Wonke umntu uziva elilolo kunye nokuba yedwa ngamanye amaxesha. Yinto eqhelekileyo leyo kwaye ilindelekile leyo.
Eyona nto inzima ngakumbi kuxa siziva sinesithukuthezi kwaye sisodwa esihlala sisilandela.
Utshintsho kubomi bomntu nalo lunokuba nefuthe ubulolo -Kufana nokuqala umsebenzi omtsha okanye ukufudukela kwindawo entsha.
Ngapha koko, uxinzelelo kunye ixhala zinokuzandisa ezo mvakalelo, zibangele umntu ukuba arhoxe ngakumbi, zibenze bazive ngathi beme bodwa, nokuba basegumbini eligcwele abantu.
Singamelana njani kwaye simelane nezi mvakalelo? La manyathelo anokunceda.
1. Chonga unobangela kunye nexesha elide uzive ulilolo okanye ulilolo.
Asinakusifumana isisombululo kwingxaki de siyiqonde kakuhle ukuba yintoni ingxaki kwaye ivelaphi.
Ubulolo obukrakra kunye nokuzikhetha kuhlala kungumphumo wotshintsho lobomi kwangoko olusahlulayo kwizangqa zethu zentlalo okanye kubudlelwane.
Isenokuba sisiphumo sokuhamba, utshintsho lomsebenzi, olubi hlukala , okanye ukuxabana nomhlobo okanye ilungu losapho.
Umntu usenokuba nesithukuthezi kakhulu ukuba bayaxokwa ngumhlobo omthembileyo, okhethwe ngaphandle liqela labo, ahlekise ngaye, okanye alahlwe ngenye indlela. Kwakhona sinokuziva singamalolo ukuba siye sagatywa ngumdla wothando.
Ubulolo bexesha elide bunokubangelwa sisifo sengqondo, izifo ezingapheliyo zomzimba ezisenza siphile ubomi obusebenzayo, ukuphulukana nokuhamba ngenxa yokugula okanye ukuguga, okanye ubuhlobo kunye nolwalamano olungalinganiyo.
Abantu zizidalwa zentlalo. Uninzi lwabantu kufuneka lube nokunxibelelana nabanye ekuhlaleni ukuze lulunge kwiimvakalelo zokuziva bengamalolo.
Ukuba phakathi kwabantu abanobuntu obungalunganga ngobuntu okanye amandla emvakalelo nako kunokwenza umntu abe lilolo.
Umntu owahlukileyo kwaye ongonelanga kubume obuqhelekileyo bezentlalo unokuziva elilolo, kuba abanako ukuzicingela njengenxalenye yeyunithi ehlangeneyo.
2. Vavanya ubunyani bakho kwaye uqwalasele ukuba zisengqiqweni njani ezo mvakalelo.
Kukho ingxaki ebalulekileyo kolu luntu nzulu ubuhlobo kunye nobudlelwane.
Bambalwa abantu abagxalathelanayo ukuya kwimithombo yeendaba ukuzama ukuqokelela inani elikhulu labalandeli, becinga ukuba aba bantu ngabahlobo babo kwaye babakhathalele.
Olu luphawu olungeyonyani lokuba ubuhlobo buyintoni ngokwenene. Umntu unokuba nabalandeli abayi-100,000 kwaye mhlawumbi i-5 kubo ngabantu abanomdla wokwenene malunga nomntu kwimeko yobuhlobo okanye ubudlelwane.
Inzululwazi iqala ukujonga ngakumbi indlela amajelo eendaba ezentlalo achaphazela ngayo ukuqonda kwethu kunye nokunxibelelana nabanye abantu ngenxa yayo.
Kubalulekile ukugcina ulindelo olusengqiqweni kunye nokuchonga iinkolelo ezingekho ngqiqweni.
Umzekelo, akukho sengqiqweni ukulindela ukuba umntu osandula ukudibana naye akukhathalele ngokunzulu okanye afune ukusoloko ekufutshane nawe.
Ixesha liyimfuneko yokwakha ukuthembana, ubuhlobo obunempilo kunye nobudlelwane phakathi kwabantu. Kwiimeko ezininzi, ikwafuna ukungavisisani kunye nokusebenza ukufumana indawo efanayo apho abantu ababandakanyekayo banokuhlangana phakathi.
Imidiya yokuncokola kunye neeapps zichaphazela kakubi loo nto. Ngaba awufuni ukuthetha nomntu? Vimba nje kwaye ufumane enye! Ayisiyongozi kwaphela kwizakhono zentlalo.
Kwaye le nto ngokuqinisekileyo inwenwela kwinkcubeko yokuthandana kwi-Intanethi, apho abantu babilisiweyo kwinkcazo emfutshane kunye nomgca wethegi.
Idala amava apho uphantse wayokuthenga umdlalo ogqibeleleyo, ucinga ukuba umntu wayenyanisekile malunga nendlela abazimele ngayo kuwe nakwihlabathi liphela.
Ngokwenyani, umdlalo ogqibeleleyo awufane ubekhona. Wonke umntu akafezekanga, kwaye imigangatho engekho ngqiqweni inokubangela ukuba sibalahle abantu ebekufanelekile ukuba bebengenzi le nto okanye leya.
Siya kuhlala siphoxekile ukuba sijonga ukugqibelela kumhlobo okanye kwisithandwa.
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3. Thatha inyathelo lokutyhala uzame ukunciphisa isizungu.
Akukho ngxaki isonjululwa ngaphandle kwamanyathelo amisiweyo.
Ngelishwa, uxinzelelo olunokuhamba nesizungu lunokwenza lo msebenzi ubonakale ungenakoyiswa.
Ujonge phi? Ingaba uyaphi? Zeziphi iindlela esingathi ngazo sibuyele umva kwisizungu?
Ukukwazi ukondla kunye nokunika uthando kunokunceda ekulweni ubulolo ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba. Izilwanyana zasekhaya yindlela ebalaseleyo yokulwa nesizungu ngokubanzi. Inja okanye ikati inokubonelela ngovuyo kunye nentuthuzelo, iyonwabile ngokubanzi ukufumana uthando, kwaye iya kuhlala inika ingqalelo kunye nothando lwayo ngendlela emsulwa.
Ngaphezu koko, awunakukhathazeka malunga nokuba bangaya kuyo nantoni na eguqukayo, ukuba nje ungashiyi isidlo sakho sangokuhlwa sihleli kwindawo abanokufikelela kuyo!
Ukulala okusemgangathweni kunye nokuzilolonga nako kunokunceda. Ingqondo ivelisa iikhemikhali ezininzi zokulinganisa imood kwinqanaba lokulala. Ukuba asilali kakuhle, emva koko sinokuziva sibi kakhulu ngathi, ngehlabathi, nangendawo yethu jikelele ebomini.
Oko kuyangena kwindlela esivakalelwa ngayo ngabanye abantu, ubuhlobo bethu, kunye nolwalamano. Ukungabikho kweendlela zokulala ngokungalunganga nako kunokuba negalelo kuxinzelelo, olwenza ukuba ubulolo kunye nokuba wedwa.
Umsebenzi wokuzithandela unokuba yindlela elula yokuphuma nokujikeleza, ikunike ithuba lokuqalisa ukwakha ubuhlobo obutsha nabantu abanomdla ofanayo.
Ukuphonononga izinto ozithandayo kunokuba lolunye ukhetho olufanelekileyo. Kukho iiwebhusayithi phaya ezilungiselela ukudibana kwabantu basekuhlaleni ababelana ngezinto zokuzonwabisa ezifanayo. Kungaba yindlela elungileyo yokuhlangana nabantu abatsha.
Elona candelo linzima kubantu abaninzi kukufumana amandla okuzama ukuthatha inyathelo eliya phambili - kunye nokujongana nesiphithiphithi seemvakalelo ukuba izinto azihambi njengoko bekucwangcisiwe.
Kulungile ukuba abenzi njalo. Kufuneka siqhubeke sizama kangangoko sinako, nokuba sithatha inyathelo elinye ngexesha kuhambo olude.
Kufuneka sikhumbule ukuba ikamva lethu alichazwanga ngoku. Ngomso kungangcono.
4. Funa uncedo xa uziva ukuba awunako ukoyisa ubulolo kunye nokuzikhetha wedwa.
Imicimbi yengqondo ihlala inamaqhinga ekunikezeleni imbono kuyo, kuba eminye imiba ifikelela nzulu kunaleyo sinokuyisebenzisa sodwa.
Akukho hlazo ekufikeleleni kwingcali yezempilo yengqondo ukuba siziva ngathi asinakukwazi ukubhekana sodwa kunye nesizungu.
Inokuba sesinye sezona zinto zinzima esakhe sazenza, esinye sezona zigqibo zinzima ekufuneka sizenzele zona. Ungazivumeli ukuba unciphise ukubandezeleka kwakho, ukuba kunjalo. Ufanelekile ukuba uzive wonwabile, unxibelelwano, kwaye uyathandwa.
Kodwa, uxinzelelo okanye amava abuhlungu anokusenza sizive ngathi asifanelanga kunxibelelwano, uthando, uthando. Obo bubuxoki ukuba isifo sengqondo singazama ukusiqinisekisa. Musa ukumamela!
5. Ukuba ndikholelwa ukuba umntu endimkhathaleleyo unesithukuthezi okanye uzimele yedwa?
Fikelela kubo! Sukwenza ngeposi yemidiya yoluntu nangona. Hlela intlanganiso okanye uthethe ngomlomo naloo mntu ngefowuni okanye ngesicelo sengxoxo.
Ukuthetha kunye nokujongana ubuso ngobuso kuncoko kunemvakalelo kunye nentlalontle yomva emva kwabo enokunceda umntu onesizungu azive edibene ngakumbi.
Rhoqo sizifumana sikwilizwe lethu elincinci, lisongelwe ziingcinga zethu, uxinzelelo kunye namaxhala. Kuya kufuneka senze umzamo wokufikelela ebantwini abaya kuthi batyhalelwe emaphethelweni oluntu nakumaqela ezentlalo ngenxa yesizungu.
Kwaye, njengomntu onesizungu, kubalulekile ukulwa iingcinga zakhe, uloyiko kunye noxinzelelo ukufikelela kwaye uzame ukuvala isikhewu kangangoko sinako.
Yimalini eyenziwe ngujared padalecki
Uninzi lwabantu aluyi kuqaphela umntu oziva elilolo ngaphandle kokuqhutywa kukuqonda kunye nokuqonda. Oko kunokujika kube ngumjikelo okhohlakeleyo wokungqina ukuba akukho mntu ubonayo okanye okhathalayo. Umcimbi kukuba ingxaki icekeceke kangangokuba kunokuba nzima ukuyiphawula.
Kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba awufanelanga kubahlobo, ububele, uthando, okanye uthando.
