Ukuba awunabo okanye unabahlobo abasondeleyo, yintoni onokuyenza ukuze ufumane olo nxibelelwano ulunqwenelayo? Qhubeka ufunda ukuze ufumane ezinye izimvo.
Kudala zahamba iintsuku apho abahlobo bakho abasenyongweni yayingabantu ababehlala ngaphesheya kwesitalato kuwe, okanye ababekwibanga elinye esikolweni sakho. Ukuba awunguye umntu oye wahlala ngokuxinana nabantu obaziyo ukusukela xa wawusengumntwana, amathuba okuba ungasilela kwisebe lomhlobo osondeleyo.
Oku kuqheleke ngakumbi ngoku ekubeni abantu abaninzi besebenza kude: ngaphandle konxibelelwano olunokuthi luphuhle nabantu osebenza nabo, ubulolo kwaye ukwahluka kuyaqina.
Oko kwathethi, ukwenza izihlobo njengomntu omkhulu kunzima kakhulu kunakubantwana, kwaye kunokuba nzima ukungena kwindawo entsha yentlalontle, ngakumbi ukuba ufudukele kwisixeko esitsha kwaye uzama ukuqonda ukuba uphi ukungena.
Apha ngezantsi kukho imisebenzi yezoluntu onokuyijonga wedwa, ukuze ufumane unxibelelwano olufuneka kakhulu.
Ngubani ujason derulos umfazi
1. Ukuvulwa kweMyuziyam kunye neGalari
Ngaba ungumlandeli wobugcisa, inkcubeko kunye nembali? IiMyuziyam kunye neegalari zobugcisa zinamaqela avulekileyo kwimiboniso yazo ekhethekileyo phantse veki nganye. La ngamathuba amahle okuncokola nabanye abantu kwindawo enoxinzelelo oluphantsi: uyazi ukuba bakhona kuba bayabuthanda ubugcisa (okanye naliphi na ixesha leembali zembali ezibonisiweyo), kwaye ngenxa yoko, akukho xinzelelo lokuthetha ngokwakho ngokukhawuleza. Ungaxoxa ngento eboniswayo, kwaye iya kuhlala ibaleka kubantu abafanayo kwiminyhadala ezayo.
Kukho ngokuqhelekileyo iwayini kunye noshizi kunye nokugqithiswa okunjalo, ngoko unako ukutyiwa xa uhlala kunye. Ikwalithuba elihle kubafundi abahluphekileyo ukuba basebenzise ngokupheleleyo, njengoko unokufumana ukutya ngelixa uthatha umboniso omangalisayo.
2. Ukuhamba ghost (okanye Ukuzingela…)
Ukuba unokulungiselela kwangaphambili kwazo zonke izinto ezingaphezu kwendalo, jonga kwiindawo zokuhamba okanye ezinye iindwendwe ezenzeka kwindawo yakho! Phantse kuzo zonke izixeko ezikwiplanethi zinezakhiwo ezimbalwa zokutshekisha, kwaye ukuba unomdla wokuntywila kwimeko ezinokuphazamiseka, unokuqiniseka ukuba nabanye abakufutshane nabo banjalo.
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Ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba ube sisidalwa esinomdla ngakumbi, unokuhlangana kunye nokuzingelwa kwesiporho okanye iqela lophando oluqhelekileyo. Endaweni yokuhamba nje kwiindawo ezinokuthi zingahoywanga okanye zingaphathwa kakuhle kwaye zimamele isikhokelo sabakhenkethi malunga nokuba ngubani owafela apho, la maqela athathe inxaxheba ebonakalayo kwaye azame ukukhangela abantu abasweleyo bendawo ethile. Kuxhomekeke apho uhlala khona, unokufumana ukuphonononga iinqaba okanye iihotele ezilahliweyo, kwaye usebenzise izixhobo ezipholileyo ukuthatha amandla okufunda kunye nokurekhoda amazwi angenanto.
Ibhonasi: uloyiko lwakho ekwabelwana ngalo lunokutsalwa ngenjongo yokudibanisa kwivenkile okanye kwikhefi emva komsitho.
3. Amaqela asekuHlaleni
Uluntu oluninzi luhlala luhlangana apho unokuhlala kunye nabamelwane bakho kwaye uthathe inxaxheba kwizinto ezichaphazela indawo yakho. Oku kunokuba ziiprojekthi zasegadini zoluntu, imicimbi yesisa, ukhuphiswano lwezemidlalo, kunye nokuhlangana.
Uninzi lwethu alunanto kwaye asibazi nabamelwane bethu abasondeleyo, singasathethi ke ngabanye abantu ezitalatweni, ke eli lithuba elihle lokwazi abantu abatsha kufutshane.
Inye into elungileyo malunga nolu hlobo lwezinto zentlalo kukuba unokuhlala kufutshane nekhaya, kwaye ukuba ufuna ukuhamba nangaliphi na ixesha, ngekhe ikuthathe ixesha elide ukubuyela endlwini yakho. Oku kulunge ngakumbi kubantu abanengxaki yokuxhalaba ekuhlaleni, okanye abanemicimbi yezempilo okanye ukuhamba okusikelwe umda.
4. Iiklasi
Iiklasi zokupheka zinokukunceda udibane nabantu abanomdla ofanayo wokupheka, ngelixa iiklasi zokuyila ziya kukunceda ukuba uphucule izakhono zakho ngelixa unxibelelana nabo banokwabelana ngemilinganiselo yakho. Uninzi lwala maqela lukwizizukulwana ngezizukulwana, ke unokunxibelelana nabantu bayo yonke iminyaka eyahlukeneyo kunye nemvelaphi.
imizekelo yeenyaniso ezimnandi ngabantu
Unokuzibonela ngokwakho ukuba ungathanda kangakanani ukusebenzisana nabanye abantu xa befunda ngeenxa zonke kuwe: ngamanye amaxesha kumnandi ukuhlala phambi kwabanye ngelixa usenza into yakho, uyazi?
Ukuba ujonge ukunxibelelana nabanye ekuhlaleni, ukuthatha iklasi yolwimi lukhetho olukhulu, njengoko kuya kufuneka uziqhelanise nezakhono zakho zokufunda nokuthetha neqabane.
Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
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- Ukuzithemba kwiiHacks zoMntu oHlangayo ngokwasentlalweni
- 13 Imizabalazo yoBomi yaBasetyhini abaThule ngokwendalo
- Iingcaphuno ezingama-30 zokubhiyozela amaNtshayelelo, iintyatyambo zodonga kunye neengcuka zodwa
5. Umsebenzi Wokuzithandela
Abo bangakhange bathathe inxaxheba kwimisebenzi yokuvolontiya baya kumangaliswa yindlela ekuza kuyifeza ngayo kumanqanaba amaninzi. Ngokuthatha inxaxheba kumathuba okuvolontiya, awuyi kuba wenza okuhle kwindawo yakho kuphela, uya kudibana nabantu abanexabiso elifanayo ngelixa usenza umahluko wokwenyani kwihlabathi.
Njengokudibanisa, ivolontiya linokunciphisa uxinzelelo . Xa ujolise ekwenzeni izinto ngcono kwabo bakungqongileyo, ooyeha bakho bathabathe isihlalo esingasemva ukubanceda.
Maninzi amathuba okuvolontiya naphi na apho uya khona, ke unokuqiniseka ukuba ufumana eyona ikulungeleyo. Ukuba uhlala kakuhle nabantu abadala, ungavolontiya kwikhaya lomhlalaphantsi. Uthanda izilwanyana? Bhalisela ukuhamba ngenja kwindawo yakho yokuhlala ukuze ukwazi ukuwola amantshontsho ngelixa ubanika imithambo efuneka kakhulu. Iikhitshi zesuphu zihlala zifuna uncedo olongezelelekileyo lokondla abantu abangenamakhaya, kwaye iminyhadala yokuxhasa imali ngokubanzi ifuna zonke iindlela zabancedisi ukuze baphumelele.
6. Imidlalo ekwi-Intanethi
Oku kunokubonakala ngathi kukuchasana nento abantu abaninzi abayithatha njengeyona nto yentlalo, kodwa uyakholelwa okanye hayi, ukudlala iMMORPG (ngumdlalo wokudlala indima wabadlali abaninzi kwi-intanethi kuwe nakum) kunokuba yinto entle kwezentlalo. Kwimidlalo enje ngeWorld Warcraft okanye iGuild Wars, ungadibana nabanye, ujoyine amaqela, kwaye ubuye uthethe iqhinga lokuseta iseti yentloko ukuba uziva unomdla wokuthetha ngomlomo.
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Ngokujoyina elinye lala maqela, unokuhlakulela into efana neqela labazalwana / oodade: ngokucacileyo wabelana ngalo mdla, kwaye ninomqolo omnye komnye. U-Balthazar uMfundisi unokukuvusa kwelabafileyo emva kokuba i-orc ikhuphe i-crossbow bolt elisweni lakho, kwaye ungavuya ngocoselelo ukuba ubambe isibini kubasindisi beNkosi uVladimir98!
Ukudlala njengolu hlobo lukhetho olukhulu kubangeneleli abanokuthi babenobunzima bokwenza iibhondi ezintsha nabanye. Nje ukuba ukhululeke ukunxibelelana nabo bakho kumbutho wakho, unganethuba lokudibana ngesiqu kwindibano, ukuba inomdla.
7. AmaQela okuhlangana
Ukuba uhlala edolophini enabantu abangaphezu kwekhulu kuyo, kunokwenzeka ukuba kuya kubakho amaqela e-Meetup akufutshane. Ngokujonga ezinye zazo, unokufumana abanye onokuthi uxoxe nabo ngamayelenqe angaphandle, ubuchule bokunitha, iitshizi ezingenisiweyo, i-anime cosplaying… nantoni na.
Yenza nje i khangela kwi-intanethi kwaye ulungiselele ukumangaliswa ngamaqela ezentlalo akungqongileyo. Emva koko, konke okufuneka ukwenze ubhalise, kwaye ubonise! Uya kudubula ngokupheleleyo, kwaye ujonge phambili kwi-meetup elandelayo. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, usenokude ube nobuhlobo obuhle, bexesha elide kunye nabanye.
Isitshixo sokuzibandakanya kwizinto zoluntu kukujonga kwezo zihambelana nomdla wakho onyanisekileyo, endaweni yokuzama ukuzifaka kwinto ocinga ukuba ufanele ujonge kuyo kuba ibonakala ipholile. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ubuhlobo obusenyongweni esibuphuhlisayo buhlala kunye nabo babelana ngezinto esinomdla kuzo, abanemilinganiselo yokuziphatha, abahlekisayo nezinye.
Unxibelelwano lokwenyani lwenzeka xa sinyanisekile, kwaye olo hlobo lokunyaniseka lwenzeka kuphela xa sinokuwisa iindonga zethu ze-ego kwaye sinyaniseke ngento esiyithandayo. Ukuba into oyithandayo yenzeka ngokuba nguGqirha Ngubani oneeprojekthi zokunitha kunye nokutya kwe-Thai-Hungarian cuisine, uzishukumisa ezo zinto uzithandayo! Bazakubakhona abanye ababelana ngothando olunje, kwaye abo… ngabantu bakho.
Yiya konwaba.
