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Kutheni kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba nexesha elinye kwaye kutheni abantu bekhathalela kakhulu xa ndishiywe lixesha?
Ukuba lo ngumbuzo ozifumene uwubuza kutshanje, sizifumene zonke iimpendulo ozifunayo.
Eli nqaku ligubungela ezinye zezizathu zokuba kutheni kufuneka ubeke phambili ngexesha, kunye neengcebiso eziphambili zokukunceda ukufezekisa.
Ukugcina ixesha kubalulekile
Ke kutheni kubaluleke kangaka ukuzama ukufika kwangexesha kangangoko kunokwenzeka? Yintoni ebalulekileyo, ngokwenene?
wazi njani ukuba uyakufuna
1. Ibonisa imbeko.
Ukufika ngexesha kubonisa ukuba uyayixabisa nantoni na oza kuyithatha.
Ukugcina ixesha kwintlanganiso kubonisa ukuba uyabahlonipha abanye abantu abakuloo ntlanganiso, kwaye awufuni kubachitha ixesha.
Ngokwenyani uthumela umyalezo ukuba uyaliqonda ukuba lixabiseke kangakanani ixesha labo kwaye uzukile ukuba wabelane ngalo.
2. Kubonisa ukuba uyakhathala.
Ukuba wenze izicwangciso nabahlobo, ukuvula ixesha yindlela yokubonisa ukuba uyakhathala.
Ufuna ukuchitha ixesha kunye nabo usenza into entle, ucwangcise uhambo olumnandi, okanye mhlawumbi ukubanceda ngokuhlukana .
Ukufika kwindawo elungileyo ngexesha elifanelekileyo kubonisa ukuba wenze umgudu wokuba kunye nabo okanye ubaxhase.
Ukuba ulwalamano, ukubonisa ngexesha kwakhona kuthumela iqabane lakho umyalezo ukuba usenomdla kwaye utyalomali kwaye ufuna ukuchitha ixesha elifanelekileyo kunye nabo.
Ukufika emva kwexesha kubonisa ukuba awuzibeki phambili kwaye kunokukhokelela kwimicimbi engaphaya emgceni.
3. Yenza yonke into ihambe kakuhle.
Ukufika ngexesha kubaluleke ngokwenene kwiindlela ezininzi, kwaye enye yazo kukucwangcisa.
Umsebenzi wobulumko, ukufika ngexesha ezintlanganisweni kunye nabathengi abatsha kunokukunceda ufumane ishishini elitsha kwaye wenze imali ngakumbi kwinkampani yakho.
Ikwabonisa ukuthembeka kubathengi abakhoyo kwaye ubazise ukuba usabakhathalele, nangona sele bekuhlawula.
Kubomi obuqhelekileyo, oko kuthetha ukuba akukho zohambo ziphosakeleyo, akukho kungxama ukufaka izinto kuzo, kwaye akukho kulalanisa kwizinto.
4. Abantu baxhomekeke kuwe.
Abantu baxhomekeke kuwe ukuze ufike ngexesha.
Ngamanye amaxesha oko kuthetha ukugcwalisa kunye nokuhambisa iprojekthi ngaphakathi komhla obekiweyo ukuze abanye abantu benze imisebenzi yabo ngokufanelekileyo.
Ngamanye amaxesha kuthetha ukubonakalisa isidlo sangokuhlwa ngexesha ukuze itafile yakho inganikezelwa kwaye ubusuku bakho bomhla bungonakali!
Nokuba yintoni, abantu benza izicwangciso malunga namaxesha kwaye kuya kufuneka ubonise ukuze ugcine ezo zicwangciso zikwindlela elungileyo.
5. Isidima sakho sisemngciphekweni.
Oku kubaluleke kakhulu xa kufikwa kwikhondo lomsebenzi wakho.
Ukuba uhlala ufika emva kwexesha kwiintlanganiso okanye uphoswe yimihla ebekiweyo, uqala ukubonakala ulihlazo-kubonakala ngathi awukhathali kwaye awunakukhathazwa ukwenza umzamo.
ILizwi liya kusasazeka kwaye akunakulindeleka ukuba uthathwe nzulu.
Oku kungakhokelela ekubeni abantu bangafuni ukusebenza nawe njengoko bezakukhathazeka uza kubaphambanisa izinto.
Isenokuthetha ukuba oogxa abaphezulu abanakufane bakubeke phambili ukunyuselwa okanye amathuba amnandi - abanakukuthemba ukuba uwuthathe ngokungxamisekileyo umsebenzi wakho, ke kutheni kufanele ukuba uvuzwe?
6. Kubonisa ukuba uyithatha ngokungathí sina.
Ukufika kwindawo ethile ngexesha kuthetha ukuba uyithatha ngokungathí sina, nokuba inxulumene nomsebenzi okanye intlalontle.
Oku kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba sele unedumela lokufika emva kwexesha!
Qho xa ushiywe lixesha, wenza abantu bazive bungabalulekanga ebomini bakho.
Akukho mntu ufuna ukuziva ngathi banyanzela umntu ukuba achithe ixesha nabo, kwaye ukufika emva kwexesha (okanye nokucima izicwangciso ngomzuzu wokugqibela!) Banokuziva ngathi bayaliwa.
Thatha ngokungathí sina, zibophelele kuyo kwaye ubonise!
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Ukugcina ixesha
Ke ngoku ungaliqonda ixabiso lokufika ngexesha, Nazi ezinye zeendlela ezilungileyo zokuqinisekisa ukuba uyalandela.
Seta ii-alam.
Ukuba uyasokola ukufika ngexesha, singacebisa ukuba usete ii-alamu- kwaye zininzi zazo!
Cwangcisa usuku lwakho ngobusuku obungaphambili kwaye uhambe ngendlela eya kuhamba ngayo engqondweni yakho.
Thatha isigqibo sokuba leliphi ixesha olifunayo ukuseta i-alamu ukuze uzilungiselele, emva koko isikhumbuzi phakathi kwesiqingatha sexesha elabelweyo lokuba ukrokre, kunye nezinye izikhumbuzo ezi-2 zokuba kufuneka uhambe nini.
Ngokuhamba-hamba, uya kuba nakho ukufumanisa nayiphi na indawo yesicwangciso sakho enokubangela ingxaki.
Umzekelo, ukuba unentlanganiso yakusasa, cwangcisa usuku lwakho ngobusuku obungaphambili.
Hamba kuyo yonke into - uvuka (ii-alamu ezi-2), ishawa, unxibe (ukulungisa iimpahla zakho kunceda), yenza ikofu (yenza umatshini wakho ukuyenzela ixesha elimiselweyo), fumana ibhegi yakho (ngasemnyango, upakishwe kwaye ilungile), kwaye isivusi sokugqibela sikukhumbuza ukuba uphume endlwini kwimizuzu emi-2 elandelayo. Kulula!
Kulungile, ke kunokuba kungabi lula ukuba awunguye umntu olungeleleneyo, kodwa kokukhona usebenzisa kwaye unamathela kwiialamu zokukunceda wenze izinto, kokukhona kuya kuzenzekelayo.
2. Ziphephe iziphazamiso.
Iziphazamiso lutshaba lokufika ngexesha.
Xa unexesha elilinganiselweyo lokwenza into okanye ukuba kwindawo ethile, awunakukwazi ukuchitha imizuzwana exabisekileyo ngokujolisa kwezinye izinto.
Isibalulekileyo apha kukuzibamba kwisenzo kwaye ngokukhawuleza ubuyisele ingqwalaselo yakho kwinto ekufuneka uyenzile.
Imalunga nokuba nolwazi kwaye uqaphele iingcinga kunye nezenzo zakho.
Lo ngumkhwa oza nexesha. Ekuqaleni, uyakufumanisa kunzima ukubhalisa xa ingqondo yakho ithathiwe kulo msebenzi.
Kodwa ngalo lonke ixesha uqaphela ukuba uphazamisekile, uya kuba ngcono ekubambeni elandelayo ngokukhawuleza.
3. Yibhale kwidayari yakho.
Abanye bethu kufuneka babhale ngokwasemzimbeni into ethile ukuze bayikhumbule.
Iphantse ingabonakali iyinyani ukuba kuthethwa ngayo kwincoko edlulayo, kodwa xa sele uyibhalile (ngepeni) kwidayari yakho, ikho ngokwenene.
Gcina idayari yakho nawe ngamaxesha onke, naxa ubamba ikofu kunye namantombazana.
Oku kuya kukunceda wenze inqaku layo nayiphi na into ethi ivele ngelixa uncokola kwaye kuthetha ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba ubhale phantsi isicwangciso- kwaye unamathele kuso.
Yiya kwincwadana yokubhalela encinci ukuze ungasindwa!
4. Ukuguqula imeko.
Ukuba unengxaki yokulandela kunye nokwenza konke oku, cinga malunga nokuba kuthetha ntoni emva kwexesha.
Ukuguqula imeko kwaye ucinge ukuba nguwe olindileyo - uhleli wedwa kwivenkile yekofu ungaqinisekanga nokuba ulinde okanye uthenge ikofu kuba umhlobo wakho uhlala njalo emva kwemizuzu engama-20.
Okanye ulinde kwigumbi lokuhlangana, ukhathazeka malunga nomboniso wakho imizuzu eyongezelelweyo ye-10 kuba umphathi wakho wayexakeke kakhulu.
Akusiyo imvakalelo enkulu, akunjalo?
Mhlawumbi ucinga ukuba neentloni (ngaba nguwe ophosakeleyo, awufuni ukuzijonga ngokwakho!), Ukwaliwa (kutheni bengakhathali ngokwaneleyo ukuba bafuna ukukubona?), kunye nokudideka (ikhona into oyenzileyo ukubacaphukisa?).
Khumbula ezi mvakalelo kwixesha elizayo xa usenza isicwangciso kwaye uqiniseke ukuba uyayilandela into oyithembisileyo.
indlela yokwenza isoka lakho likukhumbule njengegeza
Kwaye ukuba uluhlobo lomntu ongacingi kabini ukuba omnye umntu ufike kade, khumbula nje ukuba uninzi lwabantu alubekelwanga mva.
Unokwaneliseka ngokugqibeleleyo ngokulinda, kodwa ubambalwa. Uninzi lwabantu mhlawumbi luyayifumana iyacaphukisa .
Siyathemba ukuba iingcebiso zethu malunga nendlela yokugcina ixesha ziye zanceda, kwaye ngoku uyasiqonda ngokupheleleyo isizathu sokuba kubalulekile ukufika ngexesha.
Uyakuqaphela ukuba abantu bakuphatha ngokwahlukileyo ngokwahlukileyo kwiziganeko ozifika ngexesha…
… Baya kuba ngabahlobo kwaye bavule ngakumbi njengoko ubonakalisile ukuba uyakhathala kwaye uyabaxabisa.
… Baya kukunika uxanduva ngakumbi ngoku xa besazi ukuba unokuthenjwa ukuthatha izinto ngokungathí sina.
… Kwaye uya kuziva ngcono ngawe!
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