Ngaba udelela ngokungathembeki kwindalo yomntu kunye neenjongo zakho?
Ngaba ulindele okona kubi emva koko uqhayise xa- ukumangaliswa kokumangaliswa kweli hlabathi- kwenzeka okona kubi kakhulu?
Unayo i- 'Well, actually…,' 'Ungadlali igqwetha likaSathana, kodwa ...,' kwaye 'Eqhelekileyo, eqhelekile…' iluncedo maxa onke ukubonisa ukuba abantu baphazamile… kuba abantu bahlala bengalunganga?
U… ungumkhwa wokugxeka.
Abantu bayakuphepha ngenxa yale nto, uyazi. Une-lettuce yedank kwisaladi yobomi.
Musa ukuba lettuce yedank.
Kukho iindlela onokuthi uwukhulule ngayo lo mbanjwa wokufa kubunyani bakho.
Kwaye ungakhe ulinge ucinge 'Abayi kusebenza, oku ngokucacileyo kuyintsomi.'
1. Ngokugxeka ngokuKhulu kuza noxanduva olukhulu
Umbono wakho wehlabathi ukuba uyintoni, unoxanduva lokungafunisi ubomi kuyo yonke incoko ongena kuyo.
Umba wenene, unoxanduva lokungaqiniseki esidlangalaleni kunakwindawo yabucala. Uyakukufezekisa oku ngokukhupha i-cynicism yakho kwinto encinci, elawulwayo.
Nokuba umhlaba uyafunxa kwaye abantu bayaphindaphindeka ngooqongqothwane bobulongwe, ayinguye na kuthi sonke ukuba siqiniseke ukuba asiyincedi incancise okungakumbi?
2. Bona Okuhle
Ewe. Vuka uthethe eli lizwi Ewe ngamaxesha ngamaxesha. I-Altruism iqala ngegama elincinci.
Khumbula ezi nyaniso: abantwana bahleka yonke imihla abathandi bayamanga yonke imihla iipayi zenziwa kuba unyawo yonke imihla…
Abaphambukeli bancedisa abantu abangabaziyo abahlobo ukunganga intswela-bulungisa kujongwana nobugcisa obumangalisayo buyenziwa, uninzi lwayo ngenxa yendalo kwaye hayi ukuqubuda kurhwebo ...
uyeka njani ukuthetha
Inzululwazi iphantse yafika kumanqanaba eSpock, kwaye indalo iphela isebenzisa izicubu ezinxibelelanayo ngokumangalisayo kubo bonke abemi bayo.
Ndiyazi ukuba kuninzi ekufuneka ndikuthathile. Ndiza kukunika okomzuzwana.
Kwenye indawo kuyo yonke loo nto, kuya kufuneka uqaphele ukuba nokuba zimbi kangakanani na izinto aziveli nje kodwa fumana , okulungileyo akukaze kube kude kunokujonga nje kude.
Kwaye uyaqonda ukuba abantu mhlawumbi, mhlawumbi, banesidima kunokuba ubucinga.
3. Thatha umphunga
Ngokwenene. Phuma phandle, ngena emotweni yakho, uye epakini okanye ehlathini, kwaye uthathe umoya.
Abagxeki abaqapheli ngokubanzi ukuba babamba kangaphi umphefumlo wabo.
Yimpendulo ekhathazayo. Umntu othile ubonakalisa eyona nto imbi kubo, umgxeki - otyhafileyo - ubambe umphefumlo wakhe. Okomzuzwana nje. Kodwa loo mizuzu iyadibanisa.
Ioksijini. Phinda umisele isingqisho sangaphakathi. Tsala umphefumlo. Khupha umphunga. Phola.
Inkcazo yabaGxeki, Icandelo 2
Ukuchaphazeleka kuphela kwiminqweno yomntu kunye nokungahoyi imigangatho eyamkelweyo okanye efanelekileyo ukuze ayiphumeze.
Masimise kwasekuqaleni: ezopolitiko yinto yokugxeka. Amashishini amashishini ayimicimbi yokugxeka ngokupheleleyo. Abantu bafakwe ikhowudi yemfuza ukuba babe zii-narcissists zekhabethe.
Zonke ziyinyani.
Kodwa kukho ulungelelwaniso kuyo yonke into.
Ukuba sinethamsanqa, omnye kwabapolitiki abalishumi uhloniphekile kwaye uthatha indima yabo njengomsebenzi woluntu ngentliziyo.
Ukuba sinethamsanqa, ayisiyiyo yonke indibano evuyayo kumgangatho wayo wokuba namalungelo amaninzi 'njengomntu' kunawe nabamelwane bakho.
Ukuba sinethamsanqa, abantu bazityhila ukuba bangaphezulu kwenani lamalungu abo.
Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
- Iimpawu zeTelltale zomntu okrakra (kunye nendlela yokuphatha enye)
- Indlela yokuGweba kancinci kwaye uyeke ukugweba abantu (kwaye nesiQinisekiso sakho) Ke ngokuQatha
- Ungabamkela njani abanye ukuba bangoobani (endaweni yokuba ufuna babe banjani)
- Abantu abaneengqondo ezivulekileyo banazo ezi mpawu zili-15 zikhethekileyo
5. Zityhile
Kunganzima ukuyamkela… kodwa okuninzi okuya ekugxekeni kubangelwa luloyiko. Kwaye senza ntoni xa sisoyika? Siyafihla.
Sifihla ngasemva kwemiphetho. Sakha iindonga zokukhusela kwiingxelo zeengubo.
Ukuba ufuna ukuyeka ukuhlala unentembelo ngalo lonke ixesha, cima la mabinzana alandelayo kwisigama sakho semihla ngemihla:
“Wonke umntu uhlala…”
“Abantu ba…”
“Ayisoze yasilela…”
“Ewe ba…”
Enye indlela yokuthetha uxolo ngokulahleka kwakho
Zama ukudiliza iindonga ozakhileyo. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba wazakha ukuze ungaboni abanye, kodwa ziye zaphakama kakhulu kangangokuba akukho mntu unokukubona. Nokuba sele ulibele ukuba ujongeka njani ngaphandle kwendonga 'emnyama.
Zityhile. Kutheni woyika? Sukuba nexhala lokuba woyika izinto. Kulungile ukuba woyike. Kodwa yazi ukuba kutheni. Ukudibanisa eli qhina kuhlala kulususa uloyiko ngqo.
Izitena ezimbalwa eludongeni lwakho, kokukhona ukukhanya kufikelela kuwe.
ukuqala njani kwakhona ubudlelwane kwasekuqaleni
6. Zijikeleze nge Abantu abaqinisekileyo
Nokuba umgxeki kum uthatha inqanaba leziko amaxesha ngamaxesha, endenza ukuba ndilangazelele ukuhlala ndedwa, indlu enzulu kumthi omnandi, kwaye mhlawumbi isiphekepheke esinolungelelwaniso kwiplanethi yam yabucala.
Ke nantsi into endiyenzileyo ukubayindlela enjalo: Ndenze i-screensaver se-puter yam.
Ayisiyiyo nayiphi na isikrini. Ndenze iScreensaver O 'eyoyikisayo. I-chock egcwele imifanekiso yabantu abenza ukuba ndonwabe kakhulu ndingakwazi ukukhama. Sonke sisebenzisa iifoto zabathandekayo njengezikrini, kodwa sihlala sizikrwitsha kaninzi kangakanani ezo foto zinefuthe eliphezulu?
Khetha iifoto zabahlobo kunye nabo bancuma kuwe kumgama omkhulu we-intanethi. Sebenzisa kuphela loo malungu osapho aphakamisa into ethe ngqo kuwe. Yongeza iifoto zeendawo kunye neziganeko ezibangela iinkumbulo ezimyoli.
Isenzo sokuphelisa ialbham enjalo siyakugxotha ukugxeka kwelinye igumbi, kodwa ndikufumanisa kunzima ukuba nomsindo ngokuchasene neentsimbi zobuntu xa iifoto zoqobo zivela ngexesha lokuzola ngemini yam yekhompyuter kwaye ujikeleze njengeyona galari inkulu ikhuthazayo umhlaba.
7. Inyathelo elikude kwiNdaba yeendaba
Ndifumana ukuba ufuna ukuzijonga unolwazi. Iyancomeka kakhulu loo nto. Ngaba unolwazi olwaneleyo, nangona kunjalo, ngeqela leentloko ezigqumayo ezinxibe iisuti zoyilo kunye nelokhwe efunda iincwadi zeempendulo ezibhalwe yi-ofisi yequmrhu?
Newsflash: ezo ayizondaba.
Udla umsindo kunye noloyiko kunye nokuthelekelela. Uchitha ukuthengisa kwimpahla ye-anchorperson. Wena, mhlobo wam, ugcwele kwi-hogwash.
Mka kude kuloo nto, okanye ufune izizathu ezinengxolo, ezingekho zingxolayo zolwazi lokwenyani.
Leyo yidayimani ekunzima ukuyifumana kwezi ntsuku, ewe, kodwa enye indlela uziva ngokungathi ufuzo lobuntu lufuna i-chlorine enzulu, kwaye leyo yimvakalelo eyoyikisayo yokurenta ubuchopho kwindawo.
8. Ingqondo Ibhalansi Beam
Le ifuna ukuqiniswa rhoqo.
Ukuba uthi abantu bayancanca, kufuneka uvume nabantu ababalaseleyo ebomini bakho.
Ukuba uthi abantu abathembekanga , kufuneka unike ingqwalaselo efanelekileyo kwabo bantu ubuya kubabeka kubo ubomi bakho.
Ukuba ucinga ukuba akukho nto iyakuze itshintshe, khumbula okuhle okwenzekileyo kuwe okanye kumntu omaziyo.
Ukujonga umqadi webhalansi kufana nokuhlola ukungqinisisa. Ubomi bunqabile nokuba yinto okanye ihlala iyinto enye ngaxeshanye kwimbiza edidayo, egqumayo enokuthi ngamanye amaxesha inuke ubuthixo kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ikwenza ube luhlaza ngesicaphucaphu.
Kulungile ukukhalaza ngobomi. UDonald Trump ngandlel 'ithile waba ngumongameli wase-US. Oko kufuna 'iWTF, ubuntu?' Kulungile ukulilela ububhanxa xa bunxitywe njengebheji yentlonipho.
Into engekhoyo ukuzinciphisa ngokubambelela kumbono wehlabathi ophikiswa ngokulula. Ukugxeka kusebenza kuphela ukwenza incasa yobukrakra inyamezeleke kuwe.
Ndiyathumela ukuba ufanelwe ukhetho olungcono lokutya.
