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Udibene nomntu kwi-intanethi, kwaye ufumane umhla kwidayari.

Ukuba ufunda le nto, unokuba novalo malunga nokudibana nabo ngesiquphe okokuqala.



Ayinamsebenzi nokuba ungumntu othandana nesicelo / igqala lendawo okanye eli lilinge lakho lokuqala kwihlabathi lokuthandana kwi-Intanethi, kuvela amabhabhathane.

Kwaye oko kuyinto eqhelekileyo.

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Sonke siba novalo ngaphambi kwemihla, kwaye imeko yedijithali yendlela odibene ngayo nalo mfana / intombazana inokongeza uluhlu lwee-nerves. Okungaziwayo kuhlala kusoyikisa.

Ukuba unexhala, isenokuba kungenxa yokuba awulunganga kakhulu 'kwimihla ngokubanzi. Okanye kungenxa yokuba awuqinisekanga nokuba i-etiquette kunye neprotocol yahlukile na xa sele unxibelelane phantse, kunokuhlangana ubuso ngobuso.

Kodwa phumla. Kungenxa yokuba udibene nomntu kwi-intanethi, oko akuthethi ukuba kufuneka usebenze malunga nokudibana nabo ngobuqu.

Ukwenza amadinga kufanele kube kokonwaba, kungabi ngumsebenzi okanye into ekugcwalisayo. Kuya kufuneka ube namabhabhathane, kodwa hayi onke amabutho.

Funda ezi ngcebiso zilula zokuqinisekisa ukuba umhla wokuqala nomntu odibene naye kwi-intanethi uhamba kakuhle kangangoko.

Ukuba uhlala usoyika malunga nemihla ngokubanzi, andinakuqinisekisa ukuba ezi ngcebiso ziya kuzola ngokupheleleyo ...

… Kodwa kufuneka bakuncede uzive ulungile kwaye uzithembile, kwaye wonwabele amava.

Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ngekhe wazi ukuba kuya kwenzeka ntoni. Umhla wakho wokuqala olandelayo unokukunika nje ibali elihlekisayo ukuba ubalise, oko kungakhokelela kubuhlobo obutsha, kunokuba sisiqalo sokuthandana, kwaye kungangumhla wokuqala wokugqibela onokuba nawo!

1. Thatha izinto ngaphandle kweintanethi ngokukhawuleza.

Sukuchitha iiveki uncokola nomntu okwi-intanethi ngaphambi kokudibana naye ubuso ngobuso.

Oko kukuthi, ewe, ngaphandle kokuba kukho izizathu ezibonakalayo zokuba lolu khetho kuphela (umzekelo, ngoku ukwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zomsebenzi okanye zeholide).

Kulula ukuvavanya ukuba umntu unokubakho na xa usadibana kwaye uthethe nabo buqu.

2. Musa ukugqiba zonke izihloko zencoko ngaphambi kokuba udibane.

Impazamo enkulu abanye abantu abayenzayo ngokuthandana kwi-Intanethi kukuba nexesha elide, elinencoko eneenkcukacha kusetyenziswa usetyenziso okanye isicatshulwa.

Zigubungela izixa ezikhulu zomhlaba wokuncokola, kodwa ke zifumanise ukuba akukho nto ingako ekunokuxoxwa ngayo xa ekugqibeleni zidibana.

Ngaphezulu koko, abantu banokuzibonisa ngesicatshulwa ngokwahlukileyo kwindlela abenza ngayo kubomi bokwenyani. Ke ukuba uchitha ixesha elininzi uthetha nabo kwi-Intanethi, unokufumana umbono ongalunganga ngobuntu babo.

3.Thabatha iincoko ezenziwa kwi-intanethi.

Isitshixo kukuqala incoko kwi-Intanethi emva koko ungene nzulu kwiinkcukacha xa sele ukhona kunye ebomini bokwenyani.

Ngale ndlela, ungabuphepha ubuzaza obubangelwa kukungazi ukuba uzothini emntwini.

Uya kuba nemisonto oza kuyikhetha kwaye oku kunganceda ukuqhekeza umkhenkce kule mizuzu imbalwa yokuqala.

4. Lawula ulindelo lwakho.

Ukuba ubonile iifoto ezimbalwa zomntu kwaye uncokola nabo kwi-Intanethi, kunokuba lula ukwenza umfanekiso walo mntu engqondweni yakho.

Kodwa into oyibonayo noyifundayo kwi-Intanethi ayisoloko iguqulela kwilizwe lokwenyani.

Ngamanye amaxesha kuyadlula ukuba yintlantsi obucinga ukuba uzive ingekho.

Ke sukuvumela amava akho okwenyani ukuba akhe amathemba akho phezulu kakhulu. Lawula nje olo lindelo kwaye ugcine iingcinga kunye neemvakalelo zakho ziphantsi kolawulo okwangoku.

5. Dibana kwi-turf yakho.

Xa udibana nomntu okokuqala, kutheni ungacebisi kwenye indawo kunokuba uyishiye kuye?

Khetha indawo apho wawukade ukhona kwaye uzive usekhaya. Ngale ndlela, uya kuyazi indlela yakho kwaye uya kuziva ukhululekile.

indlela yokugqitha kwixesha elidlulileyo

Ukwazi izinto ezincinci, ezibonakala zingabalulekanga ezinje ngento ofuna ukuyicwangcisa kwimenyu, okanye apho zikhona izindlu zangasese, zinokukunika ukuzithemba okwenyani kwaye zikunqande ungaziva ungonwabanga… okanye ungathandeki ngendlela obuya kwenza ngayo.

Ukuba unayo nayiphi na imfuneko yokutya, ke oku kubaluleke ngakumbi, njengoko unokukhetha indawo oyithandayo elungiselela iimfuno zakho, kodwa uyazi ukuba basazokuthanda.

6. Qiniseka ukuba yindawo kawonke-wonke.

Naphi na apho uthatha isigqibo sokucebisa ngalo mhla, qiniseka ukuba kwindawo ethile ivulekile kwaye ixakekile.

Uninzi lwabantu kwiindawo zokuthandana zinyanisekile kwaye zinokuthenjwa, kodwa kungcono ukuthatha amanyathelo okhuseleko kwimeko apho unokuba nelishwa.

7. Yazisa umntu ukuba uza kuba phi.

Xelela umntu omthembayo apho uya khona kunye nabani kwaye ujonge naye emva komhla uqalile ukubazisa ukuba konke kuhamba kakuhle.

Ngokusisiseko, xa kufikwa kukhuseleko, thabatha nje onke amanyathelo oqhele ukwenza xa uhlangana nomntu ongamaziyo kwaye usebenzise ukuqonda kwakho.

8. Yigcine ikofu.

Ukuba ufuna ukwenza intlanganiso yakho yokuqala ngaphandle kweintanethi njengesiqhelo kangangoko phambi kokuba ufumanise ukuba kungakho nawuphi na umtsalane wothando phakathi kwakho, ungacebisa ukudibana kwekofu / iti kunye nekhekhe.

Imihla efana nale ayisoze ihlale ngaphezulu kweyure okanye ngaphezulu, kwaye yindlela entle yokuziva umntu ephule kwaye eqhekeza umkhenkce ngaphandle kokubingelela ngokuhlwa, nto leyo intle ukuba uneshedyuli exakekileyo.

Akukho nanye into engaqhelekanga yokuzama ukuqonda ukuba wenza nje iziselo okanye nokuba usitya isidlo sangokuhlwa.

9. Hlanganisa izinto nomsebenzi.

Ngokuchasene noko abantu abaninzi bacinga ngako kuluntu lwasentshona yanamhlanje, kunokwenzeka ukuba uhambe nomhla ungaselanga.

Endaweni yokuhlangana kwindawo yokutya okanye kwindawo yokutya, kutheni ungacingi ngaphandle kwebhokisi kancinci kwaye ucebise ngomhla oza kusebenza ngawo?

Izinketho ozivulekileyo kuwe ziya kuxhomekeka ekubeni uhlala phi kwaye zeziphi izinto onomdla kuzo ekwabelwana ngazo.

Into emnandi ngokuhlangana nomntu kwi-Intanethi kukuba uya kuba nakho ukufumanisa oko, ubuncinci kwinxalenye, ukusuka kwiprofayili yabo yokuthandana kunye neencoko zakho zangaphambili.

Ukuba unexhala lokuba isenokungabikho ngenxa yomsebenzi onawo engqondweni, nangona kunjalo, yishiyele umhla wesibini uye kwifomathi yomhla wokuqala.

10. Qala ngesiselo.

Ukuba ukhetha ukudibana ngokuhlwa, landela umthetho olandelwayo wokuqala womhla wokuqala kwaye ukhabe izinto ngesiselo.

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Ngale ndlela, ukuba awuyiva, awunyanzelekanga ukuba wenze ingokuhlwa epheleleyo ngayo okanye uchithe imali eninzi kwisidlo.

11. Kodwa qiniseka ukuba uyatya.

Ukuba uya kusela, cinga ukutya isidlo sangokuhlwa ngaphambi kokuba uphume ngokuhlwa, kunokuba ulinde ukubona ukuba nobabini niyokutya na.

Emva kwakho konke, unokuhlala udla kabini, kodwa into yokugqibela oyifunayo kukuba ngokukhawuleza ufumene iziphuzo ezimbalwa kwisisu esingenalutho.

Akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokufumana iingcebiso, kodwa ngekhe ufune ukunxila kakhulu xa udibana nomntu osandula ukudibana naye, kwaye 'unxilile' usenokungazithathi izigqibo ezingcono.

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12. Fika ngexesha.

Ukufika ngexesha kubaluleke ngakumbi kunanini na kumhla wokuqala, kuba ukufika emva kwexesha kunokubacebisa ukuba awulixabisanga ixesha labo ngokwaneleyo ukuba bangavela xa usithi uya kuthi.

Ngaphezu koko, akukho mntu uthanda ukulinda malunga nomhla, ezibuza ukuba ngaba baphakanyisiwe. Ukuba uza kufika emva kwexesha, qiniseka ukuba uyabazisa.

13. Qiniseka ukuba umamela ngenyameko.

Kubalulekile ukuba ukuxoxa ngomhla wokuqala, kodwa kubalulekile ngokulinganayo hayi ukulawula intetho kwaye babayeke bathethe nabo.

Xa bethetha, qiniseka ukuba ubanike ingqalelo yakho yonke.

Buza imibuzo ebonisa ukuba unomdla wokwenene wokwazi ngakumbi malunga nezinto abakuxelela zona.

14. Yahlulahlula ityala.

Esi sisisihloko esinempikiswano kwaye izimvo ziyahluka ngokwenkcubeko, kodwa kwincwadi yam, yonke into kufuneka yahlulwe phakathi.

Ngaphandle kokuba, ewe, usuku lwakho lukuse kwindawo ethile entle kwaye wa-odola ibhotile ye-champagne, kwimeko apho bamkelekile ukuba bayihlawule.

Unokwenza imijikelezo, omnye wenu athenge isiselo sokuqala, kwaye omnye afumane umjikelo wesibini ukuba izinto zihamba kakuhle phakathi kwenu.

Nokuba ungabesiphi isini, kulungile ukuba ube ngumntu oza kuthenga isiselo sokuqala ukuba nguwe oza kucela omnye umntu aphume.

Ukuba imali iyinkxalabo, eso sesinye sezizathu ezifanelekileyo zokuba ukhethe apho udibana khona, njengoko unokukhetha kwenye indawo ngokhetho olulungele uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali.

15. Ungasoloko ushiya.

Rude njengoko kusenokubonakala ngathi, ukuba ufika kumhla kwaye kucacile kuwe ukuba bobabini abananto inye, okanye uziva ungakhululekanga konke konke, unamalungelo okuhamba.

Musa ukuba krwada (ngaphandle kokuba benze into eyifaneleyo), kodwa baxelele ngokuzolileyo nangembeko ukuba bekuthandeka ukudibana nabo, kodwa ucinga ukuba uza kugoduka.

Akunyanzelekanga ukuba wenze isingxengxezo, njengoko kufuneka sonke sikhule ngokwaneleyo ukuba samkele ukuba ayinguye wonke umntu oza kusithanda.

Ukuba ukufumanisa kunzima kakhulu, nangona kunjalo, ungasoloko ubuyela kwiqhinga eliqhelekileyo lokuba nendlu yakho ikubethe ukuze uthi ikhitshi likhukula, okanye nokuba yeyiphi na.

Yazi nje ukuba umhla wakho uya kubona ngokuthe ngqo ngesizathu sakho.

Nangona kunjalo ukungakonwabisi ukusika umhla omfutshane kunokuba kungabikho nto, akukho ngqondo yokuchitha ixesha lakho okanye eyabo ukuba uyabona ukuba awuhambelani ngokusuka kwigama elithi go.

16. Konke malunga nendlela ojonga ngayo.

Abanye abantu babona ukuthandana kwi-Intanethi njengomsebenzi nje. Abakholelwa ukuba bayanyanzelwa ukuba bachithe ixesha labo kwii -apps kwaye banemihla yokuqala yomndilili ukuze bafumane umntu okhethekileyo.

Kwaye ukuba ujonga njalo, ewe awuzukuyonwabela.

Endaweni yoko, jonga kumhla ngamnye njengethuba elimnandi lokuphuma kwaye malunga nokudibana nomntu omtsha.

Sukungena kulindelo oluphezulu, okanye ulindelo oluphantsi, lindela nje ukuba wonwabe. Kwaye ukuba akwenzi njalo, akufuneki ubabone kwakhona. Ilula njengoko kunjalo.

17. Ungathethi nge-ex.

Njengawo nawuphi na umhla wokuqala, yeka ngokucacileyo ukukhankanya i-ex.

Ngaphandle koku kunokuba yile ukuba ukwahlukana kutsha nje kwaye uziva ukuba nabani na omtsha kufuneka azi ukuba usaphuma kubudlelwane bakho bangaphambili.

Okanye ukuba kukho enye into malunga nolwalamano lwakho oludlulileyo oziva ukuba kufuneka bazi kwasekuqaleni.

18. Yiya nokuhamba.

Abanye abantu bayathanda ukuthatha isigqibo kwimithetho engqongqo ngokungathi akukho kuphuzwa ngomhla wokuqala - uthixo akavumeli nantoni na ngaphezulu - kodwa andiqondi ukuba loo mithetho iluncedo ngokukodwa.

Vele uhambe nokuhamba. Ukuba izinto zihamba kakuhle, kwaye ufuna ukwandisa umhla okanye ukubanga (kuphela ukuba kuyacaca ukuba bafuna ukukuncamisa umva), okanye nantoni na eyenye ethatha ukuthanda kwakho, yenza nje.

funda ukuyeka ixesha elidlulileyo

Uhlala kanye kuphela, ke mamela iimvakalelo zakho kunye namathumbu akho, kwaye ukhokele imeko kunye nokuziphatha komhla wakho kukukhokele.

Awusoze wazi ukuba ungakusa phi ngokuhlwa.

Ngaba awuqinisekanga ukuba uza kuwufumana njani umhla wakho wokuqala emva kokudibana nomntu kwi-intanethi? Thetha kwi-Intanethi kwingcali yobudlelwane kwi-Relationship Hero enokukunceda ufumane izinto. Ngokulula.

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