano.

Kananjalo, banokungcatsha abo babangqongileyo, nokuba ngabom okanye ngenye indlela.

Banokuphuma kwindlela yabo ukuya hlazisa okanye ukukukhathaza, kuba nje banako kwaye abakhathali ziziphumo.

Ngokulinganayo, banokuthi ngempazamo benze into ekucaphukisayo kuba bona ngokwabo ngekhe bacaphuke ukuba umntu ebenze into efanayo kubo.

Nokuba yeyiphi indlela, ngekhe bazive benohlazo ngayo…

9. Bangabaphuli-mthetho abaphindayo.

Ke, benze izinto ezimbalwa ongavumelani nazo. Ngaba wonke umntu unjalo?

Ewe, abantu abaneentliziyo ezibandayo kunokwenzeka ukuba baqhubeke nokwenza ezo zinto ziphindaphindiweyo.

Njengoko sele sitshilo, abanamanqanaba ovelwano afanayo nabantu abaninzi, ke musa ukuziva ungalunganga ngokucaphukisa abo babangqongileyo.

Kananjalo, banokuqhubeka bekuphatha kakubi, okanye bakwenzakalise ngendlela efanayo rhoqo. Oku kuhlala kungenxa yenkolelo yabo yokuba ungaphantsi - ukuba kufanelekile ukuba wenziwe uzive umbi, phantse.

Banokukhohlisa kuwe amaxesha amaninzi kwaye bangakhathali ukuba kubuhlungu, okanye banokuqhubeka besasaza amarhe ngawe, umzekelo.

Bayayazi into abayenzayo kwaye baneenjongo ezimbi.

10. Bayakhawuleza ukudlulela phambili.

Ukuba ukhe wakwazi ukwenza i kubonakala ngathi unxibelelwano lokwenyani nomntu onentliziyo ebandayo, sukumangaliswa ukuba iphela ngesiquphe.

Bayakhawuleza ukushiya ngaphandle kubanda kwaye baya kuyikhathalela indlela okulusizi ngayo okunokukwenza uzive ngayo.

Oku kungenxa yokungabikho kwalo naluphi na uhlobo lweemvakalelo okanye unxibelelwano ngokomoya ezenziwa kunye nabo babangqongileyo.

Nokuba sisixhobo sokuzikhusela okanye kukucaca nje ngokungathandekiyo, baya kukuwisa ngokukhawuleza njengoko bekuphakamisile, lumka!

11. Ziyakhohlisa.

Abantu abaneentliziyo ezibandayo aboyiki ziziphumo zezenzo zabo kangangokuba banokuthi 'bakufune' ufane nabo.

Banokukwenza ukuba wenze izinto ongakhululekanga ngazo, okanye banyanzelise isandla sakho malunga nendlela owenza ngayo nothetha ngayo.

Banokuziva benetyala-bakukhubekise okanye Ukukhohlisa ezintweni, konke kuba banako.

12 Ziyonakalisa.

Ngenxa yokuba bengaboni ixabiso kwizinto abanye abantu abazibona zingcwele, abanangxaki ekubonakaliseni.

Imicimbi yosapho inokuphazamiseka, ubuhlobo bunokuqhawulwa, kwaye ubudlelwane babanye abantu bunokuba yinto yokuphazamisa 'ukuzonwabisa.'

Abantu ababandayo abayixabisi okanye abayamkeli imvakalelo yabanye abantu, ke ngoko ungabinangxaki ngokwenza izinto ezinokubonyusa kakhulu ubomi babo.

13. Zityumza umphefumlo.

Ukuba uke waba ngumhlobo nomntu onentliziyo ebandayo, uya kukwazi ukuba bakwenze kakubi ngamanye amaxesha.

Kuyadida ukudlalwa kunye, ungaze wazi ukuba ubalulekile na kubo kwaye bakukhathalele ngokwenene okanye hayi.

Banokukwenza ukuba uziqashele ngokwakho okanye bakunyanzele ukuba ubuze ukuzixabisa kwakho.

Bazizimisele ukuhlala phezulu kwaye babalasele, bangakhathali nokuba indlela yokuziphatha kwabo inokuba yonakalise ngayo kuwe nokuzithemba kwakho.

14. Abatshatanga ngokungapheliyo.

Abakhathazeki ngokwenyani ngokwakha unxibelelwano lweemvakalelo naye nabani na kwaye bayazibandakanya kwaye bayazingca ukuba babe kulwalamano oluhle, olusempilweni.

Kananjalo, uninzi lwabantu abaneentliziyo ezibandayo zihlala zingatshatanga ixesha elide, okanye zinomtya omfutshane kakhulu, 'ongenabuhlobo' ubudlelwane.

Ukungakwazi kwabo ukuthemba okanye ukuthembakala kwenza kubenzima kubo ukuzibophelela.

15. Bayakucaphukela ukubonakaliswa kothando lomzimba.

Ngenxa yokuba bebekekile kwaye bengenamdla kwizinto zentliziyo, umntu obandayo uthanda ukuyicekisa nayiphi na imbonakalo yothando lomzimba-ngakumbi esidlangalaleni.

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Abaziva bekhululekile xa bethandana nangayiphi na indlela, kodwa ukubonakaliswa komzimba kunzima kakhulu kuba bababona njengolwalamano olusenyongweni ngokungeyomfuneko.

16. Babona abanye njengabaqwalaselayo.

Esinye isiphumo sokungazithandi iimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo kukuba bacinga ukuba wonke umntu unjalo naye uvakalelo.

Ke xa bethetha okanye besenza into ecaphukisa umntu, abanakuyiqonda kakuhle into abayibona njengokuzibaxa.

Ezingqondweni zabo, bebehleka nje okanye bethetha inyani, kuphela kukhetho lwabo lwamagama okanye ukuhanjiswa kwabo kwakubangela ukuba kubenzakalise umamkeli.

17. Banqabile ukuxolisa.

Ukuthetha ngeemvakalelo ezibuhlungu, umntu onentliziyo ebandayo ayisiyiyo yonke into enokuthi ithi uxolo okanye uzame ukuyenza kumntu omcaphukisileyo.

Ngenxa yokuba bengazukucaphuka yiyo nayiphi na into abayenzileyo, abasiboni isizathu sokuba kufuneke baxolise ngayo.

Ukuba bayalucela uxolo, kukho ithuba elihle lokuba bajonge ukufumana okuthile kuyo kunokuba kuba bexolile ngokunyanisekileyo ngento abayenzileyo.

Abathembekanga.

Igama lomntu obandayo alithethi lukhulu kuba abanakuthenjelwa kubo ukuba baligcine.

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Banokwenza izithembiso ezilambathayo besazi ukuba baya kuzophula ngenxa yokuba bengoyiki okanye baziva imiphumo yokwenza oko.

Banokubhrasha ngokulula bangaguquki kwinto ethile okanye bangayikhathaleli into abathi bayayikhathalela. Abaziboni nje ezi zinto njengento enkulu.

19. Abakhathali nokuba abanye bacinga ntoni.

Inxalenye yesizathu sokuba bengathembeki ngenxa yokuba abanandaba nendlela abanye abantu abazijonga ngayo.

Nokuba ayikhathalelanga okanye ikude okanye ityhefu ngqo, akunakulindeleka ukuba ziqwalasele izimvo zabanye njengezisemthethweni kwaye ke zinjengamanzi asuka emhlana wedada.

Ngandlela thile, le yeyona nto intle yokuba ngumntu oneentliziyo ezibandayo kuba abantu abaninzi bangathanda ukungakhathali kangako malunga nokuba abanye abantu bacinga ntoni.

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