Ndifuana u yeka ukuba neenkani ? Zama le hypnosis - lutyalomali olukhulu kuwe.
Ibhalansi sisitshixo sempumelelo kwiindawo ezininzi zobomi…
Awufuni ukuba nzima kakhulu, kodwa awufuni ukuthamba kakhulu.
Kufuneka uzithembe kubuchule bakho nakulwazi, kodwa kuya kufuneka ukwazi ukubona xa ungalunganga kwaye wamkele umntu onokuthi azi ngcono.
Uninzi lwezinto ezintle azakhelwanga zodwa-ziinzame zeqela. Ubuhlobo, ubudlelwane, amashishini, nayiphi na inzame yokusebenzisana bayayakha xa abantu bemanyana kwaye besebenza kunye.
abantu abadala abangahloniphiyo abahlala ekhaya
Isifundo sicacile: musa ukuvumela inkani yakho ithintele inkqubela phambili enentsingiselo!
Kodwa, ukusebenza ukunciphisa ubulukhuni akuthethi ukuba kuya kufuneka uzivumele ukuba uhambe wonke okanye uxhatshazwe. Ngamanye amaxesha kuye kufuneke ubambe umhlaba xa usazi ukuba unyanisile.
Isitshixo kukuba fumana ibhalansi wazi ukuba uza nini yimani niqinile kwaye wazi nini ukuvumela izinto zihambe okanye uvumele omnye umntu ukuba abe nendlela yakhe.
Injongo yokuzabalazela kukuqinisekisa ukuba nayiphi na impembelelo embi kubomi bakho okanye kwimpilo-ntle yakho ibalwa kwinkqubo yakho yokwenza izigqibo njengenxalenye yokuqwalaselwa kwakho.
Ngoba?
Kungenxa yokuba ngamanye amaxesha uya kutyiwa ngumoya wolungelelwaniso kunye nokusebenza kunye, ngakumbi kubudlelwane bobuqu. Nabanye abantu baya kwenjenjalo.
Inkani inokujika ibe yityhefu kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zobomi kuba abantu abaneenkani bahlala bengaziqwalaseli iimvakalelo zabantu ababangqongileyo. Oku kwenza ukuba abo bantu bazive ngathi iimvakalelo zabo okanye iingcinga zabo azibalulekanga.
Leyo yindlela ekhawulezayo nesebenzayo yokutshabalalisa ukuthembela ngokupheleleyo kwaye usete nayiphi na inkqubela phambili oyenzileyo.
Umntu uyeka njani ukuba nenkani kangaka?
Ewe, okuninzi kuxhomekeke ekubeni kutheni unenkani.
Kutheni Ndingumntu Onenkani?
Kukho abanye abantu abanembono yokuzimela bodwa. Ababajongi nje abantu ababangqongileyo njengabanakho okanye abanakho ukwenza ngokwemigangatho abayinqwenelayo.
Bajonga isenzo okanye ukhetho lomnye umntu kwaye bagqiba kwelokuba banokwenza ngcono ngokwabo! Bacinga ukuba bagqibelele. Ayinakusilela.
Kutheni uzikhathaza ngokuzama ukusebenza okanye uqonde umbono womnye umntu xa bengazukuwulungisa kakuhle?
Oku kugqithisileyo kweenkani kunokwalatha kwimicimbi ethile yobuntu emntwini, njenge-narcissism.
Kodwa… oku hayi uninzi lwabantu abaneenkani.
Uninzi lwabantu abaneenkani abazidli ngokwabo kangangokuba abanako ukusebenza kwaphela nomnye umntu.
Uninzi alunenkani ngalo lonke ixesha, ngamaxesha athile xa olo phawu lubangela kubo.
Isenokuba ibotshelelwe kuloo mntu. Basenokungatshintshi izinto kuba baziva ukuba bangobani. Banokufuna ukwenza izinto ngendlela ethile kuba beziva ukuba kufanele ukuba kwenziwe njalo.
Abanye abantu baziva ngathi ukuba neenkani kuphela kwendlela yokufumana into abayifunayo okanye abayifunayo ebomini.
Bayala ukusebenza nabanye kuba babona ukulalanisa njengobuthathaka endaweni yamandla okuko.
Lo mntu usenokuba uthathe ithuba okanye akahoywa ngegalelo labo elidlulileyo, kwaye ke baya kugqithisela ukuqinisekisa ukuba akwenzeki kwakhona.
Kwaye ke unabantu abafuna nje ukuziva ngathi bayalawula. Oko kunokukhomba kwinani leengxaki ezahlukeneyo ezinje ukungathembani , ukungazithembi, okanye ixhala ngokubanzi.
Ukungabikho kolawulo kunokuziva kukucaphukisa kuba kuyadibana kwinkqubo yengqondo abazama ukuyiphelisa ngokuzama ukulawula imeko okanye imeko engqongileyo.
Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
- Ungakuyeka Njani Ukugxeka Ngobomi
- Indlela yokuyeka ukuphindaphinda iimpazamo ezifanayo nangaphezulu
- Ukujongana nabantu abangaze baXolise okanye bavume ukuba baphosakele
Ndingayeka Njani Ukuba ngumntu Onenkani?
Thina ngokwenene Ndicebisa ukuba uzame le hypnosis elula ekhokelwa njengoko inokusebenza kakhulu ekuncedeni ukutshintsha indlela ocinga ngayo kwaye ubone iimeko nabantu ngokwahlukileyo.
1. Gcina isigwebo komnye umntu okanye kwindlela yokwenza.
Abantu bathanda ukutsiba kwangoko kwisiphelo kwinto abaziva ngathi iza kuzisa iziphumo ezilungileyo okanye ezimbi. Abantu abaninzi abayiqondi amandla okhetho lwesithathu-ukugcina isigwebo sabo.
Endaweni yokufikelela kwisigqibo esifanelekileyo okanye esibi, vele uthathe ulwazi kwaye uliqwalasele. Oko kuya kukugcina ungatsiba kwangoko kwimpendulo yeemvakalelo.
Ukuthobeka akukho malunga nokuba sezantsi kunomnye umntu. Imalunga nokubamba wonke umntu kwinqanaba elilinganayo, kubandakanya nawe.
Ngokwenza njalo, unako yeka ukwenza izigqibo ngokukhawuleza malunga neengcinga zomnye umntu, ubuchule bakhe, ukhetho lwezenzo zakhe, okanye indlela ahamba ngayo ngokuphila ubomi bakhe.
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Banokuba nezizathu ezifanelekileyo zokwenza ukhetho abalwenzayo. Izizathu onokuthi ungazazi. Izizathu ongakhange uziqwalasele.
2. Zikhumbuze ukuba ungumntu nje, kwaye awusoloko ulungile.
Ukutshekishwa kwe-ego kufanele kube yinto ethobisayo. Umntu kufuneka akhumbule ukuba banye ngengqondo enye kulwandle lwezigidi zezigidi.
Zininzi ezinye iimbono kunye neembono apha phandle, kunye nabantu abanikele ngobomi babo ekuqondeni izifundo ezithile.
Awusoloko ulungile kwaye kulungile.
Akukho mntu ukhe abe njalo.
Yiyo loo nto ukusebenzisana kunye nengxelo yangaphandle kunokuba luncedo ebomini bakho.
Unelungelo lokujonga kunye nezimvo zakho, kodwa ke wonke umntu unjalo.
3. Sebenzisa amanyathelo amancinci ukwakha ukuthembana nabanye abantu.
Isenzo sokusebenzisa amanyathelo amancinci ukwakha ukuthembana nabanye abantu sikunika ithuba lokubona ukuba bangabantu abanjani ngaphambi kokwenza utyalomali olubalulekileyo.
Kukho abanye abantu abavumela nayiphi na inkululeko okanye amandla ukuba aye ngqo entloko. Zihlala zilula kakhulu ukuzibona xa zinikwa indlela eyoneleyo yokubonisa ukuba zingobani kanye kanye.
Eli linyathelo lokuqala elifanelekileyo ukuba unengxaki nabantu abasebenzisa gwenxa ukuthembela kwakho kwixa elidlulileyo.
Akuyimfuneko - okanye nokuba yinto efanelekileyo-ukuphosa nje ukuvula iingcango kwaye uthembele umntu ngentliziyo epheleleyo ngaphandle kwanoma yiluphi uhlobo lokuhlola. Oko kuya kukubona uthathelwa indawo ngabantu abanetyhefu okanye abonakalisayo.
4. Vumela abantu babe nendlela yabo kwimicimbi ebalulekileyo kubo engagxekekiyo kuwe.
Ulungelelwaniso sisakhono. Ngamanye amaxesha kuthetha ukuvumela umntu ukuba enze indlela yakhe kwinto avakalelwa kukuba ibalulekile.
Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ube sisigqibo sokuqala okanye umqhubi emva kwesigqibo ngasinye. Kwaye kunika isibonelelo esongeziweyo sokuvumela abanye abantu bazive ngathi batyale imali kuyo nayiphi na into ozama ukuyifeza.
Ukukwazi ukulalanisa ikhuthaza ubudlelwane obusondeleyo nentembelo enzulu.
Musa ukumela ukuxhatshazwa okanye ukuxhatshazwa, kodwa vumela abanye abantu babe nendlela yabo kwizinto ezithile, nokuba oko kuthetha ukuba ungenzi izinto ngokufanelekileyo njengoko ungathanda.
indlela yokufumana uthando ngakumbi kwisithandwa sakho
Kuyanceda ukuba abantu bafunde ngokwenza, kwaye oko kuyekelela ulawulo kunye nokuvumela omnye umntu akhokele.
Isitshixo kukuqala ngokujonga ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani isigqibo okanye umsebenzi kuwe. Uya kukufumanisa kunzima ukushiya izintso kwizinto ezibaluleke kakhulu kuwe.
Ke vumela abanye abantu bathathe uxanduva lwemicimbi engabalulekanga apho ungayi kuva umnqweno ovuthayo wokungenelela kwaye ubenze benze ngendlela yakho.
Emva koko, jonga indlela oziva ngayo ukuvumela omnye umntu aziphathe. Cinga ngezibonelelo ezinazo njengokungafuni ukuchitha ixesha lakho elininzi ucinga okanye ucwangcisa.
Ngaba yayimbi okanye yayinzima ngendlela owawucinga ngayo?
5. Yiba nomonde kwaye ube nobubele nesiqu sakho njengoko uzama ukwenza olu tshintsho.
Utshintsho alwenzeki ngobusuku obunye. Kucelomngeni, kufuna ixesha, kwaye kuthatha umzamo ongaguquguqukiyo wokutshintsha eyona ndawo iphambili kubuntu bakho. Inkani ayihlukanga.
Mhlawumbi uza kwenza iimpazamo kwaye utyibilike. Uya kuthatha izigqibo ezimbi kwaye izinto zingahambi kakuhle. Uza kumba izithende zakho xa kufanele ukuba uyeke uyeke xa kufanelekile ukuba ume emhlabeni.
Kulungile kodwa. Yonke yinxalenye yenkqubo iyonke yokuziphucula.
Zixolele kwaye uzame kwakhona ukuba umoshile. Okukhona usenza, kokukhona kuya kuba lula ukufumana ixesha kunye nokuzilolonga. Ekugqibeleni, ubulukhuni bakho buya kuguquka bube sisimo esifanelekileyo kunye nokuxhomekeka kwimeko ethile.
Ngaba oku kucamngca kunokukhokelwa kungakunceda yeka ukuba neenkani ? Sicinga njalo.
