Iintloni ziimvakalelo ezinamandla kakhulu ezinokuthintela ubomi bethu ngeendlela ezininzi. Inokusithintela ekuchazeni ubunyani bethu, ekwenzeni iminqweno yethu, kunye nokuphila ubomi obuzele luvuyo.
Kodwa uninzi lwethu luziva luhlazekile ngenxa yezizathu ebekungafanelekanga ukuba sizenze. Sifihla iinxalenye zobuntu bethu kwaye siyazifihla iingcinga zethu kuba siziva sisoyika ukugculelwa, ukwaliwa , kwaye wenzakalise.
Injongo yeli nqaku kukuxoxa ngeyona mithombo iqhelekileyo yehlazo kwaye uchaze ukuba kutheni ungafuni ukuziva ngale ndlela ngabo. Ndiyathemba ukuba izokukunceda ukuba uphile ubomi obuyinyani, obuyinyani kwindlela oziva ngayo.
1. Amaphupha akho
Nokuba amaphupha akho ebenawe ukusukela ebuntwaneni okanye ayinto oyifumene kutshanje, ukuziva uneentloni ngazo kuya kusebenza njengomqobo ekufezekiseni.
Into enamaphupha kukuba kokukhona uyakholelwa kuwo-kwaye nakwisakhono sakho sokwenza ukuba ibe yinyani- kokukhona uya usiba nzima kwaye uya usondela kuwo.
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Kwaye uninzi lwabantu ababalulekileyo kuwe bayakuxhasa ukufuna kwakho nokuba bayintoni na abaya kukholelwa kuwe kwaye bakukhuthaze apha endleleni.
Ukuba unokuhlangabezana nokuchasana nomntu oluxabisayo uluvo lwakho, kufuneka ubaphumelele ngokuthetha nokuba kutheni unephupha elinje kwaye kungathetha ntoni kuwe ukufumana inkxaso yabo.
Ukuba omnye umntu uyawahleka amaphupha akho, kuya kufuneka ubasizele abazi ukuba kunjani ukuba nephupha kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo abanasibindi sokulandela elinye. Ukuziphatha okunjalo luhlobo lomona kwaye lilinge lokufihla ukungonwabi kwabo.
Mbini. Ukuchaza Iimvakalelo Zakho
Ukubamba impendulo yakho kwinto ethile ayisiyondlela yanamhlanje. Ngapha koko, yinto owawuya kuyibona kwiintsuku ezidlulileyo xa amadoda nabafazi bekhuthazwa ukuba bathintele iimvakalelo zabo zokwenyani.
Ukanti, le yeyona ndlela iqhelekileyo kubantu abaninzi kuluntu lwanamhlanje. Abanye abantu bazigcina iimvakalelo zabo kwindawo engabonakaliyo ukuze bangabonakali bebuthathaka kwabanye ukuze bangazizukisi okanye bazinikele ngokugqithiseleyo.
Ngokwenza njalo, nangona kunjalo, abaxhamli ekufumaneni imvakalelo ngokupheleleyo. Nokuba uzibhala njengeziqinisekileyo okanye ezingalunganga, yonke imvakalelo inento esixelela yona.
Kuya kufuneka ulibale ukuba abanye abantu bacinga ntoni ngomzuzwana kwaye wazi ukuba ukubonakalisa ngokunyanisekileyo iimvakalelo zakho kusempilweni kwaye akukho nto uneentloni ngazo.
3. Ixesha lakho elidlulileyo
Sinezinto zonke ezinamava esingathanda ukuziphepha- ezinye zimbi kunezinye- kodwa kakhulu njengoko singathanda ukuhlala kumzuzu wangoku, ukudlula kwethu akuhlali kude.
Ukuziva uneentloni ngexa elidlulileyo kunokubonakala ngathi kuyimpendulo yendalo ngokugqibeleleyo, uya kuyithiya ukuba iphinde yenzeke okanye yomnye umntu ayigqibe. Kwaye njengendalo njengoko inokuziva, ihlazo ayisiyo mpendulo eya kunceda nangayiphi na indlela.
Ixesha lakho elidlulileyo lenzekile kwaye akukho nto unokuyenza ukuyitshintsha ngoku. Incede yakubumba wangumntu onguye namhlanje kwaye kufanelekile zingce ngobuwena . Ngokumalunga noku, unokubulela okwadlulayo kunokuba uzifihle kwabanye.
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4. Abahlobo Bakho
Njengokuba ubunokubuthathela ingqalelo ubuhlobo bomnye umntu, akuqhelekanga ukuba ube madolw 'anzima ukwazisa kwihlabathi elibanzi. Oku kuyinyani ngakumbi ukuba umhlobo wakho ngumntu onokuthi abanye baphakamise amashiya kuye.
Yimeko elusizi yemicimbi, kodwa intlalontle ayisoloko ibabona abantu abanamehlo alungileyo nengahlambulukanga. Nokuba yimbonakalo yomntu, inkanuko yesini, inkolo, okanye umbono wehlabathi, zininzi izinto ezicalucalulayo ezisabanjiweyo phakathi kwabantu.
Ayinguwe, nangona ungayiboni into eyenza wahluke kumhlobo wakho, kodwa kunoko yintoni edibanisa nina nobabini njengabantu. Kwaye ngenxa yokuba abanye abantu banokungabuqondi ubuhlobo bakho, kuya kufuneka uzingce ngayo.
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5. Ukuthi Hayi
Xa ithuba livela kuthi, kunokuba nzima kakhulu ukulidlulisa. Ngapha koko, sinokuziva sinetyala xa sisala umhlobo, umntu esimthandayo okanye umntu esingamaziyo.
Unexhala lokuba ukuthi hayi komnye umntu ilingana nesithuko, xa iyinto enempilo ukuyenza. Akufanele uzive ungalunganga-nokuba kukuhlazeka okanye olunye uvakalelo-malunga nokwala isimemo ngesimilo.
Ukuba uyijonga ngokwembono eyahlukileyo - ukuba uthi ewe kwinto xa ubunokuthi hayi, awubonakalisi isiqu sakho ngokwenyani kwihlabathi. Wenza umlinganiswa ongenguye.
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Ukuthi ewe ngalo lonke ixesha yindlela emiselwe intlekele, ke musa ukuziva uneentloni ngokwenza iminqweno yakho yokwenene icace ngokuthi hayi kube kanye.
6. Ukuba Nethemba
Baninzi kakhulu abantu abazalisa iingqondo zabo kunye nexesha labo ngokungakhathali abakhala ngabo malunga nobomi babo, bayakucaphukela oko abanye banako, kwaye ababoni nto ngaphandle kobunzima nentliziyo ebuhlungu kwikamva labo.
Ukuba uphambene nale polar, ukuba unethemba ngekamva kwaye uneengcinga ezintle ngobomi bakho, kuya kufuneka wonwabe. Uyenzile inketho yokujonga kwicala eliqaqambileyo layo yonke into kwaye iya kukunceda kakuhle kuhambo lwakho.
Ngokuqinisekileyo akufuneki uzive uneentloni yindlela ozijonga ngayo izinto nokuba abanye bayakumonela ngenxa yoko.
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7. Umsebenzi wakho / isikhundla sezezimali
Sonke sikhawuleza sibuyele emalini, kwimpahla, nakwindlela yokuphila xa sifuna ukuqaphela ubutyebi bomntu. Sithathela ingqalelo umsebenzi wabo, imali yabo ebhankini, inkangeleko yabo yangaphandle, izinto abathanda ukuzenza, kunye nendlela abathetha ngayo ngokungathi ezi zinto zibonisa umntu ngokwenene.
Kodwa ubutyebi bungaphezulu kakhulu kunoko kunokubonwa-yimeko yokuba kuyo kunye nengqondo egqitha izinto ezibonakalayo nezomzimba.
Ukuba urhola ngaphantsi koontanga bakho, kodwa wonwabele umsebenzi wakho, ke usisityebi njengabo. Ukuba unendlu encinci, imoto engabizi kakhulu, okanye uye kwiiholide ezimbalwa, kodwa ufumana intsingiselo nolonwabo kusuku ngalunye oludlulayo, awunanto uneentloni ngayo.
Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ngaba ukhetha ukucoca isitrato ngoncumo olukhulu ebusweni bakhe kunye novuyo entliziyweni yakhe, okanye umnini webhanki onemigca yoxinzelelo ebusweni bakhe kunye nosizi entliziyweni yakhe?
8. Isidingo Sakho “Sexesha Lam”
Ukubonisa inkathalo kunye nothando kuwe yenye yezona zinto zimangalisayo onokuzenza, kodwa kuhlala kubandakanya ukuthatha ixesha elithile kude nengxolo engapheliyo kunye nesiphithiphithi sehlabathi.
Nokuba kukuhlamba okuhlaziyayo, ixesha olichithe ukubhaka ukutya kwe-yummy, okanye ukuhamba ehlathini, ukwenza indawo kwishedyuli yakho yemisebenzi ethatha ingqondo yakho ekuguqulweni kwemihla ngemihla kubalulekile kwimpilo yakho.
Ngale nto engqondweni, kuya kufuneka ungaze uzive unetyala ukuthatha ikhefu kwizinto ukuze uchithe ixesha wedwa. Ukuba nabani na ukhe wawubuza, kuya kufuneka utsho ukuba uyalixabisa eli xesha loxolo kwaye ucebise ukuba bazame ukufumana elabo ixesha elincinci ngaphambi kokuba bagwebe.
9. Ukusilela
Akukho mntu uzimisele ukusilela kuyo nayiphi na into, kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuba uphumelele ngalo lonke ixesha uzama. Ngelishwa, ukusilela kuhlala kubonwa njengokubi, njengendawo ekubhalwe kuyo ikhadi lobomi. Olu toliko aluchanekanga kwaphela.
Ukusilela ngumsebenzi wokufunda kunye nento eyakha isimilo. Ukungaphumeleli kuthetha ukuba uzame, ukuba awuzange waneliseke, ukuba wenze umzamo wokuzilungisa okanye ukuphucula imeko yakho.
Nabani na okhe waphumelela akaphumelelanga amaxesha amaninzi endleleni, kwaye bayaliqonda ixabiso lelinge ngalinye elingaphumelelanga. Nawe, nawe, kufuneka ubone ukungaphumeleli njengesitena sokwakha kwaye ungamhoyi nabani na okugwebayo ngento abayibona njengempoxo.
Endaweni yokuba neentloni zokusilela, kuya kufuneka uzingce ngayo. Kuya kufuneka uzingce ngokuba nesibindi sokuzama xa abanye beme ngokuzimelela.
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10. Iinkolelo Zakho Zenkolo Okanye Zokomoya
Iimbono zakho ngenkolo okanye ngokomoya zinokungahambelani nabanye abantu- nokuba bakwimpilo yakho okanye ngabantu nje ongabaziyo- kwaye oku kunokukwenza ube madolw 'anzima ukwabelana okanye ukuthetha ngabo.
Unokoyika ukungamkelwa, ukugculelwa, okanye nokutshutshiswa ngenxa yeenkolelo zakho, kwaye ukuzifihla kunokubonakala ngathi yeyona ndlela ilungileyo, kodwa ngokwenza njalo uxhasa isimilo esinjalo.
Ukunyaniseka nokuthetha ngokuphandle ngento okholelwa kuyo kungabonakala kunzima kwaye abanye basenokungasoloko befumana izimvo zakho zivumelekile, kodwa ngokubonisa ukuzithemba kuzo, ubuncinci, uphila ubomi obuyinyani kuwe.
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