Uninzi lwethu lunamaphupha ngekamva lethu.
Sineenjongo esizibekele zona kwaye sinethemba lokufikelela kuzo.
Senze inkqubela phambili ukuya kwindawo esinqwenela ukufikelela kuyo.
Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha sasiwela ithafa elisendleleni.
Sifumana umqobo wohlobo oluthile.
Mhlawumbi kwanodonga olubonakala lungenakoyiswa.
Ngexesha elithile, kufuneka siphendule umbuzo obalulekileyo wokuba kufuneka sihlale emgqeni okanye siwushiye.
Nokuba kufuneka siqhubeke nokulandela iphupha lethu okanye silincame.
UKenny Rogers, umbhali-umbhali wengoma wayibeka ngolu hlobo:
Uye wazi ukuba ubambe nini ... em… wazi ukuba usonge nini.
Imvumi yaseScotland kunye nombhali wengoma uSheena Easton usikhumbuze ukuba kufuneka sazi:
… Nini ukunamathela kwimipu yethu kwaye nini ukuyeka umlo.
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UHerman Hesse wathi:
Abanye bethu bacinga ukubambelela kusomeleza kodwa ngamanye amaxesha kuyayeka.
Inyani yile, ngamanye amaxesha asazi nje ukuba kufuneka sicinezele ekuphumeleleni, okanye silushiye uhambo.
Ngamanye amaxesha siqala ukukrokrela ukuba ukufikelela kwindawo ekuyiwa kuyo akunakwenzeka kangako.
Ngaba siyaqhubeka, okanye siyayeka?
Ngaba siyaqhubeka nedabi, okanye ukunikezela?
Ngaba kufuneka sibale ilahleko yethu kwaye songe amandla ethu kwenye into? Okanye ngaba kufuneka sonyuse ukuzibophelela kwethu?
Nayi imibuzo emi-6 ekufuneka uyibuze xa kufuneka uthathe isigqibo ngenye indlela okanye enye.
1. Ngaba uziva ukuba iphupha lisaphila?
Xa siqala ukuba nephupha, sinamandla.
Sifuna ukumisa yonke into kwaye siqale ukusukela.
Siyakholelwa ukuba singalufikelela usukelo ukuba silunika nje okona kulungileyo.
Sinokungcamla uloyiso.
Kodwa ayingawo onke amaphupha aphila ngonaphakade. Ngamanye amaxesha baphulukana nobukhazikhazi babo, bayaphela, kwaye bayafa.
Kulungile.
Ngokucacileyo asinakho ukulandela onke amaphupha esakha saba nawo. Akukho namnye kuthi ophila iminyaka engama-500 yokwenza oko.
Zibuze ke:
Ngaba iphupha lakho lisaphila?
Ngaba kuyakuvuyisa ukucinga ngayo?
Ngaba iphupha lakho lidlamkile njengokuba lalinjalo ngaphambili?
Ukuba kunjalo, kuya kufuneka ushiye ikhosi.
Uninzi lweendlela eziya kumaphupha ethu zijagged kwaye zijikile. Ziphantse zingabi ngumgca othe ngqo.
Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ukuphambuka kuyasinceda kuhambo.
Ngamanye amaxesha iindlela eziphambukayo zicacisa indlela ngendlela engenanto engenye.
Ke, ukuba iphupha lakho liyaphila, sukuncama okwangoku. Unokuba usondele kwimpumelelo kunokuba ucinga.
2. Unawo amandla afunekayo ukuze uqhubeke?
Zonke izinto eziyimfuneko zifuna amandla.
Ukuba ukufikelela kwiinjongo bekulula kwaye kungafuneki mzamo mncinci, wonke umntu ebeya kufikelela.
Kodwa ukufikelela usukelo kufuna umgudu. Eyona njongo inkulu, kokukhona kufuneka umzamo omkhulu.
Abanye abantu bayeka amaphupha abo ngenxa yokuba bephelelwe ngamandla.
Badinwa kakhulu kukuqhubeka.
Kwanokucinga ngosukelo kukhokelela ekubeni babukele umabonwakude okanye balale kancinci. Okanye zombini.
indlela yokuhamba kwaye uqale ubomi obutsha
Ngokuqinisekileyo unoluvo oluhle nokuba unawo na amandla afanelekileyo okufikelela apho uya khona.
Ukwazi ukuba kuya kufuna amandla, yinto efanelekileyo yokuthatha uluhlu lwempahla yakho.
I-Aviator u-Amelia Earhart wakha wathi:
Eyona nto inzima sisigqibo sokuthatha isenzo, okushiyekileyo kukuzimisela.
Ewe ukuzinza kufuna amandla. Ngapha koko, umxholo wokuqina ubonakalisa ukunyamezelana, ukuzingisa, kunye nokuzinza.
Akukho nanye kwezi enokwenzeka ngaphandle kwamandla.
Ngaphandle kwamandla, amandla okuqhubela phambili alahlekile.
Njengemoto ephelelwe yirhasi, okanye ifowuni enebhetri efileyo, okanye umlilo uphuma kwipetroli. Amandla afunekayo ukuze ahambele kwiphupha lethu.
Kodwa nangona uswele amandla ayimfuneko ukulandela iphupha lakho langoku, iphupha elitsha linokukunika amandla ngeendlela ezimangalisayo.
Isenokuba lixesha lokufumana into entsha eya kuthi ibonelele ngamandla afunekayo ukwenza ukuba yenzeke.
Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
- Ukuba uyoyika ukulandela amaphupha akho, funda oku
- Into ekufuneka uyenzile xa amaphupha akho engafezekanga
- Ileta evulekileyo eya kwabo bangenamabhongo, kungekho njongo, kwaye akukho maphupha
- Indlela yokujongana nokuzisola: Iingcebiso ezi-7 ezibalulekileyo!
- Indlela Yokoyisa Imiqobo Ebomini: Amanyathelo ama-6 ekufuneka uwathathe
- Izizathu ezingama-20 zokuzibekela iinjongo zibalulekile ebomini
3. Uqinisekile ukuba ibiliphupha lakho ukuqala ngalo?
Uninzi lwabantu lufumana isiqingatha ekuzalisekeni kwamaphupha abo kuphela ukufumanisa ukuba kwakungazange kube yiphupha labo ukuqala ngalo.
Kwakumiselwe ngaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi kwabo.
- Ngomzali
- Ngumlingane
- Ngomhlobo
-Ngomntu osebenza naye oneenjongo ezintle
Kunzima ngokwaneleyo ukufikelela kwinjongo ecelomngeni xa sithengisiwe ngokupheleleyo ekufikeleleni kuyo. Xa iphupha ngokungathandabuzekiyo lelethu. Xa iyinto esiyifuna ngaphezu kwayo nayiphi na enye into.
Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha iphupha esililandelayo eneneni lelomnye umntu.
Yiphupha labo, hayi elethu.
Nokuba siyintoni na isizathu, siyabanjiswa kukulandela injongo yomnye umntu.
Xa siqonda ukuba kunjalo, kufuneka sitshintshe ingqondo.
Kufuneka sivume ukuba asinayo into eyenzekayo ukufikelela kwinjongo yomnye umntu.
UGeorge Bernard Shaw, owaphumelela amabhaso kaNobel wathi:
Abo bangenako ukutshintsha iingqondo zabo abanakho ukutshintsha nantoni na.
Ycinge. Ukuba silandela iphupha lomnye umntu, akunakulindeleka ukuba sizalisekise.
Kulungile ukuvuma.
Into esingenakukwazi ukuyenza singatshintshi ingqondo yethu.
Ukuba asizitshintshi iingqondo zethu, asizukukwazi ukutshintsha icala.
Ndiyayithanda into ethethwa ngumlobi wenoveli waseMelika uMark Twain:
Imfihlelo yokuqhubela phambili iyaqala.
Ewe kunjalo, sihlala sicinga ukuba oku kusebenza kuphela kwinkqubo yokuqala. Kodwa iyasebenza nasekuqalekeni ngephupha elitsha.
Ukuthatha isigqibo sokwenza utshintsho lelona nyathelo libalulekileyo ekwenzeni utshintsho.
UTwain ukwathe ezona ntsuku zibalulekileyo ebomini bakho lusuku lokuzalwa kwakho kwaye Mhla ufumanisa ukuba kutheni.
Ukufumanisa ukuba 'kutheni' uzalelwe kusondele kakhulu ekuqondeni ukuba ngawaphi amaphupha ekufuneka uwalandele.
Ukwazi eyona nto iphupha lakho kwaye ayingomnye umntu oza kukukhaba kuhambo lwakho.
4. Ngaba ukhe wehla ngenxa yexabiso elitshonile leendleko?
Ngamafutshane, ixabiso elitshonileyo litshonile kwenzeka xa siqhubeka ngokungenangqondo nomsebenzi ongasazifeziyo izinto esizilindeleyo.
Kuyabizwa Iindleko zelanga kuba lixabiso esele singene kulo kwaye asinakho ukuphinda sibuye.
Yimali, ixesha, okanye amandla asele echithiwe.
Sibanjwa kulo mgibe ngeendlela ezininzi.
- Sonyusa ukuzibophelela kwethu kutyalo-mali olusingise emazantsi kuba sele sityale imali eninzi.
Kutheni ndilawula kangaka kubudlelwane bam
- Sihlala kubudlelwane obucace gca ngenxa yokuba sikuloo nto ixesha elide.
-Siyiphinda-phinda iinzame zethu kwiprojekthi ekufuneka siyishiye ngokusisigxina kuba sele sichithe ixesha elininzi kunye nemali kuyo.
Umrhwebi oshishino waseMelika, uPeter Drucker, wayeyingcali kwimveliso. Waqaphela ukuba ixesha elininzi lichithwa ngokuba nobuchule kwinto esingafanelekanga ukuba siyayenza. Uyibeke ngoluhlobo:
Akukho nto ingenamsebenzi njengokwenza ngokufanelekileyo oko kungafanelekanga ukuba kwenziwe kwaphela.
Sinezixhobo ezininzi kuphela ezikhoyo kuthi. Ngokukhawuleza sifunda ukuba yintoni kufanelekile wethu izixhobo, ngcono.
Nanini na xa sivavanya ukuba siqhubeke nokulandela iphupha lethu okanye silincame, kuya kufuneka sazi ngendleko yokuntywila kwisilingo.
Kungenxa yokuba sele sityalile imali kwinto ethile, ayithetheleli ngaphezulu kotyalo-mali.
Ngapha koko, ukuba sityale imali eninzi kuncinane esinokukubonisa kona, inokuba bubungqina obuqinisekileyo lixesha lokutshintsha iigiya.
5. Ngaba ukulungele ukumisela umhla obekiweyo?
Ngamanye amaxesha kuyanceda ukuseta ixesha elimisiweyo lokuba siza kuthatha isigqibo sokuba siqhubele phambili okanye sibuyele umva.
Chonga ixesha elifanelekileyo oza kulisebenzisa, emva koko wenze umnxeba.
Umhla wokugqibela wexesha elizayo bubugcisa ngaphezu kwesayensi. Kodwa ukuba nomhla obekiweyo kuya kukunika ingqalelo.
Kulula ukuncanca ekufuneni injongo kwaye uphulukane nengqondo yexesha kunye nesizathu.
Ngaphambi kokuba sazi, siye satyala imali eninzi kakhulu kunangaphambili. Siyazibuza ukuba sifike njani kweli nqanaba.
Zibekele ixesha elimisiweyo.
Zixelele ukuba ngalo mhla, uya kucinezela okanye ubuye umva.
Yiphawule kwikhalenda yakho. Xa ufika umhla, yenza isigqibo.
Ukuba uziva awukakulungeli ukufika komhla, vuma ukuseta omnye umhla wokugqibela.
Kodwa vumela umhla wokugqibela ube ngowokugqibela. Ukuqhubeka nokuseta umhla obekiweyo yindlela ephucukileyo yokuhlehlisa.
Ngenhlanhla ethile, umhla uya kufika, uya kuthatha isigqibo sokuqhubeka nomzamo, kwaye uya kufinyelela injongo yakho.
Ukuba akunjalo, ukumisela injongo akusafanelekanga kwimizamo yakho lulwazi oluxabisekileyo. Uyakwazi ukusebenzisa izixhobo zakho kwinjongo ebafanele ngakumbi.
6. Ngaba impumelelo ingaba ikufutshane?
Umqambi waseMelika uThomas Edison ubizwa ngokuba:
Uninzi lokusilela kobomi ngabantu abangakhange bayiqonde indlela ababekufuphi ngayo empumelelweni xa bancama.
Ngamanye amaxesha, umzamo nje omncinci uya kuzisa impumelelo.
Ngamanye amaxesha, ukubambelela ithutyana elincinci kuya kusivumela ukuba sifezekise iphupha lethu.
Kodwa uyazi njani ukuba impumelelo ikufutshane nekona okanye amawaka eekhilomitha kude?
Awazi.
Ngaphandle kokuba kwenzeke ukuba ube ngumtsalane. Kwaye ukuba kunjalo, awuyidingi ngokwenene ingcebiso, akunjalo?
Ungasoloko umema umhlobo omthembileyo okanye umntu osebenza naye ukuba akunike uluvo lwabo.
Kodwa ekugqibeleni, kunjalo isigqibo sakho ukwenza.
Umbono owahlukileyo unokukunceda ubone ngokucacileyo kunokuba ubunokubona wedwa. Kodwa kungekudala, ixesha lovavanyo kufuneka liphele kwaye kufuneka uthathe isigqibo.
Kukho amabali amaninzi abantu abadumileyo ababambe nje a mfutshane ngelixa lide bafikelela apho babesiya khona.
Abangenisi abazamile umbono omnye kuphela, kwaye bafumanisa ukutshintsha okutshintsha imbali.
-Ababhali abathumele umbhalo-ngqangi wabo kumvakalisi omnye kuphela, kwaye nomsebenzi wabo wasungulwa.
- Abaphandi abathathe uhambo olunye ngakumbi, kwaye benza imbali ngalo.
Nayi eminye imizekelo.
Incwadi yokuqala kaTheodor Geisel, (uGqirha Seuss) yamkelwa ngabapapashi abangama-27. Kodwa akazange anikezele. Iincwadi zakhe ngoku zithengise iikopi ezingaphezu kwezigidi ezingama-600.
Ngelixa kuphuhliswa i-vacuum yakhe, uJames Dyson wayenama-5,126 ama-prototypes asileleyo kumatshini. Kodwa i-5127th prototype yaphumelela. NgokukaForbes, iDyson ngoku ixabisa i-5 yezigidigidi zeedola.
Ngaba la madoda mabini ayenoluvo lwesithandathu olwalubavumela ukuba babone impumelelo yabo kwikamva?
Akunjalo.
Into ababenayo yayiliphupha elaliphila kakhulu ngaphakathi kwabo.
Kwaye nangona babandezeleka kukusilela okuninzi kunye nokusilela, ngolunye usuku, impumelelo yayilungile ngekona.
Isishwankathelo
Ndiyathemba ukuba le mibuzo mithandathu iyakukunceda xa ufika kwindlela enqumlayo kwaye kufuneka uthathe isigqibo sokuba uqhubeke na okanye ujike umva.
Makhe sizihlolisise.
1. Ngaba uziva ukuba iphupha lisaphila?
Ukuba uyakwenza oko, cinezela phambili. Ukuba iphupha liswelekile, khangela elitsha.
2. Unawo amandla afunekayo ukuze uqhubeke?
Ukugqitywa kuya kufuna amandla. Ukuba awunayo, kuya kuba nzima ukuhamba. Ukuba uyakwenza oko, amathuba akho okuphumelela makhulu kakhulu.
3. Uqinisekile ukuba ibiliphupha lakho ukuqala ngalo?
Kunzima ngokwaneleyo ukufikelela kwiinjongo zethu kunye nokuzalisekisa amaphupha ethu. Kodwa ukuba ulizuz 'ilifa iphupha lomnye umntu, lixesha lokuba uyamkele loo nyani kwaye ukhethe iphupha lakho endaweni yoko.
4. Ngaba ukhe wehla ngenxa yexabiso elitshonile leendleko?
Ixesha langaphambili lokutyala imali, imali, kunye namandla okulandela ayisiyiyo sizathu esihle sokuqhubeka nosukelo. Ukubuya okuphantsi kumzamo wakho wangaphambili kunokwenzeka ukuba umnxeba wokuvuka wokuba injongo kufuneka ishiywe.
5. Ngaba ukulungele ukumisela umhla obekiweyo?
Ixesha elibekiweyo lisinika ukugxila. Nokuba amaxesha abekiweyo ayasebenza ayasebenza. Zisebenzise ukukunceda uthathe isigqibo sokuba ingaba iinjongo kufuneka zibekiwe.
6. Ngaba impumelelo ingaba ikufutshane?
Akukho namnye kuthi owaziyo ngekamva. Kodwa xa sinoluvo lokuba sikufutshane noloyiso, kufanele ukuba siqhubeke nalo.
Kodwa qaphela ukuba obu bubugcisa ngakumbi kunenzululwazi. Intuition inokudlala indima eluncedo, kodwa akukho fomula.
Ndiyathemba ukuba le mibuzo mithandathu iya kukunceda uthathe isigqibo sokuba ubambelele kwimipu yakho okanye uyeke umlo. Nokuba kuya kufuneka ulandele amaphupha akho okanye kuya kufuneka uyeke.
