Imihla yokuqala inokuba sisongelo-luvo.
Imihla yesibini inokuziva inomdla ngakumbi.
Ngomhla wesithathu, mhlawumbi uziva ukhululekile ngakumbi.
Kodwa mingaphi imihla ethathayo phambi kwakho kwaye lo mntu mtsha ebomini bakho enze ubudlelwane obukhethekileyo?
Ngaba ibhola yebhola enkulu iyaqhubeka
Konke kuza kwindlela ochaza ngayo izinto.
Ungaqala ufake ifayile ye ‘Ukuthandana’ phase kwaye emva koko ungaqala ‘Ukubona’ loo mntu.
Emva koko, uya kuba ‘Ekhethekileyo’ ude ekugqibeleni utsho ‘Igosa.’
Imigca phakathi kwala manqanaba okuqala olwalamano ihlala iphazamisekile. Kodwa siya kwenza konke okusemandleni ethu ukucacisa nganye nganye.
Zingaphi Imihla ude 'ukuthandana' Umntu?
Ukuya kwiintsuku ezimbalwa nomntu akufani nokuthandana naloo mntu.
Olo nxibelelwano lwakwangoko likuvumela ukuba uzive kwaye uthathe isigqibo sokuba ngaba akukho nanye into eqhubekayo ngokuqhubeka kwezinto.
Ngomhla wesibini okanye wesithathu, kuya kufuneka ube unoluvo oluhle ukuba uyamthanda lo mntu ngokwaneleyo kwaye ukuba bayamlingana kwiphepha.
Uyakuthembela kwimo yakho kwaye uqonde ukuba kuya kufuneka uyibize usuku okanye uqhubeke.
Ukuba wenza ukuba ukuthandana ezine nomntu, kukhuselekile ukuba bathi ukuba uthandana nabo.
Zingaphi Imihla Ngaphambi kokuba 'Ubone' Umntu?
Akuthathi xesha lide ukusuka ekuthandeni umntu uye kumbona.
Ukuba uwudlile umhla wesine kwaye ngoku ungomhla wesihlanu okanye wesithandathu, kwaye le mihla ibe yimicimbi emide emakhayeni omnye, mhlawumbi uyababona.
Kwaye ukuba izinto ziye zaba ngokwasemzimbeni ngeli nqanaba ngesondo okanye amanye amava asondeleyo enzekileyo, oku ngokuqinisekileyo kubonisa intshukumo yokubona umntu kunokuthandana nabo.
Ixesha elichithwe kunye libaluleke ngakumbi kunenani leMihla
Ngaphambi kokuba siphonononge ubume bolwalamano olukhethekileyo nolusemthethweni, kufanelekile ukuthatha umoya kunye nokuxoxa ngamanye amanqaku afihlakeleyo.
Okokuqala, elona xesha leentsuku ohamba ngalo alifanelekanga kunexesha elichithwe kunye.
Umzekelo, ukuba umhla wakho wesibini ubandakanya usuku olude lwehlobo olichithe ukuphumla epakini okanye elunxwemeni, elandelwa sisidlo sangokuhlwa neziselo…
… Yahlukile kancinci ukuba ubamba iziselo kangangeyure okanye ezimbini emva komsebenzi.
Inani elipheleleyo lencoko onokufikelela kuyo yonke imini inokunceda ukwakha iibhondi ngokukhawuleza kunokuba kusasazeke ngaphezulu kwemihla emininzi.
Ewe kunokubakho ukuthumela imiyalezo ngapha nangapha phakathi kwemihla, kodwa oko akunakuthelekiswa nomthamo wamagama atshintshisene ngobuqu.
Akunako nje.
Ingxoxo engakumbi ikhokelela kwizigqibo ezikhawulezayo malunga nokuba uyamthanda okanye awumthandi lo mntu nokuba uyafuna ukubabona kwakhona.
Ke unokuthatha isigqibo sokuba ufuna 'ukuthandana' nomntu emva kweentlanganiso nje ezide.
Kwaye unokuthi ungene kwisimo sengqondo 'sokubona' lo mntu ngomhla wesithathu.
Ixesha eliphakathi kwemihla nalo libalulekile
Ngelixa sitshilo ukuba ukuthumela imiyalezo akuthathi ndawo yokuthetha buqu, ukuba izithuba phakathi kwemihla zinde, iqhina onokuthi ulakhe ngalo lisabalulekile.
Ke, ukuba niyakwazi ukubonana kube kanye ngeveki, imiyalezo eqengqeleka emva naphambili inokudala unxibelelwano lweemvakalelo.
Ingathatha enye okanye ezimbini yangoku imihla encinci ukufikelela kwinqanaba apho ubona umntu xa kuthelekiswa nokuba loo mihla isondelene.
Ixesha eliyahlukileyo likuvumela ukuba ucinge ngakumbi ngomntu, okanye nokuba ucinge ngabo kunye nokuba kunjani ukuba nabo njengentombi yakho okanye isoka lakho.
Inokwakha inqanaba lolindelo kwaye yenze usuku ngalunye lube lukhulu ngakumbi. Oku, kwakhona, kunokuthetha ukuba zimbalwa iintlanganiso zomzimba ezifunekayo ukwenza iqhina elomeleleyo.
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Umahluko phakathi 'kokuKhethekileyo' kunye 'neGosa'
Kude kube ngoku, usenokuqhubeka uhamba nemihla nabanye abantu…
… Kodwa ekugqibeleni, uya kuthatha isigqibo sokuba kukho umntu omnye ofuna ukwenza inzame enzulu ngakumbi.
Umntu oziva ukuba unakho ngokwenyani njengeqabane elizayo.
saphuzana kodwa uyandithanda
Okwangoku, usenokuxoxa nabo ngombono wokuba bodwa omnye komnye.
Ukuba yedwa kuthetha ukuba awuhlangani nabanye abantu kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo awubandakanyeki kuzo naziphi na izenzo zesondo okanye zomzimba nabanye.
Kwabanye abantu, oku kuyafana nokwenza ulwalamano olusemthethweni.
Babona oku kuzibophelela njengoko kwanele ukuthi nina nobabini niyathandana.
Kwabanye, kunokubakho umahluko phakathi kokuba wedwa nokuba kubudlelwane.
Banokubona eli nqanaba njengengxelo yenjongo yokuba uya kuvavanya imiba enzulu ngakumbi yobudlelwane, kodwa ngaphandle kokuba sisibini esigqibeleleyo.
Uhlobo lokuvavanywa kwamanzi, ukuba uyathanda.
Ukuba awukabikho, usenokudibana nabahlobo babanye okanye uchithe impelaveki yonke kunye.
Usenokude uhambe uye kwiindawo ezonwabisayo ezimbalwa kwiintsuku ezimbalwa.
Eli lixesha apho uya kuba neencoko ezinzulu ekufuneka zibekho ukuba ikamva lexesha elide liza kubakho emakhadini.
Ngenxa yokuba, masijongane nayo, usenokuba awukathethi malunga nokuba ngubani kuni ofuna abantwana kwaye bangaphi okanye apho ufuna ukuzinza khona okanye isimo sakho sengqondo ngemali.
Abanye abantu banokuziva ngathi ezi zinto zigutyungelwe kakuhle kwaye zenziwa ngaphambi kokuba wenze okokugqibela ukuzibophelela kubudlelwane obugcweleyo.
Ke… kuthatha ixesha elingakanani ukufikelela kweli nqanaba?
Zingaphi Imihla Ngaphambi kokuba Ube Nentetho 'Ekhethekileyo'?
Ukubuyela kwinto esele siyithethile, ayisoloko ilinani lemihla ebalulekileyo, kodwa lilonke ixesha olichithe kunye okanye isixa sonxibelelwano obukhe wanaso phakathi kwemihla.
Ngokusisiseko, ngumbuzo wonxibelelwano lweemvakalelo endaweni yenani lemihla.
Unokufuna ukubangabodwa emva kwemihla emine, okanye unokuziva ukhululekile ukulinda de kube ngumhla weshumi ngaphambi kokwenza olo tshintsho.
Kuya kufuneka uzibuze ukuba uqiniseke kangakanani ukuba kukho ubudlelwane obunokubakho obude kwaye obonwabisayo kwaye ungaziva njani ukuba banokuqhubeka bethandana nabanye abantu.
Ukuba, emva kwemihla emine okanye emihlanu, ungaziva ucaphukile okanye wenzakele xa beya kumhla nomnye umntu, lixesha lokuba uthethe.
Kwelinye icala, ukuba usayithanda imbono yokuthandana nabanye abantu kwaye ugcine ukhetho lwakho luvulekile, awunakulindela ukuba babe bodwa kuwe.
Ukuba ufuna ukuba yedwa, thetha. Ukuba awukhathazeki kakhulu, unokulinda ixesha elide okanye de bavakalise umnqweno wabo wokuzibophelela ngale ndlela.
Ke, Mangaphi Imihla Phambi kokuba Ube nobuhlobo 'obuGunyazisiweyo'?
Ngaphandle kokunqwenela ukukhala njengerekhodi elaphukileyo, akukho mpendulo ichanekileyo.
Abanye abantu baya kuzijonga ukuba babesemthethweni kubudlelwane emva kweqaqobana lemihla. Abanye banokufuna ukulinda kude kube yimihla elishumi okanye nangaphezulu eyenzekileyo ngaphambi kokuba benze.
Inani lemihla onqwenela ukulinda ngaphambi kokwenza ubudlelwane obufanelekileyo iya kuba yeyakho kuwe.
Ndiyathemba ukuba omnye umntu uya kuba kumgama ofanayo wobude, okanye oko kunokubonisa ingxaki.
Ukuba elinye iqela lifuna ukuba lisoka kunye nentombi (okanye nayiphi na indibaniselwano yalo) kwaye elinye alilungelanga, kunokubangela uxinzelelo lokwenyani kwizinto.
Umntu ongaziva elungile unokuziva ephantsi koxinzelelo lokuzibophelela kwaye oku kunokubangela ukuba benze njalo suka kude ukufumana isithuba kunye nembono.
Okanye, unokuzifumana ukwinto eyaziwa ngokuba yi ‘ imeko ‘Apho nidibene khona, kodwa hayi ngendlela esemthethweni.
izinto onokuthetha ngazo nomhlobo omtsha
Ukhethekile, kodwa hayi ujonge ixesha elide njengesibini. Uthatha nje usuku ngalunye njengoko lusiza kwaye wonwabele izinto njengoko zinjalo.
Ndingababiza nini ngokuba liBoyfriend / Intombi yam?
Ngokubanzi, uya kufuna ukulinda ude ube sisibini esisemthethweni apho omabini amacala evumelana malunga nokuba ikamva lingabamba ntoni ngaphambi kokuba usebenzise amagama athi isoka nentombi.
Ezolebheli zinjalo imiqondiso yobudlelwane obuzinikeleyo . Bathetha ngesibophelelo esingaphaya kokuthandana okanye ukubona umntu kwaye nangaphezulu kokukhetha umntu kuphela.
Zingaphi Imihla Ngaphambi kokuba Uqale uKiss?
Abanye abantu bakhululeke ngakumbi ukwanga ngomhla kunabanye.
Ke, ayimangalisi into yokuba abantu abahlukeneyo bonwabela ukwanga kwabo okokuqala ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo.
Abantu abaninzi baya kwabelana ngohlobo oluthile lokuncamisa ngomhla wokuqala, kodwa isenokuba yinto engaphezulu kunesikhonkwane.
Nangona abanye beziva ngathi bakulungele ngokupheleleyo kwi-smooch ukuba i-chemistry ilungile.
Abanye banokunqwenela ukulinda de kube ngumhla wenombolo yesibini okanye yesithathu ngaphambi kokuba batshixe imilebe nomntu.
Ukuba uneentloni ngokukodwa okanye unenkathalo, kungathatha ixesha elide. Akufanele uzive unyanzelekile ukuba uphuze umntu ngaphambi kokuba ulungele.
Zingaphi Imihla Ngaphambi Kokwabelana Ngesondo?
Njengokuncamisa, isondo sinokwenzeka ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo ngexesha lobudlelwane.
Kukho abo bakhetha ukulinda de batshate ngaphambi kokuba babelane ngesondo, kwaye oko kulungile.
Abanye banokuthatha isigqibo sokuzibamba de babe nentetho ‘eyodwa’ ngaphambi kokuba balale kunye.
Kwaye abanye banokulinda nje imihla embalwa ukuba uxinzelelo ngokwesondo yomelele.
Akukho mpendulo ichanekileyo okanye ingalunganga. Kuphantsi kwento oziva ilungile kuwe.
Ukuba nobabini nize kwisigqibo esivuthiweyo, esomntu omdala sokuya phambili, lukhetho lwakho kwaye akukho mntu unokukugweba.
“Mingaphi Imihla?” Ayisiwo Umbuzo olungileyo
Ukushwankathela, akusoloko kufanelekile ukubuza ukuba mingaphi imihla ekufuneka ubenayo ngaphambi kwenqanaba ngalinye lolwalamano.
Kananjalo awunakubuza ukuba zingaphi iiveki okanye iinyanga ekufuneka zigqithile.
Ingakumbi malunga neemvakalelo zakho kunye nonxibelelwano olwenzileyo nomnye umntu.
Kwaye malunga nokhetho lomntu.
Ke ukuba izinto zihamba ngokukhawuleza okukhulu yakho, zama ukubanciphisa.
Ukuba omnye umntu ukukhathalele ngokwenene, baya kuvuma ukuhamba ngokwesantya sakho.
Njengokuba kunzima njengokuxoxa ngolwalamano kwiintsuku zokuqala, kubalulekile ukuba ukwazi ukunxibelelana ngeengcinga zakho, iimvakalelo, kunye neminqweno yakho ngokucacileyo.
uthini xa ungenabahlobo
Ngokuhlala kwiphepha elinye nelinye, uya kuma ithuba elingcono lokuqalisa ubudlelwane kunyawo lwasekunene.
Ngaba awuqinisekanga nokuba sele unemihla eyoneleyo yokuzibiza ngokukodwa? Thetha kwi-Intanethi kwingcali yobudlelwane kwi-Relationship Hero enokukunceda ufumane izinto. Ngokulula.
Eli phepha linamalungu onxibelelwano. Ndifumana ikhomishini encinci ukuba ukhetha ukuthenga nantoni na emva kokucofa kuyo.
