Ke lixesha lokwenza utshintsho olubaluleke kakhulu.
Sonke senza ukhetho oluncinci kunye notshintsho oluncinci kubomi bethu yonke imihla ngaphandle kokuqaphela indlela abaziqokelela ngayo kwaye bachaze indlela esibuhamba ngayo.
Ngelixa sitshintsha rhoqo kwaye singaze sihambe kumgca othe tye, ngamanye amaxesha sifikelela kwiziphambuka esingenakuze sizihoye.
izinto zokwenza isoka lakho ngomhla wokuzalwa kwakhe
Kumanqaku ahlukeneyo ebomini bethu, sinokuthatha isigqibo esifanelekileyo sokuqhubeka kunye nendlela ebesikade sihamba ngayo kude kube ngoku, okanye sithathe ithuba, senze isigqibo esinentsingiselo nesibalulekileyo, kwaye siqale ukwenza izinto ngokwahlukileyo.
Kukho, ngokusisiseko, iindlela ezimbini zokutshintsha ubomi bakho ngeendlela ezimbini ezingcono zokushiya umendo ohamba kuwo ngoku.
Eyokuqala kukwenza ukuphuma ngesiquphe, okumangalisayo kokuphambuka kwikona esekunene kwaye utsibe kumda weliwa. Olu lutshintsho olukhulu kwaye lwangoko apho kungasekho kubuya mva. Izinto aziyi kuphinda zibonakale zifana kwakhona.
Okwesibini kukuthatha umendo ophambuka kuphela kumda ukusuka kwinto yoqobo, ucothe kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo ugobe kude ekugqibeleni ugqibe ukuya kwicala elahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo.
Olu tshintsho lunokuza nangaluphi na uhlobo okanye ifom. Usenokucinga ngokutshintsha kobomi okanye utshintsho olupheleleyo lomfanekiso okanye Ukuphelisa ubudlelwane (nokuba yeyothando okanye iplonic ).
Unokunqwenela ukwahlukana nokuziphatha okuthile okwenzakalisayo, okanye uthathe into entsha. Isenokuba lutshintsho olukhulu kwindlela ophila ngayo okanye ukutshintsha indlela otya ngayo.
Asithethi mihla le, ngezigqibo ze-humdrum, kodwa izinto eziza kuthetha ukuba ubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla buya kujongeka bohluke kakhulu kunangaphambili.
Kodwa leliphi ikhondo elifanelekileyo lezenzo kuwe, kwaye ngaba elinye lihlala lingcono kunenye? Masiqwalasele ngokusondeleyo kuzo zombini iindlela zokutshintsha ubomi bakho.
Inketho 1: Thatha umtsi
Olu lukhetho olukhulu, kwaye alunakwenziwa ngamanyathelo esiqingatha.
Unokuzama ukunyuka phantsi kobuso beqhekeza kunokuba utsibe ngqo kuyo, kodwa amathuba okuba uphele uphulukana nokubambelela kwakho kwaye uwe kunjalo.
Le yindlela yokuqhekeza-udaka.
Imalunga nokusika amaqhina kunye nokwenza utshintsho olukhulu kubomi bakho kangangokuba awunakuba nandlela yimbi ngaphandle kokuziqhelanisa ngokukhawuleza ukuze uphile. Kuya kufuneka ufumane indlela yokwenza eyakho iparashute ukuba awufuni ukubetha amatye.
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Olu hlobo lotshintsho lunokuthatha iindlela ezininzi. Isenokuba ukuyeka umsebenzi wakho ngaphandle isicwangciso back up. Isenokuba kukuthenga itikiti lenqwelomoya kangangenyanga, ukuthengisa, kunye nokuya emadlelweni amatsha ungenanto ngaphandle kobhaka kunye nephupha.
Into ebalulekileyo ekufuneka uyiqonde malunga nokuthatha olu khetho kukuba xa uqala ukutsiba, uya kubetha amatye ambalwa xa usiya ezantsi. Ukuba iparashute ayiyi kuvulwa kwangoko. Xa ubona ulwandle lusondela, nangona kunjalo, uya kunyanzeleka ukuba ufumane indlela yokubhabha, kwaye uyakwenza njalo.
Abo baphumelela kolu hlobo lotshintsho bahlala benza kakuhle phantsi koxinzelelo. Banokufezekisa izinto xa iichips ziphantsi abangasokuze bafumane inkuthazo yazo ukuba bathathe indlela ethe chu nezinzileyo, njengoko ingqalelo yabo yayiya kubhadula kwaye balahlekelwe kukujolisa kwinjongo yabo yokuphela.
Inketho 2: Cotha kwaye uzinzile
Xa ufuna ukubuguqula ngokupheleleyo ubomi bakho kwaye uthathe icala elahlukileyo, ukucotha kunye nokuzinza kuyaphumelela ugqatso lwabanye abantu.
xa umntu engekho kuwe
Le ndlela ihlala isebenza kakuhle kwabo banomdla kunye nokuzinikela kwaye banako zibonise iinjongo zabo zexesha elide , ngokuthe chu ukuthatha amanyathelo ngakuzo zikhuselekile kulwazi lokuba, kungekudala okanye kamva, baya kufika apho.
Olu lutshintsho oluthe ngcembe olusekwe kwizinto oqhele ukuzenza yonke imihla. Endaweni yokubuguqula ngokupheleleyo ubomi bakho kwaye uqale ngokutsha, ngokuthe chu wazise imikhwa emitsha ethi, ekugqibeleni, ithetha ukuba ubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla bubukeka buhluke kakhulu kwindlela obenza ngayo ngoku.
Ukuba utshintsho olunentsingiselo ojonge ukulwenza ebomini bakho luyinto efana notshintsho kwindlela otya ngayo, ke kuhlala kungcono ukuthatha le ndlela.
Ukulungisa ngokupheleleyo ukutya kwakho ukusuka kusuku olunye ukuya kolunye asiyongcamango ilungileyo nakubani na, njengoko kufuneka uthathe ixesha lokwenza uphando olululo, ufumane ukutya okuthandayo okutsha, kwaye uphinde ubeke iikhabhathi zakho.
Ngamanye amaxesha, utshintsho olufanayo lunokufezekiswa nangayiphi na indlela.
Kanye njengokuba ungangenisa isaziso sakho kwaye usenze sisebenze, ungagqiba kwelokuba indlela eya phambili yeyokuqala ukuqubisana ecaleni ngokuhlwa nangeempelaveki, ngenjongo yexesha elide yokuba ekugqibeleni unikezele ngesaziso sakho kunyaka olandelayo kube kanye uyazi ukuba unokuzixhasa.
Kwabanye, le ndlela icwangcisiweyo nelawulwayo iya kuba kuphela kwendlela yokwenza impumelelo yayo, ngelixa abanye beza kukhawuleza baphelelwe ngumphunga ukuba abaziva luxinzelelo.
Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
- Imibuzo engama-24 oza kuyibuza ngaphambi kokuba ushiye yonke into ngasemva ukuze uqale ubomi obutsha
- Amanqanaba ama-5 oTshintsho (iTranstheoretical) yeModeli yoTshintsho lokuziphatha
- Iinyani ezingenakuphepheka oza kujongana nazo ukuze ubengumntu ongcono
- Ungalunqoba njani uloyiko loTshintsho kwaye ujonge ngokuzithemba kwimiceli mngeni emitsha
- Kutheni ufuna iSicwangciso soPhuculo lwaBantu (kunye nezinto ezisi-7 ekufuneka ukuba unazo)
Yeyiphi indlela yakho?
Kubalulekile ukuba ukhumbule ukuba ayikho kwezi ndlela zingasentla ebhetele kunenye. Zizinto ezichaseneyo, kodwa akukho namnye ongaphezulu. Akuyonyani ukuba umntu omnye uya kuhlala ethatha ikhondo elifanayo lesenzo ngaphandle kwemeko abajongane nayo.
Indlela oyikhethayo inento yokwenza nesimo sakho sengqondo ngomngcipheko, ngenxa yoko abanye bethu banokuba ngokwemvelo bathathe indlela 'ekhuselekileyo'.
ungaxelela njani ukuba inenekazi liyakuthanda
Ukuba ngokwendalo usengozini yokuthintela, ukuthatha 'ukutsiba eweni' ukhetho kunokungaze kubonakale ngathi licebo elilungileyo, nokuba ufuna ukuphumeza ntoni.
Kwelinye icala, izigqibo zethu zikwanyanzeliswa ziimeko kwaye loluphi utshintsho esifuna ukulwenza. Umzekelo, ukuba ukuthatha ikhondo elithile lesenzo kuyakuchaphazela wena buqu, unenkululeko engaphezulu yokuthatha indlela egqibeleleyo.
Ukuba, nangona kunjalo, utshintsho ofuna ukuzenzela lona luya kuthetha notshintsho kwabo bakungqongileyo, indlela eguqukayo ayinakuba lukhetho, kangangoko ungathanda ukuba ibekho kwaye nokuba umlinganiswa wakho uthembele ngakuyo ukungxama.
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Ukuthetha oko, nangona kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha kuyathandeka kwabanye abantu ababandakanyekayo ukuba kwenziwe ngokugqibeleleyo. Ukuba utshintsho ofuna ukulwenza luphelisa ubudlelwane bezothando, umzekelo, ayisoze ibe yinto ekufanele ukuba ikhutshiwe. Kufuneka yenziwe ngokukhawuleza, ngobubele, nangokucacileyo.
Ngaphezulu koko, kuya kufuneka uthathele ingqalelo ukuba ezinye iinguqu ezinkulu ebomini bakho kufuneka, ngendalo yazo, zenziwe ngendlela ethile.
Umzekelo, ukuba ufuna ukufudukela kwenye indawo kude kakhulu, kusoloko kungenzeki ukuqala ngotyelelo olufutshane kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe uchithe ixesha elininzi naphambi kokuba ekugqibeleni ususe isitshixo, isitokhwe kunye nomgqomo. Kuya kufuneka upakishe nje iibhegi zakho, ungene kwinqwelomoya, emva koko ufumane ubomi kwelinye icala.
Ngamanye amaxesha imeko ngokwayo iyakunyanzela isandla sakho, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha uyakuba nobunewunewu bokukhetha.
Akukho mpendulo ichanekileyo
Njengoko sele uqaphela okwangoku, le nto ayinanto ngaphandle kokumnyama nokumhlophe. Ukuba uze ngempendulo ebonakalayo, awuyi kuyifumana. Kukho ezinye izinto iGoogle engenakukuthatha isigqibo. Hayi okwangoku, kunjalo.
Kufuneka uthathe ukujonga okupheleleyo kwimeko yakho kwaye ufumane oko kukulungele. Nangona uhlala usithathela ingqalelo abanye abantu, ngamanye amaxesha kuya kufuneka uzingce kancinci ukuba ufuna ukwenza utshintsho lube ngcono ekuhambeni kwexesha.
Nokuba uthatha umtsi okanye uthathe nje inyathelo kwicala elahlukileyo, ungaze uyeke ukuya phambili.
