Amaphupha… sonke sinawo, kodwa asingabo bonke abafikelela kwizigqibo zethu.
Ngelixa usalinde ukuba amaphupha akho azaliseke, unokufumana kuluncedo ukuya kuwo ngale ndlela ilandelayo.
Ngamaphupha, ndithetha malunga nexesha elide iinjongo okanye amabhongo ezibaluleke kakhulu kuwe, kodwa ingcebiso apha ikwanyanisekile ngokufanelekileyo kwiinjongo ezincinci, zexesha elifutshane.
Sebenza nzima
Akufane uhlangane nabantu abathe baphumelela amaphupha abo ngaphandle komgudu othile. Ukuba amaphupha akho awazaliseki, kunjalo unamandla yimeko yokuba nje ungafaki ulweliso olunzima ngokwaneleyo.
Andizami ukuthi khange uzame ndizama ukubuza ukuba ungazama ngakumbi na. Kufana nokukhwela intaba- unokufikelela kwincopho enye kwaye ucinge ukuba yintlanganiso, kuphela ukufumanisa ukuba ukunyuka okuthe kratya kukuphakamela. Ekugqibeleni, nangona uqhubeka, uya kufikelela phezulu.
umthemba njani umntu oxokile
Umsebenzi okrelekrele
Ukunyanzelwa kunye nomzamo akusoloko kuyindlela elungileyo ukuthatha xa uleqa amaphupha akho ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka ubasondele kubo ngokwembono yengqondo.
Malia obama kunye rory farquharson
Thatha inyathelo ubuye umva okomzuzwana kwaye ujonge into oyenzileyo ukuza kuthi ga ngoku ukufezekisa amaphupha akho nokuba kutheni kungakhange kusebenze. Emva koko zithelekelele zonke izinto onokuzenza ngokwahlukileyo kwaye uzibeke ngokulandelelana ukuba zingaphumelela njani. Emva koko qalisa ukubazama.
Inokukunceda ukuba ujonge iphupha lakho njengendawo yokugqibela oya kuyo kwaye ucebe ikhosi edlula ngamanqaku ahlukeneyo apha endleleni. Nje ukuba ucinge ngayo, unokuqonda ukuba ukusuka ku-A kuye ku-B kuthetha ukudlula ku-C, D, kunye no-E ngaphambili, nokuba kubonakala kungenangqondo kangakanani.
Cela Uncedo
Njengoko nditshoyo kwifayile yam inqaku elithetha ngeempawu eziqhelekileyo zabantu abonwabileyo , ndicela uncedo ngumqondiso wamandla. Ukuba uyazi umntu othile owayenephupha elifanayo nelakho ngoku, kwaye lazaliseka, thetha nabo ukuze ufumane ukuba benze ntoni ukuze balifezekise.
Kwaye ukuba awazi mntu, phuma uye kukhangela kubo. Kukho iingcali kunye nabantu abaphumeleleyo phantse kuwo onke amabakala onokucinga kwaye abanye baya konwaba ukukuqeqesha ngokubhekisele kwiinjongo zakho okanye bakunike isiqwenga esilahlekileyo sephazili.
Ungayikhawulezisa inkqubela oyenzayo ngokufunda kwabo bahambe kule ndlela uyihambayo ngoku.
Hambisa kwisicwangciso B
Ayizizo zonke amaphupha onawo aya kuzaliseka- ukukholelwa ngenye indlela kukumisela ukuphoxeka. Ukuba ukhe wazama yonke into onokuyenza ukuze uphumeze iphupha lakho kwaye usazokufika ngokufutshane, into ebhadlileyo onokuyenza kukuya kwisicwangciso B.
Ukuqhubeka nephupha osele ulinike yonke into hayi inkani nje , ngokuqinisekileyo ayinampilo.
Kodwa ngenxa yokuba elinye iphupha lingazalisekanga, akukho sizathu sokucinga ukuba awukwazi ukuphumeza elinye. Ngapha koko, imbali igcwele imizekelo yabantu abaphumeleleyo abathi ekuqaleni bazama isandla sabo kwinto eyahluke ngokupheleleyo: umyili uVera Wang ekuqaleni wasukela iphupha lokuba ngumdlali weqonga waseOlimpiki, kodwa wangena kwimfashini emva kokusilela ukwenza iqela laseMelika, kunye nokumkanikazi wasekhaya UMartha Stewart uchithe iminyaka eliqela ezama ukwenza ubutyebi bakhe njengomthengisi-sitokhwe eWall Street ngaphambi kokuba abe ngumnini bhiliyoni we-TV, umbhali kunye nomnini weshishini.
Ngubani indoda yedoli parton
Obo buhle bamaphupha - unokwenza amatsha nangaliphi na ixesha, nokuba umncinci okanye mdala kangakanani.
Vavanya kwakhona amaxesha akho
Akunakusoloko ufuna ukutshintshela kwisicwangciso B ngamaphupha akho kusenokwenzeka ukuba konke okufuneka ukwenze kukucinga kwakhona malunga nexesha elibekiweyo lokuba bazalisekise.
Konke kulungile kwaye kulungile ukuthi uya kuba ngusodolophu wedolophu yasekhaya uneminyaka engama-30 kunye ne-congressman engama-35, okanye uza kuvula iivenkile ezingama-50 kumazwe ama-5 kule minyaka mihlanu izayo, kodwa izinto azenzi ' Ndihlala ndicwangcisa.
Ayisiyonto ingaqhelekanga ukuba izinto zithathe ixesha elide kunokuba ubulindele, ke yiba bhetyebhetye ngamaxesha akho kwaye ungacingi ukuba ukuwahambisa kwikamva kufana nokusilela.
Yibambe
Ngamanye amaxesha awufuni nje ukucinga malunga nokuba iphupha lingathatha ixesha elingakanani ukuzaliseka kufuneka uqwalasele ixesha elifanelekileyo lokuba uqale nokulandela.
Kuxhomekeke kuzo zonke ezinye izinto eziqhubeka ebomini bakho, mhlawumbi ngoku ayiloxesha elifanelekileyo lokuzama ukufezekisa amabhongo akho amakhulu.
indlela yokwenza umntu akuxolele ngokubakhathaza
Ngelixa kwezinye iimeko, uya kunyanzelwa ukuba uthathe amanyathelo ngenxa yobudala bakho-emva kwayo yonke loo nto, awuyi kuyenza iqela le-NBA All-Star ukuba uthatha i-basketball nge-40 - amaphupha amaninzi ahlala eyinyani nokuba uqala nini ukuleqa.
Ncama
Ndiza kuyiphinda inqaku lam langaphambili lokuba ukulandela iphupha ngaphaya kweendawo zokwenyani akunampilo. Ngelixa unokukhetha ukutshintshela kwelinye iphupha uye kwelinye, kukho enye indlela.
Unokuza ekuqondeni ukuba amaphupha ahlala engekho oko eqhekeke ukuba abe kuko. Abanye abantu bayasebenza kwaye abanye abayenzi. Xa ufumanisa ukuba ukuleqa amaphupha akukwenzi wonwabe, kodwa endaweni yoko kukuhlisa, isisombululo sokugqibela kukuyeka ukuwaleqa.
Njengoko ndizama ukucacisa kwifayile yam inqaku ngobume beZen , umzuzu wangoku uphelele apho. Ukuba uchitha ixesha elide kakhulu uleqa iphupha, awusoze ulifumane ixesha lokonwabela umzuzu owenzekayo ngoku.
Ngaba unamaphupha angekazaliseki? Thetha nomqeqeshi wobomi namhlanje onokukunceda uqulunqe ezintsha. Cofa nje apha ukudibanisa nenye.
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