Unomsebenzi, uhlawula amatyala.
Unophahla phezu kwentloko yakho.
Unezothutho. Unosapho lwakho.
Yintoni enye enokubakho ebomini?
Iijoni zeenyosi zilifumene njani igama lazo
Yintoni enye enokubakho ebomini bakho?
Ungu Umxholo ogqibeleleyo , kunene? Vuka yonke imihla kusasa, uye emsebenzini, ufike ekhaya, utye isidlo sangokuhlwa, bukela umabonwakude omncinci, ulale, vuka uphinde uyenze kwakhona.
Akukho nto yoyikayo kuloo nto.
Yima…
Ngaba obu bubomi bakho bamaphupha?
Uyabona, intliziyo yakho lilizwi lakho eliyinyani.
Ingqondo yakho iyakukulahlekisa kuphela ngenxa yokuba ibekwe ngolu hlobo, ngokunokwenzeka kususela ekuzalweni.
Ingqondo yakho ibekelwe imeko kholelwa ukuba awulunganga ngokwaneleyo , ukuba amaphupha akho anjalo, amaphupha.
Ingqondo yakho iya kukuxelela ukuba woyike eyona nto ilangazelelwa yintliziyo yakho. Olu luloyiko oluya kukugcina ungafezekisi amaphupha akho.
Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ukhathazeke nangona, kuba akukaze kube semva kwexesha ukuqala kuhambo oluza emaphupheni akho.
Uya kuzibuza ukuba kutheni ungakhange wenze le nto ubomi bakho bonke.
Masiqalise….
Chaza ngokucacileyo amaphupha akho
Ngoku, ndithetha ukuthini apha kukucwangcisa ixesha, imizuzu engama-30-45 inokwanela.
Bhala into ethi qatha engqondweni yakho okanye ebisoloko ikho kodwa ube ungayihoyi okanye woyike ukubeka amagama.
Nokuba uphupha ntoni, injongo yakho, umnqweno wakho kukuba, bhala phantsi .
Qiniseka ukuba uchitha ixesha elininzi kweli nyathelo kuba uyakubeka olu luhlu apho lubonakala khona kuwe lonke - lelona nyathelo libaluleke kakhulu.
Yiba nomfanekiso-ngqondweni wamaphupha akho
Oku kubonakala kukuzichaza, kodwa ngaba kunjalo?
njani ukuthandana kwakhona
Oku akuyi kuba yinkcitho yexesha, kodwa yenye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo onokuzenza ekufumaneni nasekufezekiseni iinjongo kunye namaphupha akho (okwesihlandlo sesibini kolu luhlu).
Lo mkhwa (ekugqibeleni umkhwa) ulula kodwa unzulu kwaye nantsi into ekufuneka uyenzile.
Iphupha olinqwenela kakhulu, cinga ngalo ngoku, vala amehlo kwaye uzibeke kwelo phupha.
Zibeke ngokwasemzimbeni apho. Ukuva ivumba elikufutshane nawe, uve ilanga, nomoya. Bona zonke iinkcukacha kubantu abakungqongileyo, iintyatyambo, ulwandle, izitalato, izilwanyana.
Yiva izandi, amaza engqubeka, imithi ibethwa yimpepho, iintaka ziyakhala, umculo uyadlala, imvula ina.
Nokuba uphupha ntoni, zitshonise kwimeko yakho.
Zilahle ngokupheleleyo, thatha imizuzu emi-5 kwaye uzame ngoku …….
Iimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo oza kuzifumana kulo mkhwa ziya kukuqhubela ekubeni uthathe inyathelo, kwaye inyathelo liya kwenza la maphupha abe yinyani.
Uyabona ukuba kutheni kubaluleke kangaka ngoku?
Thatha inyathelo-Musa ukulibazisa
Ngaphandle kwamanyathelo, akukho nto inokwenzeka.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, kukho ithuba kwaye ithuba liyenzeka ngamanye amaxesha, kodwa ngaba uyafuna ukubushiya ubomi bakho kunye namaphupha akho abe lithuba?
Inombolo yokuqala onokuyithatha kule yesibini kukuyeka ukuzilazila.
Kuya kufuneka uyeke ukuhlehlisa kude kube ngomso le nto ufuna yenziwe namhlanje.
Andiziva ndinomdla ngayo nantoni na
Awunakuze ufumane izolo, loo mzuzu, ubuye kwakhona.
Amanyathelo akufuneki abe zizenzo ezinkulu. Banokuba lula njengokubhala isivakalisi esinye, igama elinye okanye ubungangamsha njengokuthengisa zonke izinto zakho kunye nokuhambahamba emhlabeni.
Ubunzima besenzo ayisiyonto ibalulekileyo sisenzo ngokwaso esibalulekileyo.
Ukuqhubela phambili isenzo, kuyakhuthaza, kuyakhuthaza, kwaye kukuhambisa inyathelo elinye usondele kwiinjongo kunye namaphupha akho.
Ukungaguquguquki -Khuthalela
Kuhlala kusithiwa malunga nexesha umntu anikezela ngalo emaphupheni okanye kwiinjongo zakhe ngumzuzu nje ezo njongo kunye namaphupha ebeya kuzaliseka.
Iimbaleki eziphumeleleyo aziqeqeshanga usuku olunye kwaye zibe zezona zibalaseleyo kwicandelo labo.
Amaxesha amaninzi ezi mbaleki bezilolonga, beziqeqesha kwaye bewonga ubugcisa babo iminyaka, amaxesha ngamaxesha, uninzi lobomi babo.
Bayaphumelela kuba bayangqinelana kwaye bakhuthele kunye nemisebenzi yemihla ngemihla efanayo imihla ngemihla nangosuku.
Ke, nokuba yeyiphi indlela 'yokufika phaya,' kufuneka yenziwe yonke imihla ngokuhambelana okufanayo nangokukhuthala okufanayo ukuze babe yinyani.
Ayizukwenzeka ngequbuliso, nantoni na efanele ukufunyanwa okanye ukwenziwa kunqabile ukuba yenzeke.
Kungathatha iminyaka, kodwa eyona nto iphambili apha kukuba ungaze uyeke ukuncama ayisoze ibe yindlela.
Uza ku udimazeke . Xa oku kusenzeka, buyela umva, thatha imizuzu emihlanu, elishumi okanye uthathe usuku ukudideka.
into yokudlala xa udikiwe ekhaya
Thatha ixesha lakho ngokwakho, wenze into ekuzalisa ngovuyo.
Khumbula ukuba kutheni uqale olu hambo kwasekuqaleni kwaye uyakubona isimo sakho sengqondo kunye notshintsho lomoya, kwaye uya kuvuselelwa.
Yiba Bhetyebhetye
Zininzi iindlela zokufika apho ufuna ukuya khona okanye apho ufuna ukuba khona.
Ungafumanisa ukuba iseti yezenzo oqhele ukuzenza yonke imihla ngesiquphe akubonakali ngathi ziyasebenza okanye zibonakala ngathi aziziva 'zilungile' kwakhona.
Akukho zimiselweyo kwimithetho yamatye ekufuneka uyilandele okanye uyilandele ukuze uphumelele.
Ukuba ubona ukuba kukho into engasebenziyo thatha ixesha elithile ukuphinda ujonge kwakhona into onokuyenza ukuyitshintsha .
Cinga ngayo macala onke, zonke iimbono.
Thatha ixesha lokuhlengahlengisa isicwangciso sakho.
Kuyimfuneko ukuba ubhetyebhetye kwaye yinto ongayi kuba nakho ukuyiphepha ukuba ufuna ukuphumelela ekufumaneni amaphupha akho.
Ukuququmbela
Ngaphandle kokuqonda, ulungile ngoku ukoyisa uloyiko onalo ekulandeleni amaphupha akho.
Ngelixa ufunda le nto, khange woyike.
Ycinge…. Wakhelwe ukulandela kunye nokwakha amaphupha akho.
Ungaphezulu kokukwazi, ngoku thatha inyathelo.
Ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba ungayeka njani uloyiko lwamaphupha akho? Thetha kumqeqeshi wobomi namhlanje onokuhamba kwinkqubo. Cofa nje apha ukudibanisa nenye.
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