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Ukubuza umfana ngaphandle kwesicatshulwa kunokuziva kunzima, kodwa kulungile kuye nabani na oneentloni ngokubuza buqu!
Ininika ithuba lokucinga ngokufanelekileyo malunga nendlela ofuna ukuyichaza ngayo, kwaye ibanika ithuba lokujonga ngononophelo umnikelo wakho ngaphambi kokuba baphendule.
Ukuba uyazibuza ukuba ungabuza njani umntu ngombhalo, sidibanise esi sikhokelo siluncedo-sigqibe ngesampulu yeetekisi ezili-12 onokuthi uzenzele.
1. Kulula kuyo.
Nokuba ekugqibeleni ubuza laa mfo ubukhe wanomdla kuye kangangeminyaka okanye uthumela umntu umyalezo okokuqala, dlala upholile!
Nciphisa indlela yakho kwingxoxo emnandi kwaye ube ne-banter enentliziyo elula ngaphambi kokulahla umbuzo omkhulu.
Ukuba umazi kakuhle umntu okanye ubambekile amaxesha ambalwa, oku kukunika ithuba lokuphinda umisele ukuba uqhubeka njani ebomini bokwenyani.
Ungathetha ngokugqibela kwakho ukubabona okanye ngabahlobo enifana ngako, umzekelo.
Ukuba esi sisiqalo sento esinokuba nethemba lokuba yothando oluhle, yazini malunga nombhalo kancinci ngaphambi kokuba uzazise.
Ewe kunjalo, abanye abantu bayathanda ukuyifumana kwangoko, kodwa, amathuba okuba, ukuba ubuza umntu ngaphandle kwesicatshulwa, usenokuba neentloni kwaye ufuna ukuthatha kancinci.
2. Yiba nobubele, ubonakale, kwaye wonwabe.
Yonwaba kunye nayo-ukwazi umntu omthandayo yeyona nto ilungileyo malunga nokuthandana!
Musa ukoyika ukuba sisidenge okanye sarcastic chuck iqela le-emojis apho kwaye udlale ujikeleze.
Uyababuza ngomhla, emva kwayo yonke loo nto, kwaye ufuna ukwenza isimemo sivakale sinomdla njengoko umhla uqobo uya kuba.
Ukuba unombhalo okruqulayo ukubuza, awungekhe wonwabe ngaloo nto. Isicatshulwa esimnandi, esinomdla, nangona kunjalo? Ungathi ewe ngentliziyo!
Babonise icala elinobuhlobo, elingenangqondo kubuntu bakho kwaye baya kuba nomdla wokudibana kunye nokwazi ngakumbi.
Gcina izinto ezintle kwaye zipholile- zama ukuba ungangxoli, nokuba ungaphakathi kuzo ngokwenene!
Asitsho ukuba kufuneka utshintshe ukuba ungubani konke konke ukuba kufanelekile ukuba ulumke kancinci malunga nento obatyhilela yona kwangoko.
Zama ukunqanda ukubeka uxinzelelo olukhulu kubo njengoko oku kunokuza njengokuswela okanye ukutyhala.
3. Ukulinganisa umdla wabo.
Banike ithuba lokuba bakubhalele kwaye uphendule ngexesha labo!
Kuphela kuxa udibene nabo kwaye nobabini niyazi ukuba ngaba nifuna ukuqhubekeka nezinto, apho ninokuqala ukwenza ulindelo malunga nokuba bathatha ixesha elingakanani ukuphendula kuni njl.
Okwangoku, uququzelela umhla wokuqala, ngoko thabatha inyathelo elinye ngexesha kwaye uyonwabele.
Ngokubamba kancinci, uya kufumana umbono olunge ngakumbi wokuba banomdla kangakanani kuwe.
Ukuba uhlala ubathumela imiyalezo, iphakamisa ukuba ungaphezulu koku kunabo. Ayongxaki leyo yinto nje ekufuneka uyazi.
Ukuba sele uziva ngathi 'uyabaphazamisa' okanye ababonakali ngathi banomdla wokuxoxa, unokufuna ukuphinda ucinge ngokubabuza.
Basenokungakulangazeleli ukudibana, okanye basenokungabikho kwindawo efanayo nentloko. Nokuba yeyiphi na indlela, kuhlala kuluncedo ukubona indlela omnye umntu aziva ngayo phambi kokuba uzibeke apho.
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4. Yenze ibe yeyokwenene.
Yiba nguwe! Njengoko besesitshilo apha ngasentla, ukuba nobuhlobo kunye nokubhanxa kuhamba indlela ende ngokwazi umntu kwinqanaba lokuqala.
Ukuba, nangona kunjalo, ulifundile elo candelo kwaye ukrunekile kwangoko, ligcine liyinyani ngakumbi kuwe kwaye uhlale ulungile.
Ukuba awunguye umphezulu obalaseleyo, musa ukuzenza ngathi. Usenokuvumela ubuntu bakho obuthandekayo bukhanye ngendlela yakho - jonga imizekelo yethu yemizekelo engezantsi…
Gcina incoko iyinyani, nayo. Kungakulinga ukuba uzenze uvakale njengomntu owahlukileyo kwisicatshulwa (mhlawumbi ubatshele ukuba ungumntu othanda ukuzilolonga okanye sele ubhaka isaqhwithi, ngaphandle kwezi zinto ziyinyani!), Kodwa akukho ingongoma.
Ngokuveza ingxelo yakho engeyonyani, awumvumeli omnye umntu ukuba abone ukuba ungubani kanye kanye! Zonke ziya kuphuma ekugqibeleni kwaye ziya kugqiba ukuzibuza ukuba kutheni uxoke.
Ukuzama kangangoko kunokwenzeka, gcina i izincomo ukukhanya-ntliziyo! Xa uthanda umntu othile, kulula ukuba ungene kumkhwa wokubaxelela ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukuba banomtsalane kangakanani okanye uyithanda kangakanani indlela yabo, umzekelo.
Oku kumnandi kwaye kuhlala kumnandi ukwenza umntu azive kamnandi ngaye, kodwa kuya kuqala ngokukhawuleza ukuba azive eyinyani kwaye engaqhelekanga- nokuba ngoyaba.
Beka imigca embalwa rhoqo, kodwa ungagqithisi kwaye uboyikise ngaphambi kokuba ube nethuba lokubazi.
Bayakuqonda ukuba uyabathanda ngento yokuba uthetha nabo kwaye ubabuza-abanye banokulandela kamva.
5. Yiba nesicwangciso engqondweni.
Awudingi ukuba ube nemephu kwimizuzu yonke yomhla, kodwa ukuba unento oyicingayo ngumbono olungileyo.
Ungacebisa ukuba uye kwibar oyaziyo bayayithanda, okanye ungenza uphando kwaye ufumane i-gig yendawo epholileyo okanye imibuzo yokupapasha, umzekelo.
Umntu okucela ngaphandle ulungile, kodwa umntu uceba into abacinga ukuba uya kuyithanda kungcono nangakumbi!
Bazise ukuba ufuna ukuthatha kubo ngomhla, ngoko ke ulungelelanise into ocinga ukuba baya kuyonwabela ngokwenene.
Ukuba abaseli, umzekelo, qiniseka ukuba ucebisa kwenye indawo enika ikofu okanye iziselo ezihlwahlwazayo! Ukuba bayabuthanda ubugcisa, babuze ngomhla wegalari.
Khumbula - ngaphandle kwento ecekethekileyo, ayisiyiyo kuphela intombazana ethanda ukweluswa! Bonisa ukuba uyakhathala kwaye ufuna ukuba babe nexesha elimnandi kunye nawe kwaye ucwangcise into enomdla onokuyabelana nabo.
Uyayithanda inyani yokuba uyicingile kwaye uya kuziva ekhethekileyo.
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Kumntu osele umazi:
Unokwazi ukuba nesibindi kwaye uqheleke ngakumbi.
1. Hee, ingaba bekumnandi ukukubona ngaphambili - unomdla wokubamba isiselo kule veki?
2. Hei umntu ongamaziyo, lixesha! Ikofu kwaye ubambe kungekudala?
3. Ndirhalela ukuba i-burger ebesinayo kwinyanga ephelileyo- ukundijoyina ubusuku obunye nje?
Umhla wohlelo lokusebenza lokuthandana:
Ukuba lixesha lokuqala oza kudibana ngalo mhla.
1. Heyi, ndiyonwabele ngokwenene ukukwazi-ufuna ukuthatha ikofu kungekudala?
2. Uyathandeka kakhulu ukuncokola, ungathanda ukudibana nomntu! Ngaba ukhululekile kule veki ukuba usele?
3. Ngaba kuya kuba mnandi ukudibana kwaye ubone ukuba sihamba kakuhle ngale nto xa kulungile kuwe kule veki?
Ukuba ufuna ukulinganisa i-vibe:
Gcina izinto zivulekile kwaye ucebise ngesicwangciso ngokubanzi, hayi ixesha kunye nomhla othile.
1. Ngaba ukhululekile ngelinye ixesha kule veki?
2. Ngaba wayezibuza ukuba ungathanda ukubamba imovie ngamanye amaxesha? Ndizakufumana ipapa
3. Ndingathanda ukuphuma ngamanye amaxesha - ukhethe ixesha kwaye ndiza kukhetha indawo!
Kwabo banesibindi:
Nxiba intliziyo yakho emkhonweni wakho kwaye uye uyenzele.
1. Ungathanda ukukubona xa usela kamva ukuba uyawuthanda? #Ubusuku<3
2. Ndidinga enye ngokudibanisa isidlo sangokuhlwa sothando kule mpelaveki - ndiyayithanda?
3. Ndingakusa kwisiselo ngoLwesihlanu? Umjikelo wokuqala uphezu kwam…
Yintoni elandelayo?
Ke, uyilungele indlela yakho kwaye uyilungiselele isicatshulwa sakho.
Nje ukuba ubethe thumela, yiba nomonde. Kungakulinga ngokwenene ukuthumela umyalezo kwakhona ukuba awufumani mpendulo kwangoko-sukuyenza le nto!
Banokufuna ukucinga ngendlela abavakalelwa ngayo xa behamba nomhla, kunokuba kubabambe bengalindelanga (ukuba ubazile okwethutyana, banokumangaliswa!), Okanye basenokungabikho kwifowuni yabo ngqo okwesibini ubathumele umyalezo.
Banike ixesha lokuba babuyele kuwe. Ungathumeli omnye umbhalo usitsho into enje 'okanye hayi, uphelele kuwe, akukho xhala ukuba awuyiva, ndiyifumana ngokupheleleyo, akukho xinzelelo konke konke, ndixelele!'
Ayivakali njenge 'mpepho elula' njengoko ucinga kwaye baya kudideka malunga nokuba uyafuna na ukubabona konke konke!
Yime ngaphandle, yeka ukujonga ifowuni yakho kwaye ubone ukuba kwenzeka ntoni.
Ke bathi ewe…
Yiba nemincili, unomhla kunye nomfana omthandayo!
Gcina ii-vibes ezilungileyo ziqhubeka, qhubeka uncokola kwaye wonwabe kunye nabo kwaye ulahle umyalezo ngosuku okanye nangaphambi komhla wokubazisa ukuba ujonge ukubabona kangakanani.
Musa ukubeka uxinzelelo olukhulu kubo ngokuthumela imiyalezo engapheliyo ukuze uqinisekise okanye ujonge ukuba abayitshintshanga ingqondo yabo. Yamkela nje ukuba bathe ewe kwaye niza kuba nexesha elimnandi kunye.
Ke, bathi hayi…
Ukuba bathatha isigqibo sokuba abathandi ukuya kumhla, kulungile. Kubuhlungu kwaye iziva ingenangxaki, kodwa kuya kulunga.
Inokuba kungasiphi na isizathu sezizathu- banokubona omnye umntu, kunokuba lixesha elibi, okanye banokuziva ngendlela efanayo nawe.
Into ebalulekileyo kukuba uzibeke apho kwaye uzame.
Musa ukungabi nabulungisa kwaye uthumele isicatshulwa esikhohlakeleyo! Xa siziva sityeshelwe, sinokuphuma kancinci kwaye sinokude sithethe kancinci.
Endaweni yokuba uyiqhawule kwaye uqhubeke. Phendula uthi uyakuqonda kwaye uyakuxabisa ukunyaniseka kwabo.
Awusoze wazi, ukubona ukuba ubaphathe kakuhle kangakanani xa bejika umhla kunokubenza banomdla ngakumbi kuwe!
Kuvakala ngathi awunangqondo, kodwa kubonisa ukuba ukhule kangakanani kwaye umnandi kangakanani, kwaye baya kuthi emva koko babe nayo njengememori okanye wena kunokuba babe ngumntu othumela izicatshulwa ezimbi xa zingamkelwa!
Nangona kunjalo ugqiba ekubeni ubuze umfana ngaphandle kwesicatshulwa, khumbula - yiba nguwe, bonisa ukuba uyakhathala kwaye ungoyiki ukuzibeka phaya!
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