Ndifuana u zive unelunda ngesiqu sakho ? Zama le hypnosis - lutyalomali olukhulu kuwe.
Ngaba wakha wenza into eyoyikekayo kangangokuba, ngasese, ngalo mzuzu apho ubuya kubonisa khona ukonwaba, wazihlaziya ngokwakho?
Ngaba oku mhlawumbi kungenxa yokuba wawungafuni ukubonwa ngathi ugcwele kakhulu? Ngaba unekratshi?
Ngokudabukisayo, siqeqeshelwe ukusabela kwikratshi ngendlela efanayo xa sisodwa okanye kwisihlwele seentsapho. Ukuziqhenya, sixelelwa ukuba, kusisilele, nge-hubris ukuba linyathelo nje elinye. Ukuba umsebenzi owenziwe kakuhle awungowawo umvuzo, usenokutshintsha igama lakho libe yiNar Cissus.
Ukuhlekisa, i-baloney, kwaye akuyonyaniso ngokuthe ngqo.
Kutheni le nto kufanelekile ukuba udumise omnye umntu ngempumelelo yakhe kunye nemizamo yakhe, kodwa ingazenzi wena?
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Ukuba neqhayiya ngawe kubalulekile ukuze wonwabe. Ngaphandle kwenyani yokuba ngamanye amaxesha unyikima ngokulula, ikratshi libonisa abanye ukuba wena kunye / okanye into oyenzileyo ibalulekile.
Umngcipheko- kunye nomthombo okhohlakeleyo kuzo zonke izilumkiso- kukuzibandakanya kwizinto ezininzi ezikhanyayo. Ukuzingca okugqithisileyo eneneni kukungabikho kwekratshi kukuqhayisa kunye nokunyusa umoya ukugubungela ubuthathaka obuhlazo.
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Masithathe amanyathelo okuthintela ukuba yinto eqhelekileyo.
1. Funa uluvo
Mhlawumbi wenze i-pie entle kakhulu kwasekuqaleni. Abantu bayidumisa ezulwini phezulu. Kodwa mna nawe siyazi ukuba khange niyenze eyona pie ibalaseleyo emhlabeni.
Akukho sizathu sokuba wenze ngathi wenze eyona pie ibalaseleyo emhlabeni. Ngonaphakade. Yonke into yenziwe, umntu uyenze ngcono.
Ukhuphiswano olungenabani…
Ngaphandle kwakho.
Ukuba u zibekele usukelo oyifezekisileyo- mhlawumbi ungade ugqithise- kuziphulula ngasemva, yithi enkosi kuwe kwaye uqhubeke.
Abo banembono elungileyo ngempumelelo yabo bathambekele ekufezekiseni ngakumbi nangakumbi.
2. Yabelana, Musa ukunyanzela
Kwintsimi yam (ukubhala), ukuthobeka NguMyalelo wokuqala. 'Ungavumi kwabanye ukuba uyawuthanda umsebenzi wakho.'
Ndiyaxolisa, amathanga, kodwa kukho amaxesha apho ndifuna ukutsiba ndibuye ndizange ngokwam ngokujika kwebinzana okanye ukuqonda ekugqibeleni kubambene emhlabeni.
Abantu aboyilayo bafanele ukuba bakwazi ukuqhawula umtshato kwimicimbi yabo, kodwa kwangaxeshanye baxelelwe ukuba umsebenzi wabo wokuyila ufana nosana lwabo.
Mthande umntwana wakho, nokuba ungoweta, umchweli, imvumi, isitena, umgcini webala, ifizikiki yethiyori, okanye umyili weentyatyambo.
Nokuba wenza ntoni, uyazi ukuba kunokuchukumiseka kuphela onokukwenza. Ayisiyiyo kuphela ukuba uziva ulungile malunga naloo nyani ikunika imvakalelo yolwaneliseko, inokuba nayo ukukhuthaza .
Nantsi umkhabi: Njengomntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa, ufuna ukwabelana.
Yenza njalo, kodwa khumbula indlela wena ngokwakho oye waphepha ngaphezulu komzali omnye onwabile ngokuzingca ngesithonga esinyanisekileyo sentsana yabo ejonge esithubeni ngelixa uzibuza ukuba iinyawo zenziwe ziifarts.
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Musa ukuba nekratshi lokunyanzela imifanekiso yomntwana komnye umntu.
Endaweni yoko, yenze yaziwe ngendlela ethe tye kodwa ngendlela evuyisayo oyenzileyo.
Abo banomdla baya kuyiphendula inzondelelo kunye neqhayiya lakho ngokufuna okungakumbi, ukukuxhasa ngokuthe ngqo, okanye nokuba-ube nobuganga bokuphupha-ucwangcise ngasese ipati.
3. Musa ukubanjiswa kuhlobo lwakho
Okukhona uvuyisana, kokukhona ufuna ukuvuyisana.
'Ikratshi' lisithi enkosi kumntu ovuma impumelelo yakho. Kuya kubakho uncumo olukhulu olutyatyekwe ebusweni bakho.
'Fuel hype' kuxa isifundo ngasinye ngandlel 'ithile sinxulumene nento oyenzileyo isivakalisi ngasinye osithethayo siqala ngo- 'Ndi' okanye ukwincoko kuphela ukuze abanye bakwazi ukukuxelela ukuba ulunge kangakanani.
Ayililo ikratshi, loo nto bubuqaqawuli bendwe.
Ziqhelise ukuvumela abantu ukuba beze kuwe kwaye babelane ngezinto onomdla kuzo, kwaye baya kubona ukuba uyaziqhenya ngobuqu bakho hayi ngendlela abaziva ngayo.
Unokuthanda (inqaku liyaqhubeka ngezantsi):
- Amanyathelo ali-10 okuNyusa isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo kubomi bakho
- Ungakholelwa Njani Kuwe Kwaye Woyise Ukuthandabuza
- Ukuba ukhe uzive usisidenge, oku kuyakuqinisekisa ukuba awunguye
- Ungoyisa njani i-Imposter Syndrome kwaye uzive uqinisekile ngamandla akho
- Yitsho ezi ziQinisekiso ezi-6 eziqinisekileyo zemihla ngemihla ukuzakhela ukuzithemba nokuzithemba
- Ungayeka Njani Ukuzithelekisa Nabanye
4. Yiba neqhayiya ngabanye
Le inkulu. Isakhono sokuzingca ngabanye abantu sibonisa ukuba ungazihambela kude ngokwakho, okuthi, kwakhona, kunike umbono.
Ukujonga indlela abantu abasabela ngayo kwikratshi lakho kubo kuya kunika isibuko esiluncedo ekuzonwabiseni ngokwakho.
5. Musa ukuphumla kwiiLaurels zakho
Yinto enye ukuba ube nebhongo ngesiqu sakho xa, kwi-14, uphumelele i-State Spelling Bee. Masikhe sikhanye phambili kwiminyaka engama-20: Ngaba usakhankanya loo nyosi?
Leyo yingxaki.
Ungazingca ngento emva koko uyiyeke ihambe, kuba ayisiyiyo yonke into oyenzayo ebomini ekufuneka uyinkwenkwezi yegolide esisigxina kubuso bakho.
6. Funda iGumbi
Nokuba wenza ntoni ebomini, funda igumbi. Ukuba awukwazi ukufunda igumbi, qala ukufunda, umthetho.
Awuyi kuba nebhongo ngeshishini lakho elitsha lokuqalisa kangangokuba udlulise amakhadi eshishini xa uvukile.
Awusoze uye nceda umhlobo yiza kwisigqibo esikhulu ngokukhankanya uphumelele ibhaso leNcwadi.
Ngaphakathi? Ngaphakathi unokwenza izinto ezithile kunye nokuqesha iqela lokumatsha, kodwa uphendule ngaphandle ngokufanelekileyo nangokufanelekileyo.
Ukulibazisa umboniso, okanye kwanemvakalelo, yekratshi ayinciphisi amandla akho amangalisayo.
7. Yiba nehlazo nayo
Kukho ukuzithoba okukufihla kwaye kukudonga kwiimvakalelo zakho zokwenyani, emva koko kukho ukuzithoba okuzikhukhumezayo kunye ne-wink ejongene nendlela owoyikeka ngayo ukuba uqale / ugqibile / uqhubeke nento.
imibuzo engahleliwe eyenza ukuba ucinge
Ukuzithoba ngokuthobekileyo luphawu olucacileyo lokuba umntu othile unebhongo ngeziqu zakhe okanye ngenye indlela.
Oku ayikuko ukuthobeka kobuxoki, kungaphezulu kwimigca ye Ubomi bumnandi, ubomi bulungile, ndenze igalelo kwinxalenye yam encinci kuloo nto, la la la kunye nengoma ye-troubadour…
Xa abantu bekubona unamancoko ngokubhekisele kwikratshi lakho, bayakhululeka kwiqhayiya, oko kuthetha ukuba bakhululekile kuwe, kwaye olo luphawu oluchanekileyo kudidi 'olulungileyo'.
8. Nyaniseka
Abanye abantu bafikelela kwikratshi ngokungathi sisilondolozi sobomi: ngaphandle kwayo, barhaxwa ngokungaziwa ngayo, babamba nantoni na nayo yonke into ukunyanzela imvakalelo yekratshi ukuya phezulu.
Izinto ezinje ngekratshi lendawo, ukuzingca kokuzibandakanya ngokungathandabuzekiyo, nokuba neqhayiya leqela lezemidlalo liphelile emva kokuba ligqobhoziwe.
Abanegalelo okanye banxibelelane kwakhona emphefumlweni. Ayingawo amava okwenene okuzingca kuba engaphandle ngokupheleleyo.
Ikratshi lokwenyani lifuna ukuthembeka malunga nokuba ungubani kwaye ukhonza phi kwihlabathi. Inkonzo inokubhekisa ebantwaneni bakho, isithandwa sakho, umntu ongamaziyo, iqela loluntu… nantoni na ehlawula ithemba phambili.
Ukubaluleka kubalulekile. Ikratshi akufuneki livakale ngenxa yokwenza izinto ezibuhlungu. Ikratshi akufuneki libe sisixhobo. Kufanele ukuba ibeyibhakoni ezizoba zonke zibhekise kuwe, kunokuba ube nethemba lokuzisebenzisa ukufumana ukwamkeleka ngaphakathi kokuncinci, kuthetha okumbalwa.
Ngalo lonke ixesha khumbula: ukuzingca kufuneka kuncede ukuphucula okwenyani, kungatshisi igolide yesidenge.
Kukho umgaqo wakudala: Yiba neqhayiya ngobuwena… okoko nje Zazi ukuba ungubani .
Isazisi sibaluleke kakhulu, kuba ngaphandle kokubambelela ngokuqinileyo ukuba ungubani, ukwimfesane nenceba yamarhamncwa angenantlonelo. Usisixhobo. Kwaye ayisiyonto ukuba neqhayiya ngayo.
Ngaba oku kucamngca kunokukhokelwa kungakunceda uzive unebhongo ngesiqu sakho ? Sicinga njalo.
Eli phepha linamalungu onxibelelwano. Ndifumana ikhomishini encinci ukuba ukhetha ukuthenga nantoni na emva kokucofa kuyo.
