'OMG. Ndiziva ngathi ndikwazile ngonaphakade, nangona sidibene nje! Ngaba oku akuqhelekanga? ”
Lo mbuzo wabuzwa kum kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo, ngumfazi olungileyo endandisandula ukudibana naye.
Saziswa ngumhlobo wethu owayenyanzelisa ukuba sihlalisane kakuhle…
Ishedyuli yokukhululwa kwebhola ekhatywayo
… Kwaye wayenyanisile.
Saye sahlala ngoko nangoko, kwaye savumelana ukuba kwakufana nokunxibelelana kwakhona nomhlobo wakudala esingakhange simbone okwethutyana.
Ukuba olu hlobo lwento lwenzekile kuwe-nokuba buqu okanye kwi-Intanethi-ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo udibene nomoya wohlobo.
Imimoya yohlobo inokuza ebomini bethu ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo, kodwa inye into eqinisekileyo: zenza ifuthe elihle kakhulu ngalo lonke ixesha.
Zeziphi Iimpawu zokuba Ufumene Umoya Onobubele?
Nye. Okokuqala nokuphambili, kukho uvakalelo osele udibene nalo.
Kukho ulwalamano olukhawulezileyo kunye nokuqhelana, ngaphandle kwayo nayiphi na into engathandekiyo enokwenzeka xa udibana nomntu omtsha.
Mbini. Amathuba ukuba nobabini unokuninzi ngokufanayo.
Oku kuhamba ngaphezulu nangaphaya kokuthanda iincwadi ezifanayo, umculo kunye neemovie.
Usenokuba ukhokele ubomi obufanayo, unamava afanayo nobudlelwane / amalungu osapho, kwaye unxiba ngokufanayo.
Ndivile ngeseti yoomoya abatsha abothulelanayo ngezipho zika “Santa ezifihlakeleyo” ngexesha leeholide… bafumanisa ukuba bathenga izinto ezifanayo.
Babengazani ixesha elide, kodwa babenalo hlobo lobophelelo ngoko nangoko.
3. Uzifumana uchithe amathumbu akho malunga nezinye zezinto ezizezakho ezakha zenzeka kuwe.
Kusenokwenzeka ukuba nobabini niyazana okwethutyana, kodwa niyazi ukuba kunzulu, kwaye nithembekile.
Basenokungabi namava afanayo nawe, kodwa banokuba novelwano, kwaye Andiyi kugweba . Uya kufumana inkxaso kunye nokuqonda kuphela.
Zine. Benza uzive ungaphantsi wedwa.
Nokuba unesangqa esibanzi sentlalontle, ubunokuhlala uziva ngokwahlukileyo kuninzi lwabantu ohleli nabo.
Mhlawumbi awukwazi ukuba nguwe uqobo kunye nabo bantu: uhlala kakuhle, kodwa uhlala ubambe ezinye zezona zinto zibalulekileyo ukuba ungubani.
Kutheni ndiqhubeka ndisenza iimpazamo ezifanayo
Umoya wakho wobuzalwana unokufumana into efanayo, ngendlela efanayo naleyo uyenzayo.
Baza 'kukubambezela' kwinqanaba ongazange wakhe wahlangana nalo ngaphambili… kwaye ukuqondwa ngokwenyani ngaloo ndlela kungcwele.
5. Uya kuphuhlisa intuition eyomeleleyo komnye nomnye, ngokukhawuleza okukhulu.
Umzekelo, unokuhlala emsebenzini kwaye ngequbuliso uzive ukhathazekile- ngokungathi ufuna ukuthumela lo mntu umyalezo.
Xa usenza njalo, uya kufumanisa ukuba bahlukana neqabane labo , okanye baphulukana nomsebenzi.
Oku kwenzeka ngendlela elungileyo nayo. Kulula ngokulula, unesibophelelo esinamandla esivumela ukuba ucofe indlela oziva ngayo omnye nomnye.
6. Uyakhuthaza kwaye khuthazanani .
Ngapha koko, nina nobabini ninokuba ziinkuthazo omnye komnye kuye kwafuneka ukuba afumane izinto ezintsha ebomini bakho.
Mhlawumbi uhlala ufuna ukuba ne-adventure phesheya kolwandle, kodwa akukho namnye kwabahlobo bakho owayenomdla.
Amathuba okuba lo mphefumlo womnakwenu unephupha elifanayo, kwaye nobabini nihlala kubomi bomnye nomnye ukuze nifumane loo nto.
Okanye, kunokubangela ukukhula komnye nomnye. Unokubonelelana amandla kunye nenkxaso ukushiya ubudlelwane obumiyo, okanye ukulandela iindlela ezintsha zomsebenzi.
7. Imiphefumlo yenu icula ingoma enye.
Okanye, ukuyichaza ngokwahlukileyo, ungcangcazela kumgama ofanayo wobude.
Ukuba ulungelelene kumandla abanye abantu, uyazi ukuba abanye abantu badibana ngokuvisisanayo, ngelixa abanye be… bengavisisani.
Ngomoya wohlobo, nokuba amandla akho akakho ngokuchanekileyo ngokufanayo, iya kuhlala iziva 'ilungile.'
Njengokuba umamele ingoma kunye neemvumi ezimbini ziyahambelana ngokugqibeleleyo.
Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
- Iimpawu ezili-15 zoMhlobo olungileyo
- Ubungqina bokuba unokuba noMntu oMnye oPhilayo kwiXesha loBomi bakho
- Ungadibanisa njani kwaye usebenze kunye nezikhokelo zoMoya
Imimoya yohlobo eyahlukileyo yahluke njani kubalingane bomphefumlo kunye namadangatye amawele?
Oh nkwenkwe. Kulungile.
Zintathu ezi kakhulu iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zonxibelelwano.
Cinga ngedangatye elingathi luhlobo lwesipili esisithunzi.
Uya kuba ne-chemistry enamandla kunye nabo, kwaye unokuba ne-telepathic okanye i-psychic bond nabo.
Oko akuthethi ukuba iya kuba sisivumelwano esihle. Okanye isempilweni.
isithandwa sam siphelelwe ngumdla kum
Ubudlelwane phakathi kwamadangatye kujongwe ukuba kubangele ukukhula kunye nokuziphendukela kwemvelo. Zityhila kuthi izithunzi, kwaye zihlala zisiphazamisa.
Olu hlobo lokuqhekeka lunokusiguqula siphume ngaphakathi, ngenxa yoko sinokugqibela ngokujongana nokusebenza ngeyona nto imnyama, okanye ukugqitywa ngabo.
Ubudlelwane bamawele edangatye athambekele ekubeni phinda / ucime kwakhona , ngokulwa kakhulu kunye noxolelwaniso olunomdla.
Oku kunokuhamba uye emva iminyaka de elinye (okanye omabini) amaqela ekugqibeleni abe anele.
Baya kuba bekhulile kangangoko banako, kwaye ke ubudlelwane kufuneka bufike esiphelweni.
Ngokuchaseneyo, abalingani bomphefumlo ngabantu abakubomi bakho yobomi bonke .
Abanye abantu bakholelwa ekubeni ezi zizidalwa eziyinxalenye yeqela lomphefumlo wakho…
Ukuba nonke niluke kwintambo efanayo yamandla e-universal, ukuba niyathanda: ngathi nonke niyingxenye yomngxunya ofanayo.
Nifumana omnye nomnye njengoko nisiya ebomini, kwaye nigqiba ukudlala indima ebalulekileyo ebomini bomnye nomnye.
Kwezinye iimeko, ubudlelwane bomphefumlo bunokuphela buthandana. Qaphela nje ukuba oko akuthethi ukuba baya kuba kukuhlala ixesha elide okanye imitshato.
Abanye abalingani bomphefumlo baya kuba nokuhamba okufutshane komzimba, ngenxa yokuba unxibelelwano lukhulu kakhulu, ekuqaleni lunokutolikwa njenge uxinzelelo ngokwesondo nomtsalane.
Oko kungangxama ngokukhawuleza, njengoko abantu bobabini beqonda ukuba ayingombhangqwana wothando, kodwa kukunxibelelana okunobukrakra ngokweemvakalelo.
Olu hlobo lwentlantsi yesondo alusoloko lukhona ngokudibana komoya.
Kuza kubakho ubudlelwane ngokukhawuleza, kunye nokufudumala, kunye nemvakalelo yokuqhelana (njengoko kuchaziwe ngaphambili), kodwa kunqabile kakhulu ukuba kuya kubonakala njenge-chemistry yomzimba.
Ukuba iyenzeka, inokwenzeka ukuba iyakhawuleza, kwaye iyakusebenza yomelele ngakumbi, ibhondi yeplaton ukuqhubela phambili.
Kufana kakhulu… ngokungathi ufumanise amawele entlobo owahlulwe ngawo ekuzalweni.
Kuya kubakho itoni 'omg, nawe!?!' amaxesha, apho uqaphela ukuba inguwe kuphela abantu obaziyo abafunde incwadi ethile, okanye bayayonwabela ipeyinti eyoyikisayo ye-chocolate mint ice cream kunye ne-salsa engaphezulu.
Ngapha koko, uya kufuna kwangoko nceda lowo mntu bafumane uvuyo oluninzi kangangoko kunokwenzeka.
Niya kukhulisana imimoya yomnye nomnye, nibonise isiqinisekiso kunye neentetho ze-pep, kwaye nincedane ukukhumbula ukubaluleka kwakho okumangalisayo.
Kutheni Sinemimoya Eminye?
Abanye abantu abakholelwa ekuzalweni kwakhona babambelela kwimbono yokuba imimoya yeli xesha lobomi ngabo babesondele kuthi kubomi bangaphambili.
Ndidinga ukudibanisa ubomi bam
Banokuba ngabahlobo abasenyongweni, amalungu osapho, kwanamaqabane athandanayo.
Nokuba luyintoni na ulwalamano lwangaphambili, lwakha iqhina elomeleleyo kangangokuba nobabini nibe nakho ukuphinda nifumanane ngeli xesha lobomi, xa ixesha lalifanelekile.
Ngokwenyani, uninzi lwabantu lukholelwa ukuba imimoya yezalamane ivela ebomini bethu kanye xa siyifuna, ngalo naliphi na inani lezizathu.
Malunga nokuba baya kuvela njani kwaye nini ... ngubani owaziyo?
Mhlawumbi sinomdla omnye komnye ngohlobo lokutsala ngemagnethi.
Okanye, ukuba uyakholelwa kumandla aphezulu, imitya inokuba itsaliwe ukuze nobabini nidibane kanye ngexesha ebenifuna ngalo.
Cinga ngezinye zezona zalamane ziqatha okhe wanazo nabantu ebomini bakho.
Kutheni le nto unxibelelwano lwalunamandla kangaka?
Amathuba kukuba udibene nabantu abakholelwa ngokwenyani ngexesha lotshintsho olukhulu okanye lotshintsho.
Mhlawumbi ngexa loqhawulo-mtshato, okanye umceli mngeni kwezempilo, okanye xa uzama ukuthatha isigqibo sokuba uza kwenza ntoni ngekhondo lomsebenzi.
Umntu othile kungenzeka ukuba ubenakho ukukunceda kuyo, ngandlela thile. Kunene?
Olunye unxibelelwano losapho lunokubakho kuphela okwexeshana, ukuze lube ngunobangela wotshintsho olukhulu (okanye inkxaso ngexesha elinzima).
Akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngale nto: ayisiyiyo yonke ubudlelwane ekufuneka ibe yeyobomi bonke, kwaye kubandakanya ulwalamano lobuhlobo.
Unokucofa nomntu omnandi ngelixa useluhambeni ngenqanawa, okanye xa udanisa eBurn Man.
Akukho mfuneko yokuba uhlale unxibelelana de ube ubambene ecaleni kwizitulo zasekhaya zabongikazi ...
… Ezo ntsuku zimbalwa (okanye neeyure) enizichithe kunye ziya kuba namandla ngokwaneleyo ukukhuthaza umlingo ofuna ukwenzeka, nobabini.
Kukwabalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba uhlangane ezininzi oomoya obahlukeneyo kwizalamane zakho ebomini bakho.
Iliwa kunye nokulawula kwamaroma kuhambelana
Sonke siyatshintsha, ngalo lonke ixesha, ukuze ubudlelwane bethu buguquke, kwaye abantu bangene baphume kubomi bethu ngokulandelelana.
Njengoko utshintsha, uyakudibana nabantu abatsha abanxibelelana nemeko yakho yangoku, kwaye baninzi kubo!
Isicatshulwa esivela ku-Anne weGreen Gables siphuma engqondweni:
Imimoya yohlobo alunqabile njengoko bendicinga njalo. Kuyinto entle ukufumanisa ukuba zininzi kakhulu emhlabeni.
Ukuba uziva ukuba udibene nomhlobo osondeleyo, kuyamangalisa!
Luxabise olu nxibelelwano, qiniseka ukuba bayazi ukuba uyabaxabisa kangakanani, kwaye utyhile ngalo lonke ixesha onalo kunye.
Nobabini nisenokungabi ngabahlobo abasenyongweni ngonaphakade, kodwa niyakuba nefuthe elikhulu kubomi bomnye nomnye, kwaye ngokungathandabuzekiyo niyakutshintshana kube ngcono.
